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Titi Sara
March 26, 2025
Thinking of you, Mijo!!
Love you and miss you very much!
Stephanie
January 4, 2025
Hi Tom,
I will always think of you dearly. Sending you so much love.
Tracy Comstock
March 26, 2024
Every breath I take is with is with you on my mind and in my heart. Years will pass but, it will always feel like yesterday.
Love Mijo,
Mom
Dawn Keller
March 26, 2024
Hi Tommy Thinking About You Always
Love You Bunches
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Titi Sara n Family
March 26, 2024
Thinking of you!
Forever remembered.....Forever missed..... Forever loved.....
Love you mucho Mi Tommy
Deborah Hattel
March 26, 2024
Hey Loveythink you often. Miss you. Rest easy and please watch over all of us. Until we meet again kiddo.
Titi Sara
March 26, 2023
Good morning Mijo!
We miss you very much.
This month has been really tough for the family.
Send us signs today, they are missed!
We love you to infinity n´ beyond!
Deborah Hattel
March 26, 2023
Miss you Tommy. Until we meet again.
Dawn Keller
March 28, 2022
The memories fade but Never go away ~ when I think about you I smile and sometimes laugh out loud ~ Wow I can´t believe it´s been 17 years ~ oh hey before I forget Kaitlin got engaged and she´s sooo happy she´s marrying Rachel´s brother Sam ~ I miss you you Little Brat until we meet again ~ Love You Always Dawn
Titi Sara
March 27, 2022
It was nice visiting you yesterday!
Had Family time in San Bruno. Ate you favorite pasta dish.
Miss you & Love you mucho Mijo!
Always ~n ~ Forever in our .

Tracy Comstock
March 26, 2022
Every year that passes is another year closer to seeing you again.
My angel, my blue bird. Send me sign today please.
Love you,
Mom
#17
Deborah Rebollini-Hattel
March 26, 2022
Your memory has always been a blessing
Titi Sara
March 26, 2021
Morning Mijo,
It’s been 16 long years!
Miss you a whole , whole lot.❤ Thanks for your random visits at work!! Those visits make me smile ! Even my coworkers know about you and when you visit me!!
We ❤ You Tommy!
Titi Sara n Family
Deborah Rebollini-Hattel
March 26, 2021
03.26.21 and it’s still surrealTommy please continue to watch over your loved ones. You’re the best kid. Until we meet again.
March 28, 2020
Missing you mucho!
❤ You.
Titi Sara n Familia.
Dawn Keller
March 27, 2020
Cant believe its been 15 years - I always still think about you and Love ❤ You
Tracy Comstock
March 26, 2020
Its been 15 long years without you. Tried my very best to stay busy today.Please send us a sign to let us know you are watching over us.
Love you mijo,
Mom

Melody Dimick-Campos
March 26, 2020
missing you a little extra today.. Titi Melo
Deb Rebollini-Hattel
March 26, 2020
Missing you forever

Cousins, Maité and AngeliNa
Melody Dimick-Campos
September 14, 2016
Happy birthday, baby. Sending you a ton of hugs and kisses on your special day. Titi Melo loves and misses you very much..
❤, Uncle Pablo, Titi Melo, Maité and Angelina
Tracy Comstock
February 18, 2016
Thinking of you papi.
Love you mucho,
Mom
Tracy Comstock
March 15, 2015
Missing you every minute of every day! Give me the strength to get through the next couple of weeks. I can't say, it feels like yesterday since you went away because 10 years of headache is a long time. Thank you for all the little signs you send me. It puts a smile on my face and warms my heart.
Love you mucho,
Mom
Dawn Keller
February 25, 2015
Just sitting here thinking about you a lot today - miss you so much
xoxoxoxo MUAH

Missing you.. Titi Melo
Melody Dimick-Campos
February 24, 2015
Deb Rebollini-Hattel
March 25, 2014
I cannot believe it has been 9 years since God took you to heaven. Our hearts still ache for you. You will always be in my heart and soul. I know you see us down here and know everything that is going on. Please watch over us and know that you will forever be our angel. Until we meet again handsome young Tommy...
