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Todhunter Bensen Obituary

Todhunter ("Tod") Weir Bensen

December 24, 1962 ~ August 10, 2017

Todhunter ("Tod") Weir Bensen passed away on August 10, 2017 in California.

Born on December 24,1962 in New York City, Tod and his mother were surrounded by hospital staff singing Christmas carols, a portent of the outstanding life he was to lead.

After attending Greenwich High School in CT, Tod graduated cum laude from Dartmouth College in 1984. While at college, he played lacrosse and ultimate frisbee, rowed crew, and made lifelong friendships as a member of the Sigma Alpha Epsilon fraternity.

After graduating from Dartmouth he worked on Wall Street for two years at L.F. Rothschild, Unterberg, Towbin as a Corporate Finance Analyst before moving to London, where he worked at Cazenove & Co., the UK's leading investment bank, for 20 years. After building the company's Equity Capital Markets practice, where he led hundreds of IPOs for companies around the world, he set up Cazenove Private Equity (CPE). As founder and CEO of this $450 million fund, he built one of Europe's leading venture capital businesses.

Within the first year that Tod was living in London he met the love of his life, Fiona Aitchison, originally from New Zealand. They married in 1994 in the Queen's Chapel of the Savoy, with their reception at the House of Lords. With a passion for travel and adventure, the couple visited 52 countries and eventually decided to relocate to California, seeking new professional pursuits. In 2005, Tod handed over the management of CPE.

Once in California, he became aware of WildAid, a charity with the mission to end the illegal wildlife trade in endangered animal parts. He was influenced by the similarities between the organization's management talent, ambition, and achievements and those of the world's best venture capital-backed companies. After working with WildAid on various projects, Tod joined the board as Chairman from 2008 until 2013 and remained an active board member until his passing.

While continuing his venture capital investing, Tod also founded his own start-up company, StudentVox, in 2014. He started the company when he realized that he could utilize technology to facilitate communication between college applicants and enrolled college students during the admissions process.

Tod was a lover of all sports, both as a participant and a spectator. As a young boy, he was introduced to fishing by his Gramps in Mystic, CT, and remained a lifelong fisherman, fishing in places from Alaska to Mozambique, Australia to Scotland, Belize to Malaysia. During his California years, he became an avid Golden State Warriors fan and season ticket holder.

Tod also was a voracious reader, keen poker player, rescue advocate and dog lover, scuba diver, comedy show and concert goer, dynamic story teller, and generous and inclusive friend.

In addition to his wife, Fiona Bensen, Tod is survived by his parents, Roger & Anne Bensen (Connecticut); sisters, Brooke Glidden (husband, John, and son, Johnny, New Jersey) and Kim Crowell (husband, Brad, and children, Anna, Catie, and Will, Massachusetts); brother, Britt Bensen (California); aunt and uncle, Sandra & Bob Calhoun (children, Andrew, Rob, and Gordon, Virginia); parents-in-law, Dave Aitchison & Shona Reichardt (New Zealand); sister-in-law, Debs Cassar (Australia); brother-in-law, Ross Aitchison (New Zealand); and many nieces and nephews Down Under. Tod was predeceased by his loving grandparents, George & Florence Bensen and John & Minetta Weir. Tod was also survived by his beloved dogs, Ike & Petey, and predeceased by Otis & Spunky.

He has physically left us much too soon, and his laughter and prolific stories will be greatly missed, but his personality and spirit will be with us forever. As one of his friends has said, "he lived twice a life in half a lifetime." We will carry wonderful memories of Tod in our minds and hearts forever.

A remembrance and reflection service will be held at the Valley Presbyterian Church in Portola Valley, CA on Sunday, October 8, 2017 at 3:00pm, with a celebration of Tod's life to follow. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to WildAid at www.wildaid.org.



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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Aug. 14 to Aug. 20, 2017.

