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GARY DEAN FAIR

1962 - 2013

GARY DEAN FAIR obituary, 1962-2013

BORN

1962

DIED

2013

GARY FAIR Obituary

Gary Dean Fair, age 50, of Bay View Washington, peacefully passed away on July 27, 2013 at Skagit Valley Hospital, surrounded by his family and the love and prayers of his many friends.

Gary was born on December 7, 1962 in Augsburg, Germany to Charles Thomas Fair and Mary LeDent Fair. Upon Tom's discharge from the Army in 1963, the family moved back to Burlington, where Gary attended Edison Elementary, and where he met many of his life-long friends.

Gary attended Burlington-Edison High School, graduating in 1981. He was an all-around athelete, and participated on the football, basketball, baseball and wrestling teams, as well as riding his dirt bike in motocross events. He played drums and guitar, and as a teenager played in his parents band, The Fair Pair. His outgoing and gregarious personality secured him many more life-long friends during high school.

After graduation, Gary attended Spokane Falls on a baseball scholarship, but due to an injury to his pitching arm, he decided to attend a heavy equipment operating school in Portland, Oregon. Upon graduation, he moved to Anchorage, Alaska where he worked for Eerkes Construction as a truck driver and backhoe operator. He thoroughly enjoyed working on what he called "Big Tonka Toys", and he often boasted that if you taped a toothpick to the backhoe bucket, he could pick your teeth with it!

After returning to Burlington in 1987, Gary met and married Kim Fortin, and together they had two daughters. Gary began working for Concrete Nor'West in 1987, and worked for them until 2002, when he started his own business, Clean Air Duct Service. His business motto was "Want Clean Air? Call Mr. Fair!".

Gary loved life, and he made everything he did an adventure. He loved being the center of attention and making people laugh. At camping or a barbecue, he would pull out his guitar and sing his self-penned number one hit, "Don't Argue With Your Woman, Just Bicker" (well, you know the words...!). He once bowled a 300 game in bowling league. He remembered every joke he ever heard, and delivered a punch-line like a master comedian. He rode a bull in the Winthrop Rodeo (so it was a baby bull, but he rode it!). And who can forget the infamous July 3rd Big Lake Boat Event? Not so funny, but he was the center of attention, once again! There are a million and one "Gary Fair" stories. One of his friends summed it up when he said "Gary lived half a life, but it sure was full".

Gary enjoyed having people around him, and making those people happy. The legendary Duck You-Know-What Christmas parties, the Superbowl parties with people packed earmuff to earmuff in front of his big-screen TV, dressing up at Halloween (remember his Dorothy costume, complete with size 13 ruby slippers!), and of course, his annual BBQ he called "BayViewStock". He loved that huge homemade barbecue almost as much as his big-screen!

Gary loved the outdoors, and everything you can do in them. Hunting, fishing, crabbing, clam digging, boating, camping, golf, softball, hiking, snow and water skiing, sky and scuba diving, or just sitting on the back porch with a cup of coffee in the morning, watching the sun come up, and trying to shoot moles.

Gary wasn't a complex man, he was a simple kind of man. He was an original, a "what you see is what you get" type of man. You always knew where you stood with him. He didn't squelch his words with you, he spoke his mind, but he would never talk about you behind your back. He was a genuine and kind man, he didn't have a mean bone in his body, and he just wanted to enjoy life and make people happy. When he was asked how he would want people to remember him, he said "probably that I would share my last dollar with them if they needed it". He was a generous man.

Gary is survived by his two daughters, Demi and Devon, whom he adored and was so proud of, and their mother Kim; his mother Mary Fair; his father and step-mother Tom and Judy Fair; his brother Troy and Kira Fair, and their children Kyndel-Lynn and Bryce; his brother Rob and Faith Fair, and their children Blake and Shane; his grandmother Mavis Fair; many aunts and uncles, which include Terry and Shirley Fair, Foster and Marlene Fair, Al Fair, Ted Fair and T Fair O'Harrow; many beloved cousins, neices and nephews; his special friend Kay Quall and her children; his little dog Cooper, who will make his new home in California with nephew Shane (lucky dog!); and all of his friends, whom he cherished.

Thank you to the staff in the Critical Care Unit at Skagit Valley Hospital for their efforts, their care and compassion. To Aunt Marlene, words cannot express our gratitude to you for all that you did; you are an angel. Loren and Kevin, you were islands in our storm, thank you for being there.

The family invites you to a Celebration of Life potluck that will be held in Gary's honor on Sunday, August 11, 2013 at the Burlington Eagles Club, located at 119 N. Cherry St, from 1:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m. Please come and share your stories and see old friends.

