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ROBERT "BOB" PACIOTTI

1948 - 2010

ROBERT "BOB" PACIOTTI obituary, 1948-2010

BORN

1948

DIED

2010

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ROBERT PACIOTTI Obituary

Robert (Bob) Paciotti entered into rest on July 2, 2010, with his family by his side, after a long and courageous battle with esophageal cancer.

He was born on February 22, 1948 in Eveleth, MN the son of Carlo and Frances Paciotti. He was raised in Gilbert, MN and graduated from High School there. He went on to graduate from the University of MN with a Business & Economics degree and the University of Wisconsin Graduate School of Banking.

He was employed by the U.S. Treasury Department's Office of the Comptroller of the Currency, in 1970 and worked there until he was twenty-six, when he assumed the duties of CEO and Director of the First National Bank of Marinette, WI. He remained in banking for over twenty years holding various positions with the Bank of Montana System including President and Director of several of their unit banks and Senior Vice President of the holding company. He joined Rainier Bank of Seattle, WA in 1985 and remained with them and their successor banks until starting his own business in 1992 and then later purchasing and starting additional businesses in 1994 and 1995.
Participating in community activities was something Bob always believed in. He held positions as President and Director of the Chamber of Commerce, President and Director of the United Way, and President and Director of two Downtown Development Corporations. Locally, he was a charter member of the Mount Vernon/Skagit Rotary and was a Paul Harris recipient. He was a former Director of the Skagit Valley YMCA and was active in supporting several local charitable organizations. Giving back to his community was very important to him.

Bob was very fortunate to have many wonderful friends in every community he lived. He enjoyed spending time with them and was recently able to reunite with many from past communities. He loved life and got great satisfaction in making everyone around him feel welcome. He was happiest when he was able to make others smile. He loved to cook and always welcomed people into his home for a bite to eat, where nobody ever left hungry. He loved the sunshine and the water and had many wonderful memories of times spent with friends and family at Big Lake, Lake Pearrygin, and Lake Havasu.

Phenomenal husband, father, and grandfather doesn't even begin to describe him. He was the most generous and caring person who worked hard all of his life to take care of his family. We could never say enough to express the amount of love, caring, and support he gave to all of us. We feel very fortunate for the time we shared with him and for what we learned from him. Although we all long for more, we have many wonderful memories to cherish.

Bob was preceded in death by both of his parents.

He is survived by the loves of his life; his wife of 40 years, Sandi, his two daughters, Jeannie (Adam) Englund of Mount Vernon and Andrea (Eric) VanPelt of Burlington; a very special niece, Penny Paciotti of Sedro Woolley; three very special grandchildren, Aiden Englund and Grace and Jacob VanPelt; and a special grand nephew, Tyler Paciotti-Oka. He is also survived by his brother, Louis (Mary Jane) Paciotti; sister-in-law, Debbie (Bruce) Kangas; brother-in-law, Bruce (Mary) Beloy; and brother-in-law, Brian Beloy; as well as many nieces and nephews.

A celebration of life will be held on Saturday, July 10, 2010 at 10:00 AM, at Immaculate Conception's St. Joseph Center located at 215 N. 15th Street, Mount Vernon, WA.

Donations may be made in Bob's name to Skagit Valley Hospital Foundation Cancer Center Fund - PO Box 1376, Mount Vernon, WA 98273 or the Seattle Cancer Care Alliance - Esophageal Cancer Research - PO Box 19023, Seattle WA, 98109.

Arrangements are under the care of Hawthorne Funeral Home, Mount Vernon, WA. We welcome you to share your final thoughts of Bob and to sign the online guest register at www.hawthornefh.com

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Published by Skagit Valley Herald on Jul. 7, 2010.

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Don Munks

July 15, 2010

Dear Sandi and family,
I was not able to be at Bob's celebration of life Saturday but wanted to express my deepest sympathy for your loss. Bob was a strong supporter of mine and I will never forget that. My thoughts and prayers are with you now and especially in the future when the reality of Bob being gone sets in.
With all my love, Don.

Dorothy Manni

July 13, 2010

To the Family of Bob:
I went to school and graduated with Bob in 1966 in Gilbert MN. His family lived next door to our family for many years.

My deepest sympathy goes to Louie and Mary Jane and Bob's family.

May God give you peace in this time of sadness.

