SIDNEY -- Thomas E. Shoemaker ("Shoe" to most), of Sidney passed away Wednesday, February 1, 2023, at Miami Valley Hospital in Dayton. He was born in South Charleston, Ohio, the son of the late Floyd and Marie (Sheerin) Shoemaker on Tuesday, February 11th. On August 13, 1966, Thomas married the former Sandra Cudd, who survives.
He is survived by two daughters; Anne Marie (Gordon) Poore of Roanoke, VA, and Shelley (Mike) Silva of Buellton, CA, and four grandchildren; Amelia Poore of Raleigh, NC; Romey Poore Jr. of Richmond, VA; T. Selden Poore of Roanoke, VA and Samantha Silva of Buellton, CA. A sister, Joyce (Shoemaker) Wilson of Springfield also survives. Tom was preceded in death by first wife, Anne Caroline Selden, brother, James Shoemaker, and granddaughter, Gianna Bella.
Shoe graduated from South Charleston HS, South Charleston, OH. Following high school, he proudly served in the United States Marine Corps earning the rank of First Sergeant. Upon his return and utilizing the GI Bill, he enrolled at Ohio University where he graduated with a BS in Commerce. It was during his college years in Athens that he developed lifelong friendships with his brothers in Phi Delta Theta fraternity. Over the next 60 years Tom and Sandy would travel to Europe with the Phi Delt group couples 14 times. Their excursions and gatherings brought them together throughout various U.S. locales as well as many visits to their beloved alma mater, GO BOBCATS!
Born at home, he always attributed his strong work ethic to the fact that, even though his mother went into labor while mopping the kitchen floor, she was determined to finish the task before giving birth. As a young boy he would trap and sell pelts, sweep his father's grocery store or uncle's barbershop so he always had change in his pocket. An internship with Stouffer's Restaurants set Tom on his future career in the Restaurant and Hospitality field. He started in the Executive Training program, ultimately becoming a Regional Manager for the 8 Stouffer's restaurants in the Greater Pittsburgh area and opening Top of the Triangle atop the US Steel Building in 1971. Finally, in 1972, with Sandy as his business partner, together they built and opened the Sidney Holiday Inn. Fine dining had arrived in Sidney! Tom and Sandy, with their two children, adopted Sidney as their permanent hometown and embraced every aspect of the community.
Tom believed in supporting local business, and the Sidney community. A few of his favorites include the YMCA, Shelby County United Way, Wilson Health Foundation, SHS, Lehman High School, Christian Academy, Shelby Hills School, and so many more worthy local organizations. Serving on the Board of Directors at First National Bank (now USBank) was one of his greatest pleasures. He was a champion of education, the 4-H and the Shelby County Fair, as well as the Community Foundation of Shelby County.
Funeral Services will be held Friday February 10, 2023 at 10:30 AM at Cromes-Edwards Funeral Home 302 S. Main Ave Sidney. A Private Burial will follow for the family at St Charles Borromeo Cemetery in South Charleston, OH. Friends may visit on Thursday, February 9, 2023, from 4:00 PM-7:00 PM at the funeral home. Memorial contributions may be made to the Tom & Sandy Shoemaker Fund at The Community Foundation of Shelby County (Ohio) (www.commfoun.com). Condolences may be expressed to the Shoemaker family at our website, www.cromesfh.com
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Kathi Biltz
February 27, 2023
Sandy so sorry about Tom. I miss all my Sidney friends. Hope you are well. Take care of yourself. Kathi Boyd Biltz
Scott Hibner
February 9, 2023
Sorry to hear of Shoes passing. My mom and I really liked working at the Holiday Inn many moons ago.
Scott and Marty Hibner
Sherrie Casad-Lodge
February 9, 2023
My husband first met Tom while working in the Advertising Department of the Sidney Daily News in the 1960´s as Tom would place ads in the local paper for the Holiday Inn. I would later meet Tom as the local hotel/restaurant was the place to go for breakfast or dinner and he would always stop and chat with everyone while refilling cups of coffee or freshening up glasses of water. Always friendly and smiling, Tom was a tireless worker that I had the occasion to interact with over the years whether hosting corporate meetings or events at the Holiday Inn to participating in, or donating to, a variety of community activities. He and his wife Sandy were a dynamic duo - a powerhouse pair that left a lasting impression on whomever they met. My father worked for Tom as a part-time landscaper, and to this day, remembers him as one of the kindest men that he has ever met. Our community is richer for having him be part of it. Sherrie Casad-Lodge
David Johnson, Ohio University
February 9, 2023
Tom was a generous man who was always smiling. He and Sandy supported student scholarships at OHIO for many years and always enjoyed meeting the students when he came back to Athens for a football game or Phi Delt reunion. Tom will be greatly missed by his Ohio University family.
Mike Becker
February 9, 2023
My most sincere condolences to you Sandy, all Tom's family, as well as all those whose lives he touched.
He was a true inspiration to me and to all those who knew him.
Sherri Burgoyne
February 9, 2023
I worked for Shoey for 5 years.
He never stopped running. Breakfast lunch a break with a nap.
Then it was set up for dinner and the banquet rooms needed set as well.
After dinner it was setting up banquet rooms for breakfast meetings. He didn´t walk , it was a slow run.a hard worker. He will be missed. Many fond memories
Sherri Burgoyne
Don and Diane Knight
February 8, 2023
Tom was a special person to me, both during the time I was in education and the time I was in the insurance work. He was always friendly and pleasant and cared about you as a person. It seemed like he worked 24 hours a day. He was a very successful business person and helpful to many others. Tom was blessed with a wonderful wife and family. May God continue to watch over them and care for them.
Vicki & Dan Sveda
February 7, 2023
We traveled with Tom and Sandy to Europe twice. We were impressed by their generosity of person and spirit. We thoroughly enjoyed our time with them. He will be missed.
Charlie Rhyan
February 6, 2023
I have never known a man with more kindness, grace, GENUINE concern for others, wisdom and generosity!!
It was an honor to be around he and Sandy for many years and watch his gentle dignity and humility as he worked to serve others and make their lives better. I know this man has a VERY special place in heaven!
Sarah Clark
February 6, 2023
One of my favorite memories with Tom was when both him and Sandy came to my families Easter. It was so nice to see Tom sit down, with good friends and get to sit back, relax and cut up. He was always so cheerful and full of life. Tom Shoemaker, will always be one of those people you think back and realize you were so blessed to have met!
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