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Paul Buedel Obituary
SPRINGFIELD - Paul William Dennis John "The Big Kahuna" Buedel, 67, of Springfield died at 5:41 p.m. Saturday, Feb. 9, 2008, at St. John's Hospital.
Paul was born Oct. 10, 1940, in Springfield, the son of Carl William and Agnes Ann Grady Buedel. He married Jeanne Vespa on Nov. 12, 1966, at Little Flower Catholic Church.
Paul graduated from St. Agnes Grade School, Cathedral Boys High School and Springfield Junior College before attending Loyola University in Chicago and obtaining his Bachelor of Science in economics and business from Illinois College in Jacksonville.
After serving in the Illinois Air National Guard for six years, Paul spent 33 years with IDHS, starting as a system analyst before teaching software programs and finally becoming manager of Executive Information Systems. He also was a member of the Ardmore Athletic Club and Bachelors Ball Committee.
Paul will be remembered for his great sense of humor and patience that served him well during his 13 years as a softball coach for the Khoury League and nine years of coaching coaching for Lincoln Heritage Soccer League. He was an avid Chicago Bears, Notre Dame and St. Louis Cardinals fan, who loved the New York Times crosswords, flying and, above all, his grandkids and family. He was the World's Best husband, father and grandfather.
His parents and a sister, Carole Buedel White, preceded Paul in death.
He is survived by his wife, Jeanne of Springfield; his three daughters, Lisa (husband, Darren) Standefer of Sherman, Agnes (husband, Eric) Standefer of Springfield and Paula Buedel of St. Louis; his grandson, Christopher Buedel-Maurer of Springfield; his two granddaughters, Taylor Standefer of Springfield and Alaina Standefer of Springfield; his stepgrandson, Nick Standefer of Springfield; two brothers, Martin (wife, Regina) Buedel of Springfield and Carl "Buddy" (wife, Pat) Buedel of Zionsville, Ind.; an aunt, Sister Mary Michaeline, O.P., of Sacred Heart Convent in Springfield; an uncle, Francis "Franny" Grady of Minneapolis; as well as several nieces, nephews and cousins.
Family will receive friends from 5 to 8 p.m. Wednesday, Feb. 13, 2008, at Kirlin-Egan and Butler Funeral Home, 900 S. Sixth St. Visitation will begin with a prayer service at 5 p.m., including special remarks from Pastor Stan Summers. A funeral Mass will be held at 10 a.m. Thursday, Feb. 14, 2008, at Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception, 524 E. Lawrence Ave., with Rev. Peter Harman principal celebrant and Rev. Monsignor Thomas P. Holinga, V.F., concelebrant. Burial will follow in Calvary Cemetery.
Memorial contributions may be made to the American Lung Association of Illinois, 3000 Kelly Lane, Springfield, IL 62707.
Please visit Paul's online life story at www.butlerfuneralhomes.com to offer your condolences.
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Memories and Condolences
for Paul Buedel
Charlie and Carol Cusumano
February 27, 2008
Jeanne, so sorry to hear of Pauls passing, we just returned from out of state, our prayers are with you and your family.
Tanya Reeves-Mikasa
February 18, 2008
Jeanne, Lisa, Aggie & Paula,
Sorry to hear about your Dads passing. I remember you all from living on Mossman like it was yesterday. My prayers and thoughts go out to you.
Bill Dillon
February 14, 2008
Marty and Regina
Sorry to hear of your brothers passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Bill& Nancy Dillon
Alex Taft
February 14, 2008
Dear Jeanne and family,
My condolences to you and your family on your loss. I enjoyed very much our time spent working together at the Dept. of Mental Health. Paul is remembered by me as a very kind and gentle individual (and a good computer programmer).
I am sure Paul rests at the right side of our Lord in Heaven and awaits our arrival so that we may laugh again.
God be with you and family.
Alex Taft Family
Steve Washko
February 14, 2008
I worked with Paul upto his retirement from the Dept of Human Services several years ago. Not only was he a co-worker but he was a friend. He was dedicated to his work; but it was obvious that his family was the most important thing in his life.
Even after his retirement, I would meet up occassionally with Paul at his Wednesday morning Coffee Club, which was only made up of his good friend John Brunk and himself. The conversation was always lively, enjoyable, and very genuine.
Paul was a GOOD MAN!
I am in Colorado visiting my brother so I am regretful that I am unable to pay my respects. But my thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Maryrita(Ervin) & David Jackson
February 13, 2008
Marty and Regina:
Sorry, to hear about the death of your brother Paul.
Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Your old classmates,
JOHN VUYLSTEKE
February 13, 2008
JEANNE, SO VERY SORRY TO HEAR OF PAUL'S PASSING. I'VE NEVER MET A MAN WITH A BIGGER SMILE. HE WAS ALWAYS NICE TO ME AND I WILL MISS HIM. YOU AND YOUR FAMILY WILL BE IN OUR PRAYERS
Carrie Huggins (Beahringer)
February 13, 2008
Lisa and Family,
I know it has been a long time since I have seen you all. But I wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts. I know growing up I always thought your Dad was one of the best. Both your mom and dad always treated all of us like we were their kids too.
Janet Holsopple (Rogers)
February 13, 2008
Jeanne and Lisa Aggie and Paula---I was terribly sad to hear about Paul---You guys were like my second parents for years and Lisa Aggie and Paula like sisiters I never had----Paul was the best softball coach and most loving person i remember from my childhood---Love Janet Holsopple (Rogers) and Dolores Rogers
Brian Bowles
February 13, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss.
I hope you all are doing o.k.?
Your all in my thoughts.
DiAnna Thompson
February 13, 2008
I started at DHS working for Paul Buedel. I formed an immediate attachment for this humorous, compassionate, and encouraging man. Paul loved to laugh and made me laugh as well. He will sorely be missed. My prayers are with you Jeanne/Aggie.
John and Stacey Ballweg
February 13, 2008
Aggie and family,
Sorry to hear of the loss of your father. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Bob and Ann Marie Wilson
February 13, 2008
Paul was, and always will be, my second brother, my friend.
My daughter, Ann Marie, and I will never forget a warm, humerous and kind gentle-man.
To Jeanne, Lisa, Agnes and Paula we offer our deepest regrets, prayers and sympathy.
As he and you were for us, we will be here for you.
Sue and Curt Reynolds
February 12, 2008
Jeanne and family,
We remember Paul with fondess and affection. He was a warm and friendly person to all of the neighbors on 800 S. Douglas. We will miss him.
William Biderbost
February 12, 2008
My sympathies to the family of Paul. I went through five years at St. Agnes, four years
at Cathedral Boys High and two years at SJC with
Paul and always knew him to be a person of humor and with a great and even tempered personality.
Doug Bybee
February 12, 2008
I worked with Paul at DHS and always looked forward to the times when our work paths crossed - and I can still remember his smile when the subject turned to "family". He was a good man.
Brenda and Niles Hoffman
February 12, 2008
Jeanne and Girls, Our heartfelt prayers are with you. We will miss Paul greatly.
Sue and Curt Reynolds
February 12, 2008
Jeanne and family,
We are thinking of our "old" neighbors from 800 Douglas at this difficult time. We remember Paul with fondness and affection.
Staci Britz (Lael)
February 12, 2008
Hi little Paula, it seems like forever since we worked together at T&C Bank, we had some good times. I'm sorry to hear that your dad has passed away,I hope you find comfort with your family and close friends during this hard time. Take Care.
Aggie Kohorst-Cronson
February 12, 2008
Jeanne my love and prayers go out to you and your family. I will remember Paul each day when I say my rosary.
Teresa Tierney
February 12, 2008
Jeanne,
I was so sorry to hear of Paul's passing. You had over 40 years together and that's fantastic. I'm sure you have many wonderful memories. Hold on to those ... they will help get you through this difficult time. That ... and your family.
All my love,
Your cousin, Teresa and Mo Tierney
john r. newman
February 12, 2008
i lived across the street from paul,on harriet. he was always a gentle person,to me. a very kind person.i'm sure he will be missed greatly. may GOD,bless his soul,and the family that he loved.
Kathleen Crain
February 12, 2008
I am sure growing up everyone had a favorite Uncle, mine was this wonderful devoted father and husband. For the longest time when I was a very young girl I wanted to marry my Uncle Paul, then I grew up. I will never forget driving down Edwards Street one day going toward the Capital I saw a man walking that I thought was so handsome and of course as I got closer I saw that it was my Uncle Paul! Of course I was embarrassed at first but when I stopped to tell him about this he said "Well you are the prettiest one that has stopped to tell me that." I love my Uncle Paul and my Aunt Jeanne my cousins Lisa, Aggie and Paula I am so sorry for your lost. Love you all, Kathy.
John Blazis
February 12, 2008
Dear Jeanne and family,
Sorry to hear about Paul. I will always remember him during our time at Springfield Junior College. Plainly said he was a "good guy".
Wanda & Rusty Kunz
February 12, 2008
Aggie and family,
Our deepest sympathies goes out to you and your family during this most difficult time. We are out of state at this time, but our hearts and prayers are with you. With Love,
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