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Todd Matthew Almy

1963 - 2005

BORN

1963

DIED

2005

Todd Almy Obituary

Todd Matthew Almy, 41, beloved and cherished son, husband, father, and brother, passed away suddenly on Nov. 25, 2005 after a brief illness. In his travels, Todd touched the lives of many people with his passion and humor. He had a passion for living; with passionate love, passionate opinions, and a passion for the challenge of the "game" and the ultimate conquest, with the ability to laugh at it all. This was the essence of Todd. He leaves behind family and friends who will miss him dearly.

Todd is survived by his wife Brandy, daughters, Cassidy and Chelsea; parents Ron and Dorothy Almy; sister Tracey Charchan and husband Dennis, brother, Ronald Almy and wife Lori and sister Cynthia Almy. He is also survived by his grandmother Mildred Butch, aunts, uncles, and several nieces and nephews. Todd also had many friends and extended family who will also feel the loss. Todd was preceded in death by his grandmother, Emily Almy, grandfather, Peter B. Butch and uncle Leonard Almy. Funeral services will be held 11 a.m. Wednesday from the Chapel of Hardage-Giddens Funeral Home, 4115 Hendricks Avenue, with Rev. Dennis Bratton, of Christ Church officiating. Interment will follow in Oaklawn Cemetery. The family will receive friends at the funeral home on Tuesday evening from 6-8 p.m.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Nov. 29, 2005.

Memories and Condolences
for Todd Almy

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58 Entries

Richard Good

June 14, 2016

To Almy Family: So sorry to learn of your loss. I will always remember Todd with fond memories he always made those around him laugh even at a young age. A significant loss to all that knew him.

Brandy Almy

May 10, 2010

Happy 8th Anniversary!! We still miss you everyday!!

All My Love!!

B

Cynthia Ragusa

May 12, 2009

Todd,
Once again you appear out of nowhere and fill the day with happiness. I don't know if I forgot that today is your anniversary,or if I was just so excited about Ol' Pork coming home. But the irony is that today marks both of these events! You would be so proud of the beautiful ladies of your life. Mom and Dad went to see you last weekend. They also saw Brandy, Cassidy and Chelsea. Mom says that your three ladies all shine in thier own way. She said that Cassidy is a beautiful 15 year old who is looking forward to getting her learner's permit so she can drive your car. And Chelsea is all woman. Who, by the way put on a clothing fashion show for her and Dad. Mom said she is going to be quite the handful.
I went to pick up the 57 on the tenth,
your Anniversary!! It is as close to being showroom restored as possible. She sounds great, looks great and rides great. It makes me think back in time,
not only to the year 1957, but to the times when you rode her. I smiled and I cried. I am going to show her at vintage Car and Bike rallies, in your memory. I know that Ol' Pork will win many trophies. They will be a small part of your legacy. You are missed every day by all of us. I love you and I am proud to have a peice of your memory sitting in the garage. You are awesome!

Brandy Almy

May 10, 2009

Happy Anniversary!!

Brandy Almy

November 28, 2007

I don't know why I'm writing. I couldn't do it on the 25th and I don't know why I am now..
I really just don't know what to say. For some reason I look at this as a way to get out what I think and feel. Here's what I think and feel.
I am good. Your girls are UNBELIEVEABLE... You wouldn't even know what to do with Cassidy. She'13... She's beautiful and wonderful and a total 13 year old. Everything you were scared of. And Chelsea... Don't even get me started.. I tell your parents all the time.. Don't worry. You aren't gone. You are right here with me everyday as a 4 year old girl.. Chelsea is Perfect....
I miss you all the time. I have somehow actually found a place that I am happy. I have the tremendous love and support of family and friends. and really, what else do we have.. I have surrounded myself with people that love us and that we love.. We are good. We are really good.. We talk about you all the time.. We laugh about you..We all miss you.. I sometimes wish that you would come and tell me that it's ok.. The past two years.. It's good.. You are good... i feel like I need that from you...

That's what I feel today... Ask me tomorrow..
I know that life has a way of taking over and I know that life brings to you everything that you were supposed to have. And I know that life and God and THOSE watching over us take care of us.. And as Chelsea prayes every night to you, we hope you are doing the same.

All Our Love,
the girls

lee stockton

November 27, 2007

wow, i just found out today,my mom called me when she saw your 2 year memorial tribute ,from your daughters.you are such a great person, a true friend ,a loyal man, and such a jokester.i have always hoped you were happy through the years i am so happy that you found a wonderful wife and had 2 beautiful daughters ,i always knew you would be the best dad ever. you are always in my thoughts and prayers .
your friend always ...
lee

Bill Cronin

November 25, 2007

Todd,

It's been 2 years now...the missing you feels alot longer though.

Thanksgiving has taken on a whole new meaning for us.

You have taught us all about joy and grace.

I can't count the number of times that I have been in a tough situation and thought to myself "what would Todd do?" (WWTD?)

As our kids grow and we become more experienced in parenting, your gift of patience and humility has been used over and over.

And mostly, as I write this note to you, I know it is also for our friends and families....we have all learned to treat our relationships with care and compassion and we have learned just how precious life really is.

We are so lucky to have you in our lives and hearts. Thanks Todd.

We really miss you buddy.