Deb Rebollini-Hattel
April 26, 2013
I'm just thinking of you...
Melody Dimick-Campos
March 26, 2013
Missing you with all my heart and soul, baby boy.. Titi Melo
Melody Dimick-Campos
October 12, 2012
Somebody @ work was asking, "Who's that handsome young man" in the picture on my desk.. Told her your story. Love you and miss you to pieces.. Titi Melo

Melody Dimick-Campos
August 17, 2012
Just thinkin' 'boutcha... Titi Melo
Melody Dimick-Campos
March 26, 2012
Can't believe 7yrs. have come and gone. I still miss you just the same. I love you tommy, always and forever.... Titi Melo
Titi Sara
September 16, 2011
Hi Mijo,
Sorry I didn't stop by on 9/14 to wish you a Happy B-day but I did say it to myself on my way to work that day like everyday.. That might sound weird but I always say good morning to you and chata. My two loved ones that I deeply miss :(
And during homework time on 9/14 all your lil cousins said, "Happy Birtday Tommy".... Love u
Titi Sara
Melody Dimick-Campos
September 14, 2011
Happy birthday, Mijo. I love you to the moon and back...
Tracy Comstock
March 26, 2011
So, today has come and gone. It started out somber but ended pleasant. Thank God for family :D.....Still missing you babe but, I know we will see each other soon.
Love you papi,
Mom
March 25, 2011
Hi Mijo!!! Stopping in to say that you are truly loved and missed dearly every single day. The whole get-a-long gang will go visit tomorrow. See you manana mijo. Luv ya. Titi Sara
Hi Tommy I love and miss you.
I hope you're having fun with Tayna,Chata,and Nina. Maite' and Angelina
Hi Tommy we all miss you very much. We love you too. We will always have you in are hearts. yvette and julian
Tracy Comstock
March 25, 2011
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Melody Dimick-Campos
March 24, 2011
Counting down the days already... Going on 6 years now. Incredible. I miss you so very much. ~Titi Melo
Dawn Keller
September 15, 2010
Happy Birthday Tommy. Miss you a whole bunch.
Love Dawn & Kaitlin & Kevin
September 14, 2010
Happy Birthday beautiful boy :-)
Love you mucho,
Mom
Melody Dimick-Campos
September 14, 2010
Happy Birthday, Tommy. I LOVE you... Titi Melo
Melody Dimick-Campos
March 26, 2010
Tommy - What can I say? It has been 5 very long, sad years. Our family will never be the same without you. I often think of all the fun we had joking and playing pranks... 2 peas in a pod. I love you and I miss you just as much as I did when you left us, if not, even more. There are days when I feel your presence and it puts a big smile on my face. Maite' sometimes asks why you were sick.... I never quite know what to answer her. I just tell her that we will all see eachother again someday. Whenever an airplane flies by she tells me "Mom, there goes Papa Ramon, Tommy and Nina", (the Campos' family dog)". (and her gold fish and her hermit crab the little bird we tried soooo hard to rescue). She's been saying that since she was like 3. She's a special little girl. (extremely spoiled....but very, very special). Angelina, well, she didn't get the chance to meet you, but she will forever carry on the name of your sweetheart. Sending you tons of hugs and kisses. Titi Melo
March 10, 2010
Missing you terribly.... Titi Melo
March 9, 2010
Hola mijo,
Sitting in the livingroom staring at your photo's. I'm broken and I don't think I'll ever be repaired. I can't do this anymore but unfortunately I have to. Nothing or anybody gives me joy anymore. I feel obligated to be nice and I just want lay down fall asleep and not wake up. I want to see you so bad! I don't enjoy being here without you.
I love you papi.
Mom
Angelina Francavilla
February 1, 2010
I haven't written in a while. A long while... I think about you all the time though. I have dreams about you and they feel so real. Most of them are scary yet it's nice to be with you (in my dreams). To this day I still can't accept what happened. I don't want to. I feel selfish but I can't help it. Someone asked me, if you hadn't gone away, if I think we would still be together. It was hard to imagine but I had to be true to myself. No I don't think we would have still been together. We were so young. If you were never sick and none of this had happened we probably wouldn't have made it that long. I know for sure we would still be friends. We would've maybe been on and off but friends for sure. It sounds bad but you being sick brought us closer. I mean we were already close but it brought us to another level. It was like an impenetrable force. At least that's the only way I can describe it.
