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Elliott Dernback Obituary

Staten Island native, Elliott Michael Dernback of Warren N.J., passed away on Oct. 5, 2021. Born in West Brighton, he attended Blessed Sacrament grammar school, St. Peter's High School and Manhattan College. A veteran of the Vietnam War, he fought proudly as a U.S. Marine Staff Sergeant, receiving two Purple Hearts. He taught for many years as a Physical Education teacher, retiring from I.S. 61 in New Brighton. A gifted mechanic, Elliott also owned Bliss Marine Boat Repairs in Great Kills He was predeceased by his parents, Elliott and Barbara (Dezelich), brother Thomas and sister Monika. He is survived by his wife Violet, together for 40 years, sisters Paula Kelley (James), Eileen and Jeanne and brother James. Visitation is Friday, Oct. 8, 2021, from 4 to 8 p.m. at the Valley Memorial Funeral Home, 1012 Valley Road, Gillette, N.J. Funeral Mass is Saturday at 9 a.m. at the Shrine of St. Joseph, 1050 Longhill Road, Stirling, N.J.

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Published by Staten Island Advance from Oct. 7 to Oct. 8, 2021.

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Norm Fidler

November 4, 2021

I worked with Elliot at IS 61 for many years. We often worked the cafeteria together. I was very sorry to hear of his passing.

Kim Winch

October 11, 2021

Although I never had the pleasure of meeting Elliott I feel I knew him through my dear friend Jeannie. We would sit and drink our wine or be fixing late dinners and Jeannie would share her many stories of Elliott! My sincere condolences to the family...may the Lord uplift you and meet all your needs in this time.

Mel Fieramosca

October 11, 2021

I will keep the family of Elliott in my prayers. I lived around the corner on Taylor Street close to Trinity Place in West Brighton where the Dernback family resided. They were a very nice family. All the guys in the neighborhood played sports together. Elliott was older than I. Elliott was certainly a courageous person and a person to be respected. Sorry for your loss.

Elaine carman

October 11, 2021

My condolences to the Dernback family. Having worked with Elliott at IS 61 for many years, I came to know him as an educator with compassion for the children he taught.

Don McGrath

October 10, 2021

Elliott was a good guy. Played basketball with him locally on a team his father coached in the early 60s.

Nora O'Reilly Siegel

October 10, 2021

I'm so sorry to read of Elliot's passing. His grandmother was Helen Dernback. She was my maternal grandmother's first cousin Mary Jane Smith Hoerle. Aunt Helen was a large part of our family. I knew both her sons. Rest in Peace.

Jim Midura. (Harbor Starter)SINY

October 9, 2021

It´s with great sadness that I see Elliotts passing. It is no surprise to read of his military time having dealt with him in the boating business. He looked you in the eye and that was his word. No big mouth just get it done. With the assistance of Butch of course. A straight shooter. He will be missed

James Barghaan

October 9, 2021

I´m so sorry for your loss. I was a customer at Bliss marine for many years. Always a kind and helpful gentleman with a wealth of knowledge. Im Sorry to hear of his passing

Edith Ferrie

October 9, 2021

I worked at IS 61 with Mr.. Denmark. He was in charge of the school aides.. He was a good man. My condolences to his family. RIP Elliott.

noel

October 8, 2021

I graduated from is61 in 1982...I remember Mr.D well... quite a big character.... good memories...

Sal Milano

October 8, 2021

I went to Blessed Sacrament and St. Peter's High School with Elliott. He was a good friend who will be missed. RIP

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