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Matthew Metzmaker Obituary
Shrewsbury, MA—Matthew Bryan Metzmaker, age 44 of Shrewsbury, MA, Marine Corps veteran, college athlete, devoted father of Charlie (mother, Jill Metzmaker) and Luke (mother, Jessica LaPierre) died on February 14, 2018 at UMass Memorial Medical Center. Matt was born July 21, 1993 in Houston, Texas the oldest son of Marna, Springfield, IL and Jeffrey, Rutland, MA. He leaves behind sister, Leslie Marino (Scott) Norwell, MA, and brothers, Nicholas, Springfield, IL; Thomas (Sydney) San Diego, CA; Michael, Somerville, MA. He was very fond of nephews and niece: Nicholas Jr, Miles, Mila and Leo.
Growing up as a child in Worcester, MA, Matt quickly displayed leadership, perseverance, and loyalty to family and friends. He was outgoing, at times outspoken but always exhibited a great sense of humor.
Matt attended Doherty High School was active in student government and excelled in sports earning 3 Varsity Letters. Matt chose to attend a post graduate year at The Lawrenceville School, Lawrenceville, NJ. Selected for the Dean's List, he set records in Varsity Baseball and was awarded the Ronald A. Hulit Baseball Award and was named All-State New Jersey Athlete. Matt lettered in Indoor Track and earned the Poreda Trophy for Leadership, Sportsmanship, and Dedication. Through high school and college summers, Matt played baseball for Grafton Hill American Legion Post 323. He went on to play 2 years of Division I baseball at Providence College where an injury ended his playing years. More gratifying were the years he spent coaching young athletes of his former Grafton Hill team. He earned a B.S. in Business Management and Economics, University of Massachusetts, Amherst, MA.
One of his proudest accomplishments was his 8 year service in The United States Marine Corps achieving the rank of Sergeant in 4; and Matt was quick to point out his completion of the Marine Corps Marathon. He also served as a Military Contractor/Trainer overseas.
Matt left an 11 year career in the financial services industry, to work the next 6 years as a consultant in Security Solutions and Integration Systems. Over the course of the last year he found fulfillment with his Allegion clients and co-workers. It was at this point when Matt was faced with his biggest life challenge. Dealing with serious health issues, he continued to persist and excel in his work.
He loved time with his sons and friends, cooking, photography, comedy, Martha's Vineyard, Red Sox, Patriots and his Jeep Wrangler.
Donations may be made to Matthew Metzmaker Children's Trust c/o Marna Metzmaker, 2125 Timberview Dr, Springfield, IL 62702. [email protected]
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Memories and Condolences
for Matthew Metzmaker
William Morrow
March 4, 2020
I recently found out he passed. I played in Stan Musial league few years with him. Terrific teammate and player sad to hear of his passing. He will never be forgotten.
Regina Barnicle
February 28, 2020
Remembering Matthew today and everyday in my prayers. Thoughts and prayers to Matthew's entire family.
Annette Biscari Tsuji
April 14, 2019
Jill, I have come across your name on FB pages of former students from the Nelson Place neighborhood, and even a young friend with whom I used to volunteer. I also recognize all names from this Legacy Guest Book.
I "team taught" with Matt's (late) First Grade teacher, so I do remember him fondly.
I am very sorry to learn of his passing, don't know how/why I missed seeing/reading it at the time.
God bless you and Charlie.
I know many of your friends/support system and their families since they were children, so I know that you are "in good hands."
Stay well and strong.
Sincerely,
Martin Twigg
March 12, 2018
MARNA
So sorry to hear about Matt. Just remember that he was a great kid when I knew him.
Dick Mooney
March 9, 2018
My deepest condolences on your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Freddie Potenti
March 7, 2018
Sincere condolences to the Metzmaker family on Matt's passing. Rest In Peace young man.
Wendy Deane
March 7, 2018
Sending my deepest Condolences, and all my love to the Metzmaker family. The little boy that came to my house to play, to swim in my pool, went to school with my son has gone way to soon.
The Deane family sends you all our love.
Kara Kennedy Spaulding
March 7, 2018
My condolences to Matt's family. I have many fond memories of growing up with Matt. He will be missed. Rest in Peace Matt.
Tara S
March 6, 2018
Matt's been a friend for many years. He was a amazing, smart, caring and honorable person and I feel blessed to have known him. He spoke often of his boys and how proud he was to be their dad. The world was a better, safer place with Matt in it and I will miss him very much. My condolences to the family.
Matt Barnicle
March 6, 2018
My condolences for the loss of Matt. He was always a great friend since we were little kids. A great athlete, person and friend with a great smile. He will be missed by all who knew him. May he rest in peace. God Bless!
Kasandra Kaplanes Branson
March 6, 2018
My deepest condolences to Matt's family. I knew Matt in high school (and PC) and he shined bright. May his memory be eternal.
March 6, 2018
Rest in Peace Marine. Semper Fi.
Regina Barnicle
March 6, 2018
My deepest sympathy on the loss of Matthew. I know all of you are proud of all his accomplishments. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you!
CHUCK COLEBROOK II
March 6, 2018
SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT MATT'S PASSING. HE WAS A GREAT KID AND A WONDERFUL PERSON. I WAS SHOCKED TO SEE HIS OBITUARY. HE ACCOMPLISHED A LOT IN SUCH A SHORT TIME. HE WILL BE SORELY MISSED.
CHUCK COLEBROOK
Debra Maddox
March 5, 2018
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
renee Merolli
March 5, 2018
So sorry to hear of your son's death, Jeff.
Know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. May he rest in peace!! You can be so proud of all his accomplishments.
My Best,
Renee'
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