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John Metzcus Obituary

John Michael Metzcus Passed away on March 13, 2009 with his loved ones at his side. John is survived by his cherished wife of four years Michelle; loving father of Santana and Amelia; devoted son of Joan and Michael Metzcus; beloved brother of Christopher, Monica, and Stephanie; uncle of Liam, Isabelle, Kalei, and Makena; son-in-law to Dan and Kathy Bei; brother- in-law of Liz Bei and Elizabeth Byrne, and brother-in-law to Ryan Buhk. Born in Millbrae on October 19, 1970, John graduated from Serra High School in 1988, and Cal State Long Beach in 1994. John was a manager in the air freight industry for over 15 years, which is what brought him to Michigan. An avid outdoorsman, John loved to fish, hunt and go boating with his family. A cancer survivor for 5 years, John raised funds for the American Cancer Society throughout his fight with cancer. John's family would like to thank his medical teams at Oakwood Hospital and Stanford University, as well as his hospice team at Pathways. A rosary will be said at St. Dunstan's Church in Millbrae on Tuesday, March 17th at 7 PM. Friends and family are welcome to visit beginning at 6 PM. The Memorial Mass will be celebrated on Wednesday, March 18th at 10 AM. In lieu of flowers, a memorial contribution may be made to Serra High School, Attn: Michael Peterson, 451 W. 20th Ave, San Mateo, Ca, 94403.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Mar. 17, 2009.

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Ed Mora

January 15, 2010

I am sad beyond words. I just found out about John's passing today through a fraternity brother. John and I were Sig Pi's at Long Beach State and roommates for 2 years. I have endless stories of "old man" Metzcus -- but needless to say he was the life of the party and a permanent fixture in the memory of the brothers from that time. At the time he worked for Sierra Nevada Brewing Co and would take me on sales runs to all the local LB pubs --- he was one hell of a salesman. Going to Lake Mojave for spring break, Public Enemy concert, Las Vegas for New Years, so many memories. Though I hadn't spoken with John since 2001, I thought of him often and how my college experience would not have been the same without him. I will miss him tremendously. My deepest condolonces to his parents and family. RIP John.

Dave Floyd

March 25, 2009

Metzcus family,
I had the pleasure of working with John in MI. We fished together a few times, never caught much but it was fishing not catching. I will miss his wit, and sarcasm as well as his over the top personality.
God speed sweet prince of the pun, the world is a much emptier place without you.
He especially loved his family, peace be with all of you as well.
You are in my thoughts and prayers,Michele,Santana,Amelia.

Treva Larson

March 20, 2009

Joan and Michael and family,

My heart and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
There is no loss as great as that of a child.
May God be with you, his wife and his children.

With deepest sympathy.

JOE MAGURA

March 20, 2009

YOUR IN GOD'S HANDS.PEACE TO YOU AND ALL THE PEOPLE YOU TOUCHED IN YOUR LIFE.

Angelica Ford

March 20, 2009

Michelle, I can still remember the first time I met John. We were at Knuckles bar in Burlingame. He walked in with those big blue eyes, and a smile ear to ear. I knew then that he was the guy for you.I will always remember how he made us laugh and smile that day.

Dave & Carolyn Strilich

March 20, 2009

Our prayers are with you.

Bob Haack

March 20, 2009

Joan and Michael, our thoughts and prayers are with you. I believe that John's passing is a reminder of how precious life is. Michael,I remember all the good times we had from first grade on.

Ryan Buhk

March 19, 2009

John "Tiny" Metzcus was the best brother-in-law I could've asked for. Besides being a kind, considerate, honorable person. He had the uncanny ability to make friends wherever he went. He and I bonded on one of the many fishing trips we took together and the other ones that we each took on our own, but lived vicariously througheach others stories of what the other person missed out on. We both dreamed of going fishing with Uncle John, a.k.a. Sensei. Tiny...the Minnow rides! Know that you are with me on each of my subsequent trips and I look to your guidance on these adventures. Hopefully, you've found our ultimate fishing spot with Bella. Rest in Peace.

