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Martin Robert William Ilian Martin was born in Mt. Vernon, NY, on April 5th, 1941, and died unexpectedly but peacefully on November 17th, 2005, at 10:25am, in his home in Albany, CA, from a cerebral event. Martin was the only child of Louis Ilian and Helen Hannah Ganer, and was raised by his devoted mother, Helen. After graduating from Mt. Vernon High School, Martin served in the US Army in Hawaii. Back in NY, Martin completed a printer apprenticeship in his grandfather Nathan Ganer's printing company in Manhattan. In 1968, Martin enthusiastically relocated to SF, CA, where he enjoyed the weather and lifestyle of the Bay Area. During the 1970s, Martin co-founded Panjandrum Press with Dennis Koran and John Harris. Martin devoted a year to writing "The Bay Area Sports Directory" which was published by Chronicle Books in 1981. In the mid 1970s he joined the Chronicle for a career that spanned 25 years, first as a linotype operator, proofreader, and composition artist until computers replaced the linotype machines, when he learned the computer programs and was promoted to creative artist in the Creative Services Dept. In 1982 Martin married Wynette Weaver, a technical writer with similar interests to his and they remained devoted to each other during their 231/2 years of marriage and beyond. Politically active and a crusader for saving the environment, Martin was elected a County Council member for the Green Party in Berkeley, where he participated in fund raising events, conferences and served as webmaster for a number of years. After Martin retired, he volunteered his editing and proofreading skills at the Ecology Center in Berkeley, working on Terrain Magazine, as editor for the United Nations Newsletter in Berkeley, at Project Underground, and became a dedicated volunteer at the Transportation and Land Use Coalition in Berkeley, where he was learning grant writing while willingly accepting any assignment given to him; his efforts were rewarded he received the Volunteer of the Year award. Chess was one of Martin's joys; he took lessons from a local chess master and attended a local chess club. Although born Jewish, Martin felt more attuned to the spiritual practices of Buddhism, and volunteered weekly at Spirit Rock in Marin County, where he also attended classes and retreats. Survivors include his uncle and aunt, Stanley and Evelyn Ilian of Mt. Vernon, NY; his cousins Henry Ilian of Forest Hills, NY, and Nancy Greenbaum of Pacific Grove, CA; his good friend of 61 years, Robert Sachs of Hartford, CT; his significant other, Wynette Weaver, and many friends who will miss him very much.. A Memorial Service will be held at the Berkeley Buddhist Priory, 1358 Marin St. Sat, Jan. 14, at 2 pm (80-E, Buchanan St. Exit, Buchanan changes into Marin) From 3 pm, a celebration of Martin's life will take place at Martin and Wynette's home, 515 Pomona St., Albany (510) 524-2459. In lieu of flowers, a donation to an environmental organization would be most gratefully appreciated.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Jan. 8, 2006.

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Diana Ross

January 5, 2025

Martin was such a fun instigator and a great event finder. Any time spent with Martin was sure to be fun. Last month I got some cuttings from a lovely plant Martin had given his friend Kelly about 25 years ago. Thinking of him always brings a smile.

Ken Erickson

January 4, 2025

I still think of Martin often. He was a huge positive influence in my life, a mentor. We shared many travels, near and far, literally and figuratively. The good memories live on!

P.J. Blumenthal

January 3, 2025

Almost 20 years since Martin died and almost 50 years since I last saw him or had contact with him. He remains a part of my biography, and the memories are intact. Companions on the way. Like the old song says: "We'll meet again".

Edward Mycue

January 2, 2025

Dear Martin Ilian a major part of my life I met in the early 1970's here in San Francisco. He typeset my first published volume of poetry DAMAGE WITHIN THE COMMUNITY in 1973. We shared our literary lives with deep friendships with Ken Erickson, Diana Ross, Richard Steger and others who survive his and our time.

