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Francesca Gardner Obituary

Francesca Gardner Francesca "Checka" Marroquin Gardner, 69, died at home in her beloved San Francisco on Friday after a long illness, surrounded by family. Checka was born in New Haven, Conn., in 1940 and grew up in Scarsdale, N.Y. But she always said she found her spiritual home when she moved to California to attend Stanford University. She graduated with a degree in Math in 1962 and went on to Stanford Law School, one of four female students in the Class of 1965. She moved to San Francisco in 1968 and adopted the city with the enthusiasm that was her hallmark. Her interests, projects, and friendships were many and varied. She practiced law and raised two daughters. She collaborated on the 1975 collection of quotations, Know or Listen to Those Who Know, with her father, John W. Gardner. She was a gifted craftswoman who could install a skylight, piece a quilt or build a set of cabinets with ease and flair. Her ceramic work was a wonder. She loved the San Francisco Ballet and Opera, walking on Crissy Field, traveling and painting, making pasta, and building dollhouse furniture with her grandchildren. But mostly Checka loved the people in her life: her family and countless friends. Her warmth, candor and joie de vivre will be missed by all who knew her. She is survived by her mother, Aida Gardner of Stanford; a sister, Stephanie Trimble of San Francisco; daughters Jennifer Reese and Justine Reese, both of Mill Valley; and four grandchildren: Isabel Smoyer, Owen Reese, Stella Cushing and Ben Cushing. A memorial service will be held Wednesday at 4 p.m. at the Main Post Chapel, Building 130, Fisher Loop, in the Presidio. A reception will follow.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Mar. 28 to Mar. 31, 2010.

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November 6, 2010

I am so saddened to learn of Francesca's passing. I have been thinking of her gracious, kind presence as I listened to General Colin and Alma Powell accept the 2010 John Gardner Leadership Award and wanted to share with her the wonderful comments he made about the positive impact her father had on his life and development as a leader. My warm thoughts and wishes go out to her mother, her sister,and her amily. Pat Read, Washington, DC

Ashley McLain

March 31, 2010

Checka always welcomed me into her home when I visited with Justine. She was honest, opinionated, creative, and strong. I remember she made amusing remarks about relationships and liberty and the phases of life. I remember warm family gatherings at Thanksgiving, and I used to always dream of living in a house just like hers with its multiple stories and peaceful garden oasis in back. She will be missed by all, especially her wonderful family. I am grateful her suffering is over and there is peace.

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