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Thomas Stillwell Obituary

Dr. Thomas Stillwell

Plymouth, Minnesota - Dr. Thomas Stillwell, beloved husband, father, son, brother, physician, pilot, veteran, and friend, of Plymouth, Minnesota, died on May 8, 2019 in the crash of a single engine airplane near Moose Lake, Minnesota. Thomas Jay Stillwell, son of Adele Koepsell Stillwell and R. Jack Stillwell, was born on Sept. 24, 1953 in Milwaukee, WI. He grew up in Kohler, WI where he met his future spouse Virginia Bernauer, graduating from Kohler High School in 1972.

Dr. Stillwell graduated from University of Wisconsin Madison in 1978 and joined the US Navy the same year. He earned his MD in 1982. Dr. Stillwell trained as a urologist at the Mayo Clinic, then practiced on the medical faculty of Balboa Naval Hospital in San Diego, CA, where he inspired the next generation of urologists. In 1990 and 1991 Dr. Stillwell served in the first Gulf War in a mobile surgical hospital, treating US Marines as well as Iraqi soldiers.

After moving to Minnesota in 1991, Dr. Stillwell practiced as a urologic surgeon in the Twin Cities and throughout rural Minnesota, most recently as a physician with Minnesota Urology. In 1994 he fulfilled a lifelong dream by obtaining his private pilot license. Dr. Stillwell became a longstanding member of Club Cherokee flying club at Crystal airport, where he was known as a meticulous pilot and logged more than 2,000 hours of flight time. Known as the "flying doctor," Dr. Stillwell combined his love of flying with his expert and compassionate patient care. Up to 12 days each month he flew to outreach clinics in rural communities, including Mora, Onamia, Moose Lake, and Sandstone, MN, and Grantsburg, WI, to serve patients who otherwise might not have had access to specialized care.

Dr. Stillwell was also a member of the 8th Air Force Historical Society of Minnesota. He organized several trips for the members, in which private pilots from the Twin Cities flew veterans to various historical and aviation-related locations.

Dr. Stillwell will be remembered for his abundant generosity and remarkable empathy in both his professional and personal lives. He is survived by his spouse, his mother Adele Stillwell, his four siblings Rev. Gary Stillwell, Dr. Scott Stillwell, Barbara Strawn (nee Stillwell), Nancy Stillwell-Duckett and their spouses, four children and their spouses, six grandchildren, as well as dozens of cousins, nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his father.

Visitation 5-8pm Tues. May 14 at Washburn-McReavy Eden Prairie Chapel, Eden Prairie, MN. Mass of Christian Burial 10:30am Weds. May 15 at St. Olaf Catholic Church, 215 S. 8th St. Minneapolis, MN, with visitation one hour prior. Burial at Fort Snelling Cemetery in a private service. In lieu of flowers, memorials to St. Olaf Catholic Church or the Surgical Technology Scholarship Fund of Anoka Technical College Foundation.

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Published by Sheboygan Press on May 15, 2019.

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Claudette Forss

May 20, 2019

To the Stillwell families and Adele : I was saddened to hear of Tom's tragic passing , but he was doing what he loved to do - flying and helping his clients . May the memories you shared as a family get you through this time of grief. Sincerely, Claudette Forss,R.N. MSEd .

Kyle Kaker

May 16, 2019

Shocked to hear of Tom's untimely passing. Saddened for the Stillwell family and many friends. Memories of Tom came flooding back: Tom starring in H.S. musical, "Brigadoon"; his enthusiastic leadership of the Pep Band the year Kohler went to State in basketball ('72). Sitting behind me playing his trombone -- with abandon. Boy Scouts, especially the paper drives. Always a big smile on his face and not too far from a bit of mischief. God rest you, Tom. P.S. Thanks for your service to our country.

Daniel Rodecap

May 15, 2019

So sorry to hear about the tragic loss of Dr. Stillwell. I considered him not only a very good doctor, but also a good friend. Eternal rest Grant unto him, O Lord and let perpetual light shine upon him. May his soul and all the souls of the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen.

Donna and William (Harvey) Brede

May 15, 2019

So sorry for your loss of Tom..I will always remember him as a very kind soul.So Glad we got to see him at the reunion..God Bless..RIP Tom, till we meet again.

Ann Toepel Klipstine

May 15, 2019

Dear Stillwell Family,

I am Ann Toepel Klipstine. My parents, Dr. Robert and Peg Toepel, and I lived next door to you in Kohler for many years. I was a babysitter when you were young.I am so proud of you for becoming caring, Christian adults.

Adele, I can't imagine what you are going through. Parents don't expect their children to die before them.

In senseless tragedies like Tom's, we ask:"why, why"? We will not get the answers until we reach our Eternal Home. In this life we are looking at the back of a tapestry--it makes no sense and we ask "why" is it so puzzling? When we reach our Eternal Home, we see the front of the tapestry and it is beautiful--then we get all of our "whys" answered.

May the love of friends give you comfort. May the love of our Lord give you Peace as only He can give.

You have my heartfelt sympathy.

May 15, 2019

Dear Virginia,

Many happy memories with the Stillwell clan at Elkhart Lake and family get togethers.

You and your family are in my heart.
Much love,
Betty (Koepsell) Szatkowski

Christal Gordon

May 14, 2019

To Gino -
My memories of Tom include his visit to me in Omaha while I was in medical school there and catching up at the Kohler reunion party last summer. His was a life well-lived and well-loved. My condolences at this time of bewilderment and grief.
KiKi

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