Jane (Campbell) Loan

July 12, 2010

Dear Sandi and Family,
I just heard about my cousin Bobby passing away. My prayers are with you and the family. My love to you all. I love you Bobby always, Jane (Campbell) Loan

Renee Gais Hunter

July 12, 2010

Dear Sandi and family,
My prayers and deepest sympathy are with you all. I have so many fond memories of the earlier years and the crazy things we did. Bob always made our times together fun and full of laughter. I still remember your rehersal dinner at the Paciotti's house in Gilbert and all of the wonderful food and laughter. You will all continue to be in my prayers. We'll talk soon.

Jack and Pat Utrie

July 12, 2010

Peace be with you Sandi...knowing that Bob's spirit will always be with you and your wonderful family. We will all miss Bob very much. He was one special man and enriched our lives. Love from the Utrie family

Claudean Davis-Talbert

July 10, 2010

My heart goes out to Bob's family. I know they will miss him as he played a huge part in their lives.

July 10, 2010

Bob had such a kind soul. I could tell just from looking at him, he always wanted to keep others happy. He had a great smile that could light up any room and that is something that you do not find too often. His willingness to go out of his way for others will always be something that I cherish. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. May God and Bob give you the strength. He will be greatly missed.

Cassaandra,Bill,Ryan & Kindra DeVries

July 10, 2010

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Craig & Lucy Oka

July 9, 2010

I hope this helps your heart Sandi"

God saw you geting tired
A cure was not to be
So He put His arms around you
And whispered "come with Me."

With Tearful eyes we watched you
And saw you fade away
Although we love you dearly
We could not make you stay.

A golden heart stopped beating
Your tender handss at rest
God took you home to prove to us
He only takes the BEST!

Please keep these words and memories with you everytime Bob and his furry friends sit alone with you!

Lucy&Craig Oka

July 9, 2010

Dearest Sandi, Well it's quite obvious how very much Bob was loved by all and will be missed. You will continue to be in our prayers for additional strength, perserverance and the knowlege from ALL how special Bob was to every person he met. He was a man of Great Honor and loved his family more than life itself and I know what a huge part of your heart left with him. Both you and I know he wants you to continue on living his legacy and How blessed you are having had him the lenght of time you did. WE all are aware that We are God's children and put here on earth to make a difference in life, and what a difference he made!! Not many can compare to the wonderful, enourmous love of life he shared with his family, friends and all people he came in contact with. Be strong and know he is constantly with you in your heart and in the most beloved memories. God Bless you and may HE heal you heart when the time is right for you. You also are a remarkable mom, auntie, sister grandma, friend and most importantly the love of Bobs life. Carry that thought with you forever and please be aware of the numerous amount of people who will always be there for you at any time. I know he left this earth in Peace knowing YOU would be fine and the thought that you knew the enourmous amount of LOVE he had for you and your children and grandchildren. Please don't hesitate to call if you should need anything from a prayer to anything else. You are on our Prayer List at Church and we all are aware your Bob is made new again and will forever be with you. Take some time for yourself to rest and know that all you have to do is call and everybody is there for you and your family. God Bless you and your family and Bob will be missed but as a Christian, you know he is doing well and looking after you. Aloha and many blessings from us and our entire family in Hawaii.

John and Cheryl Goodspeed

July 9, 2010

Sandi and family,

Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you. I had the privilege of working for Bob at West One Bank when he managed the Bank’s loan center. Bob was a wonderful boss, mentor, and friend. We stayed in touch over the years and it was very obvious to me how much Bob loved and valued his family. I’m truly grateful for having known Bob. He was my friend and he will be missed.

Michael Kangas

July 9, 2010

Dear Aunt Sandi and Family,

My deepest sympathy goes to you during this difficult time. I was very fortunate to have Bob as my uncle. Every time I was able to see him he always had a smile on his face that would light up a room. He had one of the biggest hearts and always made me feel blessed to have him as my uncle. The time I spent with him and the memories that we created will always be cherished. He will be greatly missed by everyone he touched with his smile and his heart.

My thoughts and prayers continue to be with you all.

Breana, William, and Braelyn McCoy

July 9, 2010

Dear Aunt Sandi and Family,

Our deepest sympathy goes to you on this very difficult time. Uncle Bob was such an amazing person to be around. He was always full of happiness and love. He was always very generous and helpful in many ways. We didn't get to see very much of him because of such distance between but when we did we always had a great time. I never did get to thank you guys enough for the lovely baby shower gifts and the wedding gifts. I wish I would have been able to spend more time with him and got to learn more about him. When I did get to see him in vegas and at your guy's house he was always such a happy go lucky guy. It's very sad when things like this have to happen. We will miss him very much and my thoughts and prayers go out to you guys. We really wish we could have been there to be there for you guys. We love you and Uncle Bob will always be with us.

