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Sheldon Kabaker Obituary
Kabaker, M.D.
June 29, 1939 - December 8, 2023
It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Sheldon Solomon Kabaker, M.D., a beloved husband, dear friend to many, and world recognized facial plastic surgeon. Sheldon passed away unexpectedly after a brief illness on December 8, 2023 in White Plains, N.Y. at the age of 84. Sheldon left a profound impact on the lives of those fortunate enough to know him, and his memory will be forever cherished.
Sheldon was born on June 29, 1939 and grew up in Argo, Ill. He was a successful Facial Plastic and Reconstructive Surgeon, as well as an internationally acclaimed Hair Transplantation surgeon. Sheldon was instrumental in training many surgeons in the art of not only facial plastic surgery, but the pioneering hairline lowering procedure, which he was recognized as one of the developers of this life changing procedure. His love and passion for his art is what set him apart from many others. His love of his profession carried him in private practice for over 45 years in Oakland, Calif. Sheldon was honored to have one of the first fully accredited ambulatory surgery facilities in Northern California, and maintained this accreditation until his retirement in 2016.
Sheldon was revered for his warmth, kindness, and unwavering support of his family, friends and patients alike. He had an infectious sense of humor, while dry at times, his passion for helping others deemed him one of the most respected and experienced surgeons in his field.
Sheldon is survived by his loving wife of over 30 years, Marcia Dresner Kabaker; and Robbie, his beloved goldendoodle. Sheldon leaves a wide circle of friends, colleagues and many who will forever carry Sheldon's memory in their hearts. The loss of such a giving and dear man leaves a void that can never be filled, but Sheldon will live on through the countless memories shared by those who had the privilege of knowing him, and the opportunity to work and learn under such a great man.
Funeral services to celebrate Sheldon's life will be held at 10:00 a.m. on Wednesday, December 13, 2023 at the Home of Eternity Cemetery Chapel, 5000 Piedmont Avenue, Oakland, Calif. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations to a charity of your choice in honor of Sheldon.
The memory of Sheldon's life will forever be a beacon of inspiration for all of us. Rest in peace dear Sheldon. You will be deeply missed, but your spirit will continue to shine brightly in the hearts of all who knew you.
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Memories and Condolences
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Mary Abrams
April 21, 2025
I met Sheldon in 1969, he was a resident ENT, specializing in plastics at USC medical center. I was a student nurse then and neither one of us had time to spend dating. He was a sweet man.I'm sorry there was so little time to get to know him better. He had a puppy Zeke, I used to walk for him. We all worked hard in those student days.
Jennifer Martin
January 8, 2025
Wonderful doctor, very warm and caring man. I was his patient in 2013 and I´ll never forget how he advised me on my procedure. He also educated many other doctors. We need more Doctors like him.
Ellen Mccy
October 8, 2024
A dear friend and special man who will never be forgotten. Ellen Mccarthy
donn chatham md
April 17, 2024
Sheldon was one of my all time favorite colleagues. Whether skiing the blue runs, or challenging the golf links or giving me more hair, he was a gem & excelled at all. I treasured the times with him & Marcia. His wry smile & graciousness will forever be my memory. D. Chatham MD
Vicki
March 16, 2024
Thanks, Doc, for my nose. Your work has indeed made a lasting impression. Deeply appreciated.
Rick Ramos
March 8, 2024
Continued..
D.k you will be missed
RR
Sahar Nadimi
January 1, 2024
Dr. Kabaker was my fellowship director in facial plastic surgery. He has left such a lasting impression on my life and I´m forever grateful that I had the opportunity to learn from him and be in his presence. He was my mentor, my dear friend, and an inspiration.
Thank you for everything, Dr. K.
Rosa Villarroel
December 13, 2023
More than a boss more than a doctor he was a warm caring and incredibly intelligent man who touched so many lives. I met him at 18 and he forever changed my life. I would not have become the nurse or person I am today without his caring ways. He cared deeply for his staff who easily became his family. Forever my mentor and a father figure in my life! Rest easy Dr K ! Never forgotten forever missed ! - Rosa
Nilla Rittenhouse
December 13, 2023
Our beloved boss and friend left us with a big void that can not be filled. I worked with him for 29 years and can truly say he was the best! Miss you so Dr K!
John Gillespie
December 13, 2023
Shelly was a wonderful friend , colleague and mentor
Barbara Rogie
December 13, 2023
I worked with him for 15 years as an RN. He was more than an employer. He was a friend! He was the best boss l ever had! Rest in peace Dr. K.
Renee Murray
December 13, 2023
So very sad to hear this news. I was his first private scrub nurse and learned his every move during surgery. A kind and caring employer and friend. He paid the tuition for my operating room technician course (although I had to sign a five year commitment ) and also let me work part time while in nursing school. Thank you Dr. Kabaker for the lasting impact you had on my life and the lives of so many others.
Rest in peace
Renee Murray
Pat Cook
December 12, 2023
Was so lucky to have known him, he was a special friend and will be missed by everyone who knew him.
Rest in Peace.
Denise
December 12, 2023
Forever in our hearts. A gentle soul never to be forgotten. Rest in Peace, Sheldon
Jason Anderson
December 12, 2023
Doctor Kabaker was a good man with a big heart. He meant so much to my family and in ways he didn´t even realize. It was a privilege to know him.
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