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Lloyd Wake

1922 - 2017

Lloyd Wake obituary, 1922-2017, San Francisco, CA

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1922

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2017

Lloyd Wake Obituary

Rev. Lloyd Keigo Wake

The Reverend Lloyd Keigo Wake died peacefully in San Francisco on December 27, 2017.

He is survived by his caring wife of 68 years, Marion Natsue Wake; devoted children Cathy Quides, Wesley Wake, Sandra Wake, and Steven Wake; eight grandchildren and three great-grandchildren, all of whom were touched by his love of fishing, camping, the San Francisco Giants, the Golden State Warriors and his patient and humble guidance. He is also survived by three sisters, Florence Nagano, Lillian Koda, Betty Machida, many in-laws, other relatives and family members.

Rev. Wake was born on January 12, 1922 in a four room farmhouse in Reedley, California to Japanese immigrants Yempei and Hisayo Wake, the fifth of their eight children. While incarcerated in 1942-43 at Poston Camp II he was drawn to leadership roles among the Christian youth. Eventually he answered the call to the ministry, finishing two years at Asbury Seminary in Kentucky before returning to California to finish his studies at Berkeley Baptist Divinity school, marry Marion Yamabe and serve as student pastor at Berkeley Methodist United Church.

In 1950 he was appointed to be pastor of Pine United Methodist Church of San Francisco, known as the mother church of Japanese Methodism in the United States, where he served for 17 years. He and Marion devoted much time and energy to programs for children and youth.

In 1967 he was appointed Minister of Community Life at Glide Memorial Methodist Church. He immersed himself in the issues of the day: supporting and supervising the alternate service of 30 Conscientious Objectors; performing "Covenant Services" for gay, lesbian and transgender partners; supporting students and faculty during the Third World Strike at SF State.

During his 23 years at Glide he mentored and supported hundreds of community activists - always with kindness, humility and optimism. He helped establish the Asian Law Caucus, serving on its Board for 21 years and as chairperson from 1993-1997; chaired the Wendy Yoshimura Fair Trial Committee; was arrested for a sit-in protest against martial law in the Philippines; participated in human rights support trips to South Korea, Taiwan, the Philippines and Okinawa; taught at the Pacific School of Religion; supported Redress and Reparations for Japanese and Japanese Americans incarcerated during WWII.

His theological reflections explain his motivation:
"The only criterion for action is love. I hesitate to use that word because love has become so distorted. The opposite of love is not hate; it is aloofness, apathy, indifference. The love I am talking about is not a romantic love; it is a love that very often takes sides, that takes the side of the oppressed. It is a love that tears down evil systems so that it can build up people who have been dominated by and dehumanized by those systems.
"There are three ways in which men and women deal with their wounds. One is to cry, one is to be silent, another is to turn the pain into joy and healing. Blessed are the wounded who respond with the totality of their lives to bring health and healing and joy to all people.

A Celebration of Life will be held at 4pm March 10, 2018 at Jones Memorial United Methodist Church, 1975 Post St, San Francisco, CA. All those whose lives were touched by Rev. Wake during his 70 years of community service and leadership in the San Francisco Bay Area are invited. In lieu of flowers the family asks that donations be made to two of Rev. Wake's favorite causes: National Federation of Asian American United Methodists (NFAAUM) and the Asian Law Caucus.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Jan. 31 to Feb. 4, 2018.

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Jerry tondo

October 15, 2024

I first met Rev. Wake around 1960. He was special because all the ministers were very old at that time. He created paths that still impact me today. Thank you!!

Kathy Oka

March 11, 2018

Rev. Wake taught me the meaning of Christianity--that it is not just going to church on Sundays or being able to recite Bible verse, but is caring and compassion for the world as well as those close to us.
He and Marian inspired our family through during his time at Pine Methodist and continued to inspire the world in his work at Glide. He helped my family through the loss of my older brother, Francis in 1970 and graciously came out of retirement to marry my husbands Charles and me nearly 25 years ago. The World will miss you, Lloyd Wake. You have left it a better place, indeed.

