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Shawn Bates Obituary

Shawn Bates 1960 - 2011 Shawn died suddenly, but peacefully, on August 3rd with family at her San Francisco home. Shawn was born on 02/29/1960 in SF to William R. Bates & Shirley M. Bates (MacNess) & spent her youth in SF, Marin & Santa Rosa. She traveled extensively before attending Sac. State & graduated from SF State with a BA in journalism in 1986. Shawn was a respected and beloved fixture on the SF live music scene encompassing her college years to the early 1990s. While at the DNA lounge - 1987-1993, her innovative approach helped establish the club as one of SF's leading venues of live music featuring a unique variety of genres - notably inclusive of alt. rock and rap. Shawn was well known as a regular 'on air' DJ at the college radio station KUSF & as a local club DJ and event promoter. Shawn spent many happy years with several record labels, beginning locally w Hearts of Space Records & then Concord Records Jazz label, East Bay & later Beverly Hills. In 2003 Shawn & Casey Conroy co-founded WeareFlex, a prosperous music marketing consultancy firm which successfully established long term relationships with premier independent record labels including the Mack Avenue Music Group based in Detroit. Shawn will be remembered as a vibrant, compassionate and colorful person who loved life in General and San Francisco specifically. She was very active in her children's lives & nonprofit organizations, political fundraising and the Jefferson Elementary PTA. She is survived by Paul Webb, her husband of 22 years, their children James (15) and Lucy (8), her elder brother Robert (Bob) & sister Janetha Walsh. She will be sorely missed by her family & extensive & diverse set of friends and colleagues. Messages of condolence are welcome at [email protected] and for details of a public reception on August 24th. See also Facebook Page "Fans of Shawn Bates". In lieu of flowers please consider a donation in her name to the Ida Friend Infusion Center http://makeagift.ucsf.edu. Educational Funds for her children will be set up by Frances DeNoto-Reynolds ([email protected]).

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Aug. 10 to Aug. 14, 2011.

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amber willimas

August 24, 2011

My deepest condolences to Paul, James and Lucy. Shawn was a very nice lady. We will really miss her. Everytime we saw her she always had a friendly smile and always took the time to chat. She will really be missed!

Love,

Patricia Miller and Amber Williams

Kat Cook

August 24, 2011

This is such a sad time and I wish very much that I could have been at the memorial to celebrate her life with her friends and family. I knew Shawn since San Francisco State days, and our times together at the DNA Lounge, Fillmore, Lil Shamrock, everywhere around town that had music. She was always so inspiring and supportive. A truly great person to call friend.

Her wonderful energy just leaps off of all the photos people have been posting. Her presence will continue to be felt in each of us.

My deepest condolences to Paul, James, Lucy, Bob, and Janetha. She will be greatly missed.

James Wheat

August 22, 2011

My name is James wheat, of all the people I knew at SRHS I think Shawn gave me hope at a time when my life was at it's worse. she didn't know it, but having a truly kind, free spirit around on a daily basis gave me the wiliness to press forward. Time, as it always does has slipped away before I thanked her. Thank you
James Wheat

Kathy Peck (HEARNET)

August 22, 2011

Our heartfelt sympathy go out to Paul, James, Lucy and family. We were so sad to learn of Shawn's passing. I remember working with best friends Shawn and Tami at the Lil Shamrock (where Paul and Shawn first meet) and Shawn's generous help with KUSF radio PSAs for the HEAR foundation. We will miss you Shawn, your big personality,love and laughter.

Andy, Debbie & Sam

August 19, 2011

Paul, James and Lucy, we just want you to know that we are thinking of you all. Shawn was such a fun, warm and generous person. We will always have happy memories of our times together.

August 18, 2011

Shawn was one of the kindest people I've ever met in the music industry, or any where, she was so genuine, with a great sense of humor and always welcomed everyone. Her legacy is the warm and happy thoughts we all share about the time we have spent with her. Honored to have known Ms. Shawn Bates. SJL

steve fowler

August 17, 2011

Paul,I am not the best with words buts my thoughts of shawn will always be of a kind, warm hearted, fun loving girl .
My thoughts are with you james and lucy

Graeme Borrill

August 16, 2011

Paul,since my first visit in 1995 you, Shawn and James and Lucy have all made SF feel like a second home. We have shared many laughs and many beers and I will always cherish my walks with Shawn in the park just chattin about life. A truly special person and an honnour to call a freind.
I hope to see you sometime soon and my thoughts are with you James and Lucy

G and Vic x

August 15, 2011

I lived in New York for 13 years, and one of my best trips while i was there, was to SF as a guest of Paul and Shawn. Although my sleeping arrangements wasn't ideal ;-) i had a great time and couldn't have asked for better hosts.

I also hope to see you later in the year Paul. Until then good luck .....

Biff, Lincoln UK.

Judy Pack

August 13, 2011

Though I haven't seen Shawn in many years, she has never been far from my mind. She was the kind of person who left an indelible mark on all those who were lucky enough to know her. Her independent spirit will be an inspirartion to me forever.

the two of us in the park

Norma Herrick

August 12, 2011

Dearest son Paul James and Lucy Shawn was so brave in coming to Pensacola just a few weeks ago (I know she didnt want to let anyone down) we had planned it for so long yes and we swam in the sea and we swam in the pool (all of us including Phil) and now we are heartbroken for all of us will miss her so much will see you all later on in the year all my love Mum xxx

August 11, 2011

Dear Paul, Shawn was a very close and wonderful friend for many many years. As well as my daughters God mother. She will be truly missed but never forgotten. My prayers go out to you, James and Lucy. With all our love, Sue & Mike Jackson and Sara Favor. I will always remember all the great times we had together and have re- called those times together many times in the past week.

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