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TRUMAN-Ryan Wayne Truman, 17, died May 8, 2004 at his home in Covina, CA following a long illness. He was born in Augusta Maine on May 28, 1986, the son of Trudy L. (Malcolm) Sgrignoli. Ryan grew up in the Hampden & Eddington area and is where he attended the majority of his elementary school years. In the fall of 2000, Ryan and his mother moved to California, where he finished his 8th grade year at Traweek. Ryan was currently enrolled as a junior at Covina Valley High School & was scheduled to graduate in 2005. Ryan loved basketball and had been on the school basketball team for the past consecutive 4 years, p rior to his illness. Ryan was predeceased by his father, John K. Truman of N. Whitefield Maine in 1995. Ryan is survived by his mother, Trudy (Malcolm) Sgrignoli & her husband George P. Sgrignoli of Covina, his grandparents Alice & Richard Mills of Etna, Maine, his grandfather Richard Malcolm of Levant, Maine, his aunt and uncle Lisa & David Randall of Plymouth, Maine, several neices, nephews, cousins and many close friends of the family. Ryan was very much involved in an internet cancer support chat group and also a member of an internet teen cancer chat group where he made many important and special friends. Although Ryan's time on this earth was short, he touched the lives and hearts of many. He will be sadly missed by all those who were fortunate enough to know this remarkable young man. He is and was "OUR HERO". A memorial service will be held on May 22nd, 2004 at 4:00 p.m. at World Faith Ministries in Baldwin Park, California which will be followed by a "Celebration Of Life". In lieu of flowers the fami ly is requesting donations be sent to Children's Hospital of Los Angeles and/or The American Cancer Society.

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Published by San Gabriel Valley Tribune on May 11, 2004.

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Bridget Delph

May 5, 2025

Sending big hugs to Trudy, I will always remember the way Ryan could light up any room even if it was a chat room online, That takes special talent to make everyone see that light when you are not physically in the same room. He always always made me smile, his strength and conviction at such a tender age was amazing to witness. I cherish his friendship and I keep his memory close in my heart always. Miss you kiddo. Huggles

Bridget Delph

May 5, 2024

Ryan, it is hard to believe today it has been 20 years since you earned your wings. You are thought of and missed every day. I miss your laughter and your wicked sense of humor. You were always a bright light in this world. You were so caring and thoughtful and no matter how difficult things became you faced the day with a smile and love in your heart. Miss you kiddo. Trudy, sending you extra huggles today and lots of love. There are no words to take away the pain you feel every day at the loss of your Son Ryan. I hope it helps in some small way to ease your pain even a bit to know that Ryan is not forgotten, he is still loved and that prayers are being lifted up for you every day. Love you always Jags!!

Bridget Delph

May 6, 2023

Ryan, I often wonder where you would be today, I know the kind of man you would be because I was blessed to know you, your character and your heart. Missing you always my sweet friend. I know your Mom misses you like crazy, but I know you are around her, guiding her and wrapping your wings around her during the most difficult of times. Huggles and continue to be at peace.

Bridget Delph

May 5, 2022

It has been 18 years and I remember your laugh and your smile and your wicked sense of humor, I wonder about the man you would have been today. I honor your memory and send huggles to your Mom Trudy. Know that even though you are gone from our sight, you are not forgotten. Miss you Ryan!!

Bridget Delph

May 5, 2021

Remembering you especially today, lifting up your Mom in prayer. I miss you, your laughter, your bright spirit, you amazing smile and wicked sense of humor. Big huggles Ryan .

Bridget Delph

May 5, 2020

Ryan, I think of you often and remember your huge, loving heart, how you made everyone laugh. I miss you. Sending your Mom extra love today and lots and lots of huggles. Thank you for being (and continuing to be through my memories) a part of my life. I honor you and the difference you made in this world.

Jodi logan

July 11, 2005

Ryan i never meet u but though ur mom and george i come to know u where a very sweet and loving person and a great friend to many

Mom

December 27, 2004

SPENDING CHRISTMAS WITH JESUS THIS YEAR...



I see the countless Christmas trees around the world below.

With tiny lights, like Heaven's stars, reflecting on the snow.





The sight is so spectacular, please wipe away that tear;

For I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.





I hear the many Christmas songs that people hold so dear.

