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Katherine Eshleman Obituary

Katherine Wittschen Eshleman March 8, 1915 - March 17, 2008 Resident of Lafayette, CA Katherine Eshleman died peacefully in Orinda, CA, on St. Patrick's Day. She was born in Oakland, CA, to Theodore Peter ("T.P.") Wittschen and Alice Sandford Wittschen. Her father was chief counsel for the East Bay Municipal Utilities District and president of the California State Bar Association. Katherine grew up in Oakland and Piedmont, and beginning in 1928 spent summers at Echo Lake, CA. She was an avid hiker and competitive equestrian in her youth and young adulthood. She is a graduate of UC Berkeley, and did postgraduate work at UCLA, where she lived with her aunt and uncle, Ida Wittschen Sproul and Robert Gordon Sproul, then president of the University. After receiving her degrees, Katherine taught school in Albany and Oakland before marrying Robert Eshleman in 1942. They settled first in Martinez, then in Lafayette, building a home in what was then undeveloped countryside. They raised four children in these quiet surroundings, and enjoyed family outings to the opera, symphony, and the mountains. After they divorced, Katherine continued to travel and enjoy the arts. In her later years she remained devoted to her extended family. She is survived by her daughter, Elizabeth; her three sons, Theodore, Robert, and Thomas; daughters-in-law, Jan, Caroline, and Riki; grandchildren and great-grandchildren; and sister, Mary Wittschen Van de Graaff. She was predeceased by sister, Antoinette Margaret W. Adams; brother, Theodore Peter, Jr.; and her ex-husband Robert. Katherine enjoyed a rich, long life, and her many friends and family members will greatly miss her. A Memorial Service will be held Sunday, June 8, 2pm at Corpus Christi Church in Piedmont, CA. The family suggests contributions to Habitat for Humanity International, Attn: Gifts from the Heart, 121 Habitat St., Americus, GA 31709-3498.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Mar. 21 to Mar. 23, 2008.

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Elizabeth Hay Thorson

April 6, 2008

Dear Eshelman "Kids,"
I send my love to all four of you and your families. Macgregor shared the news of your dear mother's passing. Your mother was a precious lady. My mother, Helen Hay, adored your mother, and she was always one of my favorites in the "Bridge Club" group. She wrote me beautiful notes on a number of very special occasions in my life, and I cherished her messages as I enjoyed my time spent with her. She was always so warm, sincere, loving, sensitve, interested and supportive. She was one fine lady, whom all who were fortunate to have known her, will miss forever. Love, Liz Hay Thorson

Ted Eshleman

March 31, 2008

We are so grateful for the outpouring of love & affection for my Mother Katherine--

God bless all of you & keep you!!

Ted & Jan Eshleman & Family

Sherry Jakey

March 31, 2008

Dear Ted and family,
It's only see ya later for Katherine. She will be missed, but surely she is much happier now. I'll bet she's romping around with Beasie(sp).

Terry Taylor

March 24, 2008

Another of the Springhill tribe - remembering your mother for all the beautiful things that she did and the classy and gracious woman that she was and will always be. I was so sorry to see of her passing in the paper today. She was such a beautiful woman inside and out - and she even let me "babysit" Liz when I was in highschool. Taught me how to cook raviolis - a lifetime addication. Her smiling face will always remain alive in my heart.

Macgregor Hay

March 23, 2008

Ted- So sorry to learn of your Mom's passing...she was one of my Mom's best friends...(Helen Biggerstaff Hay).

Joe Christie

March 22, 2008

Dear Eshleman Family:

I want to say how sad I was to hear of Katherine's passing; she was truly one of the kindest, warmest people I have met. After our family moved away from next door, on Springhill Road, we would come back occasionallly at holiday times to say "Hi". It was such a feeling of calm and "home"--Katherine would be offering any one who wanted, a cup of tea, or a cookie, and she always took the time to see how you were doing, and what new was going on in your life--she will be missed. My condolences to all those she left behind, I will pray for her, and you all as well, in your time of sorrow...

Glennys Christie

March 22, 2008

My dear Ted, Robbie, Tommy and Elizabeth,
You surely know how much your mother meant to me. First when the Troffeys introduced us when we moved in next door, then always after that. Her constant friendship and neighborliness were a bulwark against life's hardships. She was a steadfast friend of the Christie family and we both relished watching each other's families grow up. We were as close as a phone call wherever life took us and I will treasure memories of her always.
With much love,

Stuart Christie

March 22, 2008

Dear Eshleman Family,

Stuart Christie here, writing from Hong Kong. My love and condolences to you all.

Your Mom was my godmother and her front room (facing the creek) a place of calm when our own family was going through challenging times next door in the late 60s/early 70s.

I have so many happy memories of Springhill Road and so many of them in your Mom's home. Her door was always open for me--first, when I was little and, later, when I was grown up. I always came back to visit her, long after my own family had moved away.

I still cherish her dignity, calm, and presence in my life.

Judy Marcus

March 21, 2008

Dearest Ted, Jan and the entire family - I am so sorry for your loss of your mother - I know how much she meant to each of you. Know that my prayers are with you - and my heart is with you too. God bless each of you with strength, love and joy of her love always.

Judy (Hopkins) Marcus

Kathy Thomas Smith

March 21, 2008

Mrs. "E" always had chocolate chip cookies waiting for me after school and would listen as I told her about my drama filled days. What a wonderful neighbor. Kathy Thomas Smith

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