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Robert Ira Payne

1946 - 2025

Robert Ira Payne obituary, 1946-2025, Pacifica, CA

BORN

1946

DIED

2025

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Colma, California

Robert Payne Obituary

Robert Ira Payne
08/08/1946 - 05/26/2025
Robert "Bob" Ira Payne, beloved husband, father, grandfather, and brother-in-law, passed away unexpectedly on May 26, 2025 in Pacifica, CA. He was born on August 8, 1946, in San Francisco, to Ira and Florence Payne, grew up in Napa, and served in the U.S. Air Force. Robert devoted his career to the San Francisco Police Department from 1970-1999, and served for many years as the beat cop, "Officer Bob", in the Excelsior's Mission Street neighborhood and selected Cop of the Month for March, 1987. He was also honored by receiving two bronze Medals of Valor, a Police Commission Commendation and numerous Captain's and Chief's Commendations. Robert was a lifetime member of the South San Francisco's Elks Lodge and Historical Society of South San Francisco, Inc. He loved to fish, travel, workout, and watch westerns.
Robert leaves behind a family that will remember him always, as he was unforgettable: his loving wife Sylvia since 1975, daughter Rebecca Henry, son-in-law Alex Henry, grandson Payne Henry, sister Susan Payne, and in-laws Jackson Reed, Judith Reed, Gordon Reed (Nancy), David Reed, and preceded in death by mother-in-law Patricia Reed, and sister-in-law Eileen Des Meules. Robert is being inurned at Cypress Lawn Cemetery, Colma. A private ceremony will be held.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Jun. 8, 2025.

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Richard Oakes

June 12, 2025

I had the good fortune and pleasure to work with Bob in the 70´s. A fun guy and great cop. May he rest in peace.

Bob Del Torre

June 12, 2025

I worked with Bob at Ingleside Station in the 70 s.
By far one of the BEST officers I ever worked with.

He made many incredible arrests!!!
Treated everyone with respect. He taught the rookies the right way to handle situations.
Always came to work with a positive attitude.
No doubt one of the best cops I knew.
More importantly, one of the nicest guys you´ll ever want to meet!!!

Donna

June 9, 2025

Condolences to you bestie and your family.

Rebecca

June 9, 2025

I love you and I will miss you and your laugh.

Judi Reed

June 8, 2025

There was only one Robert that's for sure. He was memorable and he made every family get-together interesting. I was thinking: I wish I had his laugh as my ringtone. I'll never forget it. Rest in peace Robert; you deserve it.

Sheila Loggan

June 7, 2025

Condolences to Sylvia and Rebecca. RIP Robert.

Carol King

June 7, 2025

RIP Robert

Mike Meloni

June 6, 2025

My deepest condolences to Sylvia and family for their loss. Robert was truly a special person. He will be missed.

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