But the sounds of music can't compare with the Christmas choir up here.





I have no words to tell you the joy their voices bring.

For it is beyond description to hear the angels sing.





I know how much you miss me, I see the pain inside your heart.

But I am not so far away, we really aren't apart.





I cannot tell you of the splendor or the peace inside this place

Can you imagine Christmas with our Savior, face to face?





I will ask him to light your spirit as I tell him of your love.

So then pray for one another as you lift your eyes above.





So be happy for me, dear ones, you know I hold you dear.

And be glad I'm spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.





I sent you each a special gift, from my heavenly home above.

I sent you each a memory of my undying love.





After all, love is a gift more precious than pure gold.

It was always most important in the stories Jesus told.





Please love and keep each other, as my Father said to do.

For I can't count the blessing or love he has for each of you.





So have a Merry Christmas and wipe away that tear.

Remember, I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.



-----------------------------

My Dearest Son...



This is my way of talking to you now. I just want you to know that I miss you very much... not a day goes by where you are not in my thoughts. I never knew I could hurt so much and I still don't understand and want to know why.



Ryan, I know it wasn't your fault... you did not ask for this and if you had a choice you would want to be here. I know it's not my fault either and I know you don't blame me... no one is to blame.



I am no longer complete... for the one thing that meant the world to me is no longer here... I love you Ryan! And I am sorry.

Love,

Mom

Debi & Jeff Holloway

November 8, 2004

Ryan, I did not have the pleasure in meeting or chatting with you, but though your Mom and all of those that you have touched their hearts, I have came to learn of a gentle, loving person, who was there for his friends, and for even those he did not know. He always took the time to share himself with those who were in need. Even though, you were call to Heaven, I still see the special touch that you had with each person you touched. Heaven has recieved a Special Young Gentleman , that to us down here on Earth , was proud to know and Call him our Friend. Your Friends are still caring on in your Memory that friendship that you gave so loving, so to you Ryan, I say " Thank you for giving us something that is hard sometimes to give and that is your heart in Love.

Bridget Delph

September 6, 2004

Dearest Ryan, after four months it is still hard to believe you are gone, I sure do miss you and your sense of humor, your love of life and the way you always made everyone feel special!!! You are always in my heart and I will never forget the lessons you taught me!!! Miss ya sweetie and I know one day I will see and talk to you again when my name is called to go home. Until then, know you will always be in my heart, and in my memories!!

FOREVER MISSED, FOREVER LOVED, FOREVER... OUR HERO.

Trudy Sgrignoli

September 4, 2004

YESTERDAY, TODAY & TOMORROW

Yesterd ay I reached to touch you and you were easy to be found, yesterday I listened to your voice and perfectly heard each sound.

Yesterday I called your name and your voice filled the air, yesterday I looked for you and you were standing there.

Today I reached out to touch you yet you were no where to be found, today I listened for your voice yet couldn't hear it's sound.

Today I called your name yet my voice just drifted in the air, today I looked for you yet you were no longer there.

Yesterday is a memory I will keep close to my heart, for even in death, my son we are not apart.

Today is a gift... one with out measure, and my memories of you, dear son are now a priceless treasure.

Tomorrow is not promised but in your passing I say peace, for with a smile upon your face your earthly spirit was released.

RYAN:
YOU ARE... FOREVER MISSED, FOREVER LOVED...FOREVER OUR HERO!

I love and miss you so very very much kiddo.

Love, Mom

mary mullen

July 14, 2004

It was my honor and pleasure to have to know ryan it was so sad and tragic to have lost him but his memory will always live on and im always going to be there for the rest of the family all my love

mary aka red

christine robertson

July 13, 2004

miss you always in my thoughts

marlene barrett

July 13, 2004

my most sincere condolenses for the loss of Ryan...he was a brave and wonderful young man and will always be remembered in our hearts...god bless you all

Raven Joyce

July 13, 2004

A bright spirit who although no longer with us physically, I know is watching. To Ryan thank you for remembering me on Valentines Day and your Valentines offline kiss. It is cherished as you were the only one that remembered. Miss your brightness in the room.

Fairy

John Rowe

July 12, 2004

I agree with what many others have said, that Ryan was always joking around with others, always offering support, and bravely faced his cancer. My favorite memory of him is when I pretended to not know who the Lakers were. He could not believe that someone did not know who the Lakers were. His mom and I laughed at that, before I finally told him I knew who they were, and we had a good laugh.