-On Behalf of the Oka Family

March 10, 2018

Rev.Lloyd Wake has enriched my life since he introduced me and other young people to join Pine Methodist Church on Pine Street
after WWII since we were all separated from a Church which had Japanese Americans. From that time, we became mmbers and friends of the Pine Family and were fortunate to also have Marion Wake and the children aspart of the Pine circle.

Our sincere condolences to the Marion Wake family for the loss but to celebrate his life for which he gave so much to so many.

Machiko Takahashi and Family

Lisa Oyama

March 10, 2018

I had the honor of serving with Lloyd on the ALC Board, and always appreciated his leadership, warm smile, and calm demeanor. He was an early supporter of the Caucus Classic, and it was great to see him in that context after my board term was over. He set such a wonderful example of how to promote social justice and humanity, simply by being himself. He will be missed. My sincere condolences to Marion and his family.

Natasha Kanhai

February 19, 2018

Rev. Lloyd Wake was a great and peaceful soul. He was quietly intelligent, supportive and open-minded. He was active in the national United Methodist Asian community and he also helped us out with our volatile church closing and merger. Our family actually first came in contact with him when we lived in Wisconsin and Illinois and then I worked directly with him in SF. It was such a pleasure knowing him and meeting his wife Marion. We love you both. Lloyd Wake will be greatly missed but the world is certainly blessed by his presence here. Thank you!

Oneida Chi

February 15, 2018

Reverend Lloyd Wake helped me on my journey to self acceptance as a queer Christian. His playful energy, steadfast faith, and desire for social change reformed my notions of Christianity. He volunteered for many social justice organizations including Network on Religion and Justice at SF Pride. He offered blessings to everyone. It was the first time I had received a blessing of affirmation for being queer from a pastor. It healed my broken heart. Thank you Lloyd for all the years you've given in serving the church, advocating for social change, and reaching out in love to all of God's children. You are a legend and I will miss you.

Margo Okazawa-Rey

February 6, 2018

Rest in peace Lloyd.You were one of the pillars of the Bay Area Okinawa Peace Network who inspired us, steadied us, and supported us in all the ways you did.With wisdom, caring, kindness--always!

Deepest condolences to Marion Wake and the entire family.

Polly Parks

February 5, 2018

Will miss your love for humankind. You were a hopeful beacon in the world.

Lloyd and Marion: earliest supporters of 'Ohana Cultural Center

Julia Estrella

February 4, 2018

Am so honored that I was able to work with Lloyd on many justice issues through PACTS! He and Marion also helped us start the 'Ohana Cultural Center' in North Oakland.

Jeanette Gandionco Lazam

February 4, 2018

The call went out: DEMONSTRATION IN FRONT OF THE PHILIPPINE CONSULATE! And, if Rev. Wake was in town you'd be sure he'd be there. That is my remembrance of Rev. Wake. A big smile on his face when he greeted you, and a strong voice when he started belting out the chants and slogans condemning Martial Law and the Marcos Dictatorship!
His star will burn bright in the heavens as a righteous, loving, and kind person. May you REST IN POWER forever and always!
Sayonara Rev. Wake!

Romy Villanueva

February 4, 2018

Rest In Peace Rev. Lloyd Wake. My deepest condolences to your family. Thank you very much for support to our cause against the Marcos dictatorship.

Joan Logghe

February 3, 2018

When I read the obituary of Lloyd Wake, I am so honored that he performed Michael and my wedding ceremony in the little Senior Citizens office at Glide on August 2, 1971. I worked with Marion Wake at The Oakes Children's Center and she kindly arranged that he marry us. Who would have guessed that our flower-child last minute wedding would last 46 years. I got in touch with Marion and Lloyd a few years back, a mere blip in their rich lives, and they were kind enough to correspond with me. He keeps a place in my heart and I send condolences to this large and strong family.

from my poem "Mixed Marriage"

I went to the church on a streetcar filled
with carnations. We ate carnations in public, man
and wildfire, husband and furnace. We tried to say
I do, but said I dare. The minister was hanging
a Japanese scroll in fifteenth century rivers.
He said, "Do you take the worst and make soup?
Do you take the best and escalate?

Joan Logghe, Santa Fe poet laureate emerita

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