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Stone Strickland

December 23, 2017

I met Tod in acute physical rehab in Los Gatos just last year. As a 25 year old I was struggling to keep my spirits up and talking with him about startups each day was a highlight and helped me heal much faster. I didn't know him long but he was a great person and I will miss him. My heart goes out to him family and friends and his legacy will live on.

Jay Meyer

November 17, 2017

I was so sorry to learn of Tod's passing last night, as I read the Dartmouth Alumni Magazine. I was a friend of Tod's and knew him from early in my life; his mother and mine were close friends for many years. We grew up in the same town, went to the same high school and attended Dartmouth together. I will always remember him as enthusiastic, energetic and full of ideas, with a yearning for adventure. It is hard to believe that he is gone.

CYNTHIA McHale

October 1, 2017

I was very much saddened upon reading about Tod's passing. I was a friend of his at Dartmouth, and remember him well. Tod had a real kindness to him, and was a wonderful friend. I recall Tod's infectious laugh, and that he enjoyed life most in the company of those he loved best. My condolences to his family.

Susannah Brown

September 19, 2017

So sorry about Tod! I haven't seen him since I was in the single digits,but,he is one of the nicest smiles I have ever known and I would continue to see that in Christmas greetings I received from the Family. I noticed in a Christmas greeting I got 2 years ago that Johnny looks a lot like his Uncle Tod now. Thinking about you all during this difficult time.

JT

August 25, 2017

Blessings to you, Fiona & family. Words fail me. I regret I didn't get more "Benz Time" in my life, but I'm so grateful for what I got. JT

Annie and Jim Kaskade

August 21, 2017

Oh no! We are so sorry to hear about Tod...I only just bumped into him at the Pioneer a few months ago.. Jim and I enjoyed playing on the softball team he led some years ago, talking to him about WildAid, and talking to him about Dartmouth. He was very encouraging, and kind, despite the fact that softball is the one sport I really can't play...and Jim was frequently traveling. Both Jim and I really liked Tod, and we will remember him fondly.

Shirley Kelley

August 20, 2017

Dear Fiona and family,
I am so sorry and sad for your loss of Tod way to soon in life. Though I haven't seen you for a long time, I have fond memories of Tod and you when Rye and I joined you with Rich and Gina for various events. He was a jolly, smart, funny and thoughtful person and everyone who knew him will miss him tremendously. With love and condolences-Shirley Kelley

Liz Abraham

August 18, 2017

Truly saddened to hear the news of Tod's passing, my heartfelt prayers and thoughts are with Fiona and her family. May the happiness that they shared as a couple continue to strengthen Fiona is the days to come.

With love and prayers

Liz

Christopher King

August 18, 2017

A lovely guy, modest and genuine and a pleasure to have known. My heartfelt condolences to Fiona and all Tod's family. RIP.

Rachel

August 16, 2017

Sending my sincere condolences to your family. May prayer be a great comfort to you during this time 1 Thessalonians 5:17

August 16, 2017

My sincere condolences to Mrs. Benson and family. May fond memories of time spent together comfort you and the peace from God which surpasses all understanding sustain you during this difficult time.

Anonymous Anon

August 15, 2017

We don't meet people by accident, they are meant to cross our path for a reason. So 7 days is how long I knew this wonderful man and and 7 days after, he passed.

I was with him at his lowest, especially physically yet his brilliant mind & compassion for others were intact. I felt as if I had known him for a long time.

RIL Tod Bensen.

Skip Kodak

August 15, 2017

It's been a very long time since I first met Tod.

He was larger than life as a college senior when I met him as a freshman pledge. His smile and laugh were either on display or about to be. But he had a gentle gravity that drew people to him, and I can see that continued throughout his too short life.

So now he is off to the ultimate adventure, leaving many feeling a loss. I extend my prayers for peace to Fiona and Tod's family, and all those saddened by Benz's passing. He was a True Gentleman.

Mark Koulogeorge

August 15, 2017

I never remember an angry word or a bitter comment. He was always such a positive force.When I was an insecure college student I remember his kindness and his confidence in me.

Eternal be his memory.

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