Love,
Bill, Anne, Billy, & Tara Cronin

Cynthia Ragusa

November 23, 2007

Todd,
I tried a year ago to sign this book. I guess after it was reviewed it was too much for some people to handle. But then I would not be true to form if what I wrote wasn't too much for a lot of people. That is why I am me!!
If I could I would write what you said to Tracey that day in the "Lone Star" when we came together as a family. Oh how you made us laugh, and how mad she got at what you said, which only made us laugh that much harder.
You made so many people laugh; you made so many people happy!
Yesterday, Isaac and I went to the Homeless shelter here in El Paso and gave away a car full of warm clothes and shoes and coats to those in need.
Then we went to the center where they were feeding those same unfortunate people and we gave three hours to "help". How small we felt watching the faces of the children who were grateful for what we take for granted every day. How very thankful we were because it humbled us as we left with full hearts and they left with full stomachs. Thier arms full of gifts, our hearts full of the gift of your love.
We walked out hand in hand, and I looked up to you and thanked you. I hope you heard me then and now. I talk to you often. I have your picture that Mom had made. When I am troubled I come to you. I swear I hear your answers.
I miss you, I wish that I called you more, I wish that I came to visit you more, I wish that we talked about the memories that I hold so dear now.
Like the time that Robin made you and I eat worms so that we would be "tough for the world". Or the time that we were camping and Robin or Chad accidentally put a fish hook in your back. Dad tried forever to back it out. Till he and Mom took you to town where they were having a Lumber Man's festival. They found the Doctor, who laughed at Dad and cut the hook end off and pulled it out of your back.
Do you remember the time that we were all camping and someone (Ron?) put a bull frog in Uncle Len's drink? It got as drunk as he was. Every time Len would go to take a drink the frog would
try to leap from the cup and it made the funniest sound. Every one laughed so hard.
I remember taking you to the game room in Standish. The two of us playing air hockey for hours. Mom would get so mad that I took you there. I always took you anyway.
I tell the story of you "greeting"
the Jehovah's at the door in your Speedo underwear doing the Richard Pryor skit about Jesus. You shocked those women so bad they never came back..Mom sat at the kitchen counter and laughed till she had tears in her eyes.
I used to love to watch you and the guys play music in the recreation room, how talented you were. How you loved to show off for Mom and Dad.
That first time that you played the twelve string for Mom, she was so still and so quiet. The look on her face is burned in my memory of you.
I am sure there are those who won't believe this, but I changed my life the day you left us. I am no longer centered on what things happened to me in the past. Now I give of myself each chance that I get. I have been burned by people and I have been blessed by others.
I do not worry about those who harm me. I am eternally grateful that I have touched others.
You have done as much for the people who knew you in life, as you do now for the people who remember you after your death.
I know that you look down and see that John is there for Mom and Dad. He calls them every week and he ALWAYS makes sure that they get to talk to you on the "important" days. He talks to them on others, some how he always knows when they need to hear from You!!
I miss when we were kids and we both had long hair, those times when Tracey would baby sit us. We would do some thing to make her mad and then you would get me started chanting "Queenie", and we would laugh because it made her so mad. She still hates that name.
How many hours did we "stand on our heads" leaned on the wall in the recreation room practicing for the circus we were going to give to all the adults on the street. We thought we were HUGE..and there were only ten adults to show off to. Remember our circus?
I can see us running up the hill to Gram's for home made french fries or "dog turd" doughnuts.
Or waiting for Grandpa to finish eating his steak so you and I could chew on the meat around the bone..I still do that!!
Todd..the twenty fifth is in two days, which will make two years. It seems like an eternity since my cell phone rang and I saw your name appear and heard your voice say "What cha doin?" John does that now for Mom.
I wish I had just one more time to tell you that you were the magic that lit up this family. Even today you are the warmth that holds us together.
I love you and I miss you. There isn't a day that passes that I don't see something or hear a song that makes me stop and look to the sky and think of you and how you shine.
Till the day we meet on the bridge..Or till the day after never
You are always on my mind.
Your sister
Your friend
Cindy

Brandy Almy

May 9, 2007

Well, today is May 10, 2007. 5 years ago today!!
I still miss you everyday. I think of you everyday.

I love you!!

B

Isaac Ragusa

January 10, 2007

To the Almy Family, I am sorry for the loss of Todd. I pray that he watches over Cindy and I and he guides us in the right direction through our life together.
Sergeant Major, U.S. Army

Tracey Charchan

January 10, 2007

A Yellow Garden

I didn’t really understand the pleasures of gardening until the year 2000, my 46th year. My husband and I found a 10-acre parcel of land in Lapeer County in 1998 and built a new home after our children had both left the nest. For the first time in my life, I felt inspired to garden. Perhaps it was because I now had more free time to cultivate my interests, and a need to do things that nurtured my soul.

I threw myself into it. The property was raw, and I lacked the necessary tools and experience. Nonetheless, I forged ahead with sheer determination and a strong back. I spent days digging or moving earth and rock, for I possessed only a wheelbarrow and shovel and some hand tools. I bought topsoil from the wrong vendors, because I naively believed the sellers when they stated, “Oh yeah, it’s great garden soil.” I took advice sometimes from the wrong “professional”, and lost money and plant materials in the process. I suffered the scourge of poison ivy infestation with repeated serious exposures until I nearly rid the property of it.

But I was hooked, and fashioned myself as some kind of a gardener. At the end of a gardening day, if I needed Motrin for my aching muscles, that was a good day, a good day indeed. I became a certified master gardener, and at that time I learned that I really didn’t know much, but the classes only served to inspire me more.

Gardening has met many needs for me. It clears my mind and sheds work stress. It connects me with nature by the smell of the earth and sweet flowers, the visions of color, the light play as the sun moves over and around me during the day, the sound of the wind and the birds and the squirrels as they go about their business. It restores me. . It makes me “connect” with myself. It makes me realize that I am a creative being after all. And it brings me closer to God.

But this season, I hope that it can help heal me. For the day after Thanksgiving 2005 my youngest brother Todd was suddenly taken from us. It shouldn’t have happened; he was only 41 years of age, but it cannot be changed; he is gone. And I want him back. Simple as that. I want him back.

I was in a slump last summer. I didn’t have the enthusiasm for gardening that I usually have. Sure, I took care of the basics; the weeding, deadheading, watering. But I didn’t spend much time in the garden. I wanted to plant a garden in memory of Todd, but I just didn’t have it in me. But this season, I think I am ready. I am planning a garden. A yellow garden.