EDWARD MYCUE

January 2, 2024

Can't forget the guy so fine a person and magical typesetter designer and even a publisher with startling ideas about the ordinary. I still ponder on him/ them. Edward Mycue p.s. I met lifelong friends who are also guides through Martin.

Ken Erickson

April 14, 2023

Best memories of Martin!

EDWARD MYCUE

January 2, 2023

Martin should be alive today and tell his great stories about life because I feel on an unworn wavelength ever today. He could get me chucking with his dry whimsey. If there's an afterlife place as the fabled heaven, Martin
will have set up his printing machines there. Ed Mycue

Ken Erickson

January 2, 2023

In remembrance of Martin Ilian

New year, old memories.
New year, new memories.
New year, old friends.
New year, fond memories of old friends.
New year, new opportunities for old memories!

2023 lies ahead
trying to catch up with 2020 (vision)

Diana Ross

January 2, 2023

So many things remind me of Martin. He had such a gift to finding interesting events, specially ones with free food, even though he always stayed trim. I introduced him to auctions because he loved a good bargain. He was interested in so many things. He met lots of interesting people and enjoyed introducing his friends to each other.
Several of my closest friends have origins back to Martin. Martin seemed to enjoy doing almost everything and would make new friends doing it.
Sometimes when I'm at a really good free event
and think Martin would have enjoyed it, I wonder if he might be right there with us in spirit.

EDWARD MYCUE

January 2, 2022

Martin Ilian was 4 years younger than me and I thought he'd be hanging longer than me AND that assumption was sadly shattered now 17 years ago.
Ken Erikison and Diana Lambeaux Ross and I talk about him mostly online. We go back in the mists now 50 years together I think. Martin is remembered as a kind of genius and generous human being (or the g & g of any species)

Ken Erickson

October 8, 2021

Thank you, P.J., for posting these fond memories. I remember Slow Train to Cincinnati. Have you continued to publish? Wishing you all the best!

P.J. Blumenthal

October 7, 2021

I am writing this in October, 2021 in Munich, Germany, where I have lived since 1975. From 1973 till my departure for Europe, I lived on Sanchez Street and worked for (and with) Martin and Dennis. I began as a "shipping clerk" at Panjandrum. Then, Dennis sent me off to deliver books and pick up receipts from bookstores. I drove his snazzy sportscar around SF. In addition, I swept the floor and watched Martin and Dennis proofread manuscripts. Towards the end of my apprenticeship, I was made editor of the Panjandrum literary magazine. I passed on the responsibility because I was leaving the country. In addition Martin published a book of mine "Slow Train to Cincinnati". He used to tell me tales of the history of the linotype machine and its ten thousand parts and how its inventor went mad. I cann still hear Dennis's soft voice and Martin's joyful ironies. Now I see that they have left this world for the next one. I am sad to say that we lost contact way back when. I am sure we shall meet again. P.J. Blumenthal

EDWARD MYCUE

January 2, 2021

I knew Martin Ilian well. He typeset my first full poetry volume DAMAGE WITHIN THE COMMUNITY for one and we worked together for two and three --the charm--we were friends for decades. He had ideas, had suggestions, and friends who I have to this day, including Ken Erickson and Diana.

EDWARD MYCUE

April 22, 2020

MARTIN repeated memory still fresh : martin, i was just thinking of you this weekend
.when i drove by that big old victorian that bob starfire used to live in, and
i thought of all you guys and gals we knew together and i wish i'd gotten to know better.
you are still alive in my life because my life is composed of memories of experiences
that still stretch into and beyond the now. all those physical reminders.
panjandrum press at 99 sanchez and 14th street is still there under the new name
of books & bookcases where david highsmith now carries on with books and readings,
and perhaps has his finger in producing books--though not printing them there
nowadays (but that hole in the 14th street wall that was for the pipe to vent the hot
lead linotype machine remains.) finally, do you remember the song line
"i talk to the stars, but they don't listen to me..."? i know you can't listen,
but you are a star.
© Copyright Edward Mycue For Martin Ilian, printer, publisher, friend

Ken Erickson

April 21, 2020

Remembering a friend of many travels together, discoveries, and laughs, too soon departed.

