Stephen Bearden
December 9, 1958 - May 11, 2022
Born in Mt. Clemens, MI to Howard Lee Bearden of Steele, AL and Kay Elizabeth Bearden of Kingston, MI. Survived by Steve's partner of 33 years: Steven Jerome Simon of San Francisco, and Steve's three brothers and their families: Gregory Howard Bearden of Kingston, Michigan, Geoffrey Clement Bearden of Garden City, Michigan, David Allan Bearden of Allen Park, Michigan. Memorial service, celebration of life reception TBD at later date. San Francisco Columbarium & Funeral Home, One Loraine Court, San Francisco, California 94118 415-771-0717

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from May 14 to May 17, 2022.

Memories and Condolences
for Stephen Bearden

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19 Entries

Eliane

May 12, 2025

Thinking of you...and Eric of course.
How I miss you both... Life was so nice in your company. Rest un peace together.
Eliane (France)

Lisa Tongue

May 9, 2025

My Dearest Owen - as I am sure you know, your brothers are having a service for you in Michigan on May 11. The third anniversary of your parting which also coincides with Mother's Day this year. I think about you every, single, day and the hole in my heart will never mend. I miss you so much and will love you forever. Your Insignificant other, Lisa.

eliane HAMITOUCHE France

July 11, 2024

Dear Steve,
I don't forget you...either Eric of course...I miss you both. Life is so sad without you two and also my dear brother who died in July 2023. It's a very difficult period all the Julys...

Steve Simon

December 13, 2023

Second Christmas we're without Steve Bearden. Here's a collage to share.

Lisa Tongue

December 12, 2023

My Dearest Steve - not a day goes by that I don't miss you. Happy 65th birthday on December 9th. I was talking to you all day. Wherever you are, I hope you are at peace and that you know how much we love and miss you.

Liza Reavis

January 9, 2023

Dearest Steve, I am so devastated to just learn of your passing last May when I called K&L to joke with you about Bordeaux wines. Car accident upended my world, but I cannot believe your gentle presence, great sense humor and dedication to your craft are gone from this world. You taught me so much, Steve, and I hope you knew how precious you were to me. I will miss you greatly, dear friend. Love you always, Liza
For Steve S., I am so very sorry for your loss...there are truly no words to express this sadness, but I hope you can continue, knowing how many loved Steve. Liza

Paul Lukasiewicz / Brian Frol

August 11, 2022

Sympathy to Steve S., and his family
Many fond memories of all 4 boys at their parents home in Allen Park
Enjoyed our visit with Steve & Steve in San Francisco
Rest In Peace Steve,
Paul & Brian

Steven J Simon

July 27, 2022

We have set a date for Steve Bearden's Celebration Of Life in San Francisco. Thursday, August 25th, 2022 from 1pm - 3pm.

Steven J Simon

July 2, 2022

We have planned a memorial in Allen Park, Michigan, where Steve was from on August 13, 2022.

Steve Vaccaro

June 3, 2022

Was saddened to see Steve's obit in the SF Chronicle. Met Steve many years ago through a mutual friend when he lived on Guerrero/21st St. Even though we hadn't seen each other in years I was always immediately comfortable around Steve and loved his gentle nature and great sense of humor. Will always remember him with very fond memories. Condolences to Steve Simon.

STEVEN J SIMON

June 2, 2022

Another K&L photo, here with Clyde just to Steve's left.

STEVEN J SIMON

June 2, 2022

Steve worked for K&L Wines for over 20 years and this photo was taken in 2006 on a company visit to Bordeaux France.

STEVEN J SIMON

June 2, 2022

Steve's bio from K&L Wines.

Melody Urso

May 22, 2022

And I forgot to mention that, along with those moments in very special places like San Francisco and New Orleans, there was the barge trip in France and you graced me with your presence at my epic 60th Birthday party at my home in Dunedin, Florida. Thank you!

STEVEN J SIMON

May 21, 2022

More photos to share. Steve's love of food, wine, and travel carried throughout his life

STEVEN J SIMON

May 21, 2022

We had a lot of great memories to share together. This trip to the Canal Di Midi in France in 2008.

Steve Simon

May 20, 2022

A chasm a mile wide and a mile deep has been opened up since Steve left us on May 11, 2022. A void that will never be filled, but our memories and stories will help ease the sorrow we have all experienced. Steve, wherever you are going on your new journey, just remember we will keep you in our hearts forever. With all my love, your best friend and lifelong partner.

Melody Urso

May 19, 2022

I only shared a few moments with you, Steve, but in very beautiful places - San Francisco and New Orleans. Rest in Peace.

Lisa Tongue

May 14, 2022

Oh Owen, I miss you and love you. The world will not be the same without you in it. Don't worry, I will be making our trip to Cassis with Piggy in tow. Even though my heart is in a thousand pieces you will always be in each one of them. Please send my love to Eric, Larry and Earl and tell them I miss them too. This still doesn't feel real.

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