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Thomas Thompson Obituary
OSCEOLA - Thomas C. Thompson, 49, passed away unexpectedly Wednesday morning, January 30, 2008. Thomas was born March 4, 1958, in South Bend, to Jerry L. and Mary Lou Thompson. His was preceded in death by his father Jerry on May 9, 2001. On September 13, 1997, Tommy married the former Susan Kaczynski, who survives. Also surviving Tommy are his mother, Mary Lou Thompson of South Bend; a brother, Scott (Susan) Thompson of Granger; a sister, Jennifer (Sterling) Leonard of Fort Walton Beach, Florida; a brother, Patrick Thompson of South Bend; a sister, Suellen Thompson of Mishawaka; a nephew, Michael Thompson; and niece, Molly Thompson of Granger; and a niece, Chloe Dubuisson of Pensacola, Florida. Also surviving are his father and mother-in-law, Gene and Marlene Kaczynski of South Bend; brother-in-law, Michael (Carla) Kaczynski of Osceola; a sister-in-law, Judy Zehendner of South Bend; nephews, Nicholas Kaczynski and Zachary Zehendner; and nieces, Cassy and Keetsy Kaczynski. Tommy was a loving, caring son, brother, uncle and husband who was treasured by all who knew him. He attended John Adams High School, and for many years worked in a landscaping and snow removal business. A lifelong musician, Tommy was a charismatic and talented singer, guitarist and songwriter who fronted the popular local bands The Kinetics and The Benders. Accompanied by his high school buddy Lee Madison on lead guitar, The Kinetics were one of the most acclaimed bands ever to emerge from this area. From 1983 to 1995, the group played everywhere from Myrtle Beach to Milwaukee, headlining in clubs and theatres, and opened shows for many major acts, including Blue Oyster Cult, Foghat, Robin Trower, Mitch Ryder, Tommy James and The Romantics. Since 1995 Tommy and Lee had fronted The Benders, a popular fixture on the local music scene, playing an entertaining mix of spirited, eclectic classic rock covers and Tommy's own original songs, crafted in the rock-and-roll tradition of Chuck Berry and John Fogerty. In addition to his music, Tommy loved the outdoors and was an avid fisherman, often traveling to his favorite locations with his good friend Tom McFarland. Tommy was also well-known for his cooking talents: he created his own sauces, and when combined with his specialties of shrimp, scallions, jalapeno burgers and barbecue chicken wings, he had to field the inevitable question from all of his guests: "Why don't you open a restaurant?" His response was always: "That's too much work!" In all situations, Tommy brought laughter, joy and happiness to the lives of everyone he touched. Family and friends are welcome to gather from 2 to 8 PM this evening in the Palmer Funeral Home-River Park, 2528 Mishawaka Avenue, South Bend. Funeral services will be held at 11 AM Saturday preceding burial at Fairview Cemetery in Mishawaka. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Humane Society of St. Joseph County, 2506 Grape Road, Mishawaka, IN 46544.
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Memories and Condolences
for Thomas Thompson
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Ken Davis
March 24, 2025
I rarely see bands or go to concerts at all anymore, but I DO sing karaoke every Tuesday (and now Thursday) at the MOB downtown next to Fiddler´s.
I do Downbound Train and Streets of Philadelphia, Drift Away, Pancho and Lefty, Willin´ and whatever the heck else I can think of to mangle. Anyway I´d love to see any of my old friends down there and buy them a drink (although I´m now a teetotaler) and remember the good ol´ days. By the way I´d really to sing a few of the old songs too. Any thought to karaoke versions of The Kinetics or Benders catalog? I know I´d buy a copy or pay for a download!
"Who´s got a Birthday?"
Susan Thompson
January 26, 2023
Throw back picture to the River Park Days in the 90's. Sure miss those good old days. Missing you Tommy today and everyday.