December 21, 2014

Here it is another year ending and Martin Ilian is right here (see E.T. returning home telling his friend "I'll be right here" as he points is long wobbly finger to the little friend's forehead. And so he is.) Edward Mycue

Edward Mycue

October 19, 2013

Never forgetting Martin Ilian and his
friends including the late Dennis Koran.

March 21, 2012

dear martin, rest in peace. kathy lipscomb

Ken Erickson

March 20, 2012

Blessings and remembrances.

April 12, 2011

I thought of Martin on April 5, 2011 on his birthday. Reminds me of a wonderful man.

Nancy

April 11, 2011

dear martin,dear friend, always remembering you. kathy lipscomb

edward mycue

November 16, 2009

martin, i was just thinking of you this weekend when i drove by that big old victorian that bob starfire used to live in, and i thought of all you guys and gals we knew together and i wish i'd gotten to know better. you are still alive in my life because my life is composed of memories of experiences that still stretch into and beyond the now. all those physical reminders. panjandrum press at 99 sanchez and 14th street is still there under the new name of books & bookcases where david highsmith now carries on with books and readings, and perhaps has his finger in producing books--though not printing them there nowadays (but that hole in the 14th street wall that was for the pipe to vent the hot lead linotype machine remains.)
finally, do you remember the song line "i talk to the stars, but they don't listen to me..."? i know you can't listen, but you are a star.

ed

Diana Ross

November 16, 2009

We especially think of Martin at this time of year and remember all the Thanksgivings we spent together.
Martin was a great instigator of fun. He made even
non-holiday get togethers a special occasion.

Ken Erickson

November 15, 2009

I always think of Martin during Thanksgiving season.

Edward Mycue

April 9, 2009

Martin Ilian and Dennis Koran are two names in a golden book of friends. The two of them at Panjandrum Press in the early 1970's are glowing beacons into a rich, happy, productive time in the arts and letters communities of San Francisco and the whole Bay Area of California. They along with others that included Ken Erickson, Bob Starfire, Susan Edwards,and Lawrence Fixel made a pantheon of glorious yea-sayers. Edward Mycue and Richard Steger

Ken Erickson

April 8, 2009

Happy Birthday to Martin Ilian. We still miss you, Martin.

November 28, 2008

dear martin, remembering you this november and throughout the year. i was blessed with your friendship. kathy lipscomb, nov. 2008

Edward Mycue

November 27, 2008

It's good to remember great true friends. Martin in all my memories of him was honest and intelligent and most of all fun. He brings a smile today right now. Thanks for being such a giving person, Martin. Thanks for introducing me to Ken and Diana and all the rest living and dead. A cloud of joy surrounds the thought of you. Edward Mycue (And i should mention that Richard Steger joins me in this accolade.)

Diana Ross

November 26, 2008

I remember all the Thanksgivings we spent with Martin. We hold these happy memories and remember his smile. I wish he was here to join us at Carol's house tomorrow. We miss him.

Ken Erickson

April 6, 2008

Happy Birthday to Martin Ilian, born April 5, 1941, departed Nov. 17, 2005.
Obituary still present online at:

http://www.legacy.com/SFGate/DeathNotices.asp?Page=LifeStory&PersonID=16235527

carol kelly

October 25, 2007

Martin, I still use some of your expressions which always remind me of you. Thanks to you, your special friends, Diana and Ken, remain in my life.

Kathy Lipscomb

October 23, 2007

Dear Martin,

I think of you often and our friendship. Your picture still sits in my bookcase as does the post card from your vacation.

