At age 57, Larry suddenly slipped away from us on Sept. 18, 2013, to go play his beloved "Jeopardy" with the angels, confident he could beat them at any memory game. Born July 23, 1956, in Perth Amboy, N.J., Larry was born to converse and make music. Just this summer, a second album of songs that his pioneering synthesizer band xex had recorded in the early 1980s was published, along with a DVD of the group performing at a club in New York. He died at his home of 13 years in Oakland.
An environmental chemist by profession, Larry could hold his own on nearly any topic, from geography, to history, the weather and our damaged planet. He always hoped for the best but saw the dark side, too. Larry was drawn to horror movies, roller coasters, boogie-boarding in Hawaii, flying in a small plane over Mount St. Helens and scuba diving.
One of Larry's proudest moments was being a contestant on "Who Wants to Be a Millionaire" in 2000, with his parents in the audience. He didn't win the big bucks but he was still wearing the TV show's souvenir T-shirt more than a decade later.
Larry leaves behind his partner of 30 years, Dean Lokken; his mother Helen Baczeski, of South River, N.J.; brother Leon A. Baczeski Jr., of Southbury, Conn.; sisters Christina Crum of Plainsboro, N.J., and Celeste Suminsby of Albuquerque, N.M., and four nieces and four nephews. He was predeceased by his father, Leon Baczeski, and his sister Constance.
An informal gathering of friends, neighbors and co-workers is planned for 3-5 p.m. Sunday 9/29/2013 in Oakland's Mosswood Park. Larry's ashes will be scattered at sea on a day when the weather meets his approval.
Albert Brown Mortuary FD242
510-652-1873
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Suzanne
September 20, 2025
I really miss you!
Suzanne
September 20, 2024
I would give anything just to have a conversation with you. Miss you!
Marilyn Kreiss
September 20, 2023
Still missing you,my friend
Brad Lyman
October 14, 2021
Larry, I've been thinking about you this week so I googled you and found your beautiful obituary. I remember the excitement of you winning a trip to NYC to be on Who Wants to be a Millionaire. The world is a different place without you. Love, Brad
Suzanne Ficara
September 20, 2020
I would give anything for one more long phone conversation with you. Miss you so much!
Claudette Altamirano
October 4, 2013
I miss you and was glad to have you touch my life.
September 28, 2013
Larry, you always filled the room with laughter. I will miss you. Rest in peace.
Jim
Cookie from Xex
September 28, 2013
I lit a real candle at St. Phillip's in Pasadena last week for you, Waw, just like the song.
Lorraine Perrotta
September 27, 2013
You always made me laugh, my friend! Glad we have the music, you will live in my heart always and forever. Miss you so much, remembering the good times.
Suzanne Ficara
September 27, 2013
Without a doubt, one of the finest people I ever knew. I was proud that you called me your friend. Love you, Larry!
Marilyn Kreiss
September 27, 2013
My world will never be the same without you in it.I will miss you everyday.My friend,my brother
Marilyn
Erik Mintz
September 26, 2013
No longer by your side...Forever in our hearts
We all miss you

John Jansen
September 26, 2013
You were the hope that kept me alive in my darkest time. And you'd be making THAT face if you heard me say it. You never could suffer a fool.
Thumbalina
September 26, 2013
Light a candle,say a prayer
Xex-1980
Dean
September 25, 2013
You brought your family and friends joy for more than a half-century. Now rest in peace.
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