Todd’s favorite color was yellow. He asked his new bride to wear a yellow dress on their wedding day and to carry yellow flowers. He asked me about yellow flowers for his deck. Three years later he received lots of yellow flowers, only they were covering the earth that he was laid to rest in. Yellow flowers have now become very significant to his family. At the gravesite, we walked around the sacred ground and plucked some yellow flowers from the arrangements to fashion a bouquet to hold while we said goodbye.

So this season I am hoping that my gardening will fulfill another purpose in my life, to help me to heal, to repair the hole in my heart, and with God’s mercy and sunshine, to plug the gap in my soul. And yes, it will be yellow. I am looking through my gardening books and catalogues now to plan it. I shall (of course) plant some black-eyed susans, some Stella d’Oro daylilies, some marigolds, some yellow pansies, perhaps some tulips. And of course I will mix in some contrasting colors and textures for interest. I have a memory stone to place in the garden, and it reads, “If tears could build a stairway, and memories a lane, I’d walk right up to heaven, and bring you home again.” I’m ready now to get my hands back into the soil, to enjoy the sights and sounds of gardening. And now when people ask me why I am so passionate about my gardens, instead of responding, “I enjoy it.”, I’m going to reply, “…………..it heals me.”

Tracey Charchan

January 2, 2007

Tribute to My Brother
Todd Matthew Almy
December 5, 2006
By Tracey Charchan

Multiple trauma with closed head injury. For those of us who work in the health care field, it is a diagnosis, a description of a life-altering event for an unfortunate person who now needs our skills and services.

Massive facial fractures, multiple long bone fractures, multiple pelvic fractures, complete destruction of the bones of the left foot, blunt force trauma to the head with intracerebral bleed and contusion, blunt force trauma to the abdomen with massive internal hemorrhage from complete splenic avulsion, chest contusions, respiratory failure.

Prognosis: grim. The trauma team prepared the family for the worst, as his chance for survival was 10% or less.

They could have declared it over right then, but they didn’t. They RESCUED him. Under the leadership and skills of a challenged trauma surgeon, and with the help of an expert trauma team and God’s grace, he was saved.

And so we journeyed on the emotional rollercoaster that every trauma family rides.
Denial, grief, hope, worry, bargaining, despair, hope, anger, frustration, disappointment, hope, fear, pain, blame, prayer, exhaustion, desperation, hope, sadness, tears, anxiety, hope, confusion, relief, hope……..hope………..hope…….hope.

So while we journeyed with Todd, his spirit inspired and guided us. He emerged from his coma in post traumatic amnesia; a typical Ranchos 4.
Amazingly, with months of therapy and years of determined self-recovery, he overcame the injury and changed his life and the lives of those who shared his life.

He was truly a triumphant spirit.
He didn’t place blame; he forgave the inexperienced teen who caused the accident. He didn’t lament his injuries or defecits. He made adjustments. He didn’t feel sorry for himself. He lived his life a better way. He wasn’t bitter, angry, or depressed. He continued to live. He refused to allow his life to become a medical document. Yes, much to the dismay of his sister the nurse, he rarely saw a doctor. He lived in pain, but he didn’t speak of it. He rose above it all and for the remaining 10 years of his life he delivered his messages to us:

It’s OK to die
Be happy
Family is what’s important
Live in the moment and rejoice in it
I love you
It’s OK, it’s all OK

And so his triumphant spirit enriched our lives. And so I, the nurse, understand, really understand what our families are going through when I hear the diagnosis, multiple trauma with traumatic brain injury. I become emotional when we celebrate the individual stories at the triumphant spirit ceremony during National Rehabilitation Week.

There is symbolism in the artwork chosen by my parents. Dad picked the pathway, symbolizing life’s journey. Note the sunlight streaming through the trees. Mom picked the dandelion with butterfly. As a child, he picked them for her. Several months before he died, he became enamored with butterflies, the symbol for new life and rebirth.

Our family wanted to provide a quiet place for our rehab families. A place to sit and reflect. A place to hope. A place to silently pray. And we wanted the triumphant spirit that was Todd’s life to embrace them. We hope that it does.

Dorothy Almy

January 2, 2007

A Mother’s Lament
By Dorothy Almy
December 5, 2006

The memories of Todd’s auto accident.
The extensive physical trauma.
The head injury.
Weeks in critical care.
Months in rehabilitation and 10 years later his death
Are so very painful, at times unbearable…………..
His family has lived them over and over again.

However, we need to look at June 19, 1996,
His successful rehabilitation
and the following 10 years from a different perspective.

Todd lived, really lived, every day from that day forward.

In all of us there is a will, a need to survive; to thrive;
To endure what life has in store for us……….
In some this will is stronger.

This will, this essence, this spirit was Todd…………..
He challenged the world and life with a smile, a grin,
And often an irreverent comment.

He was truly a triumphant spirit.

The

Tracey Charchan

January 2, 2007

Dedication Ceremony
of the
Rehabilitation Quiet Corner
December 5, 2006

In Memory of
Todd Matthew Almy
“A Triumphant Spirit”

Welcome & Introductions Marla Eckel

Prayer Sister Reparata

“The Dash” Video

Family Remarks Dorothy Almy
Tracey Charchan

“The Dash” Song

A Word of Gratitude Rick Warmbold
President
The Hurley Foundation

Announcement of Scholarship Dorothy Almy

Depart to 6 East Rehabilitation All

Celebration and Blessing Sister Reparata

Closing Marla Eckel

Tracey Charchan

January 2, 2007

Hurley Rehabilitation Services
Invites you to join us
as we dedicate
our new
“Quiet Corner”
donated in loving memory
of
Todd Almy,
Brother of Tracey Charchan, 6E Nurse Manager

Tuesday, December 5th
2:30 p.m.
Hurley Medical Center Chapel

Donna Bailey

August 10, 2006

To Todd's family:

I just found out about Todd today. I am so sorry for your loss. I knew Todd when he and the Senske brothers rented an apartment on Timuquana in Jacksonville on the river. I was dating Gene and spent a lot of time at their apartment. Gene worked nights at a night club and Todd always (babysat) me until Gene got off work. He always treated me like a little sister. Once I spent a week with him (as friends)when he just moved to Orlando and didn't really know anyone yet. He was so much fun. I wish I could tell him thanks! I always knew Todd would find true love and happiness and as I read this guest book I see that I was right. Brandy thank you for making Todd a husband and a dad before he was called home. I am glad he had the chance to experience fatherhood. I wish I could have seen him with his family. I know he was a great father and husband. He was such a great guy!

