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Rev. Matthew Mitchell Miceli C.S.C.

Rev. Matthew Mitchell Miceli C.S.C. obituary, South Bend, IN

Matthew Miceli Obituary


Jan. 2, 1923 - Dec. 9, 2012 NOTRE DAME - Rev. Matthew Mitchell Miceli, C.S.C., 89, died Sunday (Dec. 9, 2012) at Holy Cross House, Notre Dame, Indiana. He was born on Jan. 2, 1923, in San Giuseppe Jato, Italy, to Carmelo and Maria (Migliore) Miceli. The family settled in upstate New York when Fr. Miceli was six years old. He graduated from Oswego High School, Oswego, NY, in 1942. He was received into the Congregation of Holy Cross on Aug. 15, 1943, at the Novitiate in Rolling Prairie, IN, and made his First Profession of Vows on Aug. 16, 1944. Fr. Miceli received a Bachelor's Degree in philosophy from the University of Notre Dame in 1947; a Bachelor of Sacred Theology from the Gregorian University, Rome, in 1949; and a Licentiate in Sacred Theology from Catholic University, Washington, D.C., in 1952. Fr. Miceli made his Final Profession on Aug. 16, 1947, and was ordained into the priesthood on Feb. 9, 1952, in Washington, D.C. He also studied theology at Holy Cross College in Washington from 1952 to 1954. After studying in Washington, Fr. Miceli taught at Notre Dame from 1954 to 1962. He also served as Rector of Stanford Hall for three years. In 1962, he taught at the University of Portland (Oregon). Fr. Miceli taught at Notre Dame for the next 30 years, from 1963 to 1993. He also served as Rector of Cavanaugh Hall from 1963 to 1990, holding the record at the time as longest-serving Rector of the same residence hall. A Cavanaugh alumnus set up a Rev. Matthew Miceli Scholarship in his honor and 17 children have been named after him: 16 Matthews and one Matthea. Following his stint as Rector, Fr. Miceli lived in-residence at Notre Dame, helped with student hall and garden management, and regularly celebrated Mass in chapels across campus and in retirement communities in South Bend. He also kept up with wine-making and his small vineyard on Bulla Road. Fr. Miceli moved to Holy Cross House, Notre Dame, IN, in 2007, where he remained until his death. Survivors include a brother, Francis of Pleasant Hill, CA; a niece, Maria Miceli Dotterweich in Jackson, MI; along with other nieces and nephews in New York. Fr. Miceli was preceded in death by his parents, Carmelo and Maria, and a brother, Bart. Visitation will be from 3:30 to 9:00 p.m. today (Dec. 11, 2012) at Moreau Seminary, with a wake service at 7:30 p.m. The funeral Mass will be at 3:30 p.m. Wednesday (Dec. 12, 2012) at the Basilica of the Sacred Heart at the University of Notre Dame. Kaniewski Funeral Home is handling arrangements. Memorial contributions in support of the mission and ministries of the Congregation of Holy Cross may be made to United States Province of Priests and Brothers, Office of Development, P.O. Box 765, Notre Dame, IN 46556-0765.

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Published by South Bend Tribune on Dec. 11, 2012.

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December 21, 2012

I have many fond memories of ND in the 80s, and the Mooch as he was affectionately known was part of them. I worked with him as an RA for a year, and at one of our meetings i cooked and Indian meal. He insisted on having a go at some chilli pickle "neat" , on account of his Italian heritage. He turned an impressive shade of crimson , and as beads of sweat condensed on his ample forehead, we feared we were going to lose him. So , I am glad to hear that he had a full life, and contributed to the ND community for decades after my time.
Mooch was a gentleman, who I am richer for having met .
Neil Gordon from Sydney Australia

December 21, 2012

I have many fond memories of Notre Dame, Cavanaugh Hall and Fr Miceli is central to a lot of them. I remember as an RA working with him, I cooked an Indian meal and he insisted on trying the chilli pickle "neat" on account of his Italian heritage. well he turned an impressive shade of crimson, and we thought he had done himself permanent damage! so I'm glad to hear he had a full life and contributed to the ND community for several decades After my time. we were blessed to know a gentleman like the Mooch
Neil Gordon in Sydney Australia

Cathy Kolf

December 19, 2012

He spread joy where ever he went. My years at ND would not have been the same without him.

Greg Licciardello

December 16, 2012

Discussing politics, smoking pipes together, playing dominoes, listening to great stories. Father, you will always be part of my fondest memories at Notre Dame and I will always recall your hearty laugh when I reflect on those wonderful years. May God rest your soul.

Manfred Winkler

December 14, 2012

It was a great pleasure and huge honor to have had such a loyal friend and known such a person. My time with Fr. Miceli did not end after my stay at Cavanaugh- 1982, there it just began. My whole family had the privilege and fun to accompany him over the years and get to know, love and respect each other very well.
We will miss Fr. Miceli a lot, also for his sense of humor, and will always have an important place in our hearts.

Duncan Hughes

December 14, 2012

I enjoyed trying his "grappa" years ago. He was a great introduction to ND life for an outsider marrying into the "family". His funeral was on the anniversary of the wedding he was to help celebrate, had he not been in Italy. He is missed.

E. L. M. ?

December 13, 2012

Father Miceli played a large role in my life. He baptized me as well as two of the three siblings that followed me. I remember seeing him at the nursing home in late September, early October, with my grandmother as well as the two siblings that had also been baptized. I smiled at seeing him. He was always delighted at what we brought him and was very generous and friendly to my family. He will be fondly remembered in my mind. God bless him and may he rest in peace.

Rich Henke

December 12, 2012

In my senior year,I worked for Father Miceli as a Resident Assistant in Cavanaugh Hall. Late of a Sunday evening, at the end of the weekly staff meeting, a fellow R.A., Neil Gordon, and I would linger and visit with Father over a glass of his home made wine. Those nights and those conversations remain with me today. I am grateful I had the chance to know this fine man who touched so many lives. Rest in peace, Father Miceli.

Rich Henke (Cavanaugh Hall 1979-83)

Hugh Wade

December 12, 2012

Wow. Father Miceli. Sad news. But also happy news, to find out more about his history, and what he has done. He was a giant that played a prominent role in a ton of lives. I personally battled him, but it was always fun, we enjoyed be adversaries, but also he was older and wiser and knew exactly what he was doing, how to manage the relationships. I didn't know that then but I came to realize it through time. His passing marks the end of an era, and also prescient, growing years for a lot of young people, myself included. His guidance was huge.

Chris (Perry) Jimenez

December 12, 2012

Father Miceli - thank you for all you've done. Rest in peace and God bless.

Jerry Meyer

December 11, 2012

We believe that all the ties which knit us as one throughout our lives do not unravel with death. We share the pain of loss, but the promise of eternal life gives us hope. In the waters of baptism, Fr Miceli died with Christ and rose with him to new life. May he now share with him eternal glory. (Cavanaugh Hall 79-83)

Dan LeDuc

December 11, 2012

Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord, and let your perpetual light shine on him.
(Cavanaugh Hall, 1979-1983)

Joe Anonymous

December 11, 2012

I wish I had the maturity at the time to appreciate how meaningful of a contribution Fr. Miceli would make to my life. I now understand. Thank you, Father Miceli.

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