I was at the gym a few days ago and I saw this guy and he looked so much like you (like you did then but older). I was staring at this guy and I feel bad because my eyes were locked on his face. He was probably thinking "what is this girl looking at". It took me a while to look away. He even had tattoos (which I'm sure you would've had too). Gosh....
I was looking through some old stuff and I found my old planner. It's where I wrote everything I did when we were together. From 2003 to 2004 I had written every time I saw you. It was nice to have that. Time spent together before... I still have the bus transfer from our "2 months". lol December 13th, when we went downtown. You got me a few things. I still have the bear, and it still plays jingle bells when I press the paw. It sits on my bed everyday. I wish I still had the card though... I'll never forget what it said though. And I still have the little bunny figurine. It's on my dresser, next to your photo.
I spent time reading through everyday. Everything we did for almost a year (until I stopped for some reason). I guess it got too repetitive... I remembered it all as I read. I'll always have the memories, good and bad. I'll never forget, nor do I ever want to.
I love you homie G dog. (lol middle school days...)

Tommy being a clown
Tracy Comstock
November 8, 2009
Missing you terribly.
Mom
Sara Gomez-Ramos
September 15, 2009
HaPpY BiRtHdAy MiJo!!!!!
We had a great time at your home this weekend!!!! Mom redid your room. Ahh, now we can hang out in there all the time.Hee-hee!! HOpE you like it.
I sure do.
Love U always & forever!!!
Titi Sara y familia
Dawn Keller
September 14, 2009
Happy 21st Birthday Tommy. Hope you enjoyed our visit today. I ate that terrible cup cake just for you. LOL
Love Always,
Dawn
Melody Dimick-Campos
September 14, 2009
HaPpY BiRtHdAy, "Tomas"! (en espanol)... ~00~ Had a really nice time on Saturday celebrating your birthday with everyone......Muchos besos y abrazos. Titi Melo
Deb Rebollini-Hattel
September 14, 2009
Happy Birthday Love...
Tracy Dimick-Comstock
September 6, 2009
Hola Mijo,
We are celebrating grandman Comstock's birthday today. Your stepdad just played a song that reminds him of her. And I can't help but, cry cause the song is about someone missing somebody that has died. I can't help but cry cause it's your birthday pretty soon. I miss you sooooo much! Give me a sign to let me know that you are thinking of your mama. And give grandma Comstock a hug from all of us k?
Titi Sara Gomez-Ramos
July 17, 2009
Hi Mijo!!
I miss you mucho tambien...
Luv u always.
Tracy Dimick-Comstock
July 16, 2009
I miss you :'''''(
Tracy Dimick-Comstock
July 7, 2009
Hola Mijo,
Had a hard couple of weeks. First visiting the gravesites of my brother and sister in Wyoming and then coming home to drama at work! And to top it all off Michael Jackson died!! I know you know but, watching the memorial service brings back those feelings of helplessnes and I hate that! Please send me a sign to let me know you are there k?
Mom
July 4, 2009
Hey Little Buddy thinking about you a lot. Have a Happy 4th today. Light off a big firework for all of us. I will be watching the sky tonight.
Love Always,
Dawn
March 27, 2009
Always Loved Never Forgotten. We miss you as much today as we did 4 years ago. I am still sorry for you and your family. I really hope you enjoyed our visit yesterday. I know it got a little bit intense but it end on a good note and with a good chuckle. I will come visit again real soon. I Love You Buddy.
Love Always,
Dawn
Sara Gomez-Ramos
March 27, 2009
Morning Mijo!!
We miss and love you mucho,mucho!!!!
Titi Sara
mom
March 25, 2009
Almost time.
Tracy Dimick-Comstock
March 17, 2009
What can I say but, that my heart aches for you!!!!
