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RUTH BAKKE

1918 - 2013

RUTH BAKKE obituary, 1918-2013, Burlington, Washingtond

BORN

1918

DIED

2013

RUTH BAKKE Obituary

Ruth Bakke of Burlington, Washington, age 94, went to be with the Lord on February 10, 2013. Ruth was a very special person and a much loved mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother. With the help of wonderful caregivers and Hospice, Ruth had stayed in the home she built on Burlington Hill until her death.

Ruth was born to Norwegian immigrants Gerhart and Sigrid Gunderson on March 16, 1918 in Frog Lake, Alberta, Canada. As the seventh of ten children she learned how to work hard on the family farm. It was there that Ruth developed the generous and loving spirit for which she has always been known.

At age 17 Ruth followed her parents and younger sisters to Whatcom County where she attended Meridian High School. On January 29, 1938 she married Aadne Bakke and moved to the Bakke farm in the Acme area. It was on this farm that she and Aadne raised their six children. She actively supported Mt. Baker High School and was pictured in a Saturday Evening Post article on parents who held a Scandinavian smorgasbord each year to raise funds for the band's highlander uniforms.

Ruth was a musician, often picking up fiddle, harmonica or accordion to play an old tune or gospel song. She was famous for cooking pancake breakfasts over a campfire in Saxon on the South Fork of the Nooksack River. Ruth's passion was cooking for people who loved to eat.

In 1960 the Bakkes moved to Skagit County where they operated several restaurants during the 60's and 70's. Those included Bakke's Cafe in Burlington (known for an outstanding Scandinavian smorgasbord), Nordic Inn in LaConner, Freedom Inn in Mt. Vernon and Marysville Cattle Auction Cafe. At each of these establishments Ruth's generous spirit shined as she developed lifelong relationships with her patrons, including the colorful characters of 70's era LaConner.

In 1977 Ruth began a successful second career as a realtor, retiring at the age of 89. As a realtor she was well loved and received many awards for high sales. The 80's were a difficult time. Death claimed her husband of 51 years, Aadne Bakke. He had been a wonderful companion to her and a partner in both her careers. Ruth also lost her daughter Kaye Doughty, great-granddaughter Kaitlyn Peacock, and several of her siblings.

More than anything, Ruth was known throughout Skagit County for her cooking and bread making. She often gifted her clients with a loaf of bread baked that same morning. In the early days of her restaurant career she catered dinners for as many as 600 people. At age 90 she hosted weekly dinners at her home for family, friends, clients and whoever happened by.

Ruth and Aadne were founding members of the Burlington Alliance Church and enthusiastically supported it as well as mission work around the world. They made three trips to Africa to visit their son Gordon, his wife Elaine and their family who were serving as missionaries in Zambia. They also loved to visit family in Norway and Canada.

Ruth and Aadne's surviving children include son Gordon (Elaine) Bakke of Conway; daughters Sharon (Jerry) Benson of Bow, Sandi (Bill) Riley of Burlington, Kit (John) LaMonte of Acme and Terri (Charlie) Bakke-Schultz of Anacortes. She was very proud of her thirteen grandchildren; Janice Bakke, Greg Bakke, Sarah Knudsen, Erik Benson, Bryan Benson, Dr. David Benson, Jason Benson, Danette Peacock, Merideth Hansen, Mike Doughty, Kim Lee, Tiffany LaMonte and Melissa Anderson as well as her twenty great-grandchildren. Ruth outlived nine brothers and sisters. She was called "Aunty Ruth" by over one hundred nieces, nephews, grand nieces and grand nephews.

Ruth's family want to extend special thanks to care givers Joy Woody, Ashley Carpenter and Barbara Riley as well as Nurse Jenny and those who helped through Hospice.

Friends who would like to celebrate Ruth's life with the family are invited to join them at Bethany Covenant Church at 1318 S. 18th, Mt. Vernon, Washington on Wednesday, February 20 at 1:00 pm. The burial will follow at the Saxon Cemetery, Doran Rd. near Acme. A memorial gathering will be held after the burial at the home of Kit and John LaMonte in Saxon.

Memorials can be made to MATA (Mission Aviation Training Academy), P.O. Box 3655, Arlington, WA, 98223, Burlington Alliance Church or Hospice of Skagit County.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Skagit Valley Herald on Feb. 15, 2013.