He will be missed. I still look for him to be in the chat room sometimes. Someone his age should never have to deal with cancer. Some year, no one will have to face it.

JUDY MASSIE

July 12, 2004

HI RYAN,

I ONLY KNOWN YOU FOR A SHORT TIME . BUT I'M SO GLAD WE MEET , YOU ARE A GREAT PERSON , AND HEAVEN IS LUCK TO HAVE YOU THERE . THANK YOU FOR BEENING MY FRIEND .

WITH LOVE ALWAYS ,

sunshinelady022001 .

love you ryan

brian meacham

July 12, 2004

Ryan,As i set here in front of my comp. I think about how it was only a yr. and a half ago i met you on the comp.in cc1.And now in this all to short of time i am saying goodbye to you for now!The tear's and all the laughter we shared will never leave me cuz in your special way you instilled them memories in my heart and soul 4-eva!! i asked my higher power as to how and why?And i guess the best way for me to meet the loss of someone as special as you is that by knowing,that that bond we shared will never be lost! and it is only after death i can truely understand that you will 4-eva be a part of me more then it was ever possible in life!!ryan i heard this once told that to fear death is nothing other than to think oneself wise when one is not,for it is to think one does not know.No man knows wheather death may not even turn out to be the greatest of all blessings for a person, and yet we fear it as if it is for certian the greatest of evils!! ryan this i pray that heaven is all that and more injoy your wings my friend 4-eva and fly to the big net there and slam dunk them angel's up there with all your love you shared with us here on earth,god bless you my friend!!kobe-n-shaq 4-eva ryan tc bud brian 1 more very important thing ryan thank you for sharing your mom with me her friendship will 4-eva be everlasting!!

Sean McMillan

July 12, 2004

I just wanted to tell you Ryan that I love you and you will always be an important part of my life. I wish I could talk to you one last time, but I know I will see you one day again in heaven. You have wonderful parents who love you and who will always love you. You had a wonderful gift in life Ryan, a huge heart and a wonderful spirit that will never fade away. Thank you for being part of my life, thank you for being you. Love you Ryan.

Selena Gordineer

July 12, 2004

Dear Ryan,

I miss you everyday! I wish I had the chance to meet you,you were and still are very special to me. I will never forget the times we shared! ((hugs))thank you for your love,kindness and for always making me laugh. You always put a smile on my face. I cannot express how much I miss you,and I was truly blessed to know you! I love you so much! I will never forget you! you're friend forever~Sel

susan or susieq290 wright

July 12, 2004

my dearest angel friend

u were our angel on earth and now ur spirit is soaring high above the heavens watching out for the ones u love so. i had survivors guilt for so many years because of no support system from anyone that had been there done that,but u and ur mom and george showed me how to get rid of all that stinky emotion and live and share what i had right now. i felt guilty because i couldnt understand why u and not someone older like me but cancer and death is not prejudiced. u are the only young person ive ever gotten any where near since my cancer and u helped set me free. untill the day i die i will live life for all of the ones that didnt make it and the ones that are still fighting for their survival . thanks for pumping life back in my soul love u susieq290

Ken (mightydeerhunter Bennett

July 12, 2004

Ryan,



It was such a pleasure for me to have been able to get to know you and talk to you both on the net and on the phone. You are sorely missed by all your friends.



I don't know about the others, but you taught me somethings about living Ryan. The same lesson my mother also taught me, and you helped to affirm that lesson(s).



One is like that dash between the dates, it is important how you spend it. The other is if you accept life on life's terms, then you must also accept death.



Love and miss you Ryan and you are still helping so many more.



Ken

Rita Bramhall

July 12, 2004

There is never a good passing from cancer and we certainly have lost many a wonderful soul. I did not know Ryan very well but it is so sad that someone of his age and lack of time on this earth met his death so early. In my own heart, I believe there is a gathering of all our cancer chat friends up there and they are looking out for each other as they did here on earth.

johnny miller

July 12, 2004

i didnt know ur sun but his mother is a lovely person.

