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Jay Purchio Obituary

Jay Purchio

Our dearly loved brother Jay Purchio of Castro Valley, age 66, passed away peacefully at home with family and his dear friend Richard, on January 23, 2019, after a valiant fight. He will be deeply missed and life will never be the same.
We want to thank all the Lake Merritt community in Oakland, and you know who you are, who made his daily runs for so many years the best part of Jay's life with your high fives and encouragement.
Also, we want to thank the Down Syndrome Connection of the Bay Area. Jay loved his tutoring and Peer Group classes. Donations in his memory can be mailed to the Down Syndrome Connection, 101 Town and Country Dr. Unit J, Danville, CA 94526.
Jay was preceded in death by mom and dad, Jean A. and John J. Purchio. Jay is survived by older brothers Jimmy, Johnny, (his twin) Joe, and sisters Cathy and Jeanne. A Celebration of Jay's life will be held later this Spring.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Jan. 31 to Feb. 3, 2019.

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Carole Levenson

February 3, 2019

Dear Cathy, Richard, and family,
It was always a joy to see you and
Jay circling Lake Merritt and getting an affirmative fist bump from Jay. I have missed seeing you since Sasha Dog passed in 2016, and never saw you with my new dog, Iggy.
Jay was an inspiration, and I will miss him.
Carole

Robert

January 31, 2019

My condolences to the family and friends of Jay. May Gods promise to bind up the brokenhearted bring you comfort at this difficult time. Isaiah 61:1

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