Nick Kangas

July 8, 2010

Aunt Sandi and Family,

My deepest sympathy goes to you. I looked up to Uncle Bob in so many ways and it is really hard to comprehend him not being here. He was such a generous, kind, fun, loving man and I have a lot of envy for everything he was as a person and all he had in his life. Even though I never was able to spend too much time with him and all of you with the distance between, I still have such great memories! From graduation visits here to Havasu/Vegas to Andrea's wedding, Uncle Bob has always been a favorite person of mine. He definitely knew how to treat people and make them feel special and he will be forever in my heart!! He will be greatly missed by all who knew him and my thoughts and prayers have constantly been with you!

Carolyn Carlberg

July 8, 2010

Dear Sandi, Jeannie, Andrea and Penny,

I was so saddened to hear of dear Bob's passing. He was such a great spirit, so warm hearted, that his presence will stay with us always.

I have always liked to listen to Bob's gentle laugh...kind of a "heh heh" that spoke volumes about his amusement. His eyes would twinkle and you just knew a good joke or laugh was coming.

I remember Bob in a green eyeshade, in the Paciotti dining room,dealing out chips to teach the Knitting Club Girls how to play poker so that we'd be successful in our gambling endeavors in Lake Tahoe. What fun we had and how Sandi coached me to win at the tables. Luckily we weren't thrown out!

And of course the Paciotti's welcomed me with open arms my first "single" Christmas...not only with gifts, but with true friendship and caring. What a pleasure it was to see a loving family all celebrating together. Bob and Sandi's deep love and affection for one another was so apparant that day as he gave her a beautiful negligee and called her his "love."

I always wanted Bob's famous recipe for his marinated antipasto. It was such a treat to get that as a gift and savor each fabulous bite.

And speaking of recipes, Bob's "Deadly Nightshade" could knock you on your butt! :)

Bob was a man of many talents and a friend to all.

Although I've moved to Oregon and haven't seen much of Bob and Sandi, I did get to see him last December (2009) and even though he was feeling ill, he still had the old Paciotti hospitality and joy of gab. We talked of the past and did some fond reminiscing. We even laughed that he was the first one to notice at a Rotary party years ago that I'd gotten my braces off....at 35 years of age. "looks good" he said. "Don't play the net at any volleyball games and get those teeth knocked out!"

I know you will miss your husband and dad and uncle terribly. But the storehouse of memories are just priceless.

With much love,

Joe & Mary Lempe

July 8, 2010

Dear Sandi, Jeannie & Adam, Andrea & Eric, and all of the extended Paciotti family,

Mary and I were so saddened to hear of Bob’s death. He was truly a great guy who was so committed to and so proud of his family. He was a fun-loving, benevolent guy that left all who met him with great memories. Here are some of mine.

Bob and I first met in the summer of 1970 when we were both bank examiners for the Comptroller of the Currency and stationed in northeastern Wisconsin. We traveled a fair amount so we spent a lot of time together both at work and after work. After Bob and Sandi got married, I was the recipient of their gracious hospitality many times. There were evenings with large quantities of lasagna, Chianti, and Italian delicacies. After a large meal, we’d have a blender full of grasshoppers while we played with Bob’s model train. (Remember – this was before the invention of the Xbox, Wii, and other electronic games).

Bob designed a unique aquarium that was going to be made from giant acrylic tubing. Bending the tubing presented a challenge, so Bob decided to fill the tubing with flour and heat it in Sandi’s oven. The tubing didn’t quite fit in the oven, so he built an extension out of plywood to enlarge the oven. I’m not sure if the process ever worked or if was ever patented.

In 1973 I was transferred to Fargo, and Bob moved to Marinette to become CEO of a bank there. When leaving, Bob entrusted the Paciotti barbeque sauce recipe for country style ribs to me, with the condition I not disclose it to anyone. The vow has been kept for 37 years.

About 12 years ago Bob, Sandi, and family were on vacation at Rush Lake in Minnesota. We got together one very hot day for a day of fishing. We were out in the boat and decided to head in for some lunch. I sat down to start the boat and heard a splash from the back. Guess who jumped out of the boat in the middle of the lake? He said he had to cool off, so that was his solution. The only problem was we couldn’t get him back in the boat. We began laughing, and as you know, when Bob laughs, everyone laughs. After finally settling down, I just handed him a beer while he was in the water, and had him hang on to the side of the boat while we slowly headed to shore.

