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Mary Bernstein Obituary

Mary Rose Schendel Bernstein Our beloved Mary entered into rest on July 10, 2006 in San Jose, CA. She was born on September 27, 1985 in Los Gatos, CA. Her generous spirit, strength of character and loving devotion to all her dear ones will always be remembered. She graduated from Oak Grove High School in San Jose and attended UC Santa Cruz. Mary is survived by her beloved parents, Alex and Lisa Bernstein; sister, Jennifer; brother, Michael; grandparents, Ross Schendel and Jack and Miriam Bernstein; great grandmother, Pierina Cavallini; uncles, aunts and many cousins. Mary was loved and will be greatly missed. Those touched by her will remember her forever and her memories will be fondly cherished. We love you dearly and will miss you very much. You will always be within our thoughts. May the Lord be with you, our sweet Mary. The Memorial Service to celebrate her life and the love and joy she gave so willingly to all those who knew her will be held at 3:00PM, Saturday, July 15, 2006 at Evergreen Valley High School, 3300 Quimby Rd., San Jose, CA. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Diabetes Foundation. Arrangements by Darling Fischer Chapel of the Hills, Los Gatos, CA.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Jul. 14, 2006.

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mom

July 7, 2025

Hi Mare Mare, missing you. Thinking about you. Love you.

J

September 30, 2024

Lots of messages from you lately. Love you. Thinking of you always <3

Lisa

September 27, 2024

Happy birthday Mare. Thinking about you all day. Mom

Mom

October 8, 2023

Missing you every day.

J

July 10, 2023

In Tahoe with my little pumpkin. So many good memories here with you. Wish we could ride the bus up and down the highway and go shopping for punk rock cds at the record store with you. Miss and love you so much.

D

July 8, 2023

Hello

S

July 8, 2021

Love you

J

July 7, 2021

Thinking of you a lot the last few days. Miss you mare.

J

October 2, 2020

So many dream visits lately! This morning was a fun one. Wish I could have stayed longer. Love you.

J

July 7, 2020

Hi Mary, Thank you for visiting me last week and giving me that big hug! I needed it! I know you're watching over me and my little pumpkin. Love you so much. - J

December 4, 2019

HI mare, Needing help some help here....i am very worried...what should i do about Jay? Please, guide me....

mom

June 14, 2017

omg its back!!! hi mary! gosh i miss you....oh wow...i didnt think it would work!

January 19, 2017

hello? are you there? i have tried to write to you many times but it has not accepted my notes...

November 26, 2015

happy Thanksgiving!

November 24, 2015

Hey Mary, getting crowded up there! Hope everyone is happy. I miss all of you.

November 14, 2015

hi Mary, i miss you. So sad without you here.

September 27, 2015

Happy Birthday Mary!

September 24, 2015

Here it comes!

August 20, 2015

Hi Mary, what about tuesday, huh? were you with mom yesterday?

August 3, 2015

Mary! Lots of dreams lately....whats up?

July 11, 2015

hey Mary, i am missing you. Please check in...

July 10, 2015

Your always in my thoughts, love you!!!

June 21, 2015

hi mary, how is everybody doing? So...what do you think?

May 25, 2015

Hi Mare....thinking of you today...

April 25, 2015

hi mary, did you hear me today?

April 4, 2015

hey mare mare, day before easter!

March 29, 2015

oh mary, please help me with this....

March 11, 2015

Hi Mary, Easter is around the corner!

February 19, 2015

Hi Mary, thank you for the tip! mom

January 22, 2015

God I miss you...

January 21, 2015

hey mare mare, i have been thinking bout you guys up there! love mominy

December 29, 2014

hi mare, happy new year! Cant wait til 2015.

December 28, 2014

Here comes new years!

December 24, 2014

Merry Christmas Mary! Please pass it on to everybody. Love, Mominy

December 22, 2014

closing in on Christmas....still cant get into it...still really hard. Do you guys do Xmas in Heaven???

December 18, 2014

hey Mare, thinking about all of you today. Missing you. Love you.

November 26, 2014

Hi Mary, nearly fell off my chair yesterday when that guy began singing your song....thank you. Happy Thanksgiving. Momminy

November 10, 2014

hi mary, did you do that??? weird...I love you and miss you.

September 28, 2014

Happy Birthday!! Lit 29 candles for you...

