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Nancy Alexander Obituary

Nancy Jane Toland Alexander

June 18, 1934-April 13, 2017

Native of S.F.-Washington High, Married Alexander Ashur Alexander in 1952. Loving Mother of 5 children: Denise, Steve, Will, Celeste & Suzanne; 9 grandchildren and one great grandchild. Mgr. Books Inc. Stanford, retired as Senior VP of Toshiba America. Celebration of Life July 15, 2017, [email protected] or [email protected], 408-738-2040

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Jun. 24 to Jun. 25, 2017.

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July 27, 2017

I love you Nancy mama

Jim Toland

July 15, 2017

My paternal cousin Nancy Toland Alexander was a woman eons ahead of her time. We connected late in life because of family drama a generation before us. But our short time together was certainly a solid example of quality over quantity. Each of our visits was rewarding and we shared life stories like long-lost friends. I hope her spirit will continue to connect my immediate family with hers. To the Alexander family: You are in our thoughts and we wish your Mom peace.

Lisa and Rich

July 14, 2017

She will always be remembered by us she was always happy to see Rich and the few times we went to Benihana.... So when i think of her, I will do so with a smile on my face

Kate Chinca

July 13, 2017

Dear Alexander Family,

I would have liked to have known my cousin, Nancy, more and for a longer period of time. However, from the opportunity that I had, I found her to be remarkable. What a lovely woman! Her legacy is all of you and I know that she must have been so very happy to have had you so very close to her.

May time heal your hearts, bring you closer
as a family and continue her stories to keep her always near.

Steve Canali

July 12, 2017

Almost a second Mom, I don't know how many years we lived across the street from each other, but our families were some of the originals in Sunnyvale. Our families grew and went through the changes we all do as kids grow up and grandkids also grow up.
From the the thousands of books Nancy had, she had so much knowledge to pass on, I just didn't appreciate it back then. Now, I could ask her thousands of things.
Another thing,to me- Nancy not only looked like Olivia De Havilland in Gone With The Wind, she was like her- selfless and always thinking of everyone else.
We'll all miss her, and remember her.

San Francisco Bookstore with one of her favorites film posters

Suzanne Alexander

July 12, 2017

Dickens the Cat

Suzanne Alexander

July 12, 2017

Venice, Italy-late 1990's (Hotel Luna Baglioni)

Suzanne Alexander

July 12, 2017

Toshiba-Japan HQ 1987

Suzanne Alexander

July 12, 2017

Precedio Social Club

Suzanne Alexander

July 12, 2017

Pool Party

Suzanne Alexander

July 12, 2017

Mom & Children late 70's

Suzanne Alexander

July 12, 2017

July 12, 2017

We want to let you know that due to a private family matter we will not be having the Celebration of Life for our Mother, Nancy at this time. However, we do encourage you to join her permanent online Legacy guest book to post your thoughts, stories, or to light a candle for her memory as it would mean so much to us.

If you would please let any of your friends know we have canceled at this time that we may not be aware of, we would appreciate it greatly. Our Mother spoke so fondly of her friends and we forever cherish and hold her so close in our hearts. We celebrate her memory everyday as she was truly inspiring and so very loved.

Our best to you and yours,

The Alexander Family

Suzanne Alexander

July 9, 2017

Greetings Friends & Family,

Update: Nancy's Celebrarion of Life, will be Saturday July 15, 2017 beginning at 2:00 PM at the home of Steven Alexander.
1334 Randol Ave.
San Jose, CA 95126
*This will be an outside setting with shade.
❤Please join us in celebrating Nancy's life. You'll be welcome to share and express stories, feelings, fond memories, fun times, etc. Most of all, lets be together to share in our love of Nancy.

lindsay Alexander

June 30, 2017

My dear grandma,
I love you beyond words. You always amazed me with your knowledge about pretty much everything. I'll never forget our long conversations that I keep in my heart. You were one of the most intelligent people I've ever known and so interesting to talk to. You were so invested in us growing up, I loved going to your house after school as a child where we would share in our passion for poetry. You always believed in me and I found so much comfort in you. Baby Ava will always hear about her great grandmother and how amazing she was. I know you see her and all of us and I know I will hug you again some day. I love you always and forever grandma.
Love,
Lindsay

Maryel's Birthday

Suzanne Alexander

June 30, 2017

Newport Beach

Suzanne Alexander

June 30, 2017

Newport Beach

Suzanne Alexander

June 30, 2017

Suzanne Alexander

June 30, 2017

Stern Grove

Suzanne Alexander

June 30, 2017

Jacque Colla

June 29, 2017

Dear Nancy,

Thank you for being so special to me. Treating me like an extension of your beautiful family. I wish I would have made the opportunity to tell you how thankful I am for that. I hope you knew. You taught me invaluable life lessons.

I think of you often, very fondly, and always will.

I love you.

Jacque

80's Toshiba Co. picnic

Suzanne Alexander

June 25, 2017

Suzanne Alexander

June 25, 2017

My heart is forever with you Mommy, I miss you so very much

Suzanne Alexander

June 25, 2017

My heart is forever with you Mommy. I miss you so.

June 25, 2017

Hello everyone
The celebration of life location not known yet but we will know soon. I have a better phone number than the one listed on the obit so please try 408-368-8127
Thank you,
Denise A

June 25, 2017

Dear Mom,
I still cannot believe you are gone. you are the most interesting woman I have known-and I had known you longer than anyone else on earth!! Thank you for all the amazing things you opened our minds to. You made us all interesting people. Thank you for all the help and support through the years. I will be adding more thoughts and pictures and videos soon
I love you forever,
Your first born,
Denise

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