Ever the consummate host and event planner, Bob contacted me to procure a “secret ingredient” in a concoction I think was known as “Deadly Nightshade” that he planned on serving at a Rotary gathering. The “secret ingredient” couldn’t be purchased in Washington, but was available in North Dakota. Transportation was initially a problem, but after labeling the box “Fragile, Computer Monitor”, it made its way successfully to Washington where Bob reported that it was enjoyed by many guests.

Bob and I visited on the phone a couple of weeks before he died. It was so hard to say goodbye to a friend who had done so much for so many over the years. I will always remember his ever present smile and his trademark contagious laugh. Part of our job on this earth is to build memories, and he did a great job doing that.

Long live the memories of Bob Paciotti, and may God bless him and his wonderful family.

Tay Johnson

July 8, 2010

Dear Sandi & Family:

I was only able to meet Bob once and luckily it was at my wedding in Vegas. It was nice meeting him and spending time with him. He even showed me how to play craps. Wow does time fly, that was almost 2 years ago too bad we couldn't of done it again.

Well my heart & prayers goes out to the rest of his family. He will be missed and not forgotten!

July 8, 2010

Dear Sandi and Family,

Our sincere sympathy to you. Bob and I (Wally) were good friends in Gilbert, MN. I wanted to share a story from the earlier years.

- Not A Fish Story -

Bob and I were required by our mothers to attend church services each and every Sunday or else. Well, on one occasion I recall the game plan changed. Bob stopped by my house with his red Studabaker Lark to pick me up for church as usual. However, instead of the drive up to Summit Ave. to St. Joseph's church, we took a detour.

You see we had stashed our fishing poles in the Lark the night before. We drove to a little trout lake a mile or two south of Bass Lake. At which point we drove the Lark into the lake, which had a very shallow sand beach, up to its doors, just so the water would not get inside. We rolled down the windows and cast our lines out the window. Well, it was not too long and Bob got a bite and wouldn't you know, it was a big one, a 4 pound rainbow trout. What hurt the most, we had to throw it back as we figured our mothers would not buy into the explanation that they were giving fish away at church, even though the sermon was pertaining to the 7 loaves of bread and a fish.

We will truly miss Bob. He had a wonderful sense of humor and infectious laugh.

John (Wally) and Judy Walek
Sauk Rapids, MN

July 8, 2010

Dearest Paciotti Family. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family during this difficult time. I was very fortunate to know and work with Bob over the past 10 years. He always had a smile and could make you laugh during the most stressful times. He had the biggest heart and was one of the most caring, giving friend I was blessed to meet. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Shelly Champion (Mt. Vernon)

July 8, 2010

Dear Sandi and Family,

Our sincere sympathy to you. Bob and I (Wally) were good friends in Gilbert, MN. I wanted to share a story from the earlier years.

-Not A Fish Story-

Bob and I were required by our mothers to attend church each and every Sunday or else. Well, on one occasion I recalled the game plan changed. Bob stopped by my house with his red Studabaker Lark to pick me up for church as usual. However, instead of the drive up to Summit Avenue to St. Joseph's church, we took a detour. We had stashed our fishing poles in the Lark the night before. We drove to a little trout lake, a mile or two south of Bass Lake, at which point we drove the Lark into the lake, which had a very shallow sand beach, up to the doors, just so the water would not get inside. We rolled down the windows and cast our lines out the windows.

Well, it wasn't too long and Bob got a bite and wouldn't you know it was a big 4 lb. rainbow trout. What hurt the most, we had to throw it back as we figured our mothers would not buy into the explanation that they were giving fish away at church, even though the sermon was pertaining to the 7 loaves of bread and a fish!

We will truly miss Bob. He had a wonderful sense of humor and infectious laugh.

