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2017

Margaret Hartmann Obituary

Margaret Louise Rogers Hartmann

1935 -2017

We have lost our beloved Marnie after a brief illness. The first born of Margaret P. and Samuel H. Rogers of Minneapolis, Minnesota, Marnie attended Kenwood School and graduated from Northrop Collegiate School in 1953. She was the only female Chemistry major in her class at Stanford University, where she received her B.S. degree in 1957. At Stanford, she met Stanley J. Hartmann, whom she married, and together they had three wonderful children—Peg, Barb and Eric. They lived in Petaluma, Arcata and Newark, California. In addition to being a loving and supportive mother, Marnie pursued her career as a chemist at Archer Daniels Midland, the Veterans Administration, Dow Chemical, Stanford Research Institute, Dexter Midland Corporation and Jones Hamilton. More significantly, Marnie made and kept friends wherever she went and whatever she did. After retiring, Marnie took and generously supported OLLI classes in Berkeley and indulged her passion for Stanford sports. In addition to great times at Bass Lake (MN) with family and friends, she enjoyed exploring the rich cultures of the world, visiting Cuba, Peru and the Galapagos, Bhutan, Turkey, Eastern Europe, Morocco and many other other places. Moreover, Marnie took each of her eight grandchildren on a special trip of their own. She was preparing to set off for the Silk Road and Iran when she fell ill. As one of her nurses said, she was a dynamo.
Marnie is pre-deceased by her parents, her ex-husband, and her brother Samuel H. Rogers, jr. She is survived by her sister Elizabeth Rogers of San Francisco, CA, her daughter Margaret Winkelman (Bruce) of Berkeley, CA, her daughter Barbara Lahaie (Howard) of Eureka, CA, and her son Eric Hartmann (Kris Schuberg) of Portland, OR. Her loss is deeply mourned also by her adored and adoring grandchildren Aimee Breazeal (John), Caitlyn and Robyn Lahaie, Megan, Jacob, and Noah Winkelman, and Eamonn and Delaney Hartmann, as well as her sisters-in-law Karla Quackenbush and her children Dawn and Karl, and Karen Rogers and her sons Sam, Chris, Tim and John and their families, goddaughters Kym and Jenny, and countless friends.
As Thornton Wilder said, "The bridge between the living and the dead is made of love."
The bridge Marnie built for us is strong, wide and welcoming. She embraced us all with her heart and she will remain in our hearts forever.
We will hold a memorial service for Marnie at her cherished parish church, Saint James Episcopal Church in Fremont on Saturday, January 13, 2018. Donations in Marnie's name may be made to an institution or charity of your choice or to Saint James Episcopal Church.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Dec. 14, 2017 to Jan. 13, 2018.

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Ruth Porter Tilman

December 28, 2020

I'm so glad I got to be acquainted with Margaret, my dad's cousin. I am late in learning of her passing. She was very kind.

St. James Flatlanders

Cathy Knotts

January 19, 2018

Thank you Marnie for sharing your gentle and compassionate wisdom, peace and light with us. I enjoyed talking to you at church, during classes, meditation practices, Flatlanders gatherings, Stanford holiday concerts and walks around the lake in Newark. I miss you but am so grateful for the strong and kind role model that you provided for me and others who knew you. Blessings to you, your family and friends.

A beautiful rose Marnie placed in her guest room foer me that she wrote "Welcome".

Trish Cordova

January 7, 2018

My deepest sympathies to Marnie's family. May God give you much peace and comfort.

Memories I treasure:

Marnie:

Last Christmas 2016, I had a personal challenge and experienced a breakdown. I reached out to you. Your love, compassion and kindness was the best medicine. You opened your home and I stayed with you for a week. You cooked us dinner, we enjoyed wine and had good conversations with much laughter. I kept sneaking your yummy persimmon cookies. I was able to get some healing with your nurturing and beautiful home. I enjoyed your positive spirit and high energy. It was contagious!

I had a relapse in May 2017. I welcomed your invitation to stay at your home for another week. I celebrated my birthday and Mother's day at your home. You were concerned I would be alone. I assured you I would go out with my son. My son Aaron was very thankful I was in good hands with you. He was happy to finally meet you.

My other happy memory is when Pia, Kathleen, you and I stayed in Pacific Grove, Asilomar Center. You and I shared a room and hit it off quickly. The four of visited Carmel, walked on the beach, shopped, ate, played cards and laughed a whole lot.

I will miss you greatly, but find comfort knowing you are watching over me. I feel privileged to have been your friend the past ten years. You have inspired me to be a better person and to be the kind of friend you were to me.

I will cherish these memories forever.

Sincerely,
Trish

Standford Reunion Class of '57

Jack Spargo

December 21, 2017

Stanford Reunion Class of '57

Jack Spargo

December 21, 2017

Stanford Reunion Class of '57

Jack Spargo

December 21, 2017

Stanford Reunion Football

December 21, 2017

Stanford Reunion Class of '57

December 21, 2017

Stanford Reunion Class of '57

December 21, 2017

Shari Kinney

December 19, 2017

Marnie you were such a kind and supportive person to me in the brief time we new each other I always got so much strength just in the times and words of encouragement you shared with me. You always gave me so much wisdom and inspiration to keep going even when times were tough. I honestly am saddened by your loss I just saw you weeks ago at target. I wish for peace for your family as you rest with the angels.

Carmel Ca with Marnie

Trish Cordova

December 19, 2017

Carmel Ca with Marnie

Trish Cordova

December 19, 2017

June 2017 with Marnie, Polly, Pia and Trish

Trish Cordova

December 19, 2017

Fremont Fellowship Holiday Lunch 2016

Trish Cordova

December 19, 2017

Fremont Fellowship Holiday Lunch 2016

Trish Cordova

December 19, 2017

Carmel Ca, with Marnie

Trish Cordova

December 19, 2017

Pacific Grove with Marnie

Trish Cordova

December 19, 2017

Asilomar with Pia, Kathleen, Marnie and Trish

Trish Cordova

December 19, 2017

Fremont Fellowship

Trish Cordova

December 19, 2017

Sun Valley Girls

Jack Spargo

December 19, 2017

The Mahfouzian Sisters book club at our suburban safari to Marnie's house.

Marcia Diaz

December 18, 2017

December 18, 2017

My condolences to Mrs. Hartmann's family and circle of friends. In your hour of grief, know that God sees you and He will heal your sadness.

Lauren Doherty

December 17, 2017

Thank you for enhansing our world with your many kindnesses and
love of life. You are and were a terrific role model to emulate.

December 17, 2017

Marnie
Those of us in your wide circle of friends and family will greatly miss you. I am blessed to have known and loved you.
Nadine

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