Mike Entzminger

March 19, 2009

Michelle,

I'm very sorry for your loss, Julie and I are very greatful for how nice you and John were to us and if there is anything you need from me let me know. John was a great man.

Sincerely,

Rosina Minjares

March 18, 2009

To the Metzcus family,

Mike and I were so very sorry to hear of John's passing.
Our thought and prayers are with all of you.

We love you and take care of one another.

Stephanie Hoff-Wilcox

March 18, 2009

John was one of the most inspiring and influential people in my life. We were friends for 20 years and 2 days. He will be missed more than I can express, and this is such a tragedy. Michelle, Santana, and Amelia, John was the best, and everyone knew it. Thank you for letting me be a part of your lives..if only for a little while. God Bless you all.

LAURIE (MUSCAT) SCRIBNER

March 18, 2009

TO THE ENTIRE METZCUS FAMILY
JOHN WAS THE LIFE OF THE PARTY ALWAYS!I WILL ALWAYS CHERISH THE PHOTOS AND GOOD TIMES WE HAD AND HOW HE STOOD UP IN MY WEDDING. HE WILL BE MISSED BY ALL AS I COULD SEE BY THE SERVICES AND THE ATTENDANCE. JOHN WILL ALWAYS BE WATCHING OVER YOU WITH PAIGES DAD JOHN DICKSON(A.K.A.) BUTHEAD TO JOHN...TAKE CARE AND GOD BLESS ALWAYS

March 18, 2009

Joan & Family: I just heard of John's death and am so sorry for your loss. I knew of his illness and his strength in dealing with it. You and he will be remembered in my prayers.

Tom McNally

Michael Fadelli

March 18, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with my classmate from 1988 and the entire Metzcus family.

Traci Springer

March 17, 2009

John will really be missed here in Michigan on Westcott Dr. It's just not going to be the same w/o his smiling face, his morning waves on our way to work, and his neighborly visitis on the golf cart, etc. We love you John and we will miss you.
Dale, Traci & Cody Springer

March 17, 2009

Michelle, Santana & Amelia we would like to communicate our deepest and sincerest condolences for your family's most profound loss. May you find strength in John's love and spirit.

Lovingly,

Eduardo Diaz, Adriana, Dominic Anthony and Izabella Diaz

John Kauai 2005

Sam & Norma Stephenson

March 17, 2009

We will always remember John as happy as he was the day he married Michelle on Kauai in 2005. This is a picture I took of John on that happy day.

Stephanie (Richardson) van Berkum

March 17, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family. John was a great guy- He had an infectious smile. He will be missed.

Diana Diaz

March 17, 2009

My thoughts and prayers go out to John, Michelle,the girls and the entire Metzcus family. John will be missed by many.

Jeff & Michelle Schikore

March 17, 2009

John and I have worked together on many occasions. He was a great mentor to me and a stand out leader not only at work but in his everyday life. He was the one guy you could always count on. Our condolences go out to Michelle and the girls and the entire Metzcus family. John will truly be missed by us all.

Scott Hawley

March 17, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with John and his entire family. John and I always laughed and had a great time. That is how I will always remember him.

Alma de Paredes

March 17, 2009

I extend my symphathy to you and to your family and will pray for you every day.

Kellie (Brewster) Annett

March 17, 2009

To the entire Metzcus family:
We were so very sorry to hear of John's passing. Please know that he as well as all of you are in our thoughts and prayers.
I will forever remember our days at Meadows together, and Johnny's sweet and sincere smile and caring ways. He was a truly special person. Take care of one another.

Jim Bruciati

March 17, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers go out to John and his family in this time of need. I haven't seen John in quite sometime and was shocked to hear what he was going through. But one thing that stands out in my mind he was always smiling and happy. Jonh will be missed by many, but never forgotton.

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