John (Wally) and Judy Walek
Sauk Rapids, Minnesota

Bill & Leatha Sullivan

July 8, 2010

Sandi & family,

Even though we were not fortunate to get to know Bob in a personal way we did get to know him through you. From the things you shared we came to know him as a loving, caring husband, father, and grandfather. We also learned how special he was to all those who did spend time with him through the years. There are no words to help ease the pain you all are going through. Only the wonderful memories you have will bring smiles to your hearts. Our thoughts and prayers continue to be with you all.
Your friends,
Bill & Leatha Sullivan

July 7, 2010

Dear Sandi and family, Jeanne and I send our deepest sympathies on the passing of Bobby. Bobby was a good friend in those early "growing up" years in Gilbert (MN). I have many fond memories of fishing, card games(lots of card games...I still may have a couple of Bobby's markers...he just didn't have that poker face.)...hanging out and having a couple of beers on occasion. We did have fun! I get together with the "range" boys a few times a year (Doc, Wally, Meags, Art Ruohonen, Tom Jacobsen, and others. We never miss the opportunity to talk about old times, and never is there not a story or two about the exploits of Bobby Paciotti. I know by the Christmas cards we exchanged over these many years that he had an amazing life, raised some great kids and left a legacy that will surely carry on for generations. Grief work is never easy, takes time, but it is our way of saying farwell and knowing that Bobby is in a good place. We send our love. Jack (Jako) and Jeanne Kapeller

Emily Molina

July 7, 2010

Dear Paciotti Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I had the pleasure of meeting him a few Christmas' ago. He has certainly touched and imprinted angel dust footprints on everyone's hearts. He made time for his lovely wife, his wonderful daughters and their spouses but most importantly he made special time for his grandkids. May his memories give you strength on your good and bad days.
God bless each and every one of you.

May the light of Peace flow in your hearts,

Alex & Mandy Englund

July 7, 2010

Paciotti Family,
Our deepest sympathy goes out to you. Bob was a wonderful person and will be missed greatly. You are in our thoughts and prayers. If there is anything we can do to help, please don't hesitate to ask. Love, Alex, Mandy, Alexia and Karson Englund

Jeff Bottlinger

July 7, 2010

Sandi, Jeannie, Andrea, and Penny,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you and your extended family members. He will be missed as he was a wonderful and caring person who was very respected. He was cheerful and always brought a smile to people. Always cherish the fond memories in this difficult time. May you all have peace and my prayers go out to you all.

Sarah Martin

July 7, 2010

My deepest sympathies to the entire Paciotti family. I never had the pleasure of meeting Bob, but heard many wonderful things about him through a co-worker. May God give you peace in this difficult time.

Sarina Williamson

July 7, 2010

Thoughts and prayers to you all in this time. Bob will be missed by all and my prayers go out to you!

God Bless you all!

Craig & Lucy Oka

July 7, 2010

Dear Sandi, Jeannie, Andrea and Penny, we are so sorry for the loss of your husband and dad.and special Uncle Bob. He will be missed enourmously for his laughter, jokes, his making everyone around him feel loved and comfortable. A kinder man you will never find. We will continue to pray for you Sandi and all your family during this sad time. We all know Uncle Bob would want us to celebrate his Life he left and especially the many memories of him you each have in your hearts. While he may not physically be with you, he will forever be with each of you with is Giant of a Man Love and all the fond memories he left each of you.. May God Bless and touch your hearts and help the healing process. We will always think of him in silly situations, in his stories he used to tell around the table and most of all for the beautiful, caring and loiving husband, father, and grandfather and great uncle to Tyler and so much love for all his family..We give thanks to God that his brother Lou and his wife Mary Jane and his immiediate family were all there with him at his passing.. God bless each of you and may each day get a little easier, just remember he may be gone "BUT NOT FORGOTTEN!:" When you start to miss him, think of his jokes and all the wonderful memories he left each of you. God Bless and be with each of you during this sad time. Aloha, Craig and Lucy Oka

Janet Ekle-Andersen

July 7, 2010

I was fortunate to work with Bob in Burlington, Mount Vernon and Bellingham. He was always up for a game of cards in the lunchroom. Gave us all a big piece of himself, as usual. May your memories of him bring you peace and joy.

Larry and Gail Melgary

July 6, 2010

Dear Sandi, Jeanne, and Andrea,

Paciottis were our neighbors in Marinette, WI, for many years during the 1970s. We enjoyed happy times in their warm, welcoming home.

Bob and the family participated joyfully in the annual neighborhood pig roast bringing humor, fun ideas,and great food to the party.

Our daughter, Carrie, very often babysat for Jeanne and Andrea and the loving way of the little girls tickled her; this was an enjoyable part of her teenage years.

We remember our tennis leagues (in the wooden racquet days) and all the laughter. Sometimes we laughed just because Bob's remarkable laugh caused us to.