Kurt (van gogh) Kelsey
November 7, 2022
Scott - Is there ever going to be a Vol 2? I listen to Vol 1 often and miss those days, and Tommy. I still wear the T-shirt.
Hard to believe it is coming up on 13 years since you left us..I think of you daily and forever. Say hello to my Dad and hope you 2 get to hang out with a whiskey drink.
Susan Thompson
January 26, 2021
Susan Thompson
January 30, 2020
Always on my mind....RIH...You sure were one of a kind my music/fishing man.
RIP .. Love you SuzyQ
July 6, 2019
35 years ago this month, between sets at Nickie's at the Five Corners near ND (neither Nickie's or the Five Corners are there anymore). The gigs were SO important to both of us - they were everything, and had to be great.
Susan Thompson
January 31, 2019
Lori Minix, thanks for the thoughtful words about Tommy...sorry to hear your mother passed on the same day. He was one sweet and talented individual....I miss hearing him sing his original songs. Going to the bars to see the local talent doesn't happen much more for me. I live in the house we bought on the river together and it has so many memories for me. His buddy Lee Madison and Tom McFarland enjoyed fishing on the St. Joe with him.
The saying...only the good die young sure rings in my mind all the time when I think of Tommy...he was a wonderful friend, husband and all around great guy.....Miss him everyday....
Lori Minix (Parker)
January 30, 2019
I try to drive through River Park whenever I have the opportunity. It will forever and always be home to me, and probably to many others. RP was a special neighborhood. Those of us that grew up together....Tom of course, along with Jim Hammer, Rick Troeger, Rob Furlong, Kenna Bauer; to name just a few, shared a special time in all of our lives. We formed strong friendships and made lasting memories.......in school, after school, and on weekends. Tom and I actually started Kindergarten together and walked the halls of Nuner school until 8th grade graduation. I remember it like it was yesterday, walking home from the 8th grade dance up 32nd street. That sweet, always smiling, Tommy. A friend to everyone. It saddens my heart that he is no longer here. He was taken way too early. He had a lot more music to share with the world. I think of him often and always at this time of year. My Mom passed away on the same day, five years later...... if we could only have them back. My thoughts are with everyone who is missing him today. Tommy Thompson...... you left your mark.
8th grade photo from Nuner School
Scott Thompson
July 1, 2016
That doesn't ring a bell...typical Christmas stuff (besides Marty Robbins) was maybe some Elvis, Johnny Cash, and a few standard Christmas songs, like "Silver Bells." Thanks for using the Guest Book, nice that folks still remember my brother.
June 21, 2016
I had a strong thought about Tommy when I heard the song Jimmy Brown.....do I remember his family singing this together forty years ago?
jayne schaefer
December 31, 2015
Hi all,
My fondest memory of the whole family was on
Christmas Eve when you all blew me away singing Marty Robbins.
Susan Thompson
September 25, 2014
Orv, that was so beautiful to read. I often wonder how many people still come to this sight to write or read past posts. I wanted to keep it online just for this reason. Reading your post today made me realize how special that Tommy was to others in his life like he was so special in my life. He was the best husband/friend/soulmate that I could have every asked for. Thanks for the post....take care.
Orv Kronewitter
September 22, 2014
I was walking through Merrifield park today and I went past the area where the flat bed stage used to be out for summerfest. I was there with Stacy in 2007 and me and Scott, and Tommy were shooting the breeze talking bout the old RP days. 20 min before the Benders took the stage. I like to think of them as the "the little Rascal Years" young kids that just wanted to play ball and catch frogs and turtles down by the river. What great long hot summers they were and cool clear autumn days for football. I moved from there too soon, but was so glad to have re-connected with Tommy and Scott, if only for 20 min. We talked about playing Grave Yard Ghost and soft ball in Gospel Centers parking lot. I stopped at that spot today, and listened to the early autumn breeze rustle through the leaves. I thought of how life is like the seasons and how we all have our own time. Too many leave this world too soon but who can understand God's wisdom. Just thinking about an old friend, days gone by, and feeling very much melancholy about life and music. I'll try not to take either one for granted and do my best every time I sing. Thats how Tommy was, give em everything you got and then some! To the Thompson family, God bless you all and take care.
