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Thomas Rohlen

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Thomas Rohlen Obituary

Thomas Rohlen
October 29, 1940 - March 6, 2022
Thomas Payne Rohlen died peacefully surrounded by family on March 6, 2022 at the age of 81. He was beloved and adored as a husband, father, grandfather, colleague, and friend. He was an internationally respected academic, an anthropologist, educator, program builder, philanthropist, policy analyst, and business consultant specializing in a wide expanse of research topics related to Japanese and Asian cultures.
Tom was born on October 29, 1940, the oldest child of Karl and Frances Rohlen. Tom grew up in Winnetka, Illinois and graduated from New Trier High School in 1958. He received his undergraduate degree from Princeton University in 1962 where he was a member of the Cap and Gown Club, played lightweight football, and was a much sought-after barber for his dorm. After college he served in Japan for the U.S. Foreign Service from 1962 to 1965, sparking a lifelong interest in the study of modern Japan. Upon returning to the United States, he received a Doctor of Philosophy degree in Anthropology from the University of Pennsylvania in 1970.
His first academic appointment as a professor was at the University of California, Santa Cruz. Over the course of his academic career, Tom spent time as a visiting scholar at the University of Hawaii, at the University of Toronto in the Canadian Institute for Advanced Research, and at Harvard University as the Reischauer Chair where he worked closely with sociologist Ezra Vogel and Edwin Reischauer, founder of Harvard's Japan Institute and former U.S. Ambassador to Japan.
Tom joined the faculty at Stanford University in 1980 where he held joint appointments at the Graduate School of Education and the Freeman-Spogli Institute for International Studies. During his two decades at Stanford, Tom proved to be a rarity among academicians, seamlessly balancing the dual roles of educator and builder of interdisciplinary institutions and programs. After establishing the Asia Pacific Research Center at Stanford where he spent the bulk of his time as Senior Fellow, Tom also established the Stanford Center in Kyoto, Japan where he served as its first director. Additionally, Tom founded the executive program on Japan at the Asian Institute for Humanistic Studies.
As a teacher, advisor, program administrator, and colleague at Stanford, Tom touched the lives of thousands of students and researchers over the span of 20 years. He made himself available and treated everyone, regardless of age or status, with open-mindedness, honesty, respect, warmth, sensitivity, and an upbeat sparkle of human spirit. His research interests moved across diverse fields and topics, including Japanese corporate organization, labor markets, banks, governments, education, Asian urban clusters, and the impact of economic growth on socio-cultural change.
Tom married Shelagh Hickey Covington in 1995, 48 years after first meeting her in high school. Tom and Shelagh were avid travelers, often taking more than two overseas trips a year accompanied by their many dear friends. Tom was a lifelong gardner who created two beautiful gardens in San Francisco and Sonoma County. In retirement, Tom became an accomplished and prolific painter, specializing in botanical subjects with near photographic realism. He was a lifelong tennis player and played tennis the day before he entered the hospital. He was a loving father and grandfather and enjoyed nothing more than long dinners and debates with family members.
Tom's philanthropy was done quietly and broadly. In addition to helping large national and international organizations, Tom gave his time and money to a wide variety of small grassroots groups that he believed could make the world a better place.
Tom is survived by his wife Shelagh, his children Ginger, Katie, Duke, Brooks, Alison, and Michael, his stepchildren Karen, Jean, and Sarah, 19 grandchildren, his brother Karl and sister-in-law Carolyn, and his sister Ann. He is predeceased by his son Christopher.
The family is planning a private celebration of Tom's life.
Donations in Tom's honor may be made to:
The Solid Start Program
San Francisco General Hospital Foundation
1001 Potrero Avenue
San Francisco, CA 94110

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Apr. 8, 2022.

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Camilla Seth

July 3, 2025

Dearest Rohlen family - I am so sad to learn of Tom´s passing. He was a very important person to me at a critical time in my life. I was an undergraduate Senior at Stanford when I moved into his family home as a student - renting a very small room on the first floor. I had no on-campus housing that year and was sad about living "alone". But I quickly realized my good fortune and delighted in every single moment I spent with Tom. We discovered we had gone to rival high schools in neighboring towns (separated by decades) and both had a deep interest in gardening, Asia, traveling, and studying foreign lands and cultures. Most importantly I felt seen and embraced by Tom. I was young and uncertain about finding my way in life and Tom so gently listened and guided and dropped his pearls of accumulated wisdom and warmth. So many things he said have stayed with me for decades. He had a rare and beautiful "vibe" - people would say in the parlance of today! He was active and disciplined and so accomplished - but my memory of him is as gentle and open and smiling and warm and wise. I loved him very much and felt so very lucky to have been brought into his world.

My condolences to Tom´s kids, to Shelagh and all your families.

Doris Bargen

December 23, 2024

To Tom's family, I was there as an instructor of the Stanford Japan Center in Kyoto, in its very first semester, when the Berlin Wall fell, and the then Crown Prince opened the Center, now known as the Kyoto Center for Japanese Studies. Before the first day of classes, I approached Tom quietly with my anxiety about teaching the Tale of Genji for the first time. I will never forget his instant understanding of that anxiety, as he took me out for lunch and gave me some advice, which I have never forgotten. "Don't tell the students what you think; ask what they are thinking, one by one -- and take it from there." His advice relieved me of that anxiety and made teaching a joy ever since. What a wonderful person. My condolences, belatedly, Doris Bargen

Kangmin

May 23, 2024

You are the most brilliant star that has been guiding me. Kangmin

Tim and Sally White

April 2, 2023

We miss you terribly. We are reminded of you daily, as we walk by your vivid water colors hanging on our walls. Much love, Tim & Sally-----

Kangmin Zeng

January 23, 2023

I was very saddened and shocked on learning that Professor Thomas Rohlen passed away. He had been my best teacher, mentor and advisor, but also my best friend. My mind and memory jogged back in time to my study at Stanford University. Professor Rohlen artfully guided me through the many phases of my academic life. "Every step is painful," He metaphorizes for me, "and you have many steps ahead. You may have to continue your search for the answer in your lifetime." Professor´s words have been my cynosure for both my academic pursuit and my own career and life.

Professor Thomas Rohlen will always be remembered and missed with everlasting love and gratitude from the bottom of my heart.
I pray with love and condolence for the entire Rohlen family.

David and Alix Earle

May 11, 2022

Dear Shelagh, Were saddened to learn of Tom's death, and we're thinking of you and of the happiness you and Tom shared.
with all our love, David & Alix Earle

Charles Rowland

April 16, 2022

Tom made everyone he knew happier, more appreciative, and smarter; he was a truly gracious and very special man. Sarah and I are blessed to have known him, as are all who knew him. Our love and condolences to Shelagh and all Tom's family. Charles and Sarah Rowland.

Francisco O. Ramirez

April 11, 2022

Tom was a very good colleague in the Graduate School of Education at Stanford. I enjoyed his company and his stories about Japan. He was realistic and yet optimistic about the world and the complexity of problems that needed to be addressed. He will be missed,

Tony Molatore

April 11, 2022

I knew him as an artist, and loved working with him over the past several years. My sympathy to his family. I will miss his kind spirit.

The Manakos

April 8, 2022

Sending love and condolences to the entire Rohlen crew.

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