1962
2017
December 24, 1962 ~ August 10, 2017
Todhunter ("Tod") Weir Bensen passed away on August 10, 2017 in California.
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Stone Strickland
December 23, 2017
I met Tod in acute physical rehab in Los Gatos just last year. As a 25 year old I was struggling to keep my spirits up and talking with him about startups each day was a highlight and helped me heal much faster. I didn't know him long but he was a great person and I will miss him. My heart goes out to him family and friends and his legacy will live on.
Jay Meyer
November 17, 2017
I was so sorry to learn of Tod's passing last night, as I read the Dartmouth Alumni Magazine. I was a friend of Tod's and knew him from early in my life; his mother and mine were close friends for many years. We grew up in the same town, went to the same high school and attended Dartmouth together. I will always remember him as enthusiastic, energetic and full of ideas, with a yearning for adventure. It is hard to believe that he is gone.
CYNTHIA McHale
October 1, 2017
I was very much saddened upon reading about Tod's passing. I was a friend of his at Dartmouth, and remember him well. Tod had a real kindness to him, and was a wonderful friend. I recall Tod's infectious laugh, and that he enjoyed life most in the company of those he loved best. My condolences to his family.
Susannah Brown
September 19, 2017
So sorry about Tod! I haven't seen him since I was in the single digits,but,he is one of the nicest smiles I have ever known and I would continue to see that in Christmas greetings I received from the Family. I noticed in a Christmas greeting I got 2 years ago that Johnny looks a lot like his Uncle Tod now. Thinking about you all during this difficult time.
JT
August 25, 2017
Blessings to you, Fiona & family. Words fail me. I regret I didn't get more "Benz Time" in my life, but I'm so grateful for what I got. JT
Annie and Jim Kaskade
August 21, 2017
Oh no! We are so sorry to hear about Tod...I only just bumped into him at the Pioneer a few months ago.. Jim and I enjoyed playing on the softball team he led some years ago, talking to him about WildAid, and talking to him about Dartmouth. He was very encouraging, and kind, despite the fact that softball is the one sport I really can't play...and Jim was frequently traveling. Both Jim and I really liked Tod, and we will remember him fondly.
Shirley Kelley
August 20, 2017
Dear Fiona and family,
I am so sorry and sad for your loss of Tod way to soon in life.  Though I haven't seen you for a long time, I have fond memories of Tod and you when Rye and I joined you with Rich and Gina for various events.  He was a jolly, smart, funny and thoughtful person and everyone who knew him will miss him tremendously. With love and condolences-Shirley Kelley
Liz Abraham
August 18, 2017
Truly saddened to hear the news of Tod's passing, my heartfelt prayers and thoughts are with Fiona and her family. May the happiness that they shared as a couple continue to strengthen Fiona is the days to come.
With love and prayers
Liz
Christopher King
August 18, 2017
A lovely guy, modest and genuine and a pleasure to have known. My heartfelt condolences to Fiona and all Tod's family. RIP.
Rachel
August 16, 2017
Sending my sincere condolences to your family. May prayer be a great comfort to you during this time 1 Thessalonians 5:17
August 16, 2017
My sincere condolences to Mrs. Benson and family. May fond memories of time spent together comfort you and the peace from God which surpasses all understanding sustain you during this difficult time.
Anonymous Anon
August 15, 2017
We don't meet people by accident, they are meant to cross our path for a reason. So 7 days is how long I knew this wonderful man and and 7 days after, he passed. 
I was with him at his lowest, especially physically yet his brilliant mind & compassion for others were intact. I felt as if I had known him for a long time. 
RIL Tod Bensen.
Skip Kodak
August 15, 2017
It's been a very long time since I first met Tod.  
He was larger than life as a college senior when I met him as a freshman pledge.  His smile and laugh were either on display or about to be.  But he had a gentle gravity that drew people to him, and I can see  that continued throughout his too short life. 
So now he is off to the ultimate adventure, leaving many feeling a loss.   I extend my prayers for peace to Fiona and Tod's family, and all those saddened by Benz's passing.  He was a True Gentleman.
Mark Koulogeorge
August 15, 2017
I never remember an angry word or a bitter comment.  He was always such a positive force.When I was an insecure college student I remember his kindness and his confidence in me.
Eternal be his memory.
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