Mom :(
Sara Gomez-Ramos
March 16, 2009
Hi Mijo,
Just thought I would say that "We Miss & Love You" Uncle Johnny is resting now.
What a week it was last wk. Too much drama..I should get to work mi muchacho...
Te quiero Muchoooooo!!
Titi Sara
Kaitlin Keller
March 12, 2009
I miss you
Sara Gomez-Ramos
January 5, 2009
Happy New Year Mi Muchacho!!
Love U and Miss U...
Titi Sara, Tio Adan, Grandma, Cousins Yvette & Julian :o)
Melody Campos
January 1, 2009
HaPpY NeW YeAr, ChiQuILLo.....titi melo
Tracy Comstock
December 31, 2008
As I get ready to bring in the new year I think of you mijo....another year closer to being with you.
Miss you mucho,mucho!!!
Mom
Tracy Comstock
December 28, 2008
Went ice skating with lil Moe and Christina last night. Thought of you the whole time. I remember you and Angelina had gone a couple times. I felt you there with us.....love ya mijo
Mom
Sara Gomez-Ramos
December 27, 2008
Hi Mijo!!
Wishin you a merry x-mas!! I love you dearly and miss you a bunch..
Titi Sara
Melody Dimick-Campos
December 25, 2008
i hope you had the TIME-OF-YOUR-LIFE........titi melo
Tracy Comstock
December 11, 2008
Hi Mijo,
Send kisses to Titi Melo today K?
Miss you mucho papa!!!!!
Mom

Tommy and Maurice
November 7, 2008
Tracy Comstock
November 7, 2008
Today, I went to pay my respects to a mother who lost her life giving birth to her daughter. I still don't understand why things like this happen? I guess I'll never know. I love you mijo.
Miss you everyday.
Mom
Tracy Dimick-Comstock
September 14, 2008
"Happy Birthday Mijo"
Hope you liked what we did for ya today? The Mariachis were awesome. Only the best for my baby.
Love you papi.
Mom
Born September 14, 1988 1420
~Thomas Michael Graves~
Deb Rebollini-Hattel
September 14, 2008
Happy Birthday Handsome...miss and love you so so much!
Melody Dimick-Campos
September 14, 2008
happy birthday to you, tommy! wow, 20 yrs old........what was i doing at 20? ok, let's change the subject.. 8] the family will be together just for you today. please shine down on us. miss you forever and ever.....titi melo
Deb Rebollini-Hattel
September 8, 2008
Hey Tommy,
Just wanted to say hi and tell you I love you! You are always in my heart and prayers.
Love you,
Deb

maite', yvette and julian
melody dimick-campos
July 7, 2008
missed you on 4th of july. the kids had a really good time. i kept remembering that year when me, you, your mom and moe went up on the roof of the house to watch the fireworks in the neighborhood. 'member? it's just not the same without you. we all love and miss you so much........titi melo
Tracy Comstock
July 4, 2008
Hola Mijo,
Today is the 4th of July and the family is coming over. We will BBQ and then light fireworks outside. We will be thinking of you. Send us a sign ok.
Love you, Love you, Love you!
Mom
Tracy Comstock
May 22, 2008
Love you mijo.
Mom
Melody Dimick-Campos
May 14, 2008
hi tommy. just thought i'd leave you a little note just to let you know "i'm thinkin' 'bout 'cha". i love you forever. titi melo
maite' campos
March 29, 2008
this is from maite':
i love tommy. my mommy misses you. and my sister doesn't know what you look like. (she doesn't huh, mom)? 8) i'm done mom. maite'
Tracy Comstock
March 27, 2008
My sweat, crazy, pinche muchacho,
Three years, three long heartbreaking years. What can I say.
I saw Danny yesterday at your place. He looked different. It was a bitter sweat reunion. I feel some comfort knowing you are not forgotten. Tommy watch over all of us. Give us the strength to go on without you.
