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Norma Friedman Obituary

Norma Friedman Centenarian, grew up in Tottenville and had landmark store named Mary's there for many years Norma Friedman (nee Grodzinsky), of Manalapan New Jersey, former long time resident of Tottenville, passed away 8/23/2021 at the home of her son. She celebrated her 100th birthday last December. Norma was born in Tulsa Oklahoma and brought by her parents to Perth Amboy as a small child. Soon after they moved to Tottenville and opened a store named Marys, after her mother. Norma grew up in Tottenville, graduating from PS 1 and then Tottenville High School in 1936. She enjoyed swimming at the outer beach and the point with her sisters and friends, and enjoyed telling of her adventures swimming from Tottenville to Perth Amboy and back. When her parents retired she and her husband, Irving, on his return from the Pacific after WWII, owned and operated Mary's and even until recently spoke of how much they enjoyed working with the people of the Tottenville community for the next 40 years. They retired to a senior community in Manalapan in 1985. She was predeceased by her husband Irving in 2004, three sons who died in infancy, parents Louis and Miriam Grodzinsky, and her sisters Bella (Seidenbaum) and Mildred (Frishberg). She is survived by her son Bernard of Cliffside Park NJ, daughter Harriet Friedman-Wilson of West Brighton, grandchildren Matt and Melinda (George), great grandson Benjamin, nieces and nephews. Burial will be at Baron Hirsch Cemetery, Graniteville, August 25, 2021.

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Published by Staten Island Advance from Aug. 24 to Aug. 25, 2021.

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Donald Lauro

August 18, 2024

We loved Norma and Irving, Mary's meant a lot to us. God Bless

Don Lauro

August 18, 2023

So, so many fond memories of Norma and Irving in Mary's. They had everything you needed for school and play for both children and adults. God Bless the entire family.

Laurie Rothenberg Marshall

January 18, 2022

So sorry to hear of Norma´s passing. My grandpa Jacob Greenberg was Mary´s brother. Norma was my moms cousin.her name was Reve Rothenberg. I vaguely remember meeting them as a child on Long Island and on Staten Island. My grandmother was Hannah. We still had Norma `s address in an old phone book. When they were all young, they were close and grew apart through the years and after moving to FL. Please accept our condolences from the children of the Greenberg/Rothenberg side of the family.

Edith Kelly

November 16, 2021

With deepest sympathy always loved shopping at
Mary´s, great store, rest in,peace.

Nancy Fekety Coughlin

September 5, 2021

So sorry to hear of Norma's passing. Naturally she and her husband Irving were known by everyone in Tottenville where I grew up. September was always a very busy time of year for them with all the school children buying their school supplies at Mary's 5and 10. Even with a store full of kids they were always kind and patient with every one of us. Both Norma and Irving were lovely people. May she rest in peace.

Don Lauro

September 3, 2021

Everyone who knew Norma and Irving loved them. Such kind people. We all went to Mary's

Diane

August 28, 2021

Harriet I´m so sorry for the loss of your dear mother. I was just thinking about her. I enjoyed all the times being at your house eating macaroni and tuna and playing in the basement. I called her Hushpuppy Norma because of her shoes. I´m sorry that I didn´t get to see her age. My heart is with you

Cheryl Gundacker Accornero

August 26, 2021

I am so sorry for your loss. Your mom was so sweet I still remember her in Mary's. I loved shopping there.

Susan Pearson

August 25, 2021

My deepest sympathy for the loss of your mom. Mary´s was one of my favorite places growing up in Tottenville. So many memories

Robin Cutler Calkins

August 25, 2021

So so sorry my favorite place Mary's five in ten friends from tottenville still talk about it Rest in peace

Linda (Biller) Krakower

August 25, 2021

I loved going to Mary's. It was one of my moms favorite places to shop they had everything you needed. Rest in peace!!

Rose & Mitchell Schecter

August 24, 2021

May peace be with you. Sorry for your loss.

Frank Brennan

August 24, 2021

So sorry to her of her passing. I grew up in Tottenville and everyone went to Mary´s department store....so much a part of Tottenville history.

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