John Bishop

July 12, 2004

Ryan was an inspritation to all who knew him, no matter how bad he felt, he was the first one to help when some one needed support. I feel honored to have known him online and would have loved to have met him in person. Ryan you are in my heart forever, I miss you my friend.

Pattee Aubut

July 12, 2004

Ryan>> I did not know you for very long but you have touched my life a great deal. You are a young person with a great deal of wisdom for you your years. You always had such a great way of looking at things in life and never let things get you down. I am truly blessed for having known you and you have enriched my life and for this I must thank you. I will miss you more then you know and I will always be there for your Mom and George when they need someone to lend an ear. I love your Ryan!!! See you in the not so distant future >>> xoxox Love Pattee

Linda Reyes

July 12, 2004

Hi Ryan,

I wish that i would have gotten the chance to meet you, i do know that u must have been a great person because ur mom is that to me.Trudy, u have a heart of gold that is very hard to find in people & i am so glad that i found u.Luv Ya Linda

Mom

July 6, 2004

Dear Ryan:



I sit here today and the tears are rolling off my face.



I miss you so much.



My heart is broken.



I don't understand and I never will. I need you in my life. I am so lost and empty without you.



The days come and the days go, but the ache for you is always there.



In two more days, it will be 2 months since you passed away... from that day on, our lives were shattered.



The past 17 years we have been apart of one anothers life and then it is taken away.



The pain is the same as it was the day you left us, the loneliness is the same, the shock is the same, the want for this to be a dream, is still the same.



I know I am not the only parent that has lost a child, but I KNOW I am the ONLY parent that lost YOU for a child. And it is a HUGE loss Ryan.



You have always been a big part of my life and you always will be.



I miss you so much Ryan... I can never put into words how much my heart is hurting.



I love you kiddo,

Love, Mom

George Step-Dad

June 20, 2004

Hey Ryan!!



Just a few lines to let you know that I am thinking about you as always. I know that your wishing me a Happy Fathers Day...just want you to know that I hear you! Mom & I are going over to Jon & JoAnn's today for a little gathering. I miss you greatly Ryan. I'll be writing you again soon!!



Love you!

Helen Howell

June 10, 2004

Hey Ryan

Just sitting here at school wondering how you are no longer in my life. It hurts so much, I still don't want to belive that you are gone. And I regret that I didn't get to see you one last time.I just hope you are watching out for me just like before when I lived in Covina. I just miss going to the pool at your house and you trying to teach me how to swim.Well RYAN, I guess I'll see you one day and I'll look foreward for it.I Love You Always. Hugs And Kisses.

Love

George (Step Dad)

June 9, 2004

Hey Ryan!!



Just wanted to drop you a line letting know that I am still with you! I was wondering if you received our birthday present to you? We bought a happy birthday helium balloon, and tied a letter to it, then we sent it up to you! Ryan, mom and I watched that balloon for 15 minutes, then up to heaven it went. Well, hope you received it!! I love you Ryan, and as you know, you will always be a big part of my life, and forever missed!! I love you kid!!



Love

Trudy Sgrignoli

June 8, 2004

Dear Ryan,

I can't believe that it has been a month since you left us. And I still find myself thinking that it is all a dream. My heart still aches for you my dear son. Everyone tells me you are in a better place and that you are pain free... and I know that as well, but it doesn't take the pain away, nor does it fill the void I have now in my heart. My one and only child. My precious gift. My son. I miss you! And I wish I could give you one more hug, one more kiss, one more "I love you kiddo". I know you are watching and that you are always with me in spirit. Remember what I said to you that morning, no matter where you go, a part of me will always be with you and a part of you will always be with me. The bond between a mother and child can never be broken Ryan, even in death.



I love ya kiddo!

Love,

Mom

George

June 2, 2004

Ryan...When the Lord sent me on a mission to meet you and your mom in Maine, there was no doubt that he also was on a mission. I am so proud of you, very proud of the impact that you made on other people! Even tho you knew you had a battle going on, you always cheered for the other guy! Although you are not my son thru blood, you will always be the 3rd son in my life! I promise you Ryan that I will take care of mom, and I will also tell you that the 3 of us will be re-united again some day! I love you big guy!!



Love

Helen Howell

May 27, 2004

Ryan,

You were one of the only people that I could really talk to.

