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Henry Decker Obituary

Henry Decker Jr. Lifelong resident of Travis, Staten Island; beloved family man, 86 Henry Decker Jr., 86, lifelong resident of Travis, Staten Island, passed away on September 2, 2021. Henry leaves behind his beloved wife of 65 years, Ruth Anne (Kiesewetter); daughter, Diane Heinz (Michael); sons, Henry III (Ellen), Thomas (Eileen), and John Decker. Also survived by grandchildren, Jennifer Desteoglu (Steven), Brendan, Jaclyn Heinz, Max, Madison Decker, Thomas Jr., John Paul, and Jack Henry Decker, great-grandchildren, Henry and Scarlett Desteoglu, step-grandson, Matthew (Luisa) Heinz; dear sister, Dorothy Olivieri; brother-in-law, Edward McGee, and many loving nieces and nephews. Henry was predeceased by parents, Henry Sr. and Marie; brother, Robert Decker; sister, Lillian McGee, and brother-in-law, Anthony Olivieri. Henry grew up on the edge of the Richmond County Airport - current site of Con Edison - where he developed a love of planes. He built a gyrocopter in the 1970s and an ultralight later on. One of his most memorable times was winning a ride in a P51 Mustang at the Sussex, NJ, air show. He also had cherished memories of his old Indian motorcycle, enjoyed hunting, fishing, family card games, Willie Nelson, and traveling the country in their camper for over 40 years, Chincoteague Island being a favorite where he would go clamming. Henry is a member of the NYC Sanitation Retirees of Staten Island and was also a skilled mechanic and woodworker. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to A Very Special Place. A.V.S.P. 49 Cedar Grove Ave. S.I., NY 10306 or avspny.org. Visitation is at the Matthew Funeral Home, Inc., 2508 Victory Boulevard, on Tuesday, 9/7, from 2 to 5 and 7 to 9 pm. A funeral service will be conducted on Wednesday, 9/8, at 10 am in the funeral home, followed by interment in Ocean View Cemetery. Matthew Funeral Home 2508 Victory Boulevard Staten Island, NY 10314 (718) 761-5544

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Published by Staten Island Advance from Sep. 4 to Sep. 5, 2021.

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Lorraine Modzelewski

August 29, 2024

Gone but still not forgotten about.

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Lorraine Modzelewski

November 14, 2021

Rest in Peace. Heartfelt condolences to the family.

Ann Terjesen

September 7, 2021

May your memories bring you peace and comfort at this very sad time.
Sincerely,
Ann Terjesen

Mary Heinz

September 6, 2021

Our Deepest Sympathy. Love, Steve, Paul, Mary-Frances and Steven Heinz

Cathy Martino

September 5, 2021

I am so very sorry to hear of Sonny´s passing. He was a wonderful family man and great neighbor, always willing to lend a helping hand. We always enjoyed chatting with him and have lots of fond memories of him, you and your beautiful family.
Ruth, my sincere heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Sending positive thoughts and prayers to all at this very difficult time.

Marion Manley

September 4, 2021

With fond memories of a loving family man .
As I told John today , remember all the good times !
Love & Prayers .
Marion Manley

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