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John Bryan Obituary

John Maxwell Bryan Died peacefully at home on March 31, 2012. Born on February 22, 1925, he was a resident of Piedmont his entire life. He was the older son of Kathryn Maxwell and Carleton Felton Bryan. His brother, Carleton, Jr. predeceased him. John was a fourth generation Californian. In 1952, he married Florence Atherton Eyre. This union produced four daughters, Kathryn Bryan Hampton (Gregory), Suzanne Eyre Bryan, Amanda Atherton Bryan and Anne de Lenclos Bryan. He also left four grandchildren: John Maxwell Bryan Hampton, Atherton Eyre Hampton, Cary Betts Hampton and Megan Amanda Atherton Bryan. John attended Piedmont schools, Webb School in Claremont and Stanford where he entered the V-12 Program. The Navy sent him to USC and Harvard Business School and then on to the Pacific where he served as a Supply Officer on a Troop Transport. He returned, graduated from Stanford and worked for Maxwell Hardware Company, founded by his great grandfather in 1886, ultimately becoming CEO with six stores in the East Bay. After eventually liquidating the family business, he went to work for Blyth and Company in San Francisco and later formed a partnership with his good friend, William C. Edwards, to pursue his investments full-time. John was a director of many organizations including Trust Company of the West, Hibernia Bank, Mechanics Bank and Sugar Bowl Corporation. He was a general partner and for a few years, the major owner of Freemark Abbey Winery. In the public service area, he was a long-time director and past chairman of the California State Automobile Association, director and trustee of the Alpine Winter Foundation (which, in addition to supporting many worthy causes in the Tahoe-Donner area, provided the seed grant for the Tahoe Rim Trail Fund), trustee and treasurer of Head-Royce School, trustee of the Webb Schools, director of the Golden Gate Fields Foundation and the United Crusade - San Francisco. And he was a long-time member of the Claremont Country Club, the Pacific-Union Club, the Bohemian Club, the French Club and the Glenbrook Club. Always on the go, John and Flo and their four daughters traveled extensively. He loved sailing at Lake Tahoe, skiing at Sugar Bowl, riding in the Napa Valley, the opera, musicals, the theater, good wine, good food, his daily swim and, especially, his many dear friends. Practicality and common sense were John's watchwords. He engaged life with enthusiasm, squeezing from it every drop of excitement, satisfaction and joy (as anyone who ever rode up a chairlift with or sat next to him at a dinner party knows well). New ideas, new relationships and new interests were his passion. He was not a spectator. He was, what Teddy Roosevelt called, "...the man who is actually in the arena, ...who strives valiantly, ...who spends himself for a worthy cause; ...so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who knew neither victory nor defeat." His big shoes (size 15) will never be filled. Services will be private. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the San Francisco Opera.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Apr. 2 to Apr. 4, 2012.

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Griff

March 12, 2024

Miss you uncle John. May your sails be full.

Hunter MacDonald

May 1, 2012

One of the finest gentlemen on earth and a wonderful father to his daughters. Always a supporter of a good cause and a wonderful friend

Rich Bulotti

April 17, 2012

Dear Flo, Suki, Amanda, Anne, Kathy, & Greg:

I am sad to hear of John's passing but happy that I knew him and his family.

I first really got to know him as Greg & Kathy's wedding approached, talking with him at the various pre-ceremony celebrations. I certainly knew of him prior to that through my Dad since both he and John were members of the CSAA Board; Dad always spoke very highly of him.

As I got to know him better during my early years in the Bohemian Club, I began to realize that he had a certain strength that is missing in many men, but not in either him or my father: both could spin a good tale but both were very good listeners. It is difficult to be both, but John was.

I remember several visits with him at the ranch in Napa and appreciated his (and yours, Flo) generous hospitality.

He was a great man; he and my Dad are toasting to each other in the best of places. God bless the family.

Jeff Warren

April 9, 2012

Dear Flo,

How sad Cindy and I were to hear of John's passing on Friday, last week. Co-incidentally, that afternoon, Brian Tench and I were just speaking of you and John—and what a wonderful gentleman he was.
I knew he was having health concerns, though he never complained—just sardonically laughed about getting older--but I was unaware that it was that serious. Perhaps that's why it came as such a shock.
We always admired John. I know Jim Pop and Maggie cherished their partnership with him and friendship with you both. They felt blessed to be involved with a man with such business acumen and a man of such high integrity.
What an honor to be able to have said, "John Bryan and I are partners"--though we were but a "cork" in the scheme of things at Freemark.
By separate "snail mail" We're sending you some additional thoughts regarding how John will be so sorely missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family.

April 8, 2012

Dear Flo: It sure was a pleasure knowing John. I always enjoyed his wry sense of humor and the terrific parties he held up in Napa. Best wishes to you and your family. Regards, Zook Sutton (Reno, NV)

Arthur Carlson

April 6, 2012

Dear Flo, Kathy, Suki, Amanda, Anne, grandchildren, Parker, Sarah and Ham and their families,

Our condolences upon the passing of John. He was a kind and wonderful person who we will miss. Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family. John was an amazing person. We are all happy to have known him in our lives.

Love,

Arthur W. Carlson and Susan Carlson Bergeson
Garey, Hillary and Jeff Bergeson

April 5, 2012

Dear Flo:
My sincerest condolences on John's passing. I always enjoyed talking to you both at the Commanderie de Bordeaux events, you and he made a venerable pair. We will miss his presence but I hope you feel you have enough friends among us to come to the events alone when you are ready.
Sandra Gale McGuire

April 5, 2012

Dear Anne, Mrs. Bryan and family-

We were so sorry to hear of the passing of Mr. Bryan. Although we did not have the pleasure of knowing him, knowing Anne confirms he must have been a remarkable man. Our sympathy to you and your family.

Jane and Kerry

April 3, 2012

I first met John when invited to dinner at his home in Sugar Bowl CA. He was a warm and effusive host and has remained a friend ever since. He will be missed. Much love to Flo and the family. Linda Dyer Millard

Robert Preston

April 3, 2012

When I settled into San Francisco from the East Coast after college, I had a visit with John Bryan in his SF office. He was interested in what I was trying to do in the energy business...I was taken by solar energy, having been caught in gas lines during my college years in the mid 70's. He told me to "measure the BTUs" from our solar systems...so we invented a BTU meter...measuring the water volume and temperture difference. OK, so what. The point is John actually listened to a 24-year old right out of college and gave some valued advice. He gave me a better level of thought...which is not easy for me. Over time, I would see Mr. Bryan from time to time and he always remembered our conversation. I imagined that all those girls in the house forced him to be a listener...but over time I believe he was just interested in many ideas and was always happy to give his sincere thoughts. He is a strong memory for me...Bob Preston

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