September 27, 2014

happy birthday mary!

September 26, 2014

Tomorrow is your birthday. Well, in 3 hours. Happy Birthday. I am sure you having fun in heaven. So many are with you. Be sure to say HI from me...i miss you and everyone else too!

September 19, 2014

one more week.

September 6, 2014

a couple more weeks!

August 24, 2014

Your birthday is coming up...!!!

August 3, 2014

hi mare, whats up with nono...? so cool. Your turn.

July 21, 2014

Prada is yours now Mary.

July 20, 2014

when does it get better? when does it get easier? still waiting for it to get easier.....come on mary, help me out here....

July 10, 2014

8 years today...i miss you....

July 10, 2014

Missing more than ever!!!

June 17, 2014

Here we go.....coming up on that date!

May 24, 2014

Missing you Mary. Wish you were here with me.

May 10, 2014

hey mare, its moms bday! and tomorrow is mothers day....please pass along appropiate congrats! Love you, mominy

May 4, 2014

this is for all of you up there. love, you know who! xoxoxo

April 14, 2014

listening to jimmy eats world....hear you me...missing you can you tell? Still cant believe it..

March 29, 2014

OMGOD...what a LONG month~

March 7, 2014

aunty laura is with you now....

February 19, 2014

Hey there, how is everybody up there?

January 28, 2014

oh mary.....i miss you.

January 15, 2014

Hi Mary, i am thinking about you alot lately. Give mom a kiss.

January 7, 2014

Hey mare mare, what going on ?

December 30, 2013

Hey Mare Mary! Howsit going up there? What did you think? Nice, huh?

December 21, 2013

almost there mare.....

December 10, 2013

Hi Mary, here we go into xmas!

November 28, 2013

Hey Mare! Happy Thanksgiving!

November 22, 2013

Hey mare, getting close to the holidays!

November 14, 2013

Thanksgiving is around the corner...

October 30, 2013

hey mare mare, hope is all well up there! say HI! to everyone!

September 28, 2013

HI MARY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY SWEET ANGEL. RIP WITH GOD, JESUS & GOD'S ANGELS.

September 27, 2013

Happy Birthday Mary!! love yiu more tahn ever

September 26, 2013

mary!!! i love it! thank you, its great, its you!

September 24, 2013

Hey Mare.....kinda scared to play it....

September 12, 2013

Hi Mare, comming up on your birthday!

September 2, 2013

hi mary, i am missing you alot...

August 16, 2013

ok Mare, whats next?

July 10, 2013

always thinking about you and miss you so much....

July 9, 2013

oooh nooo, here it comes....

July 7, 2013

hey mare....3 more days...

July 4, 2013

happy 4th! do you like the flowers?

July 1, 2013

countdown has begun...

June 24, 2013

oh gosh....here we go....

June 19, 2013

hi mary, it is getting close to that time of year again.....

June 15, 2013

hey mare, people are strange huh?

May 31, 2013

hi mare mare....how's it going up there?

May 22, 2013

mary, i want to be sure you understand what is happening here. And that it is ok. I love you.

May 13, 2013

i miss you so much it hurts....

May 12, 2013

Hi Mary, Are you with me today??

May 6, 2013

Hi mare mare, I am missing you tonight....

April 18, 2013

Hi Mary. What do you think? Should i go all in or fold?

April 4, 2013

hey there, thinking about you....

March 17, 2013

hi mary, what a treat! WOW! Amazing!!! Thank you! I hope he can fix it....

March 2, 2013

HEY mare, thinking of you alot lately. I hope everybody is ok up there...

February 21, 2013

hi mary! I love you! mom

February 1, 2013

hey mare mare! how is everyone up there?

January 15, 2013

hi mary, missing you and remembering you. mom

December 31, 2012

hi Mary, Happy New Year! mominy

December 29, 2012

Hi Mary,
Thinking of you & your Mom today. Hugs & love ya.
Louise
Lisa, we gotta get together in 2013. Time is flying, miss you :)

December 27, 2012

hey there! What a way to spend Christmas! Mominy

December 2, 2012

hi mary, love the weather!

November 24, 2012

Hi Mary, i hope everybody had a good time up there! And that bella made it there ok!

November 9, 2012

hey mare! are you guys watching?

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