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Thomas McGeoy Obituary
He had a full and wonderful life filled with love, travel, friends, family and many accomplishments. He attended Calvert Hall High school in Baltimore Maryland. He joined the Army while taking classes to prepare him to attend the University of Maryland where he graduated from Medical School in 1961. He joined the Navy while completing his residency at Columbia and Memorial Sloan Kettering in NYC. Serving on the USS Repose hospital ship in the Vietnam War until 1969 then transferring to Oak Knoll Naval hospital in Oakland, California where he was honorably discharged. He started his private practice in San Francisco then moved to Daily City where he practiced as a Board Certified Urologist at Seton Medical Center, St. Mary's, St. Luke's and the old Ralph K. Davis. He was the Chief of Surgery, Chief of Urology and President of the Medical Staff from 1988-1990.
Practicing medicine was his passion and he brought an unsurpassed level of excellence of love and care for his patients and his craft. His extended family was the medical community. He found his home at Seton Medical Center with the Daughters of Charity where he dedicated over 40 years of his life. Respected by his colleagues and loved by his family and friends for his kindness, knowledge, sensibility, compassion and of course sense of humor which will stay with us forever. He will be cherished and missed !!!
He is survived by his wife and soul mate of 27 years MaryJane McGeoy of San Antonio Texas, Ex-wives Kumi Clough and Judy Clark, his 6 children Michael (Lori) Michelle, David and Yuri McGeoy, Elizabeth (David) Scott and Ram Fenster; 13 amazing Grandchildren and 5 Great-Grandchildren and childhood best friend Joseph (Sherry) Trabert of Baltimore, Maryland.
On Wednesday 2/20/13 there will be a viewing from 3-9 p.m., with a Rosary at 7 p.m., at Duggan's Mortuary 500 Westlake Ave., Daly City, California 94014. The funeral mass celebration time has changed to10:30 a.m. on Thursday 2/21/13 at St. Stephen Church, 601 Eucalyptus Dr., San Francisco followed by a burial at Holy Cross Catholic Cemetery and a wake/party at Val's after the burial.
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Memories and Condolences
for Thomas McGeoy
Number 3 daughter
November 17, 2022
Daaad!! I miss you so much!! I wish you could be here for this part Kinda need ya Missing our late night talks, your advise and just your presence. Only one you forever part of my heart
Udee McGeoy
February 12, 2020
Miss you Dad !!
My Daddy !!!!
Udee McGeoy
March 18, 2015
It's been 2 years and I miss my Dad everyday. I keep his picture on my screensaver so I can see his face. He is a one of a kind. He was planted in my heart before I was born and will live there forever till we get to catch up again, face to face/soul to soul. I love you Dad !!!
Donna Lumby McGreal
March 22, 2014
So sorry to hear of Tom's passing. My mother, Ann Franz Lumby, visited her brother Bill and Tom's mother Liz in San Francisco several times and always spoke so highly of Tom and his generous hospitality during those visits. She always looked forward to hearing the news and truly enjoyed his company.
My sympathy goes out to you.
Sincerely,
Donna Lumby McGreal
My 1st love
Bessie Scott
February 20, 2014
Love my Dad, thats all there is.
My Daddy !! Attempting to make him purtty !!!
Udee McGeoy
February 19, 2014
Elizabeth Moran
August 4, 2013
Dear Mary Jane and Ram, I just heard of the death of Dr. McGeoy and send you our heartfelt sympathy. We lived across the street from you on Campana and I worked at Seton Ortho-Surgery, floating down to Oncology. I always thought Dr. McGeoy was an excellent urologist and appreciated his great sense of humor. I could see that you two were going to have a wonderful marriage, as your love for each other was so inspirational. I hope you are doing well, Mary Jane. God be with and comfort you in your loss. Sincerely,Elizabeth Moran R. N.
mark rogers
June 13, 2013
I met Tom in Hawaii while he was on R&R from Vietnam......I was dating his sister in law, Mieko, at the time......I was deeply impressed by his emotion and sensetivity about the war at the time......it affected him deeply......He was and will always be remembered as a very caring person.....
February 25, 2013
Dear Mary Jane,
Tommy and I were often mistaken for each other when we rode the number 12 bus home from Calvert Hall, I think because we each had a black raincoat and the pompadore hair that was so popular in the day. My prayers go with you and for Tommy, your children and grand children.
Jack Bludis
February 25, 2013
May our God and Father of comfort and all tender mercies grant you a peaceful heart and provide abundant solace from your fondest memories of Mr. Thomas.
Baltimore, MD
February 23, 2013
Dear, Mary Jane,
My heart goes out to you in the loss of your husband and soul mate. Though I never met Tom, he must have been a good man to have chosen to be your partner for 27 years. Take good care of yourself.
Nancy Neufeld(your former "boot camp" buddy)
February 21, 2013
Mary Jane: It was a such a pleasure to know and work with your husband and our colleague, Tom... If there's anything we can do for you, please call us... Dr. Joe & Charlotte Meyers
Michael Day
February 21, 2013
Mary Jane,
So sorry to hear of your loss; having worked with Tom many years ago I always had the deepest respect for his professional skills and enjoyed his wicked sense of humor and wonderful personality greatly. Remember the good times of which I know there were many and know that many are thinking of you and sending our love at this time.
Joann Kalesis
February 20, 2013
Mary Jane, My heart goes out to you for your loss. I only met Tom a few times but I know you will treasure his memory and humor. He was the life of the party.
Donna Fletcher Joanna Kalesis
February 20, 2013
Mary Jane, Our hearts go out to you for your loss. We only met Tom a few times but we know why you will treasure his memory and humor.He was always the life of the party.
Merritt Fink
February 19, 2013
Hello Mary Jane: I was so sorry to hear the news of Tom's passing. As his patient, I admired his skills and caring as a physician and as his colleague at Seton, he had integrity and a straightforward quality that seems to be in short supply today. It was a pleasure to know and work with him. Mary Lou and I send you and your family our most sincere condolences on your loss. Merritt Fink
Marge Silva
February 19, 2013
Dear MaryJane, My heart goes out to you in your loss. Doctor was so sweet and kind to everyone. Your memories will be your treasure. Love & hugs, Marge Silva
Tony Escobar
February 19, 2013
MaryJane,
Only knew Tom for a short time and during these times he was always kind and generous. My prayers to Tom, you and the family.
Sharon Ghilardi-Udovich
February 18, 2013
Dear McGeoy Family,
Tom was a wonderful man. I enjoyed his sense of humor and his kindness. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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