Brandy Almy

May 10, 2006

May 10, 2006

Today is our anniversary. Four years. I miss you so much that I don't even have the words to put down. I feel so many things right now. I celebrate us and our life. I celebrate my best friend. I celebrate our love. I miss all of that just as much as I celebrate it. I wonder what we would have done for our anniversary. Vegas? Probably. We loved Vegas baby.

Chelsea and I are well, but, wish you were with us everyday. You wouldn't believe her. She is amazing. Just like you..She is the only thing that is getting me through this. She motivates me because I know that you are depending on me to take care of her. And I promise I will.

Happy Anniversay Baby!! See you at lunch.

Always....Always....Always...

B

Brandy Almy

January 26, 2006

Todd,

I just have to tell you how much I miss you and love you. Your girls too.

We're working hard at this. Ironically, now is when we need you the most.

I'm making so many tough decisions and you are with me on every one.

I wish you were here..

Always,

B

Brandy Almy

December 25, 2005

Husband,

Well, it's been a month now and it's Christmas Day. Bittersweet!! Chelsea LOVES her Jeep. She was riding it in the rain this morning at 6 am. Cassidy spent some time with us too. It's was very nice.

Baby, I miss you so much. My world is upside down. I am trying so hard. Days like today, I think I'll never make it. It's a constant struggle. I wish you were here. I think about you every second of every day. I remember it all.

We watched the Christmas video from last year. Remember that? Getting up at 5am? You looked so enthusiastic!! Chelsea heard your voice and lit up..Bucky..

I know that you are having the biggest Christmas celebration ever and having the time of your life. Just know that you are so loved and missed by all of your friends and family and we can't wait to see you again.

Always,

B

Ronald Almy

December 24, 2005

My Brother, My Friend, My Bro

Words can never express how much you are missed and loved. I can only ponder the good times we shared and had over such a short time. Your presence will be with me in my heart and mind forever. Our paths in life were different yet similar you as business man and me as a soldier. The significant event on 19 June 1996 changed your life forever and made you a soldier in my eyes. You were more of a soldier than any I have served with and more than I will ever be. For this reason I am honored to dedicate this to you.

THE FINAL INSPECTION

The soldier stood and faced god, which must always come to pass. He hoped his shoes were shining, just as brightly as his brass.

“Step forward now, you soldier, how shall I deal with you? Have you always turned the other cheek? To my church have you been true?”

The soldier squared his shoulders and said “No, Lord, I guess I ain’t. Because those of us who carry guns can’t always be a saint. I’ve had to work most Sunday’s, and at times my talk was tough, and sometimes I’ve been violent because the world is awfully rough. But I never took a penny that wasn’t mine to keep….. Though I worked a lot of overtime when the bills got too steep.

I never passed a cry for help, though at times I shook with fear. And sometimes, God, forgive me, I’ve wept unmanly tears. I know I don’t deserve a place among the people here. They never wanted me around except to calm their fears. If you’ve a place for me here, Lord, it needn’t be so grand. I never expected or had too much, but if you don’t, I’ll understand.”

There was a silence all around the throne, where the saints had often trod, as the soldier waited quietly for the judgment of his God.

“Step forward now, you soldier, you’ve borne your burdens well. Walk peacefully on Heaven’s street; you’ve done your time in hell.”

I Love You Brother

Merry Christmas

Master Sergeant

Ronald Almy (brother)

Jennifer Charchan

December 23, 2005

Todd,

I just wanted to thank you once again for helping me find my way, find faith, find God. That is quite possibly one of the greatest gifts that anyone has ever given to me. I think about you every day, and I laugh about the crazy things that you did and said. Remember the night before Shawn's wedding, when you came out of the guest bedroom wearing your boxer shorts, the cumberbund, and I believe the shirt and tie from your tux and modeled for us! Classic!

Oh, and by the way, my first day back to work after the funeral, when the name Todd Matthew oddly caught my eye on a tube (I say oddly because I NEVER notice the names on specimens), I knew that that was your way of telling me that you were doing okay and that although your physical self is no longer with us, you are still walking beside all of us, every step of the way.

Until we meet again....

Jen

P.S. Merry Christmas! Don't forget to tell Him happy birthday!

Brandy Almy

December 20, 2005

Happy Birthday Baby!!

I miss you terribly and love you deeply.

B

Denny Charchan (Brother-in-law)

December 16, 2005

Todd:

Many years ago I had the good fortune to meet your sister Tracey. She later blessed me by saying she would marry me. From the first time I met you I was accepted by you as your brother, not your brother-in-law. Over the years we have had many conversations, some in person and some were over the phone. We were always telling each other stories and exchanging knowledge. I was the older but you were the wiser. I will never forget that in my greatest time of need you were there for me. One time I will always remember is when Tracey was in the hospital, I called you on the phone and I was having a very hard time talking, you offered to drop everything to be with me. You made me realize what is important and what isn't important (details, details). I should have been the person teaching you but instead I learned from you. Thank you Todd for showing me what matters in life. I hope that I can live up to the standards you have shown me. You are my brother and I will never forget you. Thanks friend.