Hugs, love,

Douglas Cheng

October 22, 2007

Some of my happiest memories ever were of my early years in SF when Martin, I, and few others shared a house near Dolores Park. We had tremendous long walks when he was not at work and he was the perfect walking companion - full of anecdotes of the city which we all love and was still new to me at the time. I can still hear his wit and sardonic chuckle. Thank you, Ken.

Ken Erickson

October 22, 2007

Thanks, Ed, for your kind words of remembrance. Too soon those who are gone from our lives are also forgotten. It's up to us, the living, to keep them alive in our memories so that they are a living history.
Do you happen to have any old photos of the Panjandrum gang? If so we can scan them and get them posted here as part of that living history. I'm still digging for some more photos that I have buried in my archives somewhere.
Next time I am in downtown SF I'll come by your bookstore to visit.
Thanks again!
--Ken

edward mycue

October 20, 2007

i still talk of martin ilian to my friends and to persons interested in the literary live of the last 3 decades of the 20th century here in the san francisco bay area. can't forget the guy. ed mycue

Ken Erickson

April 6, 2007

Happy birthday to Martin Ilian, who would have been 67 today.

Diana Ross

November 16, 2006

Just a year ago I spoke to Martin for the last time. He was looking forward to spending Thanksgiving with us at Ken’s sister Carol’s house as we had done the year before. Martin was to bring the eggnog. During the first fifteen years we knew Martin, Thanksgiving was usually spent at Bob Starfire’s potluck events. Martin always enjoyed good food. He had a talent for finding bargain restaurants and events with free food. You could always rely on Martin’s restaurant recommendations. His movie recommendations were good, as well.
Martin had an adventurous spirit. He enjoyed meeting new people and introducing them to his other friends. I can count a number of friends whose acquaintance can be traced back to Martin. Tomorrow I’m going to Santa Rosa to visit with Kelly whom I met through Martin over thirty years ago.
Martin was a kind and thoughtful person. He had a great sense of humor. He was well informed and loved to discuss politics. He was full of surprises, like when he began life drawing class. He brought a spirit of fun and adventure into our lives. When I think of him, I picture his great smile, and find myself smiling back.

L. John Harris

November 14, 2006

Martin and I got to know each other around 1970 when I started working with Dennis

Koran who had started Panjandrum Press. Dennis and I were childhood friends

and when Dennis started the press, I began working on various projects including

cover designs. Eventially, and with Martin's contribution on linotype, we

began publishing trade books. Martin then worked closely with me in 1973 when I published through Panjandrum my book, The Book of Garlic. Martin had made the transition to an early version of computer typesetting using some IBM

technology that allowed him to type the mansuscript on tape that was then fed into a printing press. Well, I was not the technical
type, and Martin was. So we basically designed and typeset the book together.Martin was capable of amazement and delight, and we always had fun at Panjandrum.

Towards the end of Martin's life,after I had launched and sold Aris Books we would run into each other in Berkeley and enjoy sharing tales from our lives both professional and personal. He was an industrious and cheerful
colleague and a good friend. The times we ran into each other we would pick up as if no time had passed, laughing and gossiping about those early and wonderful days in SF. Its nice to see that so many people were touched by Martin.

Richard Lee

November 14, 2006

Martin attended our Chess Salon (Martin's term) for almost two years. He also brought cookies. With both of us retired and being the same age in addition to chess we talked about retirement and life. Despite he's insistence on calling Knights horses and a Rook a castle, he became a dear friend. While I took a vacation to Japan he took a cruise. On the day he died we were meeting to compare notes and play chess.

Sometimes when I'm playing chess and deep in thought I hear him opening a bag of cookies.

Ken Erickson

November 14, 2006

By the way, you can also view Martin's obituary that appeared in SF Chronicle by clicking on Return to Obituary at top of column to your right.

Martin's cousin Henry visiting, North Beach SF, May 2005

November 14, 2006

Poetry & Pizza, Escape from New York Pizza, SF, Dec. 2004

November 14, 2006

Judy Capurro

August 17, 2006

I think of Martin all the time. He was my best male friend and buddy. I could take

him anywhere and he would fit in: road houses, buddhist groups, family affairs, etc.