Laurie Davis-Owens
January 31, 2014
As I light this candle...I realize there is NO candle that could possibly burn brighter than you and your personality Tom.
Sue Thompson
January 30, 2014
6 years you are gone, there's a song in there somewhere, I love you Tommy
November 25, 2013
I know you do LEE, Tommy loved you so. I miss him every day too. I fight the bitterness of life and try to portray a positive person most times. But, my heart won't let me go on. I hope i see you again tommy my brother, I love you
Lee Madison
April 10, 2013
I've been neglecting this wonderful tribute site for Tommy for too long. That's going to change. I've got two wonderful tablets to work from so all I need is free wi-fi. I miss him every day.
November 24, 2011
I think this guest book is the best thing ever. Tommy's is a huge testament to how much he meant to everyone and how many peoples lives he touched. They say you can never "go back," but I hope when I cross over, Tommy's there and we can all enjoy life like we used to "back in the day" again. Those were the best times of my life. Still can't believe he isn't here anymore. I appreciate all of you, Matt, Jon, Scott, Susie, and love and adore you Susie Q. Miss everyone.
Suzyq Thompson
November 23, 2011
Tommy always did love the holidays, whether he was making the meal or enjoying in the festivities....especially just getting together with family and friends met the most to him. I miss him very much especially around the holidays...thinking that is why my mood has been so bad this past week. But the memories live on....love and miss you always Tommy.
November 22, 2011
Thinking of my brother and missing him. He loved turkey and mom's noodles...and partying the nite before.
Mark
August 8, 2011
Great website. I live in Elkhart & just picked up the Kinetics "Now" promo cassete. Wow they were gr8! Thank you for keeping his music & meomories alive...Peace
Scott Thompson
July 4, 2011
Spent Sunday the 3rd at Uncle Ted's up on Magician Lake, and we reminisced about a classic Tommy and The Kinetics show on this day back in 1988. Over a thousand people on the shore, and 200 boats anchored just offshore...it literally was the party to end all parties. Ted was notorious for his July 4th gatherings, but after this one he declared that it had become too big to control, and said that The Kinetics were the finale - and that was the end of the 4th of July parties at Uncle Ted's. What a night...just one of so many memorable nights spent with my brother.
Susan Thompson
March 23, 2011
Just was thinking of Tommy today, well I think of him everyday. Today is Wednesday and that is the day of the week that he passed away on. So hard to believe that it has been over three years since his death. Where does the time go? Life goes by so quick that you sometimes do not realize it.
Make the most of everyday that you can. Love to all my family and friends.
Jennifer Leonard(Thompson)
December 24, 2010
Tommy always loved Christmas, especially Christmas Eve, our family would have a big party with plenty of food and drink. Tommy, Scott, Lee and sometimes me, would play guitars and sing a few songs. He always made get-togethers so fun. Tommy, we love and miss you brother. Thinking of you this Christmas Eve 2010.
Susan Thompson
December 15, 2010
Mary Lou always knows just what to say...she is right. Tommy was sure missing from the photo Saturday night. So wish he could have been there to celebrate with us all. I think we all miss him very much everyday. But I know he watching over us. The holidays are not the same without him around to joke, laugh and make wonderful meals ....my love for him will never die. Suzyq
Mary Lou Thompson
December 12, 2010
This is only my second entry on this site. The first was at Scott's house and now I'm at Sister Sue's house. I had my 75th birthday surprise party last night and it was just too wonderful. We took pictures of our family together but there is still a big hole in the picture and probably always will be. I look at the picture and expect to see that devilish grin of Tommy's - but it isn't there. We all miss him still and think of him every day. Something will remind us of him and his face pops up in our mind's eye. We will always love him and think of him often but still miss him so very much. I sure missed him last night. Love to all, Mom
October 27, 2010
Orville Kronewitter
October 11, 2010
I keep a laminted picture of Tommy on my fridge in my garage. Before I go to a gig to sing or an open jam I walk by it and give it a tap, like the Irish hitting the "Play Like a Champion" sign I figure giving Tommys mug a tap is good Karma. He was always about showing folks a good time, and making sure they got their moneys worth. "Rock Like A Champion" !!!