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Jon C Soine

February 9, 2022

Blessed be the, memory of Ruth Bakke

Betty French

March 5, 2013

I'll never forget when I was a young pastor's wife, starting the Burlington Alliance Church, Ruth pulled me aside and said, "Come with me--you need some new clothes!" I wasn't going to say no to that and what fun it was to select some new things at what would now be called a "boutique." I'm sure the Lord did the same for her when she arrived on His doorstep: "Ruth, come with me--you need some new clothes!"

Sarah Harkness Bolton

February 27, 2013

From our family to yours,sincerest condolences. What an amazing legacy she has left with us here.

Steve and Bev Moss

February 25, 2013

We were so very sorry to hear of Ruth's passing, but know that she is in a better place. Blessings to you all.

Jon Soine

February 25, 2013

Sandi and family,

Remember the blessings and memories that your mother left us. I will never forget the Easter visits to her restaurant as a kid, nor our visits at the Vespers.
BLESSED be her memory.

Jackie Freidel

February 21, 2013

What a sweet loving caring lady she was. She will be miss by so many of us. But she love to sing and now she is sing with our Lord in Heaven .So you all tune your ear to Heaven and you can hear her. I know I can. We will all see her again when our Lord ask us to come home. My Prayers and Thoughts go out to her family at time of pain. But I know she is very happy now and feels like a young lady again.

February 20, 2013

My prayers are with the Bakkee family. Ruth was a highly respected member of our community. We will miss her.
God Bless Ruth and her family.
Theresa Sygitowicz

Richard and Heather Sheppard

February 19, 2013

Ruth was so wonderful to talk with, even when her memory was failing her she was a amazing hostess, you didn't leave without being fed a meal of Love.

Sandi (Hocking) Gish

February 19, 2013

My favorite Ruth (ism)
I DO MY BEST AND LET THE LORD DO THE REST
My dear freind, you always had such a sweet smile and a kind word. Bless You

Luther and Deb Galbreath

February 16, 2013

We cherish our memories, esp. cooking with Auntie Ruth at the River! Celebrating a life well lived!

Sara Sakuma

February 16, 2013

Dear Kit and Family,
What a rich life she lived! My thoughts are with you.

I wish I could be transported back to the cafe in Burlington and experience it once again.

Mark Pearson

February 15, 2013

Ma Bakke as we called her will be forever missed. I will always remember the first time she taught me how to make her award winning cinnamon rolls. They were the best. We will look forward to rejoining her in heaven where im sure she will be in the kitchen cooking up some great breads or cinnamon rolls. We will remember the family as they celebrate her life.

Frank & Nancy Krook

February 15, 2013

To all of Ruth's wonderful family. She has left a loving legacy that will last for many generations to come. We send our sympathy.

MAXINE WILSON

February 15, 2013

SO SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR MOM. SHE WAS THE GREATEST AT EVERYTHING SHE DID. MARVLOUS PERSON, LOVE YAH ALL

Robert Jobin

February 15, 2013

Very sorry for your loss Kit and Kim.

Hebe Sakuma Bradley

February 15, 2013

Terri and family...I extend my condolences to the family for the loss of your mom. Many nice memories from the past. My prayers are with you. Love Hebe

My July 14th birthday with Aunti Ruth, Leah & Mom; Hilda

Cheri Tamman

February 15, 2013

So sad to lose the last Aunt of a generation of people who demonstrated their love and loyalty each and every day. My Aunt Ruth was awesome.

Brian Rowland

February 15, 2013

Sandi, Bill and family, my thoughts and prayers are with you and I know there are so many wonderful memories of your mother. Brian and Dolores

February 15, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of the family
Phyllis and Boyd Omdal

Brian Rowland

February 15, 2013

Sandi, Bill and family, I am so sorry for the loss of your mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Let all the wonderful memories help you through this time.

Kit LaMonte

February 15, 2013

I will miss you Mom and never forget all the love you have shown us kids. Enjoy all your family that went before you and we will see you again someday.

February 15, 2013

We are saddened to hear of Ruth's passing. We had been privileged to participate in pancakes on the Nooksack,and goodies at other places too. She was a blessing to us and so many others who knew and loved her.
Dennis and Carolyn Swanson

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