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Stephen Montagne
March 20, 2025
Harrison Sheppard crossed my mind tonight and I wondered how he is doing. But my next thought was I wonder if he is still with us? So, I did what most of us do and I Googled his name. Then, sadly, this was where my search brought me.
I am so saddened that I never got to say goodbye or see him one last time before he passed now more than three years ago.
I did, however, write this email to him on Thanksgiving of 2018. I would like to share the last correspondence I had with the man who was one of the most important and influential mentors not only in my 20's while I was working as his personal assistant in San Francisco -- but in my entire life.
November 24th, 2018
"For Thanksgiving this year, I decided to list the people I am most grateful for in my life that have taught me how to be a better man.
Starting with: My Very First "Mentor" - Harrison Sheppard
Thank You For:
--Seeing qualities and worth in me when others over looked me...
--Teaching me how to conduct myself in business affairs...
--Being tough on me when needed, but always with the best of intentions...
--Valuing the pursuit of ethical principles in all things...
--An appreciation of the Classics...
--A superior work ethic...
--A level of intelligence I have not seen rivaled by anyone I've come across in my life's journey...
--Instilling in me, in my 20s, the kind of man that I've strived to become (now approaching 50)...
--A deep appreciation and love for the arts and literature...
--Immense skills as a writer...
--Being able to articulate a vision...
--Being a willing mentor to younger people...
--A love for being a father, a husband and a friend...
--Being an example of the type of heroic man that is so lacking in the world today (especially in the Era of Trump)...
--For being one of my fondest memories of my time spent in San Francisco in my 20s...
For all of these things, and so much more...
Thank You.
~Stephen
Velvet Valentine
October 19, 2023
I stopped by to see Sandy and Ron last night. They told me of your passing. I always loved hearing your stories of our beloved Frederick building. That you used to throw holiday parties in the main lobby! Which never occurred again sadly as new owners kept taking over the building.
You gave me one of your books and I loved reading it and thinking of you writing it. You gave sound advice to an artist such as myself. I loved the art on your walls and I hope that maybe it will be shown somewhere for all to see. You had treasures in stories and in experiences. There was only one of you! Your words a gift and your fighting yet soft spirit had deep lessons in it's resonance.
I won't forget you walking the neighborhood in deep thought or bounding up the carpeted stairs to your chamber of deep thought. To a true gentleman and fighter for good.
Juan G. Villaseñor
October 13, 2023
A few months ago I learned that Harrison had died. Harrison was a dear friend, mentor, and later, colleague.
We met during "traffic school" in San Francisco in the early 1990s. Both of us were doing penance for a traffic ticket. Like other stories here, he took an interest in me and we quickly became friends. He´s the reason I went to St. John´s College and to law school.
We had many adventures of the years! I met many great artists through him. Dinner parties at his studio apartment or a quiet visit over coffee were memorable. I always enjoyed his enthusiasm and his love for art and the law.
Harrison was a transformational figure in my life. My life would´ve been different if I hadn´t met him. Thank you, Harrison, for everything. Rest easy, friend.
Mark Mosley
February 26, 2023
I'm deeply saddened to learn just now that my dear friend and colleague Harrison Sheppard passed away over a year ago. I had known Harrison for fifty years. We met when I was just 14 and Harrison was a young, idealistic lawyer in Seattle. He gave me a copy of Inherit the Wind, then Attorney for the Damned, and he inspired me to go to law school. His words and values have guided me all these years.
This photo is of the two of us on the summit of Mt. Baker - probably sometime in the late 1970s. Harrison is on the right, in red, his enthusiasm radiating through.
Harrison: I miss you, your boundless energy, your curiosity, your sense of humor. I mourn your passing.
Ralph Lieberman
June 20, 2022
I only just today (June 20) learned that Harrison died nearly five months ago. He owed me a reply to an email and I could not find him by phone or email. We were both at an age at which, in such cases, one searches first the obituaries, and there I found the notice of his death.
Harrison and I met in 1954, when we were in junior high school, and became close friends. I have a picture of him that I made in ninth or tenth grade; he posing like John Steinbeck and I trying to photograph him as Yousef Karsch did Steinbeck, with comical school-boy effect. Yet it is an accurate portrait of two fifteen-year-olds; in Harrison's case how he looked and in both our cases how we saw ourselves at the time.
We stayed in touch through college. I went to visit him for a week at Saint John's and briefly wondered how I could have been so dumb as to go anywhere else, but I got over it. We saw each other often, although less so after he went west to law school. But we stayed in regular touch, and saw each other in San Francisco, Philadelphia, and Williamstown.
He was one of my oldest friends, and it will be strange not being able to give him a call when it's time to say hello, or better, getting an unexpected call from him when he thinks it's time.
Ken Miller
April 17, 2022
Ken Miller
April 17, 2022
Ken Miller
April 17, 2022
Remembering my old friend
Kenneth Miller
April 2, 2022
Kenneth Miller
April 2, 2022
Kenneth Miller
April 2, 2022
Kenneth Miller
April 2, 2022
Kenneth Miller
April 2, 2022
I first met Harrison in 1987 and we became fast friends.
I always enjoyed conversations with Harrison which were always engaging. I will miss my visits, often weekly, at 191 Fredrick St. where a cup of fresh coffee was always available. We had good laughs and some fun times.
David Mascitti
February 3, 2022
You will be missed dearly Uncle Harrison! Even though I haven´t seen you much over the years, you will always have a special place in my heart. Listening to you speak was mesmerizing as you just had a way with your words. It´s hard to explain but everyone who knows you knows what I mean.
The last few times I spoke to you, I distinctly remember what was most important in your life - your family especially Justin and Dillon.
I love you Uncle Harrison! Rest In Peace. Gone but never ever forgotten.
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