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Camilla Seth
July 3, 2025
Dearest Rohlen family - I am so sad to learn of Tom´s passing. He was a very important person to me at a critical time in my life. I was an undergraduate Senior at Stanford when I moved into his family home as a student - renting a very small room on the first floor. I had no on-campus housing that year and was sad about living "alone". But I quickly realized my good fortune and delighted in every single moment I spent with Tom. We discovered we had gone to rival high schools in neighboring towns (separated by decades) and both had a deep interest in gardening, Asia, traveling, and studying foreign lands and cultures. Most importantly I felt seen and embraced by Tom. I was young and uncertain about finding my way in life and Tom so gently listened and guided and dropped his pearls of accumulated wisdom and warmth. So many things he said have stayed with me for decades. He had a rare and beautiful "vibe" - people would say in the parlance of today! He was active and disciplined and so accomplished - but my memory of him is as gentle and open and smiling and warm and wise. I loved him very much and felt so very lucky to have been brought into his world.
My condolences to Tom´s kids, to Shelagh and all your families.
Doris Bargen
December 23, 2024
To Tom's family, I was there as an instructor of the Stanford Japan Center in Kyoto, in its very first semester, when the Berlin Wall fell, and the then Crown Prince opened the Center, now known as the Kyoto Center for Japanese Studies. Before the first day of classes, I approached Tom quietly with my anxiety about teaching the Tale of Genji for the first time. I will never forget his instant understanding of that anxiety, as he took me out for lunch and gave me some advice, which I have never forgotten. "Don't tell the students what you think; ask what they are thinking, one by one -- and take it from there." His advice relieved me of that anxiety and made teaching a joy ever since. What a wonderful person. My condolences, belatedly, Doris Bargen
Kangmin
May 23, 2024
You are the most brilliant star that has been guiding me. Kangmin
Tim and Sally White
April 2, 2023
We miss you terribly. We are reminded of you daily, as we walk by your vivid water colors hanging on our walls. Much love, Tim & Sally-----
Kangmin Zeng
January 23, 2023
I was very saddened and shocked on learning that Professor Thomas Rohlen passed away. He had been my best teacher, mentor and advisor, but also my best friend. My mind and memory jogged back in time to my study at Stanford University. Professor Rohlen artfully guided me through the many phases of my academic life. "Every step is painful," He metaphorizes for me, "and you have many steps ahead. You may have to continue your search for the answer in your lifetime." Professor´s words have been my cynosure for both my academic pursuit and my own career and life.
Professor Thomas Rohlen will always be remembered and missed with everlasting love and gratitude from the bottom of my heart.
I pray with love and condolence for the entire Rohlen family.
David and Alix Earle
May 11, 2022
Dear Shelagh, Were saddened to learn of Tom's death, and we're thinking of you and of the happiness you and Tom shared.
with all our love, David & Alix Earle
Charles Rowland
April 16, 2022
Tom made everyone he knew happier, more appreciative, and smarter; he was a truly gracious and very special man. Sarah and I are blessed to have known him, as are all who knew him. Our love and condolences to Shelagh and all Tom's family. Charles and Sarah Rowland.
Francisco O. Ramirez
April 11, 2022
Tom was a very good colleague in the Graduate School of Education at Stanford. I enjoyed his company and his stories about Japan. He was realistic and yet optimistic about the world and the complexity of problems that needed to be addressed. He will be missed,
Tony Molatore
April 11, 2022
I knew him as an artist, and loved working with him over the past several years. My sympathy to his family. I will miss his kind spirit.
The Manakos
April 8, 2022
Sending love and condolences to the entire Rohlen crew.
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