Denny

Jennifer Harris

December 16, 2005

Dear Brandy,

I only found out today about Todd. I am so very sorry for your loss. Please know that I am thinking of you and the girls and I will keep you in my prayers.

~ Jennifer Harris (AmSouth Bank)

Scottie Manson

December 11, 2005

My deepest regrets go out to Todds famiy and friends . As a friend of Todds I will miss him dearly , his ability to embrace life his family and everyone around him will be dearly missed.

Sharky Dow

December 9, 2005

Gob Bless Brandy, Cassidy, Chelsea, Todd's family, and all of Todd's friends.

I met Todd in 1994. My first impression was that he was smart, personable, friendly, a wise guy & cool character...always cracking jokes or making a comment about something. He always greeted me with a smile, a "How you doing man", and a handshake...then the cell phone would ring and he had a deal going.

In Sept. 2003 I needed a new truck to go up to NY to donate my liver to save my dad who was very sick. I had been talking to Todd about it for a few weeks and he said to call when I was ready to get it. I picked out my truck and called Todd on a Friday afternoon. He informed me that Brandy had just returned from the hospital after giving birth to Chelsae a day or two earlier. I told Todd congrats on the new family member & that it can wait...we'll do it another time. He wouldn't take no for an answer and wanted to meet at the dealership at 10am on Saturday morning. We did and he got me my truck through one of his friends dirt cheap. HOW GREAT IS THAT? On the way out he tells me about a birthday party one of our other friends is having for one of their children and tells me I need to go. THAT IS AWESOME!!! But you know what?..that is just how Todd was. What more can I say? I have been telling that story for over two years. There are many great Todd stories and we will share them over the years.

Todd, I will miss seeing you as I drop by the house to tell you and Brandy unannounced about a party, your smile, & your wise guy zinger comments. Our party's won't be the same without you. You are probably making deals up there in Heaven, blasting Ozzie & having an awesome time. I feel that I am a better person to have known you.

Sharky

Bonnie Almy/Williamson

December 8, 2005

December 8, 2005 Upon Dort telling me of this website, I had to visit immediately. I had not seen Todd in over 30 years?! My memories of Todd are in Dort's rec room with the old console stereo, his guitar, Aerosmith, or ZZ Top playing. He was a teenager who was too smart for his age. By smart, I mean very intelligent, and he let you know it! Cocky, but always with reason. You couldn't NOT like Todd. I always remember Todd saying he would NEVER marry and NEVER have kids. Well, I guess he surprised himself with the wealth of family. He was the baby of his family, and I'm quite sure that he learned enough from "The wise woman", (Dort), and life to pass things on to others. And they will pass these things on to others, and so on, and so on. He will always be with us in that way. To his wife and two beautiful girls, Dort, Ron, Ron Jr., Tracey, Cindy, and all the extended family; I've kept you all in my prayers thru this. My love and strength to you all.BonnieTODD ALWAYS GRABBED THE TIGER BY THE TAIL AND TOOK IT FOR A RIDE. Bonnie Almy/Williamson (Saginaw, MI) [email protected]

Bon Almy/Williamson (Saginaw, MI) [email protected]

Ann Blum

December 7, 2005

To Brandy, We are very sorry to hear of your loss. Although we never met him,from reading the guest book, it sounds like he was a great guy! Praying for you at this time.. Troy, Ann, Brad, and Taylor Blum

Robin Tremble

December 5, 2005

The Apple of Her Eye

In the wake of gentle leaf play

the early autumn of his life

the apple of her eye

not fallen far at all

from that Maternal Giving Tree

was swept away in blusters

like the passing of a dream

she couldn’t even see

In the whispers of the north winds

the early winter of her life

the apple of her eye

had fallen one last time

like snowflakes grow to mountains

and slowly melt away

this too, she hoped and prayed

would pass away one day

In the silence of ice melting

the early springtime of their lives

the apples of his eye

not fallen far at all

from that Paternal Giving Tree

gave her peace and solace

a little piece of him behind

in the two birds he set free

In the whispers of the north winds

the early winter of her life

the apple of her eye

had fallen one last time…

--- End Poem---

Todd's mother, my dear, dear friend - Aunt Dorothy called me the very day she returned home from saying goodbye to the apple of her eye - our Todd.

We each shared a favorite story or two about him and grieved together briefly. There was something missing in this woman I have known all of my life... I knew what it was. And just before we got off the phone, I asked if there was anything (not imagining there could be) that I could do for her. And my dear, dear friend - Aunt Dorothy said, "Write a poem for me." She never even said what she wanted me to write about. She just wanted a poem.

After I got off the phone, with her tears still in my eyes I recapped, in prose, what I heard her say... and that is what you just read. I Love You Aunt Dorothy, I Love You so much.

Ray & Carin(Fletcher) Reno

December 5, 2005

We're so sorry to hear of your loss. I knew Todd in High School at SSC. Ray went to school with Cindy. We will keep your family in our prayers.

Jayne Tremble

December 5, 2005

Dear Brandy, Aunt Dorothy, Uncle Ron and Family:

My deepest condolences to all of Todd’s family and friends.

I did not have the opportunity to meet Todd during the time I have been married to Robin. As I read through the pages of thoughts and memories, written by those who knew and loved him, I can see he was a man of purpose; a man of conviction; a man of his word and a joy to all who knew him. I am sorry I never had the chance to enjoy the light he brought into the lives of those around him.

Mrs. Robin Tremble

Wayne Young

December 4, 2005

To Brandy,Cassidy,Chelsea,Aunt Dorthy,Uncle Ron,Tracey,Ron and Cindy,My deepest sympathy and love goes out to all of you during this time of sorrow. Though I only met Todd twice since I married Desiree', I feel as though I knew him well from all the family stories I have heard over the past 13 years. It was a privledge to know him, if only for a short time. Todd, Thanks for the laughs man! God Bless!

