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James Erbacher Obituary

James Patrick Paul Erbacher Passed away peacefully at home on Sunday, September 6th. He was 69 years old. His parents, Carl and Loretta Erbacher, and his brother Bill, preceded him in death. He is survived by his loving sister, Sister Diane Erbacher, his best friend, Sister Christine Ostrowski, and his extended family: Nga Pham and Khac Do, Thanh Do, Thao Nguyen (Andy), Beth Pun (Jesus), Anh Do (Thuy), Steve Do, Linh Do, Khang Do (Rebecca), Quoc Do (Czareanah), and the younger generation of Do's: Perry, Sean, and Megan, (Thao's), Kelly and Christopher (Beth's), Hannah, Darren, and Eden (Anh's), Jackson (dec), Elizabeth, and Colin, (Khang's), and Tyler, Tobey, and Thomas, (Quoc's). Jimmy's positive spirit and optimistic outlook on life touched many people. He taught us all to truly enjoy the simple things in life and to be excited by the little things. He counted as his friends many Adrian Dominican Sisters, many teachers, staff members, and parents of St. Brendan School and so many girls and boys who attended St. Brendan School through many years. He attended Becoming Independent in Sonoma from 1975 to 2006 and enjoyed the many activities it provided. He loved participating in the Special Olympics - running his heart out at each event. His life long hobby was music, especially country music. He had a huge collection of LP records and delighted In listening to every song. We will miss him very much, but his beautiful spirit will live in many people. We thank all those who were concerned about Jimmy during the final weeks of his life, especially Frankie Fehlhaber and Pat Bianco who helped care for him. Visitation will begin at 4:00 PM at St. Brendan Church with a Vigil Service at 7:00 PM on Thursday evening, September 10th. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Friday morning at 10:00 AM. Burial will be in Sacramento. Memorial contributions can be made to Becoming Independent, 355 W. Napa, Sonoma, CA 95476, or the Special Olympics, 30 Panoran Way, Suite D, Novato, CA 94949-6220 or St. Brendan School, 940 Laguna Honda Blvd. SF. 94127

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Sep. 9 to Sep. 10, 2009.

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Jon Leonoudakis

September 10, 2009

May God bless him, his family and friends.

Julie O'Brien

September 10, 2009

I worked with Jimmy at BI/Sonoma. He brought a smile to my face everyday. I've since come back home to San Francisco and have often thought about him. My sisters would see Jimmy around St. Brendan's and give me the update on him. (Flannery and Bruneman Families). I wish Jimmy a safe journey into God's care. We shall meet again one day Mr. Erbacher!
Until then.
Julie O'Brien

M Kelly

September 9, 2009

A simple brilliant star that who shined his very best, everyday. May God welcome you home Jimmy. We will surely miss you here.

September 9, 2009

We will always have fond memories of Jimmy, especially our fun trips to and from Sonoma! We would make a special stop to get some hot chocolate.... Jimmy would get his wallet out a mile before we got there! As Jimmy would say...."It's my favorite!" With Love, The Bishos & Revels

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