I remember when I visited You after you had your surgery. Just seeing you in all that pain broke my heart. It was terrible when I found out what had happened.Maybe I should have never moved from the apts. on center st..I am so lucky to have had you in my life, you are a true frind and I love you for that. Trudy I am truly sorry for you loss, but he was a great person with a big heart and don't forget it. Also, my heart goes out to all that knew him.

Natalie

May 16, 2004

Ryan,

I still can't believe that you are in Heaven right now. I miss you so much. I have such good memories with you. You always made me laugh and you still do when I think of our jokes. You will always be in my heart Ryan, you've been the greatest best friend. I love you. Natalie

EmilyJo

May 14, 2004

Ryan (#1WARK)

I have tears running down my face as I write this and yet I can feel a smile inside of me . The tears because I miss you. I miss seeing you in the cancer room. I miss your kindness, your caring, your support,the humor you brought to the room,and all the hugs you gave me. For someone so young Ryan you are truly a special person, one that I know has touch so many lives including mine...The smile I feel is because I know now you are without pain, without anymore suffering and I know you are looking down at all of us, watching us, still helping us deal with this illness .. thanks for that Ryan

Trudy, You have a very special son here I know he will always be with all of us

Shalom John Atlas (kalonymos)

May 14, 2004

Dear Trudy and George



I read this guest book and was reminded of these words which I read at the funeral of a friend who died young. They are from a poem entitled "With you a part of me has passed away," by George Santayana and I think they sum up what we all feel: "...and I scarce know which part may greater be, -- What I keep of you, or you rob of me." I will try to post the whole poem on the Ryan web site.



John (kalonymos)

harley

May 13, 2004

Ryan,

as some know me from the cancer room im very seldom at a loss for words, but here i sit for 30 minutes stareing at the screen wondering what to say. no words can truly define ryan. he was a special person.he had a gift in life and that gift he passed on to all of us that were fortunate to have gotten to know him. he gave us strength,love,kindess and hope. that he instilled in us. although ryan your not here in flesh you will always be in our hearts and minds. say hello to my sister in heaven. trudy,george and the rest of your family, my deepest sympathy in the loss of a great person.

M'shel

May 12, 2004

Ryan I am so glad i had the opportunity of knowing you.You were wise beyond your years, you had a way of looking at things that made it not look so bad.I loved listening to u talk you made me laugh u have a great sense of humor..I know you probably have them laughin in heaven..You will trully be missed here, but i know you are watchin over us now.Thank you for being my friend , till we meet again hugs and love ya..mic

Kim Velbert

May 12, 2004

Dear Trudy



If you watch to the dark sky, deep in the night,

it will be as all the stars, give you a smile

because Ryan lives on the brightest star

he sends all his love to his mothers heart.

The bond you both had, will never tear apart

cause the love between a Mom and a child

will always be there, no matter how far you´re apart.

He was amazing so wise and proud

and never forget, it was you who him taught

to be who he was, a proud young man

With so much love.



Ryan,,,you are in my heart!

jeff shaw (koolcoffe)

May 12, 2004

Ryan has left this world early but he has left his mark here by touching so many lives with his strength and his humor and his love he will always be remembered in my heart may he be our angel and keep his eyes on all he loved.

koolcoffe

Maureen (lil) Shaw

May 12, 2004

I am deeply saddened and I never really knew Ryan was so sick. He never let on . He was always in good spirts when I talked to him. I rember our last conversation about his roomate that was a ongoing thing and about the pizza that made him sick and how mom made it better. He will always be rembered by many all over the world whos hearts he touched. Including mine.

joanie (onjay2) volenski

May 11, 2004

ryan had touched my life in many ways...he was a very strong person

i met ryan thru teen group in yahoo he will always hold a place in my heart...he is a beautiful angel in heaven now making all the angels laugh..cause thats the way he was.. he would joke around with you and make you laugh and smile.. god bless you my friend..may you rest in peace.

god bless you trudy and george

Kelly Michaels

May 11, 2004

Ryan, although I did not get to know you as well as I would have liked, you touched my heart and formed memories that will last until we meet again. Big hugs and lots of love my friend, Kelly

Mary Nacarelli

May 11, 2004

Ryan I still sit in shock that you are gone. I will truly miss you, I already do terribly..You have touched my life in a way that can't be explained. The cancer room benefited from you, and we will all miss you dearly. You are an angel now, so please watch over us... till we meet again. Love ya

