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Phil Arnold

1945 - 2019

Phil Arnold obituary, 1945-2019, San Francisco, CA

Phil Arnold Obituary

Phil W. Arnold

April 17, 1945 - September 6, 2019

On Friday, September 6th, 2019, Phil Arnold, loving husband and father, died at the age of 74 after a courageous year-long struggle with pancreatic cancer. Phil was born on April 17th, 1945, in Alameda, California to Maurine and Harold Arnold. After growing up in Long Beach, California, he received his Bachelor's Degree in History from Stanford University and his Doctorate in Political Science from the University of Wisconsin at Madison before settling in San Francisco.

Phil married his wife of 33 years, Monique Zmuda, on May 4, 1986. In addition to Daniel, Phil's son from a prior marriage, they welcomed their children Paul, Adrienne and Misha into the world. Their lives were filled with family and friends, travel and laughter, and a devotion to their city and its people of all walks of life. For the majority of Phil's accomplished professional life he worked for the City and County of San Francisco, advocating for parks and recreation, open space and disadvantaged residents. His career began as a principal analyst at Harvey Rose Corporation working for the Board of Supervisors, and later spanned 11 years at the Recreation and Parks Department as Assistant General Manager, including serving as Acting Director of the San Francisco Zoo. He then spent 5 years at the Public Utilities Commission as a Financial Planner and finished his distinguished career with 12 years at the Human Services Agency as the Chief Financial Officer and Deputy Director for Finance and Administration. He was a mentor for many in the financial, social justice and environmental fields. After his retirement in 2012 he spent his free time volunteering for the Bay Area Ridge Trail and the San Francisco Parks Alliance. He also served on the governing board of the San Francisco Housing Authority, which provides housing to low-income residents. Due to his commitment to preservation of and access to open space for all, the Phil Arnold Trail in Golden Gate Park was dedicated in February.

Despite the challenges of his illness, Phil maintained that every day was a gift, right up to the end of his life. Phil will be deeply missed by a wide circle. He will be forever loved by his wife, Monique Zmuda; brother, Steve Arnold, sister-in-law Carol, and nieces Kristina and Melia; son Daniel Arnold, daughter-in-law Ashley and grandson Sage; son Paul Zmuda and daughter-in-law Ashley; daughter Adrienne Bechelli and son-in-law Brett; his daughter Misha Arnold; niece Nicole Tibbetts; and former wife Stephanie Kelvin Prieto. A celebration of his life will be held at the General's Residence at Fort Mason in San Francisco on Sunday, September 22 at 1:00 p.m. To continue his legacy, donations may be sent in his name to the Bay Area Ridge Trail or the San Francisco Parks Alliance.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Sep. 11 to Sep. 15, 2019.

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Elina M. Levy

July 24, 2020

For some reason today, I was thinking about my time with Phil Arnold at the SFPUC. I enjoyed learning under his guidance, that allowed me to evolve and growth further. I will forever be grateful.
I did not know until today of his passing and my condolences to the family.
Sincerely,
Elina M. Levy

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November 23, 2019

I was shocked and saddened to read of Phil's passing. It brought back many memories of our fun times when we were kids. I most clearly remember those summer days in 1957 when I would ride my bicycle over to his house on Belmont Avenue in Long Beach. Phil would perch himself on my handlebars and together we would ride down to Alamitos Bay to participate in a life saving and water safety class. We both hated having to swim across the bay and back in the cold hours of the morning at 8:00AM, but it was an acceptable prelude to our having unstructured fun for the rest of the day. Even though I had not seen or spoken to him in decades, I remember those times and the quality of our friendship.
My most sincere condolences to his family and to all who counted Phil among their valued friends.
- Jim Evans

September 26, 2019

I remember Phil from junior high and high school as an intelligent, kind, and good humored human being. I know he has loved and been well loved and will be missed by many. My sincere condolences to family and friends. Juanita Crampton

Timothy Armistead

September 21, 2019

Phil and I were friends since we were both just kids. In high school we became really fast friends and, with Larry Moore, the co-editors of the yearbook in our senior year, 1963. I still remember the wonderful times we three had. Phil was way beyond smart; he was likely in the genius range, but humble, generous, and gracious. After losing track as we both pursued different undergrad and grad universities, we happily found each other in 1978 working in the same ancient building on the corner of Market and Eighth St. for the city of San Francisco. We communicated often during the ensuing years, and I'll always miss those conversations. My blessings and thoughts go out to Monique and Phil's entire family.

Howard Wong

September 14, 2019

A very intelligent man who set very high standards. In earlier days prior to big bond funding, Phil and his colleagues skillfully managed SF Recreation & Parks on shoestring budgets. Under-appreciated are vast accomplishments-which laid the foundations for today's expansive open space system.

Terry Koziol-Otis

September 14, 2019

Monique...what a remarkable man. Accept our thoughts and prayers.

Pat Alden

September 14, 2019

I was in the same Stanford-in-France group IX with Phil. Over the Christmas break in 1964-65, he drove several friends and me, in his new VW van, from Amsterdam to Berlin and Munich to Venice and Florence and back to Tours, France. These are among my sharpest memories from that era, no doubt because it was such an exciting and happy journey. Later Phil and I both started graduate school at Madison, Wi, and kept in touch just slightly. He was one of the finest, warmest, smartest, best people that I ever knew.
Miss you, Phil.

Karla Garcia

September 13, 2019

I would not be where I am today if it wasn't for Mr. Arnold. He saw something in me 10 years ago, that I did not see. His faith in me and my abilities pointed me towards the career that I have today. I do not know where my life would be today if it weren't for him. I will forever be grateful to him. He was a beautiful soul. I will never forget what an impact you had in my life. Till we meet again.

Larry Moore

September 13, 2019

A great friend during my high school years in Long Beach, working on the yearbook and in student government. Wonderful to hear of the legacy he left in San Francisco.

Ed Gazzano

September 13, 2019

Dear Monique,

I just this morning read the S.F. Chronicle "Life Tributes" about Phil and wanted to express my deepest condolences to you and your family. I have very fond memories of Phil and the genuine kindness he always exhibited whenever our paths crossed working for the CCSF. The sorrow and sadness you must feel after 33 years of marriage is, I can imagine, very heavy. May happy and good memories lighten the burden.

Please take care of yourself during the grieving.

Sincerely, Ed Gazzano
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LeAnne Perry

September 12, 2019

I am so thankful I got the chance to know Phil...in San Francisco and in Cabo. My visits to see my SF family would not have been complete without getting to see the Arnold/Zmuda clan too...after all you guys just always seemed like part of our family! The first time you all came to Cabo, when Paul was just a baby, I remember thinking how special it was to see two people so much in love with each other! My thoughts and prayers will always be with you as you celebrate his life, cherish those memories, and navigate through this difficult time.

All my love,
LeAnne

Ron Lewis

September 12, 2019

Thank you Phil for your valued friendship, wisdom, compassion for our environment, and for just being an all around good guy, indeed a prince among men. Our family will miss you sorely, and you will live on among our most cherished memories.

Shawna McGrew

September 12, 2019

As I walk under the old Oak trees in GGP I will say Thank You Phil for your devotion to the City.

Shawna McGrew

September 12, 2019

As I walk under the old Oak trees in GGP I will say Thank you Phil for your devotion to San Francisco.

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