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Pamela McKean Obituary

Pamela Mary Mc Kean Nov. 7,1960 - Oct. 13,2009 Resident of San Leandro Cherished daughter of Mary and John Mc Kean, caring and protective sister to John Mc Kean, Jr loving sister of Jacqueline Mc Kean Guiteras and Sabrina Mc Kean, those who found their own lives enhanced by her know that Pamela was far more than a loving and doting aunt to her only and adored nephew Mather Guiteras and to her Godson Alexander Acuna. Pamela was a graduate of Holy Names High School Oakland Ca and after receiving a degree from Western Career College as a Medical Assistant, served for over 15 years as a loyal dental and administrative assistant to her cousin Dr. Chris Vitakes, DDS.Dr Chris will miss her gentle admonitions as to how to run the office. Chris and his brothers Dino[Constantine], Leon and Michael were not only relatives but also lifetime friends Pamela was also close in later years to cousin James "Jimmy" Andronico and throughout her life to loyal and devoted friends Natalie Lenz Acuna and Eric Vizcaino. She retained a passion for Tinker Bell,Lucille Ball, Minnie Mouse, Disneyland and all things Pink. Her beloved Shih Tzu puppy Mickey will miss her dearly. Pamela touched all those whom she met with her beautiful smile, warm compassionate personality, sharp wit and hearty playful laugh. Her parents remember her favorite song from an early age "It's a small world after all" Indeed It was, and is, a small world; made now even smaller by her absence. Services will be held at Sorensen Chapel Mortuary in Hayward on October 19 at 6:30pm, the Funeral will be at the Greek Orthodox Cathedral of the Ascension on October 20 at noon.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Oct. 17, 2009.

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November 7, 2009

Happy Birthday to you !
You will be always in my heart 4ever and you are my rock. I miss you very much and think of you every day. You are the best !

Your only brother,
Johnny

Kelli (Payne) Wilder

October 28, 2009

I was so sorry to recently learn of Pam's passing. As students together at Holy Names, Pam truly enjoyed good humor and always exhibited really great wit! Though I hadn't seen Pam since our last reunion, she was always remembered warmly by me.

My sincere condolences to her family as I wish you comfort in knowing that Pam's presence was enjoyed by so many.

October 28, 2009

It took a week or so for me to finally write something, because writing a thought or a message meant truly facing the realization that Ms. Pam is actually no longer with us. Pam was always someone to volunteer, step up, verse an honest opinion and "do". I remember her laugh, her humor and her straight talk during and after high school. We were always on some committee together, and she always was there in a very care taking manner. I will truly miss Pam and her energy. However, and I know she will be with us and the HNH Class next year in spirit, when we celebrate 30 years, and we will indeed take time now and then to celebrate her life.

Blessings to the McKean Family
Ingrid "Jane" and Family
Class of 1980 HNH
[email protected]
510-915-2029

Pamela Drummer-Williams

October 25, 2009

My prayers and thoughts are with the family. Pam always had a smile for me throughout high school and was so very warm. That smile will be missed by many.

October 23, 2009

October 17, 2009
Pam was such a caring and devoted sister. She reached out to me, time and time again, behalf of her beloved brother, Johnnie. So many years have a passed, but I will always remember her for the sweet and caring person that she was -- an extremely competent & compassionate being. Hugs to McKean family in their tremendous loss. You are in the my prayers, Pier Porrino

Pier Porrino, Realtor
Caldecott Properties
5251 Brodway
Oakland, CA 94618
510.418.7227

October 22, 2009

I will always remember the great laughs in English class at Holy Names.
We will miss you Pam
Paula Flynn Sargent

October 21, 2009

Dear McKean Family,

I am very sorry to hear this and just found out about Pam. My thoughts are with all of you. Treasure the memories.

Hugs,

Patty O'Sullivan

James Glass Ph.D

October 21, 2009

Dear Jack and family, it is always difficult to lose a family, even a family pet...Happily we as families spent many of the holidays together...As my sister Jeannene quotes, we all had a blast each and every year... This is how I will remember Pamela... Best wishes to all,
James Glass Ph.D

Betsy McCall

October 20, 2009

Who can forget Pam's great laugh? She graciously hosted many of our class 20th Reunion planning meetings. She will be missed. My condolences to her family and friends.

Trish O'Neill

October 20, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

E

October 18, 2009

I LOVE you, Pammy, and miss you dearly. I still can't believe that you're gone. You will forever live in my heart and be in my thoughts.

Jeannene Glass

October 18, 2009

Although we lost touch over the years, I will always cherish the pea fights that we had as children during the holidays.

My condolences to the family,
Your cousin Jeannene Glass

Margaret Ann Kennedy

October 17, 2009

I was fortunate to serve on the Holy Names High School Alumnae Board with Pam. She was quite a bit younger than me, but we had many good laughs together with Natalie. My condolences to you, her family.

-Margaret Ann Kennedy '66

Brenda Kohles (Flood)

October 17, 2009

I went to high school with Pam and I am so sad to hear of her passing. Another classmate posted it to facebook this morning. My prayers and thoughts are with you all. May she rest in peace.

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