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Shirley Schwartz Obituary

Oct. 12, 1926 - Sept. 29, 2011
MISHAWAKA - Shirley Nelson (Mrs. Donald H.) Schwartz, of Mishawaka, IN, passed away Thursday, September 29, 2011 after an extended illness. She was born on October 12, 1926 in South Bend, IN to George Nelson and Neva Hottel Nelson. Shirley had a great love of music and formed her own dance band during her high school years. She graduated from Ball State Teachers College with a degree in music. In 1947, she married Donald Schwartz. During their early married years they moved to Bloomington, IN, where Don attended IU Dental School and Shirley kept busy raising the first three of their five daughters and selling real estate. They returned to Mishawaka, where Don practiced dentistry for 35 years, a fact of which she was very proud. She taught school for a period, and also worked as a real estate broker for Coldwell Banker during the 1970's. She had many hobbies, including photography and genealogy, and has left a legacy of information for her family. She also enjoyed all kinds of card games, especially bridge, and played with the Mishawaka Duplicate Bridge Club, earning points towards a Life Master. She was an avid sailor, and she and Don journeyed to the Bahamas multiple times for sailing trips with good friends, all of which she enjoyed immensely. She was a member of the former First Christian Church, South Bend, IN, and Central Christian Church, Bradenton, FL, as well as Tri Kappa. She will be remembered as a smart, feisty lady who loved her family and friends and enjoyed life to the fullest. She is survived by her husband, Donald, daughters, and sons-in-law: Carolyn Van Ooteghem (Steve), Tampa, FL, Constance Siebenthal (Reed), Muncie, IN, Deborah Kirk (Tom), Goshen, IN, Kimberlee Blair (John), Covington, OH, and son-in-law Thomas Hemeyer (Julia). Also surviving are grandchildren, Matt Hemeyer, David Hemeyer, and Julie Turner (Brian), Stephen G. Van Ooteghem, Patrick Van Ooteghem, and Trent Van Ooteghem, Michael Thompson, Katie Blair, Jacob Blair; and a niece, Judy Hardy (Ed). She was preceded in death in 1991 by their eldest daughter, Kathleen Hemeyer. A visitation will be held at Bubbs Mortuary in Mishawaka on Sunday, October 2 from 3:00 - 4:00 PM, with a memorial service at 4:00. Memorial contributions may be made to Alzheimer's.

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Published by South Bend Tribune on Sep. 30, 2011.

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Judy Greenlee

October 3, 2011

Dear Don and Family, The Greenlee family, Lillian, Judy, Joan, Carol and all were very saddened to hear of Shirley's passing. Mom particularly wanted me to send her love and prayers. We're all thinking of you, cousins, and hope God will help you through this awful time.
With much love Lillian Greenlee, Judy Greenlee, Carol Riddle and Joan Elias.
Contact Lillian at 574.299.1961.

Debora Frazier

October 1, 2011

Dear Don, Carolyn, Connie, Debbie, Kim and your families. I am very sorry to hear of Shirley's passing. Your family has always held a special place in my heart over the years. I have very fond memories of visiting with you at the lake as a kid and meeting for dinner together sometimes in Fla. I have tried to stay in touch via my parents.
My thoughts are with you all today.

Ron Gember

October 1, 2011

Debbie and family sorry to hear about the loss of your mother and wife. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Elaine, Art, Lynn & Ken Schenck

September 30, 2011

Don, Carolyn, Connie, Debbie, and Kim, we are all so sad. We have such fond memories of our times together with you and Shirley that span so many years. May God comfort you during this difficult time.

September 30, 2011

May God look upon you kindly & give you peace We are so sorry Don& Girls.We had so many good times together.Ken &Eileen Clawson

Joyce & Rudy Fermi

September 30, 2011

We have such fond memories of Shirley that will live in our hearts forever. We will miss her so much.

Lois/Lloyd Nevel

September 30, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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