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Julie Nelson

1957 - 2020

Julie Nelson obituary, 1957-2020, Pinole, CA

Julie Nelson Obituary

Julie Lee Nelson

We are heartbroken to announce that Julie Lee Nelson passed away unexpectedly in her home at the age of 62 in Pinole, California on July 16, 2020. Daughter to expatriate American parents, Julie was born in Lima, Peru on December 20, 1957. She moved to Federal Way, Washington when she was five years old, and was soon joined by her two siblings, Debbie and Mike. Julie attended Washington State University before transferring to San Francisco State University, where she graduated with her bachelor's degree. Julie established a successful 35 year career as an insurance broker with Dealey Renton & Associates.

Julie loved the theater, rock music, Star Wars, trivia nights, and catching up with friends at the Hotel Mac in Point Richmond, California. She was an avid Giants fan, and enjoyed attending games with her son Alexander. Julie was also a talented seamstress, and lent her skills to the Masquers Playhouse for decades. She recently helped lead efforts to restore and save the Playhouse, which needed to raise $500,000 for repairs. Julie loved vacationing in Mexico, and often spoke fondly of her three-week trip to Scandinavia with her father. She recently enjoyed a road trip across the northern United States with her best friend, Jo Lusk.

With the help of her family, Julie, a loving single mother, raised two beautiful children to whom she was dedicated. As a mother, Julie was fiercely protective and incredibly supportive of her children, ensuring they were safe and always had what they needed to be happy and successful. She was a "second mother" to many of her children's friends, and often opened up her home to those who needed a safe place to stay.

Julie is survived by her children, Julia and Alexander "Sasha" Kwasniza; siblings, Debbie (Bill) Benko and Mike (Mary) Nelson; and nephew, Andrew Nelson. She is predeceased by her parents, Patricia Nelson and Bennett Norman "Bud" Nelson.

A memorial service will be held in 2021 when it is safe to congregate in person. As an alternative to flowers, the family welcomes donations to The Masquers Playhouse, P.O. Box 71037, Richmond, CA 94807.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Sep. 17 to Sep. 20, 2020.

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Carolyn Isseks

September 20, 2020

So sorry for your loss. I worked with Julie throughout her career at DRA and we had a wonderful relationship. I will miss her smile and sense of humor. Please keep me posted about a future memorial service.

Julio Reyes

September 19, 2020

You will be missed. Love you, Julie. RIP

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Michael Benko

September 19, 2020

Julie Nelson was my sister in-law. During our family gatherings, it was always apparent that Julie was a dedicated single mother of two talented children, that have grown up to be conscientious, hard working young adults, with Julies help and guidance. Julie was a quiet and private person, much like her father Bud. It is heartening to know that while Julie’s life was cut short too soon, she made the most of her life with her family and friends.

With our deepest sympathy as you remember Julie.

Mike, Sasi and family

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