PS
Good to see Scott up at Bar Louies a while back, good story of Tommy in MIlwaukee. Also I finally got a chance to get up and jam with Matt at the open jam Wednesdays. That was also cool. I wish Tom was around for the open Jams, I think it would be great to get up and kick it with him. I lost my oldest brother (whose mane was Tom" in a motorcycle accident back in 1972. I know you're pain. We will always remember the ones we love and will be with them someday!!!
Peace
Suellen Thompson
September 27, 2010
You said it sister. I think of Tommy everyday and sometimes I miss him so much I just lay down and ball my eyes out for a little while and I feel alot better, until the next time. Tommy is prob laughing at me.
September 25, 2010
I know how much everyone misses him I do to and my dad Jeff Bostic it dont get easier it just makes you miss them more hugs to all of you kimmy Bostic email add is [email protected]
September 10, 2010
Thanks to all that have been out to Support the The Benders and Tommy's Music. We play again twice in October and in December. The music lives on and we are digging deep in the archieves and adding some new originals. Dates for next year are already in the works. Miss ya man...keeping it alive...Matt.
timothy a bennett
September 9, 2010
Sitting in Los Angeles and listening to Give Me Some Time. Man do I miss you brother. Thanks for smiling down on me...
Pat McKelvey
July 31, 2010
Tommy still lives on is his Music I hope Matt, Lee and the guys fron driving reign will do a song or two of tommys at my bday party
The Benders
Susan Thompson
July 30, 2010
Scott Thompson
July 19, 2010
I've really enjoyed designing and operating the lighting for The Benders' recent run of shows; Lee Madison, Matt Webster, Bob Wilcox, and Tim Spite have done a great job keeping Tommy's songs vital, current, and alive. It is still a thrill to hear and see "Memphis, Tennessee," "Cinderella," "House of Cards," and "Missing Man" unfold on a live stage. The only thing missing is Tommy, but his presence is overwhelming in the show, and the responses of the audiences show that he is alive in their hearts, too. If you were a fan of Tommy's music, you will enjoy this show.
Susan Thompson
May 3, 2010
It is so hard to believe that over 27 months have passed since Tommy's death. I think of him daily and cherish all the memories that I have of our life together.
The Benders have reunited for several shows this year to play Tommy's originals and also the cover songs that the band has played over the years. It is so wonderful to hear those songs again and also see how many people have come out to hear the band play. It really shows that everyone is still thinking of him as much as I do. Thanks for the support....his loving wife...suzyq
CarlRay
April 12, 2010
Iam glad that Lee and scott are keeping the red light lit.I stopped by the Phonix the other nite, very nice set. I picked up a copy of Vol.1, man what memorys. Tommy always laughed about my cab ride to the Rock a Dot to check out the Pages, not only was it a great set, but a wonderful friendship was started. Tommy was one of the most personable guys that I have ever met, (wish I could have made S.C.with him). I was on the road when i learend of Tommy's passing, he is missed greatly. Rip it up Tommy wouldnt have it any other way! DangerRay
KIMMY HOOPER
February 17, 2010
what can I SAY. I LOST MY DAD JEFF BOSTIC AFEW YEARS BACK AND IT DOSENT .GET BETTER. I MISS HIM MORE WITH EVERY PASSING DAY.I HOLD MY MEMORYS CLOSE TO HEART.LOSSING TOMMY FOR YOU WILL ALSO BE CHALINGING. KIMMY BOSTIC
January 30, 2010
I still miss him so much. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends today. He is thought of often, remembered fondly and missed so much by many. His music goes on and we can still hear his wonderful voice through his CD. Thank you Tom for some of the best times of my life.