Mom =(
Deb Rebollini-Hattel
March 27, 2008
I cannot believe it has been 3 years since you went on to heaven. I pray and talk to you alot. I cry alot...please watch over us, you're the only angel I have in heaven. Miss you kid...XOXOXO
Angelina Francavilla
March 26, 2008
Not a day goes by that I don't miss you. I still can't accept that you're gone. It's like I can and can't believe it. In my mind I know you're gone but in my heart I can still Feel you. Thomas I miss you so much. I can't believe it's been three years already. 3 whole years since I've seen you. I wish I could see you now. All grown up and so handsome. I wish we could all reunite together. I wish i could go back in time to that Christmas where I met the family. I miss them too. I miss everyone.
My birthday is this Saturday. The 29th. It just has to be three days after the 26th.. I'll be 19. You would be 19 too. Our last teen year.. Let's make it the best kay? I LOVE LOVE LOVE YOU!!! ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS!!!!
Melody Dimick-Campos
March 26, 2008
i can't believe today marks 3 yrs that you left us. it still feels like just yesterday that i heard you laugh. i find comfort knowing that you are in a much better place. (the more time goes by, the more bad stuff we see happen in this crazy world). i wish you were here to meet 'lil angelina. she looks just like titi sara! how'd that happen??!! i was telling your mom on easter sunday how cool it is that her name has a story behind it. she can tell it to her kids and her grandkids.....<8) i miss you forever.......titi melo
Dawn Keller
March 26, 2008
OK so here it is a pretty crumby day. Three years ago you left us and not a day goes by that you are not truely missed. I've been outside at work alot today (most goofing off) talking to you. It's a really nice sunny cloud free day and that makes me happy to just be outside thinking of you and talking to you. I hope you hear me (I know you do with my big mouth LOL). Anyway just thought I would drop you a little note with Lots of Love on this terribly sad anniversary day. Love you always my Little Brat Buddy.
P.S. Kaitlin and Kevin say "HI"
Love, Hugs, and Kisses Dawn
Tracy Dimick-Comstock
January 1, 2008
Mijo,
Thank you, for my rose this morning, I have it on top of the dresser. It's soo beautiful like you. I miss you papa! I try real hard to hide my feelings during the holiday's because, I just don't want to spoil anybody's fun. But, inside, I cry for you. Another year has pasted. I can't wait to see you again someday. I wish you could be here to see lil Angelina. I know you would love her to death. Your dear Angelina is in our hearts and part of our family forever!
Do me a favor and watch over Mikey and please try to quide him ok? Be his quardian angel.
Love you mucho,
Mom xxxx
Sophia Sotelo
December 1, 2007
Hey Cussin.
Thanksgiving past not to long ago. Ciara,Mayte,Julian,Yvette,and The New Meber of the Familia [Anjelica.] And others Alex and his little sister. They had fun. Alot of screaming and laughing most of the time. Julian Actually said Hi To me! because you know how hes shy and all. We actually sat down and talked and laughed. It was pretty amazing. I had no one to talk to since im the only teen now. Sucks..But hey you mom, Titi Sara, Titi Melo and Grandma want to have a Quince. haha i hope [[i spelt that right???]]...im happy about that =] i dont know how they go down but im going to one soon. then ill git an idea. i want to learn spanish thats my goal. to learn before summer. kinda silly huh?? yess i know. >>how am i going to learn if no one talks to me in spanish<< but hey ill teach myself. but i dont know when to start. know that im actually sitting down and writting this..ill start today!! =] well yeh love you mucho! see im already getting a good start haha. amo?? mucho? i dont even know how to say i love you. how sad. te amo? mucho? yeah im just going to shut up before i make a fool of myself. BYE. SOPHiA.
Dawn Keller
September 24, 2007
Ok so hear it goes. I didn't forget your birthday I actually thought about you all day long but you see I have been in a real funk the last couple of months and I did not want to subject my crumby mood to you . So I am kinda feeling up today so I thought I would drop you this little note and a Happy Belated Birthday to you. I really miss seeing your face and putting up with your sarcastic sense of humor. I really could use a dose of Tommy on the bad days. Kaitlin and Casey said to say hi to you so Hi form the girls. And Kevin well what can I say he acts more like you every day. He is a total handful. But he does make me laugh the way you use to. Well I am at work. Oh yeah I went back to my old job in Colma so I hope you know that I do wave to you every day. Well I Love You and Miss you dearly my good friend.
