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Paula Zappettini Obituary

Paula Ann Zappettini Jan. 15, 1936 - Dec. 7, 2011 Paula Zappettini, a deeply admired lady of strength, love and grace passed away in her Atherton home following a long illness, which she faced each day with dignity and courage. Her love for her family, adoration for her friends and support for her community were among her many gifts. Paula's compassion, brave spirit and wisdom touched many lives. Paula was from a third generation San Francisco Bay Area family. She was born in Piedmont, California, grew up in San Mateo and attended Notre Dame High School, San Jose State University and the San Francisco Academy of Art. She met her loving husband Bill in San Francisco in 1961 and afterwards they lived in Burlingame before moving to Atherton in 1970 where they became vibrant members of their community. She was an accomplished businesswoman, devoted homemaker and tireless volunteer. Paula shared her time and many talents with a warm heart as a Peninsula Volunteer and member of the Atherton Garden Guild. She enjoyed organizing several charity events throughout the years. Paula was an avid follower of the arts and enjoyed her Italian heritage through many visits to Italy. She loved flower arranging, gardening and playing bridge. Paula was a devoted Catholic and respected parishioner. Along with her husband, in 1997 they were invested with high honors into The Equestrian Order of the Holy Sepulcher of Jerusalem. Then in 2006, in the midst of her illness, she traveled on a pilgrimage as a malade with the Order of Malta to Lourdes, France. Her spiritual devotion to our Lady of Lourdes moved her to commit herself to serving the sick and the poor, and in 2008 along with her daughter Anna, was invested as a Dame of Malta. The next year, her husband Bill joined them and was invested as a Knight of Malta. In 2009, Paula and Bill received the Assumpta Award from the Archdiocese of San Francisco. Paula co-founded in 2010 a local chapter of the international Frontline Faith Project to bring prayers and spiritual support to American military men and women. Paula was preceded in her death by her father Pompey Scribante and her mother Amelia Bandoni Scribante. She will be greatly missed by many friends and family. She is survived by her loving husband of almost 50 years, William; her children John Zappettini and Anna Zappettini; her brother Robert Scribante; and her grandchildren Isabella and Gianna. A private Rosary will be said on Monday, December 12th at 6:30pm and a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 2pm on Tuesday, December 13, 2011 both at The Church of Nativity located at 210 Oak Grove Ave, Menlo Park, CA 94025.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Dec. 10 to Dec. 11, 2011.

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January 6, 2012

My condolences to the Zappettini family.My prayers are with you all during this difficult time. I was a classmate of Paula's at Notre Dame. ---Sharon Speiser Pisenti

January 2, 2012

I'm so deeply sad for this loss. Paula is one of my best client. She's so kind and beautiful. She always care about me and my career, she tough me lots of things and supported me. I'm so upset why bad things always come to the good person. She will be missed as I always worried about her during her illnesses. I will always love and miss her.

John Bui

Mina Nguyen

December 13, 2011

I will truly miss Ms. Paula Zappettini. She was always a radiant, beautiful, and kind customer. My condolences to Bill and her family. God bless you Paula. With love,

December 12, 2011

Heaven Just Welcomed a Very Special Angel...God Bless

December 11, 2011

I will always treasure my time with Paula and her loving family. God bless you Paula. Bill Gray, Woodside

Luz Guerra

December 11, 2011

Dearest Paula,
I will miss your beautiful presence at Mass. You always were so lovely and gentle. Thank you for your friendship. I am very saddened by this news of your passing. With prayers for you and Bill and family,

Luz Guerra

December 10, 2011

This is a very sensitive description of Paula. As shown in the photograph. she was also a beautiful woman. We were privileged to have you as our friends over the years. We send our condolences to all the family, especially to our good friend Bill.

John and Daryl Lillie

Willard & Patricia Fee

December 10, 2011

We are deeply moved by this loss to the Community and the Zappettini family. Our condolences to all. She was an extraordinary patient and human being who brought a smile to all who cared for her.

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