Diane Dockery (Reynolds)
January 30, 2010
Dear entire Thompson family. I just want you all to know that I think of each and every one of you so often and hope and pray that you are doing ok. It has been two years ago that God took Tommy and placed him amongst his choir to sing, probably not a hymn but a song about everyday life and how we celebrate it, honor it, live it. He was a down to earth man who I have adored all of my life and continue to lift up in my memories.
We all grew up together, playing Ditch Em, softball games in the church parking lot, daily trips to Benner's or Lamont's to get candy or down to Frisbee's for a Green River. I will cherish those memories forever.
I just want to send out my thoughts and prayers to you during this difficult time and hope that you are strengthened by the thought that Tommy touched soooo many people in such a short time. Find comfort in knowing that there are people all over sharing your pain and holding your hand.
Love you all
timothy a. bennett
January 30, 2010
My Brother.
Thank you for inspiring me, encouraging me and challenging me...
May our paths always stay connected.
Matthew Webster
December 25, 2009
Just wanted to send my thoughts and prayers to all of you. Miss the man, but as Sue and Scott know, Lee, Bobbie, myself and Tim Spite will be doing shows in 2010 featuring Tommy's Songs and the show we always put on. His Musical Legacy will be heard again. Bless you my brother and we will see you all soon.
Suzyq Thompson
December 24, 2009
I could not have said it better my brother in law...I miss Tommy every single day of my life. He was a wonderful presence in our lives everyday of his life. Maybe Michael can get out Tommy's acoustic and sing "El Paso" for us tonight!! Love you all.... Merry Christmas!!
Scott Thompson
December 23, 2009
Another Christmas is upon our family; the second one without Tommy. We miss him every day, and at this time of the year, it is especially difficult. He was a wonderful presence during the holidays: joyful, funny, and full of life. The "fireside chat" was a yearly ritual, and you could count on a rendition of Marty Robbins' "El Paso" before Christmas was over - we would all join in on the "oooh oooh" chorus. Let's all raise a glass this season to our fallen brother, and remember the good times we shared with him.
Matthew Webster
August 11, 2009
Hello again to all. It's ben a while since I wrote, but think of that knuclehead every day. Lee and I are playing music together in Drivingriegn.net so check the site to come and say hello. Old friends from the 80's Deb and Penny came out a month back and brought pictured from Grsnd Rspids of The Kinetics. LOL If snyone has old pictures from 87-89 I would love to see them and get copies. You can email me. Missing the Man everyday. Hello to all of you and tell someone you love them today. Tomorrow is not gauranteed. LOve to all.
Danny Boy
August 10, 2009
Tommy was one of the coolest guys i ever met. I feel that i was lucky to have hung out with him, and all the guys for that matter. Tommy was like a big brother when we did hang out. Always looked out for me!He was one of a hand full of my friends that encouraged me to follow my dreams.Any time I get discouraged and think that im never going to get where i want to be i just think about all the highs and all the lows that Tommy and the band has been through. He always kept goin and always kept the faith that his dreams would come true.He's still helpin me today.Miss you man!
Lydia DeGeyter
June 4, 2009
Sue, I am in town again...Lydia DeGeyter, didn't get a chance to see you last time, want to buy you a drink and meet you...would like to see Tommy's tombstone, where does his precious lil'body rest...cause you know his spirit is with you....are you still working at the club...? Happy Belated Birthday lil' Tommy Thompson....Love ya Lydia Hello to Scott Thompson...
timothy a. bennett
March 5, 2009
I met Tommy when I was 17 and I could have never asked for a better friend. Loyal, Honest, Funny, the most talented song smith I have ever met, and one hell of a fisherman.