Love Always,
Dawn
Deb Rebollini-Hattel
September 19, 2007
Hi Handsome,
Last week was tough with 9/11 and your 19th birthday on 9/14...I miss you...and my heart aches for your Mom. I wish I could take all her pain away...I wish we could all take a little part of her pain so she would feel joy again...I knew you as a baby, as a boy, but did not get to know you as a young man and for that I will be eternally sad :( when I think of you I think of my own sons...Mikey just turned 18 on 9/2 and Joey just turned 13 on 9/17...you crazy kids are so much alike...Love you Tommy!
Tracy Comstock
September 18, 2007
I love you
Mom
Titi Sara Gomez-Ramos
September 17, 2007
Happy B-day Mijo,
Didn't forget your b-day. Darn computer doesn't work at home, so I am writing from work. Missing you like crazy. We love you with all our hearts.
Love u always: Grandma Tona,Titi Sara, Tio Adan, Cousins Yvette & Julian, Chata the dog, Nemo the fish, Tinkerbell & Peter Pan the parakeets. That was Yvette's idea to include her pets. She's funny, Huh!!!!
Tracy Comstock
September 15, 2007
I really missed you yesterday, I couldn't stop crying. I wanted to shout out loud. "Come home" But, I know that's not possible. Sometimes it hurts so bad, I want to break something. Nothing will ever take away the pain. You were my baby, only you filled my heart with such joy! Now, I wonder if, I can ever give that kind of love again? You were my one and only son.My pinche mucho. Please send me a sign papa. I am having a tough time not having you around.
I have many memories but sometimes they are not good enough.
Sleep well mijito lindo,
Mom
Melody Dimick-Campos
September 14, 2007
Happy Birthday precious angel. Missing you always. Titi Melo
Maite' Campos
September 14, 2007
i love you tommy. happy birthday.
love, maite'
Tracy Comstock
September 14, 2007
"Happy Birthday"
Today you turn "19" I imagine you a little more buffed, same facial features probably less acne. Maybe a bit taller. I miss you babe and you will always be in my heart. I'll see you in Colma later k? I won't forget your Roses. Maurice wants me to bring you an SF 49ers necklace. Hope you like it. Love you mucho, mucho.
Mom
Melody Dimick-Campos
August 6, 2007
give me strength, tommy.
titi melo
Tracy Dimick-Comstock
August 1, 2007
Today was a hard day for me. I guess it's been a rough week because your birthday is coming up soon. I get so anxious, I don't know what to do with myself. It's hard to think of you up there but, I have no choice. This year again, I will try to spend the day with your cousins. It makes me feel better to know, I am doing something special on your day. I love you mijo and miss you terribly. I can't wait to see and touch you again. Please give me a sign that you hear me K?
Love you mucho,
Mom =`(
Titi Sara Gomez-Ramos
June 13, 2007
Hello Tommy,
Well, tomorrow your little cousin, Yvette graduates from Kindergarten. She will be a 1st grader now. Wow, how time flies. Send us a sign tomorrow so we know you are watching us. It will be a special day!!!! We truly and deeply miss you. Love ya always,mijo..
Melody Dimick-Campos
June 8, 2007
ok.....so it looks like we're going to name the baby "Angelina Antoinette". Kinda' long ain't it? (Angelina for "your" Angelina, (or like Maite' says, "The REAL Angelina") and Antoinette for "Grandma Antonia". (grandma's real name on her birth certificate is Maria Antonietta). hope you like it.......Titi Melo
I'm really, really missing you right now....:O( Please help lift my spirits.
Angelina Francavilla
May 31, 2007
graduation is soon. Prom passed. I missed you.
Titi Sara Gomez-Ramos
May 6, 2007
HI Mijo,
Happy Cinco de Mayo!!!!
We miss you.
Love Always,
Tios Adan,Sara,Grandma,Yvette,and
Julian
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