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Peter Musto

1941 - 2020

Peter Musto obituary, 1941-2020, San Francisco, CA

BORN

1941

DIED

2020

Peter Musto Obituary

Peter Johnson Musto

Peter Johnson Musto, fifth generation San Franciscan, died of heart complications four months shy of his 80th birthday on Saturday, September 5 at California Pacific Medical Center.

Born to Joseph Clarence and Kathleen Johnson Musto on January 13, 1941, Peter graduated from Middlesex School in Concord, MA and received a Bachelor of Arts in Economics from Stanford University.

Subsequently, Peter moved to Russian Hill and embarked on a career with Coldwell Banker at their original offices at 57 Sutter Street. Following Coldwell Banker, Peter moved on to join the Joseph Musto Estate Company, his family's real estate holdings, eventually serving as director and president.

Peter was heavily involved with the Episcopal Church, including his induction to the Order of St. John, long service as Head Usher at St. Mary the Virgin, founder of the Episcopal Sanctuary and key benefactor to The Bishop's Ranch in Healdsburg, CA.

In addition to his church involvement, Peter was equally passionate about music, history and the arts. He took pride in being from a California pioneering family, descended from early Italian merchants and marble importers.

A lifetime member and board director of The Society of California Pioneers, Peter was also involved with The California Historical Society. As well as being a significant supporter of the San Francisco Opera and Ballet, he was a patron of the Goodspeed Opera House in East Haddam, CT. Musically speaking, Peter was a fan of show tunes, particularly Broadway and Cole Porter musicals.

Peter was a longstanding member of several clubs and organizations, including the Bohemian Club (54 years, with 25 years as Chairman of the Art Collections Committee and member of Medicine Lodge Camp), the Pacific Union Club, the Burlingame Country Club, Villa Taverna, San Francisco Cotillion.

Peter is survived by his sister Judith Musto Hachman and her husband, Timothy; his niece Carter Kathleen Hachman Jackson and her family, husband Paul and children, Imogen and James; his nephew Timothy Dervin Musto Hachman and his family, wife Elizabeth and daughters, Charlotte, Cecilia, and Caroline; and his long-time close companion, Peter Gilliam.

Peter will be cremated and interred at St. Mary the Virgin. A small family memorial will be planned at a later date. In lieu of flowers, please consider donations in Peter's memory to St. Mary the Virgin, 2325 Union Street, San Francisco, CA 94123 and/or The Society of California Pioneers, 101 Montgomery Street Suite 150. San Francisco, CA 94129.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Sep. 9 to Sep. 13, 2020.

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Alexandra Grover

September 3, 2021

I miss Peter and think of him often and our times together helping at St. Mary the Virgin Church especially at Christmas ushering at the services. He is greatly missed.

Paul S. Henry

September 17, 2020

I will miss our lovely friend, with whom I was fortunate to spend many happy occasions in San Francisco, London and Boston. Peter leaves a great legacy of friendship and conviviality.

Adair McClatchy

September 17, 2020

Just saw a flash of Peter in the Armistad Maupin documentary. I remember him with my father, CK, zipping around San Francisco. My condolences.

John Hayashi

September 13, 2020

Fondly, I will always remember Peter's contributions at St. Mary's Sunday morning services and his dedication to the Church. RIP, Peter.

alexandra grover

September 13, 2020

A true gentleman, philanthropist and much loved parishioner of St. Mary the Virgin church. We miss you and will remember many happy times. Condolences to his family

Barnaby Conrad III

September 12, 2020

Peter was a dear friend and a true gentleman. I always enjoyed seeing him in a convivial setting over a glass of wine, where we could speak about California history and our mutual friends. I will dearly miss his good cheer and wisdom. Vaya con Dios, amigo.

Jan O'Brien

September 10, 2020

A true gentleman, you will be missed. Thank you for giving your time so generously and with good humor to St. Mary's

Linda Millard

September 10, 2020

Peter, your sweet smile and unwavering devotion to your family and friends will be remembered always.
RIP. Love, Linda

Tracy Grant

September 10, 2020

Peter was such a wonderful person! I have great memories of the brunches he'd host in New York before the Metropolitan Opera National Council Auditions Finals, and I was so great for his support of the San Francisco MONC Auditions when I ran them. I loved talking musical theater with him. He will be missed - my deepest condolences.

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Sandy Stadtfeld

September 9, 2020

Style, humor, compassion, curiosity and humility. Peter was an example for so many of us at St. Mary's. We will surely miss his presence.

David J. Sullivan

September 9, 2020

What a loss in Peter’s passing - he will be missed

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