I am so thankful tommy allowed me to be part of his family, both on and off stage.
I miss him everyday and I am humbled to know he loved and accepted me...
They're in there tommy boy...
Sorry for any spelling mistakes...
Susan Thompson
March 4, 2009
Today would have been Tommy's 51st birthday. I think of him each and everyday and remember all the joy, laughter, love and friendship he brought into my life. Oh how memories mean so much to the ones left behind.
Scotty wrote a poem about Tommy and it is in the Tribune today under the Memoriams so if you get a chance to read it, it is wonderful. It says it all.
Love to all and thank you for being here for me this past year. It has been a tough long road but all my family and friends have helped me so much and I just wanted to say thank you. Suzyq
Mary Lou Thompson
March 1, 2009
This is my first entry in the Guest Book for Tommy. I am at Scott's house now using his computer. I have read all of the entries for the first time today and want to sincerely thank all who have written such wonderful things about Tommy. Even though a year has come and gone since his death, I miss him each and every day. He left a big black hole in our lives that we are slowly filling up with good memories and much laughter. Lord knows he was a joy to be around and a son every mother would love to have. And I loved him just like every mother loves their sons. And he returned that love many times over. He loved his sweet and wonderful wife, Suzy Q. He loved his brothers, his sisters and he was so very good to his dad and to me, his mom. I suppose I will always miss him and someday, I hope I can hear his music without crying. But, weren't we all lucky to have had him for the time that we did. He gathered every bit of fun and goodness out of every day that there was. We can all take that lesson and apply it to our own lives. Look for the good things in our lives and hang on to them. I'll miss you always Tommy. Love to all, Mom
Kurtis Robertson
February 24, 2009
It's been over a year now and like most of us I have had a hard time dealing with our loss. I couldnt have had a better guy to hang with the last 33 years. We learned alot form one another. I've been working on some of his songs in the studio remastering them for Scott to put on the next CD. I can hear Tommy in my ear as I did when we recorded them, telling me what he wants. He was great to work with that way the guy always knew what sounds he wanted me to get. He pushed me to be the best and for that I will be in debt to him because he made me the engineer I am today.
Orv Kronewitter
February 17, 2009
I recently received an email form one of Tommy's old band mates about working on 'Graveyard Ghost" please email me back as your address was accidently erased from my PC. Id enjoy working on it and I can send some ideas I've put down.
Thanks
5, 10, 15, 20, 25, 30......well you know the rest .
thanks
Orv
Orville Kronewitter
February 6, 2009
I laugh to myself when I saw Mike Davis' comment about "Air Racket Guitar" bands. Me and Tommy used to do a thing where we would act like one of our legs was demond possessed by Elvis. we would start slow and grab our knees acting like we couldnt control them. Then we'd both say 'I just gotta dance". I suppose you'd have to be there but it was still one of the memories that makes me laugh out loud. Football and softball over at the church parking lot and Creature Feature night over at the Thompsons was some of my fondest memories. Playing hot box, H. A. (if you played H.A., then you know what I'm talking about) turtles, salamanders, toads. At 9 and 10 years old it was all great fun. Tommy, i wish we could have written that song 'Graveyard Ghost" that you and I and Scott talked about at Summerfest last year. I guess I'll have to try and do it myself. I also wish that you could get a good word in to the "Big Guy" that it would be alright if the Cubbies finally won the world series. I figure between you and your dad there should be some heavy duty lobbying in heaven this spring. To sue, and Jenny, and Scott, and Pat and your mom I wish you all the peace in knowing that we are never given more than we can handle.Leaning on each other and lifting each other up is sometimes the best way to make it through. I'm in the book if you ever want to talk, and I'm glad to I get a chance to run into you guys now and then and I know that someday we'll all get to hang out together under the tree in Dockery's yard with Tommy and the whole gang again.