I even got him to hike the Dipsea with me.

We would talk for hours and he was interested in so many things: politics, writing, collecting old fashioned fountain pens, cheering his friends on etc. "Good on

you, Judy," he would say. He loved his

friends and was eager to give. "Good on

you, Martin, I miss you!"

Kathryn Szydlowski

August 9, 2006

I worked with Martin (off & on) at the San Francisco Newspaper Agency for 27 years. I always enjoyed his dry sense of humor & droll take on things. He was not one to follow the flock & neither was I; so we shared a high level of compatibility. Very sad to read of his departure.

Glashof Sculpture Ranch, Suisun Valley, June 2004

Ken Erickson

June 18, 2006

I've posted some photos of Martin here, and encourage others who might have some to do likewise. Click on VIEW THE PHOTO GALLERY in right hand column.

Thanksgiving 2002 Ft. Mason Officer's Club

June 16, 2006

carol kelly

January 12, 2006

Jan. 12, 2006

There are some people who never leave our lives, even when they are gone. Martin, enjoy your new journey.I'm glad that I met you.

Nancy Mah

January 12, 2006

Martin and I met a few years ago when we were both in transition from long term relationships. He was a wonderful gentleman and a genuine friend. His warm heart and his thoughtful conversation is why I cherished this wonderful man.

A visit to a museum, a stroll through Tilden Park, a cup of coffee, a new restaurant, watching a movie, playing monopoly with my daughter, eating desserts late at night are a few of the many shared pleasures we enjoyed with each other. I looked forward to my weekly visits with Martin. He shared stories of his life with me with always a kind word to say about his friends.

I miss him dearly.

Thank you Martin for entering my life.

Barbra McKenna

January 11, 2006

I met Martin over two years ago when he volunteered to help me with our new data base here at Spirit Rock. He would volunteer after attending Sylvia's Boorstein's Wednesday morning class. He was always open to new challenges, which we had a few. I enjoyed working with Martin and miss him very much. I am grateful that he did not suffer at the end, and know he is in a better place.

Kees den Breejen

January 11, 2006

I miss you Martin. We had some good times.

Kees

Karen Gutowski

January 11, 2006

I knew Martin as a volunteer here at Spirit Rock where I work as the communications manager. Martin would volunteer to design postcards, and fliers for our events. He was always a pleasure to work with, with a professional integrity and knowledge that he brought to his volunteer work. He will be remembered here as a dedicated volunteer and compassionate, and loving person. We will miss his presence.

Edward Mycue

January 11, 2006

Martin and I met in 1972 at Panjandrum Press where he had come with his massive turn-of-the-19/20 century hot-lead linotype to set our books. He designed and set on his fine/cold/flat press and printed on the linotype my first collection of poetry,DAMAGE WITHIN THE COMMUNITY, in February and March 1973. That book was illustrated by Richard Steger and was cited by THE LIBRARY JOURNAL as the top ten books of poems published that year. Martin established his own press the next year, OTHER VOICES, and published his own books and with Susan Edwards offered a literary/poetry reading series that took place at The Hamilton Methodist Church (long now an empty flatiron corner at Noe and Market and 16th Streets). He was a happy man and people just loved him. He never changed. And he always kept in touch. Sincerely, Edward Mycue

Ken Erickson

January 10, 2006

Martin has been my friend since 1969. We spent time traveling to many places around the country as well as locally, and shared interests in media, publishing, Buddhism, Krishnamurti, politics, and poetry. We had many friends in common over the years. I will miss his kind, easy-going manner, acceptance of people, and great sense of humor. May he rest in peace.

Richard Lee

January 9, 2006

Martin and I were chess friends. He was pleasant, kind and always ready for a game. Besides chess, we shared retirement, and interest life and many of its values. I miss him and our talks.

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