Bob had an interesting Irish Setter, Sam, who could retrieve particular pairs of slippers from Bob's closet upon demand. Sam had amazing skills due to Bob's fine upbringing.

Bob served prominently as President of our local YMCA, making important, positive changes which stand today!

He jumped in with both feet in activities to better our community.

It was a sad day when Paciottis moved "out West" but we are grateful to have known and loved this family who touched our lives so dearly.

Love,

Renee Avery

July 6, 2010

Dear Sandi, Jeannie & Adam, Andrea & Eric, and family:

I am sorry to hear about Bob's recent passing. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Larry & Gail Melgary

July 6, 2010

Dear Sandi, Jeane, and Andrea:

Paciottis were our neighbors in Marinette, WI, for many years during the 1970s. We enjoyed happy times in their warm, welcoming home.

Bob and the family participated joyfully in the annual neighborhood pig roast bringing humor, fun ideas, and great food to the party.

Our daughter, Carrie, very often babysat for Jeanne and Andrea and the loving way of the little girls tickled her; this was an enjoyable part of her teenage years.

We remember our tennis leagues (in the wooden racquet days) and all the laughter. Sometimes we laughed just because Bob's remarkable laugh caused us to.

Bob had an interesting Irish Setter, Sam, who could retrieve particular pairs of slippers from Bob's closet upon demand. Sam had amazing skills due to Bob's fine upbringing.

Bob served prominently as President of our local YMCA, making important, positive changes which stand today!

He jumped in with both feet in activities to better our community.

It was a sad day when Paciottis moved "out West" but we are gratful to have known and loved this family who touched our lives so dearly.

Love,

July 6, 2010

Dear Sandi, Jeannie & Adam, Andrea & Eric & family:

I first met Bob when we were both National Bank Examiners working for the U.S. Treasury Department in 1973 in Appleton, WI. Bob then hired me at the First National Bank of Marinette, WI. in 1976. After Bob & Sandi left for Montana in the early 80s, we always kept in contact. We were then reunited in 2005 when Bob & Sandi bought a house in Lake Havasu City, AZ. It was so great to get together again and share memories. Bob was a "bigger than life person" as they say. I'll never forget his contagious laugh. He loved to fish and boat on Lake Havasu with his family. I'll never forget all the great meals he and Sandi enjoyed preparing. I also marveled at the love, which was so evident between Bob and his family.

God's blessing to Bob and his family. He will always be fondly remembered.

Larry Nelson
Shawano,WI.
Lake Havasu City, AZ.

July 5, 2010

Dear Sandi, Jeanne & Andrea

We are deeply saddened by Bob's passing. He will always be in our hearts and memories. May the love of those around you help you through the days ahead. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families in this difficult time.

George & Nila Krenos
Marinette, WI.
Lori Krenos-Urban & family
Coos Bay, OR.
Rob Krenos & family
Las Vegas, NV.
Wendsy (Krenos) Laundree & family
Marinette, WI.

Renee Vicker

July 5, 2010

Thoughts and Prayers are with you and the entire Paciotti Family.

God Bless,

Done Right cleaning Resources, Inc
Lake Havasu City, AZ

July 5, 2010

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

July 4, 2010

Dear Sandi, Jeanne, & Andrea,
We were so lucky to have the Paciottis as “across the street neighbors” in Marinette, WI. Our kids used to run from house to house on Richard Street and spend all day playing. In those days’ kids did not need to set up play dates and you knew all the parents. We had many fun tennis and racquetball games with Bob. He was so competitive in all of them. How he hated to lose! There were the card games in the cold winter nights and the many shared meals where you would hear the entertaining Paciotti stories. Bob was one of those people who you meet in life that you never forget no matter how many miles separate you and how long since you have talked. He made such a lasting impression. How can you forget that big Italian smile as he would greet you or that hearty deep laugh that made it so much fun to be with Bob. We will miss Bob but he will forever be in our memories. God bless Bob and his family. I am sure Bob will be looking out for the Vikings from above.
In loving friendship,
Skip & Kathy Heger, Boca Raton, FL

Fael Ioris

July 3, 2010

Dear Sandi, Jeannie, Andrea, and the entire Paciotti family,

While this is a terrible loss, we know you will always find comfort in knowing how much Bob brigthened the lives of everyone around him - including ours, even if mostly rom afar.

May God bless and support you through this difficult time.

Love always,

Fael, Renata, Tais Ioris

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