Sue Howell

May 11, 2004

My dear friend Trudy, I am also lost.. Ryan really touched my heart with his humor, generosity, love and caring. He will be greatly missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him. I remember him and you singing Frosty the Snowman in chat room 1 and many other songs. he had a beautiful voice in addition to all his other qualities. Love you and God bless......Sue/Suzi

Bridget Delph

May 11, 2004

What can I say about Ryan, except that he was one exceptional young man. He made a difference in my life, and I am honored to have known him. I am truely a better person for having known him and Ryan, I thank you for that!!! You are missed here, but I know you are in a far better place shooting hoops, telling jokes and playing the peacemaker!!!

Trudy, George and all of Ryan's friends, my deepest sympathy for our shared loss.

There are no words to help ease the pain you feel from the loss of such a special person, just know that I love you.

Ryan May you rest in peace, and watch over all of us always!!! You will never be forgotten by anyone who was lucky enough to have met you and known you!!!

Bill Nobles

May 11, 2004

A brave young man who touched the lifes of many, not only across the U.S. but around the world. To know him was to love him. He will missed by all.

Kathy(KAK) Wittmuss

May 11, 2004

Ryan- I know you aren't gone- I feel you,in the room, all the time.See ya,later,Ryan:) Kak

Aimee Harms

May 11, 2004

I met Ryan on the internet cancer support group. He touched my life in many ways. He was a brave young man with a spunky personality. He made me laugh. He was a true joy!! I am so glad I met Ryan because he made me realize alot of things in life and made me a stronger person. I find it hard to believe he is not here anymore...it just does not seem fair..for he was only 17. I am glad that Ryan is no longer in pain and in the heavens above. He was loved and cherished by so many people and will be big time missed!

Ryan will forever be in my heart & prayers,

Aimee M. Harms

Michelle

May 11, 2004

Trudy and George what a hero is right. Kels and I will miss him dearly and will miss him picking on me and making me laugh. I love you both so much. Love, Michelle and Kelsie

John Bishop

May 11, 2004

Ryan was a very remarkable young man. His sense of humor will be missed in the chat rooms. I remember the first I spoke to Ryan by phone, he was in the hospital, it was funny as I had not been a member of the group for very long, Trudy answered the phone and I ask to speak to Ryan. He did not have a clue as to who I was, but he was very gracious to me. Ryan was wise beyond his years, he will surely be missed.

Keanan Michaels

May 11, 2004

Ryan is an important member of our teen/young adult cancer support group. In this world he brought us friendship, lots of humor and support. Now that he has passed on, I know he will be watching over us from above. I will miss you Ryan and look forward to meeting you someday in heaven.

Ryan Hamm

May 11, 2004

To my brother who was ans is so brave, may my spirit and god guide you until the day we hook up agin, until then bro I love ya and you will be forever with my heart.

Lisa (Aunie Roonie)

May 11, 2004

Ryan,

Although I never had a child of my own, I felt blessed to have you fill that void in my life. From the day you were born, you had my heart. You made me so proud to be your Aunt. I watched you grow into a handsome, smart, and caring young man. You could "always" make me laugh. We have had a lot of good times together, and that is what will carry me through. The memories will never fade for they are forever etched in my heart. "Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for a while and leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never the same". I will never be the same Ryan, you are and always will be my one and only HERO. Love you, Auntie

Mom

May 11, 2004

No words can ever be spoken of how I felt when God took you home... nothing could have ever prepared me for the loss of my one and only child. My heart was broken the day you were called home and it will never be the same. My dearest son, I will always love you... and I am and always will be so proud of you. The lives you touched on earth have been numerous and I am overwhelmed with the impact you have had in such a short time. My heart is heavy as I can no longer touch you, no longer give you a hug, no longer hear your voice or see your smile, but the love we shared between mother in son will always remain in my heart. As I told you before you passed, no matter where you are or where you go, you will always be with me and I with you. Thank you for being the miracle in my life. With much love forever, Mom

Rayleine Chagoya

May 11, 2004

May God Bless and keep you all in His heart.My thoughts and prayers are with you.I'm so deeply sorry for your loss.Love your friend,Rayleine.

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The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

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Ways to honor Ryan Truman's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

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How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

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Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

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How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

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