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Janice Sargent Lamphier

1936 - 2022

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1936

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2022

Janice Lamphier Obituary

Janice Sargent Lamphier
June 10, 1936 - July 19, 2022
Janice Sargent Lamphier, 86, loving wife, mom, and grandmother, passed away peacefully on July 19, 2022.
She is survived by her daughters Susan Grill (husband Daniel) and Diane Ruddell (husband Rob). She was the proud grandmother of Gracie Ruddell, Madeline Ruddell and Eric Grill.
Born June 10, 1936, in San Francisco, she was a fourth generation Californian and enjoyed knowing her history. She was raised in Palo Alto, CA, with her brothers John and William Sargent. She received a degree in Economics from Northwestern University in 1958, where she was active in the Tri Delta sorority. Following her graduation she attended medical secretarial school in San Francisco and then spent a year living and working in Hawaii-a time she remembered fondly.
She met the love of her life, David Lamphier through the Ambassadors Club of San Francisco. They were married on May 8, 1965, and remained happily married for 54 years until Dave's passing in 2019. They moved to San Mateo in 1972 to raise their family where she was the secretary at Abbott Middle School from 1978 to 1994.
Jan gave back to her community her entire life. She was active in College Heights Church, Episcopal Marriage Encounter, the Peninsula Fire Buffs Club, San Mateo Neighborhood Watch, Toys for Tots, AAUW, and assisted the new San Mateo Public Library's main branch and the coroner's office. She believed in speaking up for causes and political candidates she supported, writing frequent letters to the editor voicing her support and working phone banks and writing postcards urging people to vote. She and Dave were recognized by the San Mateo City Council in 2014 for their longtime all-around service to the city; Mayor Ross said, "The Lamphiers are an amazing couple that have a heart for serving others."
Jan had many interests. She was an avid dog lover, appreciated musical theater and enjoyed several trips to Europe and Alaska with Dave during their retirement. She felt a spiritual connection to redwood trees and appreciated spending time at national parks. Everywhere Jan went she made friends and kept in touch with them through handmade birthday cards and letters. She loved regular visits and having lunch with her wide circle of friends. In her later years she appreciated the excellent care given by caregivers Lola Fonua and Joan Oborne, which allowed her to remain in the home she loved until the end of her life.
Jan was deeply loved by her family and friends and will be remembered for her ability to tell a wonderful story (often many times!) and her courageous way of looking at life.
A memorial service will be held at College Heights Church in San Mateo on September 10th at 1:30 pm.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Jul. 29, 2022.

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Scotty Kirk

July 19, 2023

Dear Diane and Susan,

I am thinking about you today on your mother's anniversary. Your mom was such an amazing lady! She always spoke with deep love for you and your family.

Sending you hugs and strength,

Scotty

MARK SPAUGH

August 10, 2022

Thank you for your love and care all those years at our Fire Scenes. You were a blessing to us all! May your soul rest in the eternal love of God!

Lisa Taner

August 9, 2022

Jan will always stand out as a community leader, the kind of person who drives me to civic volunteering here in San Mateo. I met Jan about 13 years ago walkingg dogs at West Hillsdale Park and immediately appreciated her no nonsense appraoch to things and the time she spent in the community. Not long ago, I was able to stop by and present her with a gift certificate from our neighborhood association. While she will be missed, her spirit will live on through all her works.

Scotty Kirk

August 3, 2022

Dear Susan and Diane,

Thank you for this beautiful tribute to your mother. My heart goes out to you and your families in your tremendous loss.

As you know, Jan was such a big part of College Heights Church. She had a thirst for learning. She was humble and vulnerable in sharing her own spiritual journey, which gave permission to others to tell our own stories. She spoke with passion and courage about the causes that were most important to her.

Most of all, she spoke with tremendous affection about you and your families. She loved you very much.

Thinking of you as you honor her life.


"There are stars whose radiance is visible on Earth though they have long been extinct. There are people whose brilliance continues to light the world even though they are no longer among the living. These lights are particularly bright when the night is dark. They light the way for humankind."

- Hannah Senesh

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