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Wolfgang Lederer Obituary

Wolfgang Lederer, MD

April 19, 1919 - January 3, 2015

Wolfgang Lederer, M.D. died on January 3, 2015 at the age of 95 having lived a long and worthy life. He was a psychiatrist and a writer, a soldier and a gentleman, a great husband and father and a memorable friend.

Born in Vienna to a prominent Jewish family in 1919, he had to flee when Hitler entered Austria, first to Paris where he studied biochemistry at the Sorbonne, and from there to Berkeley where the University of California sponsored him with a student visa and a scholarship, for which he remained forever grateful.

Upon graduation with a B.S. in 1940 he enlisted in the U.S. Army. He was deployed to the European front during World War II, landed on Omaha Beach, fought in the Ardennes as the commander of a tank destroyer company, was severely wounded in the Battle of the Bulge, and after an extensive hospitalization was discharged from the Army in 1946 with the rank of Major, two bronze stars and a Purple Heart.

When he started medical school at the University of Rochester, N.Y., he walked with a leg brace and a cane, but by the time he graduated in 1951 he again cut a dashing figure. Four years of psychiatric residencies in the U.S. and London followed. During his last year of training he married Alexandra Botwin, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist who became his partner in life and work. They had adjoining offices in San Francisco for most of his years in practice, 1956-1998, grew roots together in their country of adoption, had children and grandchildren, traveled the world and made lifelong friends who continued to visit him during his decline.

Wolfgang Lederer was a Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at the University of California San Francisco; a Distinguished Life Fellow of the American Psychiatric Association; a sought after lecturer and teacher and a highly regarded clinician. He was a tireless reader and talented writer and wrote seminal books from the joint perspective of his clinical experience and his literary interests. "Dragons, Delinquents and Destiny" (1964, about the qualifying battle between fathers and sons); "The Fear of Women" (1968, a cultural perspective, anticipating the backlash of the sexual revolution); "The Kiss of the Snow Queen" (1986, a psychobiography of Hans Christian Andersen and a discourse on adolescent development); "Disorder and Early Love, the Eroticism of Thomas Mann" (2011, a literary biography of the great writer, his homoerotic inclination, his family relationships, his politics, and how they informed his writing); as well as numerous articles in professional journals.

When the Austrian and German governments set out to compensate survivors of the Holocaust for loss and suffering by granting them pensions, Wolfgang Lederer worked with many such survivors in the Bay Area in order to draft the psychiatric evaluation necessary to qualify for the pension. It was disturbing work which caused him sorrow and sleeplessness, but he felt the obligation to the victims and to the memory of his family members who had suffered under Nazi persecution.

Wolf was a master gardener and took great pleasure in tending to his garden into his nineties, and had a lifelong fondness for good chocolate and bad puns. He had a wonderfully positive outlook on life which benefitted all who knew him. He loved the United States of America as only an immigrant can. He leaves a great void in the hearts of his wife of 58 years, Alexandra Botwin, and his children, Nicole Lederer (Larry Orr) of Palo Alto and Audrey Lederer Wells (Brian Larky) of Santa Monica, as well as his granddaughters Natalie Orr, Genevieve Orr and Tatiana Radzik. He is also survived by members of his family of origin, scattered all over the world.

Donations in his memory can be made to the "Dr. Wolfgang Lederer Scholarship Fund for Undergraduate Immigrant Students" at the University of California, Berkeley.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Jan. 3 to Jan. 11, 2015.

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Ralph Diner

December 28, 2022

As a former patient, mentee, and later dear friend I must say that Wolfgang Lederer still stands a pillar of what a man should be both as a professional and as friend. His guidance was delivered with wisdom, sincerity and tenderness which I have endeavored pass on to many of my own patients. There is hardly a day where I am not reminded of a pearl of wisdom he imparted. Today I remember once when we were talking about death and Wolf said to me that he figured that if one had led his life wisely, correctly and with conviction that when he came to the time of his passing he would look at death as going to sleep after a day of good hard work. I say to you my dear friend: I wish you the most pleasant of dreams - for you have earned them! Peace in Your Bones and hopefully: see you again in the not too distant future.

January 23, 2015

Dear Lederer family

He will be remembered with love by all who knew him. He really made a difference in the world and was immortalized with the scholarship in his name. WE think of Wolf and of kindness, towering intellect, a fierce intellectual curiosity, gallantry and a great gift with Ala for friendship. We send love to the entire family. Leonard and Deborah Wolf

January 18, 2015

My deepest sympathy to Alexandra and all the family.
With love
Veronica

January 11, 2015

To Ala, Audrey and Nicky all my love and sympathy. Wolf was a great man, a great scholar and even a greater friend to all of us. His death is a great loss to those who knew him and he will stay forever in our hearts and minds.

Hanni, John and Steve

January 11, 2015

You remain a great gift in my life, dear wolfchen. I hope you knew how much you touched me; I will be forever grateful.
Caroline

Sydney Vilen

January 5, 2015

I knew Dr. Lederer only through his writing, but his sharp, cogent, creative mind afforded me great insight. At one time, I purchased 10 copies of "The Fear of Women" to give to friends. Blessings for your good works, and thanks.

January 4, 2015

I have very fond childhood memories spent at your home, Nicki. So sorry for this deep loss.I remember your parents with much affection.
Warmest regards,
Roxanne (Spiegelman) Cohn

January 4, 2015

My heartfelt sympathy for your family.
Please find comfort in God's word to endure this difficult time. Isa25:8
Marcia

January 3, 2015

The passing of a great man, known or not so well known, leaves a void in the world and a hole in the heart of those whose lives he touched. Peace in your bones to all. And a prayer in the wind to you, my friend. You are and will be missed.

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