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Thomas Gross Obituary
Tom was the cherished son of Ruth Gross and the late Richard Gross. He grew up alongside his siblings, Jim (Sharon), David (Chris), and Kristie (Scott) Peterson, with whom he shared an unbreakable bond. His family expanded to include five beloved nephews, one niece, and five grand nephews and one grandniece, who will remember their Uncle Tom for his playful nature and the wisdom he imparted.
A proud alumnus of the University of Washington, Tom's passion for the natural world led him to study botany, a field where he thrived and which fueled his love for the environment. His commitment to nature and community was evident early on as he achieved the rank of Eagle Scout with the Boy Scouts of America, an accomplishment that foreshadowed a lifetime of leadership and service.
Tom's faith played a significant role in his life, as he lived his Christian values through acts of kindness and charity. He was a pillar of strength and support within his church community, often volunteering his time and talents to various church functions.
A man of many interests, Tom found joy in the simplicity of camping under the stars, strumming melodies on his guitar, and spending time with animals. The excitement of football season, the tranquility of swimming, and the thrill of exploring the great outdoors were sources of immense pleasure for him.
The world has lost a truly kind and intelligent soul, an adventurer at heart who lived his life with purpose and joy. Thomas John Gross will be deeply missed by his family, friends, and all who had the privilege of knowing him.
Donations in Tom's name can be made to the Whatcom Hospice House. Share your memories of Tom and sign the online guest register at www.lemleychapel.com.
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Lamarr Geiger Coler
July 19, 2025
The Central Methodist Church on Nelson Street in Sedro-Woolley.was where I met Tom. I assisted Mrs. Sandifer, the Sunday School teacher, each Sunday morning. Tommy arrived happy and usually sat by me. I remember his sweet disposition and interest in all that was going on around him.
Dr. Gross was our family doctor. Ruth was invited to my son´s baby shower some 45 years ago! Tom and his family have always had a special place in my heart. May God bless Tom and his family.
My condolences,
Susy Sandets
July 17, 2025
I remember when he was maybe tw or three. We were all At the hospital. There was a car accident and Tommy rolled out the back of the car. He only stubbed his toe. Blessed from an early age. He was warped in a box as a gift to his best friend, Raymond Jeffries. Fly high, Tommy. Big love. Susy Thompson Sanders.
Tom Fladebo
July 17, 2025
My privilege was to know Tom. Beyond his Friendship, he was intelligent, wise, and an avid competitor. He was always up for any challenge. Rest in Christ.
Bonnie Lang
July 10, 2025
Tom was a special neighborhood friend of my children. His parents were dear friends of mine. He was loved by everyone who knew him. May he rest in peace. Bonnie Lang
Grant
July 10, 2025
Shocked and saddened to hear Tom had passed. He overcame great adversity and was always ready for a laugh. We had some good times together in our younger years. My condolences to his family and friends. Rest in power Tom.
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