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Terry Flanell Obituary

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of our dearly beloved wife and mother on Thursday, June 14, 2012. Terry Flanell was born on July 8, 1959 in Daytona Beach, Florida and spent her adolescent years in Wantagh, New York before moving to Colorado Springs, Colorado in 1982. Terry and her husband built up the Dragonman's empire and legacy, where she prided herself as being the "brains behind the operation." Terry will always be remembered for her enthusiasm for life, devotion to friends and family, strong entrepreneur ambitions, and a smile on her face (Bud Light Lime in hand). She is survived by the love of her life of thirty-three years, Mel Bernstein; and her two amazing daughters: Melanie and Melissa. A memorial service will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Wednesday, June 20, 2012 at the Shrine of Remembrance "America the Beautiful" Chapel. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be directed to the VA Medical Center Volunteer Services (Hospital General Account), 1055 Clermont Street, Denver, CO 80220. Online Condolences: ShrineOfRemembrance.com

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Published by Skagit Valley Herald on Jun. 19, 2012.

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Tom & Barb Lyons

February 9, 2021

Mel and family! I am just now (Feb. 2021) learning of the Drago Man, his house, gun shop and lifestyle and also learning of the giant void in his life with the loss of Terry. I hope 8 years isn't too long to offer my condolences and prayers. The loss of a spouse, after so many years together, leaves a void in your life and in your heart that can never be filled. My wife, Barbara, and I was in South Dakota and Montana in 2004 on our motorcycles with a group from Maryland. If I had known about Dragonland then, I certainly would have visited you. May angels lead Terry into paradise and may she Rest In Peace. Condolences and prayers to you Mr. Bernstein, keep up the good work but at the end of the day always wish Terry goodnight". Tom & Barbara

Lainey Bernstein

June 28, 2012

I am a close friend of Terry's here in the DC area, (Alan Penberg), who has told me the story of his dear cousin Terry. My heart goes out to the entire family during this time of great sadness.

Carol

June 26, 2012

RIP Terry will be saying happy birthday and will drink a bud light lime for you on our birthday.

Bruce Clack

June 25, 2012

A beautiful verse to your family...
"Families Are Like Quilts
Lives pieced together
Stitched with smiles and tears
Colored with memories . .
and bound by Love"
These words brought comfort to me through my tears. I wish you the Lord's peace and comfort...
Bruce Clack

Ervin (Zee)& Maggie Zeeman

June 24, 2012

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Floree Nowlin

June 22, 2012

Sorry for your loss. On behalf of Kim, Doug and family, our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Take Care!!!

John and Ana Rhodes

June 21, 2012

Mel and family please accept Ana and my deepest sympathy. We knew Terry and had the pleasure of her company through our times at the shooting range, tours of the museum and car events. Terry always impressed us with her welcoming smile, honest laughter, insightful wisdom and spirited sense of humor. She was truly a special person whose lose to this earth is indeed a loss to humanity. We are honored to have known her. Mel, may the Lord give you and your family strength during this time of sorrow. Our hearts, our prayers and our thoughts go out to you all. Terry will be missed.

Cindi Fields

June 21, 2012

Terry was my friend, and exercise partner at Body fit boot camp. We used to go out for coffee or breakfast after class. She talked about you often, Mel, her family, and New York. She was a bright star. Please accept my deepest sympathy, she will truly be missed.

Paul & Sara Pucci

June 21, 2012

Mel and family please accept Sara and my deepest sympathy. Terry will be greatly missed by my family and all that ever came in contact with her. Even when she had to straighten me out she always did it with a smile and kindness. May the Lord give you and your family strength during this time of pain and anguish.

Ugne&family Lithuania

June 21, 2012

We are relatives of Terry's Mom. Our deepest sympathy for Terry's family. You're in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you all.

garry and karen wendel

June 20, 2012

our deepest sympathy to mel, melanie, melissa,rick, mike, david.Terry was a great friend, mom,and wife, always with a smile and look to make you wonder what she was up to,she has a hellava welcoming crew to meet her, shes an angel on our shoulders, shes watching over you girls have no doubts. Mel, i have no words to assuage your pain and anguish in this time of loss,except for the comfort you can have knowing how loved Terry was by all who knew her .

Gary & Karen George

June 20, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers go out to Mel and his family. We knew Mel and Terry through our daughters babysitting their two girls a long time ago. We have also toured their museum. God bless you and God be with you.

MWD Emir H323

June 20, 2012

my condolences to Terri's family and our deepest sympathy. On behalf of the Colorado War Dog Association, retired military dogs of colorado. You are in our prayers.

Larry and Debra Groninger

June 20, 2012

So sorry to hear of this tragic accident---we only knew Terry as customers of the range and her museum tour, but she was truly a special person. May God comfort Terry's family.

