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Barbara Stanley Obituary

Beloved wife, mother and grandmother Barbara Stanley passed away peacefully on September 25, 2022. She was two days shy of her 82nd birthday. She was born in Brooklyn, and after marrying Richard Stanley in 1967, they moved to Staten Island, eventually settling in Richmondtown. Barbara was a high school Social Studies teacher beginning her career in 1966 in Brooklyn. After her move she began teaching at New Dorp High School and eventually settled at Tottenville High School in the early 1980s. After a career that spanned 30 years, she retired in 1996. She spent her retirement years travelling including multiple trips to Italy and Ireland. She also spent time crocheting and knitting blankets, hats and sweaters for her multiple grandchildren. Barbara is survived by her husband of 55 years, Richard Stanely as well as her four children, Christine, Suzanne, Barbara and Richard, their spouses and ten grandchildren. She will be greatly missed by her family, especially her husband. Wake is from 2-4 & 7-9 p.m. Wednesday, September 28th, at Hanley Funeral Home, 60 New Dorp Lane. Mass of Christian Burial 10 a.m. Thursday, September 29th, St Patricks Church, 53 St Patricks Place.

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Published by Staten Island Advance from Sep. 26 to Sep. 27, 2022.

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Michelle Bellafiore

October 1, 2022

Our deepest condolences on the passing of Barbara. She will be greatly missed. Prays and lots of love for the family.

Patty Tanner and family

September 30, 2022

Prayers of peace and strength to you and your family during this difficult time.

John Wankmueller

September 29, 2022

Will always remember our conversations about teaching in NYC. Richard, so sorry for your loss.

Patricia Donowski

September 29, 2022

Our deepest sympathies on the passing of Barbara. It has been some time since we last saw each other at a wedding. Her cheerful smile and wit will be greatly missed by all family and extended members.

Kathleen Crosson Dunn

September 28, 2022

My condolences to Barbara and family Kathleen Crosson Dunn

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Tina Moore

September 26, 2022

Barbara was my best friend for 80 years. We went to school together, we raised our children together, and we traveled together. My condolences to Suzanne, my godchild. and her entire family. Rest in peace dear friend. My love and prayers go with you. God Bless.

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28

Wake

2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m.

Hanley Funeral Home, Inc. - Staten Island

60 New Dorp Ln, Staten Island, NY 10306

Sep

28

Wake

7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m.

Hanley Funeral Home, Inc. - Staten Island

60 New Dorp Ln, Staten Island, NY 10306

Sep

29

Mass of Christian Burial

10:00 a.m.

St Patricks Church

53 St Patricks Place, NY

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60 New Dorp Ln, Staten Island, NY 10306

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