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John Bergstrom Obituary
August 17, 1979 - February 1, 2021
Fun loving Oaklander, John David Bergstrom, passed away on February 1. Many of his close friends called him "Neck". Anyone who knew him could honestly say that he was the nicest guy they ever met. Born in Southern California, he moved to the Bay Area over 20 years ago, lived in San Francisco for a few years, and eventually bought a beautiful home in Oakland. He was an employee for Able Services, was a union member of Local 39, and currently worked as the Facility Engineer at Uptown Station in Oakland. He spent his free time taking road trips, going to shows, and skateboarding around town. His many hobbies included skiing, working on his Mach 1 Mustang, and playing pool with a local league. John is preceded in death by his younger sister Jenny. He is survived by both his parents; Sandra (Arlene) Bergstrom, Tom Olson, and his cat, Soleil. He will be deeply missed by many more family, friends, and neighbors. There are no services planned. Donations on his behalf can be made to Habitat for Humanity, an organization that was very meaningful for John.
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Christopher Long
November 17, 2022
Miss you ever day John. Best friend and a brother to me. You had a heart of gold. As painful as it is to not have you around, I do my best to celebrate the many many memories I have of you. Hope to see you again one day.
Laurie Grosey
March 6, 2022
My dear sweet John I can't believe a year has came and went I think of you often and look at your picture the last one I have of you in a frame in my room You left this earth to soon your Mother misses you & Jennie every day breath as well as myself I miss you and your laughter and some of your stories you told me omg all I can say is your missed so very much Fly my angel with angel Jennie and take care of your Mom from above xoxo
Jesse mosqueda
May 26, 2021
I will never forget the times we spent at work , play and working on his Mach1. RIP my friend.
Larry Dreebin
May 10, 2021
The Dreebin family extends its condolences to Sandra (Arlene) and Tom. May John's memory be for a blessing.
Crissy King
May 4, 2021
I miss my Love, Best Friend, and Partner in Crime. I'm sorry I misspelled Jennie's name in the obit. I'm sorry, Sandra, that you have lost both your children unexpectedly. No mother should have to suffer the pain of out living her children. John was so good to me and I loved to make him laugh. I had a crush on him from the first day we met, and years later, when we finally hooked up, I cherished every day! I'm going to continue to miss John everday. I'm so grateful we went to Yosemite on Christmas. He had never been before and it was a really great weekend trip ❤
Crissy and Ruby Doo
Laurie Grosey
April 13, 2021
Dear sweet Johnathan that's who you will always be to me and in my heart forever you will stay I can't believe your gone but I will treasure our time and long long talks forever you are an Angel with wings now and your with Angel Jennie No more suffering Rest In Peace my sweet boy love you always & forever..
Mary Davis
April 13, 2021
John you were like a nephew to me, always know how much you were loved by your mom and dad and every one that know you.
Love you. Aunt Marlou
Linda Jenkins
April 9, 2021
Sandra- I am truly sorry this happened. It is so hard to believe still. Please know you are always in my heart and prayers. I love you very much.
Linda Jenkins
Dorothy
March 24, 2021
John was a lovely young man. He was so proud of his house and his job. He worked hard for both. He was sweet, kind, and funny. We will miss him terribly. God be with you, John.
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