JOHN & SUSIE CASTANIEN

June 20, 2012

OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO YOUR FAMILY. TERRY WAS FULL OF LIFE AND SHE WILL BE MISSED. I HAVE NOTHING BUT THE UPMOST RESPECT FOR YOUR FAMILY AND I HOPE THAT THE COMING DAYS WILL GET EASIER. YOUR ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS AND IN OUR PRAYERS.

georgiana shaw

June 20, 2012

Terry, I loved you every single day of your life. Mom

Pookie Watkins

June 20, 2012

May your family be blessed Terry is such a wonderful woman She was our paintball mom. you will be truly missed.

Isabel Zoccolillo

June 20, 2012

Farewell my childhood friend. My deepest regrets to your family and until we meet again, I will not forget the warm smile that I never saw you without...God Speed!

Patti Hickox

June 20, 2012

I worked with Terry at the Mason Jar many moons ago. Although we lost contact I have great memories. My condolences go out to her family and friends

Keith Roche

June 20, 2012

A tragic loss for a great family. Deepest sympathies to her loved ones left behind.

Sue Blankenship

June 19, 2012

Terry's smiling face will truly be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family. May she rest in peace.
From our family to yours.
The Ellicott Fire Dept.

Dave Summerhill

June 19, 2012

my condolences to you and your family Mel for your loss.

Josie Schmidt

June 19, 2012

My deepest sympathy to Mel,Melanie & Melissa. Terry was one of a kind.
May God hold you all in the palm of His Hand. Rest in peace my dear old friend, till we meet again. ((( hugs & kisses )))
Josie Schmidt

Lori

June 19, 2012

Fly with the Angels Terry you are truly missed!

Suzanne May

June 19, 2012

My family and I had the pleasure of conversation with Terry after our tour of the museum last week. I could tell Terry was very special. My heart goes out to all her family and friends.

Clay Johnson

June 19, 2012

my deepest sympathy for you loss. my prayers go out to you. God bless.

Monty and Troy Kyle

June 19, 2012

Our prayers and thoughts are with all of you. Terry was an amazing lady, qualities that shine through her beautiful daughters. She was always so proud of Mel and all of her family. Her laugh, her strength and her friendship will be missed.

Carl & Michelle Bragg

June 19, 2012

Mel and Family...we are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you.

Sean May

June 19, 2012

Terry truly made a lasting impact on us and we thoroughly enjoyed the few moments we shared with her after our tour just a few days before her passing. We will miss her on our next visit but we know she will always have a presence there. RIP Terry. Our thoughts and prayers are with everyone affected by this tragic loss.

Priscilla Graham

June 19, 2012

Terry will be missed by many.Our thoughts go out to mel and the girls.RIP Terry and watch over all.

Chris Rush

June 19, 2012

Terry always made me and my paint ball team feel welcomed and appreciated. She designed the fields and made Dragonman's one of the safest and best paint ball locations in Colorado. She was a wonderful and beautiful person and I feel lucky to have known her. My deepest condolences to Mel and the family.
-Capt. GoDZiLLA (Team Hornytoad)

AARON BRYAN

June 19, 2012

so sorry for your loss

Norm Koch

June 19, 2012

Judy & I send profound condolences to the families who knew Terry. Our immediate family had known her for more than 40 years and 2 of our children have kept in telephone contact with her since she and they went their separate ways across the country. She must have had something special.

Charles & Kim Douglas

June 19, 2012

We are so sorry for your families lose. We will truly miss her at the Douglas's yearly gatherings. Our thoughts & prays are with you & yours. God Bless & watch over you all.

Angela and David

June 19, 2012

We are the friends of Terry's mother. Terry was a wonderful wife, mother and daughter. She is RIP in God's arms.

Phil Varrick

June 19, 2012

Our condolences to you and your family during this great loss. Terry's warm and kind spirit will always remain in the hearts of those who knew her.

Craig, Karen & Robyn Sullivan , Frank Dillingham

June 19, 2012

We are sincerely sorry for your loss. We are your neighbors, please know all of your family is in our thoughts and prayers during your grief. our condolences.

Wanda, Ed, Tanya & Angela Williams

June 19, 2012

Terry will be greatly missed! Her smile and sense of humor were so contagious. Mel and the family are in our thoughts and prayers, may the Lord comfort you all.

Tom Brown

June 19, 2012

Terry will be missed, but not forgotten. And she left the world a better place.

The Axelrods

June 19, 2012

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Mike Quintana

June 19, 2012

Mel and Family, May GOD hold you in his mercy thru the tough times. Terry will be greatly missed. Her smile and sharp wit kept us on our toes. Thank you for all you did for us on the instructor ranges, you made training fun.
Mike and the staff of Colorado Springs Security Services.

Joe & Kathy Kenda

June 19, 2012

We are very sad and will miss Terry for the rest of our days

Jeff & Carole DeLau

June 19, 2012

There are no words to say when we loose a good friend. We loved and cared about Terry. Now she is home in the loving arms of the Father.

Bernadette Durso

June 19, 2012

I know Terry from my daughter Tammy Flanell and son-in-law David Flanell. She was a very nice lady and had so much pride in her family and life in general. She will be remembered always with great fondness by all that knew her.

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