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James Nevin Hackett

1944 - 2023

James Nevin Hackett obituary, 1944-2023, San Francisco, CA

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James Hackett Obituary

James Nevin Hackett
February 18, 1944 - February 28, 2023
Our beloved Jim Hackett died unexpectedly at the VA Hospital in San Francisco on February 28, 2023 with his wife by his side. The cause of death was respiratory complications associated with posthumously diagnosed esophageal cancer.
Jim was born on February 18, 1944 at St. Paul's Hospital in Livermore to Gerald and Genevieve Nevin Hackett. All of Jim's immigrant ancestors came from Ireland in the 19th century. He was a third generation native Californian and 100% Irish. Jim and his parents and baby sister, Connie, moved to Napa in 1949. He graduated from St. John's School in Napa, St. Mary's College High School in Berkeley, and St. Mary's College in Moraga.
Jim spent nearly half his adult life on the East Coast in Washington, D.C. and Maryland. When he returned to California he brought his wife, Kaye Eyerman Hackett, who died tragically young in 2007.
Jim found what proved to be his ideal niche as manager of three contiguous apartment buildings in the Marina District of San Francisco. This occupation was a felicitous match for his keen eye, attentive ear and no-nonsense approach to all matters, pressing or not. For more than 25 years he interacted with a steady stream of tenants, colleagues, contractors, and all the other good people who keep a building intact and humming.
Jim was a collector. His most notable treasures were his duck decoys and his books. Jim loved reading. He bought the San Francisco Chronicle and New York Times every day. His shelves overflowed with mostly nonfiction works. His brain was an archive.
Jim was predeceased by his parents and sister, Connie Hackett Halligan. Jim is deeply missed by his wife of eight years, Mary Caroline Chunn; his step-daughter, Kristen Revis; his uncountable cousins, especially Mary Nevin Henderson and Dennis Nevin; his childhood pals, John Raymond, Tom Uboldi, John Uboldi, Carol Uboldi Laughlin and John Banke. Memories of Jim are also cherished by his friends on the East Coast who kept in touch with him all these years. Jim leaves behind dear companions on both sides of the bar at his favorite watering holes: Marina Lounge, Izzy's, Perry's, and so forth. There is some consolation in the fact that Jim was in the habit of enjoying life, and he knew he was valued and loved.
Sincere appreciation is due to the staff at the VA Hospital for all the extraordinary care and kindness they gave Jim in his final days and hours.
A celebration of Jim's life will take place in the near future. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Jim's favorite charitable organization, the San Francisco-Marin Food Bank.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Mar. 29, 2023.

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Merl Evans

March 23, 2025

I think of Jim often...I miss conversations with my "left coast" friend.".Rest easy Nevin"

Mary E Tarman

July 24, 2023

I worked with Jim for 10 years in Waldorf Md. He made me laugh every day with his dry sense of humor and his one of a kind sarcasm. Rest in peace my friend.

Monica Wright

May 16, 2023

A toast to Jim, who was christened back in the day as "Napa Jim" by some of his East Coast pals. He was joined recently by my spouse Jerry McGinn who passed on April 27, 2023. I know he was there welcoming Jerry, just as he always took care to call and see how we were doing here in Oregon. Jim was one of those marvelous people who showed kindness to all with a great dose of humor to go with it. He will be missed.

Cindy Williams

April 15, 2023

He was the 1st dad for our cat, Grammy! He and Kaye left her in our care & love. A definite Piney Point cat. Treasured neighbors! I am so sorry to hear of Jim's passing! A very good guy! Cindy Williams

Jack Russell

April 12, 2023

Good guy with a sense of humor .....
Great person to have on the skipjack with John Wright and Jim Francis drudging oysters up the Chesapeake Bay
Jack Russell

Merl Evans

April 11, 2023

I was saddened to hear of Jim's passing. I was one of many of Jim's East Coast friends. I considered him "my brother of a different mother". I will miss our long -distance conversations. Rest easy Nevin.

Julio Freyre

April 4, 2023

Jim and I were class mates and boarders at St Mary´s I have wonderful memories of our lives in our high school years. Rest in peace Jim. Your friend Julio from Mexico.

Jonette

March 31, 2023

So sorry to read of Jims passing. We were classmates at St. Johns Catholic elementary School in Napa. I was happy to see that he had a happy life. May he rest in peace with his family.

Jonette Pittore Beck

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