GAIL DODD

December 3, 2005

Brandy & Chelsa, Debbie,, You are all in my prayers, I know how you feel and I am very sorry I did not know about Todd until after the funeral. Please just remember to tell the girls everyday that their daddy loves them. He was a very important part of them and will always be. If you need anything give me a call.

Love Aunt Gail, Jennifer and Kristie.

Tracey Charchan (sister)

December 3, 2005

Eulogy For Todd Matthew Almy

When Ron and Dorothy Almy brought Todd Matthew Almy home on Christmas Eve, 1963, the infant that joined the family was the gift. Everyone knew he was special. From that day on, Todd would continuously touch the lives of all those who knew him for what we all believe to be just half of the years we wished he could have spent with us.

I stand before you today to represent a family in profound grief, a family in shock over the loss of someone so young, so passionate, so selfless, and so universally loved. I also stand here to lay tribute to just how special Todd was, and to explain why the loss of one man could affect so many with such magnitude.

What was the essence of Todd? Let us not try to sanctify the memory of our loss by saying that the infant I mentioned before continued to be an angel in all ways, for that would truly miss the very essence of our Todd. He could be mischievous, oh yes. Some might even say he could be downright bad. But it seemed that when he was playing the role of the trouble-maker, it was only because he wanted to make sure we shared his passion for life. He somehow knew that his time here was going to be short, and he just wanted a “good ride.”

So how shall we remember him today? What would Todd want us to remember about him? The answer is simple, but had such a profound affect on all of us. Todd had a special gift; a gift that he shared with us every day, in every word, every action. That gift was love… a love for each of us and a love of life. Todd had the ability to be whatever you needed him to be, and always, unfailingly, proved to be both a caretaker and a center of strength for each of us. To his parents, he was a devoted and loving son. He showed his love to them by calling them often and spontaneously, whether day or night with his trademark greeting, “whattayadoin?” His brief calls always carried a message; he was thinking about you. The message was very clear, for he ended every phone call, every time, with the gift, “I love you.”

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Todd, to your brother and sisters, your gifts were laughter, joy, tears, and love. You were the most non-judgmental of us all. This is not to say that your basic principles were any different, you just loved us all for both our sameness and our differences. In reflection, we realize that you were trying to make us look at things through your eyes, because you knew the TRUTH. That maybe, just maybe, our superficial priorities and worries at this moment might not be all that important when compared to sharing our love with those around us. “Details, details”… this was the phrase that Todd coined to drive home the idea that our daily trials and tribulations are all really very trivial when compared to the grandness of life itself. His sister said it best; “he taught me not to live each day as if it were my first day, but to live each day like it was my last.”

To your friends and extended family you were their rock Todd; their security. Whatever anyone needed, you provided it. Whoever we needed you to be, you were that man. Those who really knew you loved you. You had an uncanny ability to make us laugh by pushing the envelope with a witty comment while still expressing a deeper concern. How could it be that a man could use a slanderous comment to show you that he loved you? Only you could do this Todd, and only you could make us wish for you to rib us again. Your friends know that you enriched their lives, that you set the bar, that we are better to have known you, and that you are irreplaceable.

Todd, to your beloved wife, Brandy, and your wonderful daughters, Cassidy and Chelsea, you were the center of their lives. You were Brandy’s soul mate, her best friend, her security, and her passion. She says that within five minutes of meeting you, she knew that you were the one- that you two were meant to be together. And even though you tried to be coy at the time, you knew it too. You had almost given up on the search when Brandy came into your life. She completed you… she needed you… and you needed her too Todd, for she filled your life with purpose and meaning.

We all know how proud you are of your beautiful daughters, Cassidy and Chelsea. Please understand that even though your time with them has been brief, your connection to them is forever woven into their hearts. They are truly your girls. We can all see how your passion for life fills their hearts too, and we are overjoyed to see it there. Your family promises you today that as they grow, we will be sure that they know their daddy as we have known you. We will try to pass on to them the gifts that you have given us.

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It is a tribute to Todd to say that despite his professional success, he grew to care nothing about personal gain. For him, it was attained only to provide security to his family. To look at him walking down the street, you would certainly never think that he was a successful businessman. What you saw was a man in a well-worn, probably torn, Iron Horse saloon shirt, cheap tennis shoes, and cut off jeans that probably were ventilated in unspeakable areas. Through this, Todd gave us yet another gift. The gift was a message telling us to just be true to yourself, you don’t have to impress anybody, it’s more important to show love.

Todd really should have been taken from us on June 19, 1996. We understand that we really shouldn’t have had him in our lives for the last nine years. The doctors said he had a 10% chance of survival after that terrible auto accident. They continued to be amazed at his survival and functional level, and when they asked him if he had any pain, Todd amazed them all when he said, “what’s that?” Many of us who saw what he went through and know how he was patched together with man-made materials and (using Todd’s words), “dead people’s stuff”. Though he would never admit it, we knew deep down that he lived with pain every day of his life. But Todd would not allow this tragedy to become the focus of his life, and he certainly didn’t let it get in his way. When Todd came back from the very edge of death nine years ago, he wanted us all to know that it’s ok, it’s all ok. Don’t fear death, because it doesn’t hurt to die.

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Todd, you were our security blanket. You gave us humor in a serious and scary world. You were the light of your parents’ life. You were the soul-mate and lover to your wife. You were her best friend. You were the best daddy in the world, just ask your precious daughters. You were a wise and loving brother. You were the brother he never had to a brother- in- law. You were a pinnacle of strength and knowledge for a nephew that idolized you and strove to be more like you. You were the best friend that anyone could ever have, even when you were frustrated with us. You were whatever we needed you to be. And we thank you for it all.

And we all knew Todd, that you were tired. Your body was weary from the injuries. And you deserve this sleep, this endless peace. You worked hard to bring us your gifts. And we are all grateful. And we know that you loved us. And we will always carry in our hearts the gift of your love that you gave us.