Rememberances in Gary's name can be sent to Pacific Ferret Shelter Network, 16884 Mountain View Rd., Mount Vernon WA 98274

Good bye Gary, you left your family and friends too soon. We weren't ready for you to go. The world will never be the same for us, there will always be a void in our hearts without you here. You are missed, and always will be. But I know that you're now with Willy, Roscoe and Tank, and you're out on the ocean with Grandpa Charles, bringing in that Big One. And as you once said to me; Hey, always know there's someone out here who loves you.

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Published by Skagit Valley Herald on Aug. 8, 2013.

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Bryan Fagan

August 14, 2013

The Scene: Our sophomore year in high-school.

The Place: Mrs. Jones's English Class.

I had to do a speech that morning and I was going to have a fellow classmate assist me in it. To my horror the classmate didn't show which meant I would have to do it solo. Gary saw how nervous I was and immediately volunteered to help. By the time we finished you would have sworn we were the best comedy duo in town. I received an A for the speech but most important was the lesson Gary taught me: Help someone when they are in need and do it because it is the right thing to do.

Gary was a man among boys in our class. He was fun, crazy, exciting and mature. He was always a step a head of the rest of us and we wouldn't have it any other way. It was an honor to be his classmate but most of all his friend. I can only imagine the stories he will tell us when it is our time to join him. My prayers go out to his family and friends. I have not seen you in many years Gary but I feel as though I just lost a best friend. Thank you for the memories. I will miss you.

August 12, 2013

We are deeply sorry on your loss. Our condolences to you. It seems so unfair that death should have the power to snatch away someone so pecious to us. Please know that Jesus promised that he is the resurrection and the life.

August 10, 2013

Troy,Mary and family, I am so sorry you lost your precious brother and son. I pray you will find peace in your beautiful memories from the past, and to know you will be together again. Sincerely to the Fair family. Mike and Sue Bullock (Sue Tuller)

Tammie Nelson

August 10, 2013

Gary you will be missed. You were a sunshine where there was none. The sun will be forever shinning on you by the Son who created you. Those who believe upon the Father will see you again.

Karl Wagoner

August 10, 2013

That was the greatest obituary I've ever seen. Honest, hilarious, and beautiful, just like Gary. -

Renee Jackson

August 9, 2013

To the Fair Family, one never Knows when your time has come to be with the Lord. He has touch many hearts in many way's, just his smile and joking ways lite up your life to know things are going to be better. I know members of Our Family will miss him very much, he put a imprint in Our Lives with the joy he brought to all! Hopefully we can learn and rejoice in what we have, and had in him! He is in a better place now. He will be missed By All who Got to Know Him!
Delmar And Renee Jackson

Michael Griffin

August 9, 2013

My condolences to the Fair family. He was a brother to me. A wonderful Guy. He will be truly missed.

Sandy Estes-Rich

August 9, 2013

What an eloquent obituary tribute to Gary. My sincere condolences to all. So very sad. Gone way too soon.

Lefty Trower

August 9, 2013

Having many friends is one thing but a special friend like Gary is rare. He was one funny guy who I will miss very much.

Rhonda Hurst

August 8, 2013

Gary's smile and laughter could light up a room. He will be missed by many. My thoughts and prayers to his family and friends.

Shelley "Tator" link

August 8, 2013

Always enjoyed visits from you when I was at getchell pit, and phone calls to whitmarsh when you were out there..great times at cnw functions!!! You will be missed.

August 8, 2013

I am so sorry to hear the sad news. I am sure he will be missed by his family and friends. My condolences to all of you who are grieving at this time.

Diane and Loren Falk

August 8, 2013

Troy, I'm so sorry to hear of your pain. You and your family are very special people, and I wish you the best. "Blessed Be Those Who Mourn, For They Will Be Comforted". Blessed Be.

Tammy Pinneke

August 8, 2013

Gary was one of a kind and will be deeply missed. My heart is with his entire family, especially Demi and Devon. Never forgotten....always remembered.

Jeff Cockerill

August 8, 2013

Gary had a huge impact on my life. I'll always remember the great times we had. The softball games, Halloween parties, and road trips. Remember when we went scuba diving in La Jolla hoping to see a great white shark that had been recently seen in the area? Great times with a great friend! I'm gonna miss you my friend, but will always remember you.

Paul Taylor

August 8, 2013

Gary was one of those very special unique individuals who touched everyone he met with his humor and love of life. I feel privileged to have known him as a friend. I shall miss him greatly. My heart and deepest sympathies go out to his family. We may all honor Gary by living life to the fullest. When you remember him, it is my sincere hope that these memories will bring a smile to your lips, because that would please him immensely.

Floy Fortin

August 8, 2013

This candle will be lite forever for you Gary. It honors your life and family always. To say we miss you falls short of reality. You will always be in a special place in my heart and I will hold and keep Demi and Devon safe forever for you. Love always Floy

August 7, 2013

A precious few people leave a void when they leave this earth and Gary was one of them. The word "gregarious" doesn't begin to describe this wonderful man. Oh how we all will miss him.

Karl, Jeanine, and Molly Alar

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