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Let us all Thank God for the small mercies that he has brought all of us, Todd’s friends and family, at this time. We thank God for taking Todd into heaven swiftly and without further pain… for bringing family together safely during this time of profound grief and loss… for nudging Todd to give us those final messages, those final gifts. More than anything Todd wanted us all to be happy, and he did his best to ensure that we were by reassuring us right up until he left that he loved us and that it is ok, it is all ok. Above all we want to thank God for giving us the gift of Todd Matthew Almy. We will miss him, and even though it will never be the same without him, we are all so very thankful that God has given us a chance to be part of the extraordinary life that Todd lived.

If the loss of Todd causes you to cry, remember that tears are just a part of the Lord’s shower of blessings that are intended to heal the earth. And if missing Todd causes you to feel sorrowful, remember that Todd would not want you to feel sorrow over his departure, because he is truly in a better and well-deserved place. For the last nine years, Todd’s lifework has been to teach us that our relationship with one another is what matters most. Even though he was taken from us well before we were ready to stop receiving his message… his work here is done… his purpose completed. Todd told those he loved “If I die tomorrow, I would die a happy man., “It’s been a blast.”… and if he were able to speak to us one more time today, I’m sure that his message would simply be…“It’s been a great ride.”

Todd and his girls!!

Brandy Almy

December 3, 2005

To all of our many family and friends,
How we so appreciate everyone's thoughts and prayers during this time.
Our lives are forever changed. I am so grateful for Todd and everything he gave to me and our girls. He was my best friend and I pray he will be there to guide us in our journey from here. I can't do this without him. I know that he will be behind me showing me the way. Everything he did, he did for us. I know in my heart that Todd was happy and that has given me strength. I'm thankful to have shared a life with him. I wouldn't change one day. He lived everyday. Everyone who truly knew Todd, loved Todd. He was Todd. Todd will live on in each of your stories of him. Please continue to tell them. I want his daughters to know everything about their Daddy (ok - maybe not EVERYTHING, but close).
To Todd's family, Thank you for him. What else can I say..
To Todd's friends, how he so enjoyed all of you. I hope that you learned from him as he learned from you.
To his daughters, you girls are his greatest legacy. He will forever live on in you. Your Daddy just wanted to make sure that you knew right from wrong and that all he did, he did for you.
While we don't know what our future holds, I beg each of you to treasure your loved ones, hug them everyday and tell them you love them.
To my dear husband, I only had you in my life for a short time, but you have so impacted me and all that I do. I promise you that I will do my best to raise your daughters with the values that you possessed. I will tell them everyday how much you loved them. You will always be in my heart.

Love,
B
randy Almy

John Giglio

December 2, 2005

Few are fortunate enough to have in a lifetime a "best freind", so many never have or are such to others. Todd, like any other person only had 1 best freind,(Brandy) but, Todd was best freinds to so many. Todd will forever be in my heart, my thoughts, and in my decision makings, on a daily basis. I miss you bud, driving around looking for inventory just isn't the same without you in the passenger seat, changing the radio station from country to rock. PEACE

Larry Tremble

December 2, 2005

Dear Brandy, Cassidy, Chelsea, Dort, Ron, Tracey, Ron Jr. and Cindy.

The loss of your husband your soulmate, your Daddy, your beloved son, your most special of brothers, has a struck a blow to everyone's heart. He was the best of everything that we could ask for.

Todd, you were in my dreams last night, laughing and smiling that crazy way of yours. You will live on in my heart always. I grieve for us all.

Love always, Uncle Larry

Carol Tremble

December 2, 2005

Dear Brandy, Cassidy, Chelsea, Dorothy, Ron, Tracey, Ron Jr., and Cindy.

My heart grieves as I think of the last four days. Brandy, he was your heart and soul, the girls his idol and mentor. Dear sister, your "clown". Tracey your little brother you "mothered". Ron, your "shadow" always. Cindy, your "partner" when you got in trouble. I grieve with you.

It seems like yesterday when first came Todd and than Chad. How alike they were. Always in mischief, with Todd the ring-leader most of time. The tree hanging over a 50 foot cliff up north , and we look up and there they are, grinning and having a ball. We look and hold our breath, knowing another adventure will be around the corner. The fish hook in Todd's neck, put there by Chad. After its all done Todd and Chad go back to fishing so even then, to Todd it was just "details, details"

When we were coming into Jacksonville, I looked out the window and there was the BIGGEST rainbow I have ever seen and I felt comfort as if you were telling me it was alright, that everything was alright. Whenever I see a rainbow, I will know everything will be alright.

I grieve for you and will always miss you, you were like another son to me. I wish you could just one more time call me an old "lady".

You had a ball during this ride of life made it your own "crazy train". Remember Todd I love you and it could be "WORSER".

Love you always Todd

Aunt Carol

Cindy & Mike Whitley

December 2, 2005

Brandy,

Although we only had the pleasure of being with you and Todd a few times. The memories will forever be with us, Todd was a wonderful person & made a great impression in our lives. We loved to ride with he & Sonny. OUr prayers are with you.

I will send pictures I have if you can send me an email.

August 1998

December 2, 2005

Angela Van Fossen

December 1, 2005

Brandy,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that I am thinking of you and your family.

Many Prayers,

Angela (AmSouth Bank)

Jim and Lynda Tracy

December 1, 2005

Brandy and Debbie...we will keep you in our prayers. Debbie and I have had many a wonderful conversation about you and Todd. He was dearly loved and will be terribly missed. Please know we share in your loss and sorrow.

Desiree' (Tremble) Young

December 1, 2005

For my family, my heart goes out to you as it mourns the loss of our Todd. Growing up with him brought so many wonderful memories, but what always comes to mind is how he could always make everybody smile and laugh. I am so grateful that I had the opportunity to experience Todd, his beautiful smile, great humor, wonderful laughter and most of all his friendship. To you Brandy, Cassidy, Chelsea, Aunt Dorthy, Uncle Ron, Tracey, Ron and Cindy, though I couldn't be with you, know that my heart was yours during this time of sorrow. Todd you will always live on in my cherished memories, I will always love you and forever miss you!!! Do your thing and RULE the place cuz!!!

Chad Tremble

November 30, 2005

My heart grieves for our loss.

We grew up side by side my friend, my pal, my closest of cousins. Barely 3 months separated our births, you the older, me the wide eyed younger, watching your every move, trying to emulate your every fade, fashion and motive. How many hours did you try teaching me to play guitar? Thinking back I could fill volumes upon volumes with childhood memories of you and our adventures.

A part of me died with you, my friend, my hero.

For Brandy and the girls, My favoritist Aunt, My Uncle, Tracy, Ron and Cindy – My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.

The pain will ease because it is shared; the memories will remain as if etched in stone – for Todd had that effect on us all. He touched all of our lives and our hearts for the better!

I wish I could have been with you today to see him off on this next journey into the afterlife but fate worked against me. I was there in spirit and mind, my thoughts are with you!

God Speed Todd, and if St. Peter is wise, he’ll issue you a guitar, not a harp!

... Until we meet again, Luv U Brother!

Chad

Denise and Darren Teague

November 30, 2005

Brandy, We were so sorry to hear about your tremendous loss. You two were such an adoreable couple. We enjoyed meeting and getting to know you both at your Dad's recent party. Your family is in our thoughts.

M. Lee Goldey

November 30, 2005

I remember the first day Todd came to work with us at the Pontiac store. He had a PASSION for evrything he did in life and work. I will never forget the many times he and I would have the conversation " work is work and friendship is friendship" he always said "never forget you always have to get the job done but friendship is ongoing". God speed Toadster.

Jennifer English

November 30, 2005

Dear Tracey & Jen,

I am saddened, for you and your family, to learn about the passing of your brother and uncle. Please know that there are friends in Michigan who feel sorrow for your loss. May you find comfort during this difficult time. With much love and sympathy.

Michael Hutchinson

November 29, 2005

I've known Todd since I was 13 years old. Todd was more than just a friend, he was role model, family, and a big part of my life. I regret the time we will miss without him. His mermories will always be in my heart. I am thankful for the extra ten years we were blessed to have him, but heartbroken it was not more. My prayers go out to Brandy, Cassidy, Chelsea, and the Almy family. I wish I could call his cell phone one more time to hear him say, "What's going on?"

RED HARRIS

November 29, 2005

BRANDY,

I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR LOSS.YOU AND THE FAMILY WILL BE IN MY PRAYERS.YOU PRAY FOR ME TOO PLEASE.TODD WILL BE WITH GOD NOW.FREE OF PAIN,FREE OF SORROW,FREE OF GUILT,FREE OF WORRY,FREE OF TORMENT.ONLY SURROUNDED WITH THE FEELING OF UNCONDITIONAL LOVE.ITS HARD FOR US TO UNDERSTAND WHEN WE MISS OUR LOVED ONES, BUT WOW WHAT AN AWESOME FEELING TODD HAS RIGHT NOW.ONE DAY WE WILL FEEL IT TOO. LOVE,RED AND KELLY

One Less Shining Star

Robin Tremble

November 29, 2005

Dearest Family, Friends and loved ones of Todd. There are no words to express what an enormous loss this is.

I grew up with Todd, so I have a lot of childhood memories of him. I cannot recall a single bad thing about him. He was the real deal; a good person. He had an old soul and a young heart. The world is a less beautiful place without him.

I grieve with you from miles away. I am, and ever will be, remiss that I could not be there with you to say goodbye. Remiss that I did not see him more often; call him more often... know him better...

My heart, my thoughts, my tears and my prayers are with you all.

Forgive my absence Aunt Dorthy, Uncle Ron, Tracy, Ron, Cindy & Brandy. I am so sorry this had to happen to our Todd.

Robinr>
p.s. This photo was taken the last time I saw Todd on August 15, 1998 at our Grandmother Butch's 80th birthday. He was the surprise guest. What great time we had, singing, playing guitar, laughing about old childhood times. I'll miss having the chance to do that with him again.

Jim Hodge

November 29, 2005

May God bless your family at this dificult time. I'll forever remember Todd as a hard working and comical gentleman. Prayers and thoughts to you and your entire familt.

Jim Hodge

November 29, 2005

May God bless your family at this dificult time. I'll forever remember Todd as a hard working and

comical man. Prayers and thoughts to you and your entire family.

Bill & Anne Cronin

November 29, 2005

Todd's passion for life will always be remembered by our family. His generosity and candid friendship was one of the main reasons we moved from Michigan to this great city called Jacksonville...we feel truly blessed and lucky to have Todd in our lives.

Brandy, Cassidy, and Chelsea, - Our love is with you.

Sandy Townley

November 29, 2005

My sincerest condolences for the loss of your beloved Todd. May God be with you and bless you all during this difficult time and always.

Sandy Townley

Kim Kutsch

November 29, 2005

Dear Brandy,

I am so greived by your loss. I want you to know that I am thinking of you and praying for you and the girls.

Dan King

November 29, 2005

Todd was a good friend and valuable business "partner". He was smart, and hard-working, yet almost always brought a smile to those around Him. He had others best interest at heart in so much of what he did, and he courageously went "his own way" while leading his family spiritually and right. I'll never forget my friend Todd.

Alberto Garza and Family

November 29, 2005

I have no words to express the sorrow that Todd's departure has created in our souls. He will be sorely missed, but also remembered for what he always represented to me: A friend I could always count on for anything. My family and I extend our condolences and support to Brandy and the girls.

Norm Parrow

November 29, 2005

Todd was a true friend to many people and could always be counted on. I will miss him dearly.

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