Peace
Orv
Suellen Thompson
February 4, 2009
My brother, my brother--I'm not the only one suffering your loss. This year has been so hard. The tears keep coming but I try to be thankful for the loving friends and family that continue to lift me up every day. Once again, Bruce's words give me strength, hope, and faith to carry me through another day when he sings...I look for you on the other side, I look for the peace in your eyes, and I wait for paradise and I wait for paradise. With Love,
Judy Gifford
February 3, 2009
Mary Lou and Family: I am so sorry to hear of Tommy's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Judy Gifford
Matthew Webster
January 30, 2009
It has been one year since you left us and I miss you every day. Tonight my band plays and I will sing and dedicate the show to you Tommy. Your music will live on and your friendship will never be forgotten. To all of those who knew you I wish all of you the best. I send strong thoughts of love to the family you left behind. Miss you man. Rock on..alright alright alright!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Scott Thompson
January 24, 2009
Here's three of Tommy and Lee's former bands (preceding The Pages):
Itonis
Syn
Goodman Brown
Scott Thompson
January 20, 2009
Well Mike, obviously I meant "professional" band. Tommy, you, George and I were playing tennis rackets in the basement in the late 60s, but there were definitely other groups before The Pages. Syn was one, and I can think of several others. I'll wait a few days to see if anyone comes up with any names. Thanks for the post.
Mike Davis
January 20, 2009
Tom Thompson trivia time! I was surprised to read Scott's message posted Aug. 21, 2008 where he referred to The Pages as Tom's first band. I can think of some earlier incarnations. "Syn," for one. Can anybody dig way back into their aging brain cells and come up with any other pre - Pages bands in which Tom played?
Scott Thompson
November 25, 2008
As Thanksgiving Day approaches, many of us who loved Tommy are now facing the time of year that perhaps we dreaded most. With the memories of family that the holidays evoke at the forefront every year, this season will be tough, no question about it. For our family, everything has changed this year; for all of us, Tommy was such a huge part of this season that it seems inconceivable to have Thanksgiving, Christmas and the New Year without him. I think back fondly on the New Year's Eve shows The Pages, The Kinetics and The Benders played - from Chips and Shenanigan's in SB, to Jake's in Bloomington, The Sports Page, The Rock-A-Dot, Beaker's and the Canterbury Theatre in Michigan City...the list goes on and on. What a toastmaster he was at those shows - the perfect rock and roll host, performer, emcee and drinking buddy. He made the guys laugh and the girls swoon, and the night always ended with a couple dozen people onstage, with one lucky girl or guy playing his guitar while he stood off to the side cheering everybody on. I don't know what to tell all of you how to get through these weeks; there's no magic formula to make it all better. Go see Steve Foresman play, with Lee, Eb and Bobby backing him up; go see Doug Cowen, Ben and Charlie (The Basics) play at K's Grill; go see Matt Webster and Driving Reign - these are his friends, the guys that stood next to Tommy all those years, and played all those wonderful songs, at all of those great shows. Tommy's spirit is alive in them, just as it is still alive in you. They're still here - and so are you.
season's greetings with love,
Scott
Suzyq Thompson
October 15, 2008
My brother-in-law Scott sure knows how to say how I think all of us feel as the months have gone by. As each hour goes by in a day I think about Tommy for most of it and then remember what a wonderful life I had with him. He was not only my husband, but my best friend and soul mate. Even after death he is. Tommy left us with alot of memories and alot of music that we can always enjoy over the rest of our lives. So as Scotty said earlier stay connected with family and friends because they do mean alot to us in our lives. Tommy will always live on in my heart and I hope he will in yours too.
Scott Thompson
October 5, 2008
The months are rolling by, and it seems strange to note that a few days ago marked the 8th month of Tommy's passing. In 4 months, it will be a year. I visited our mom Friday night for a while, and we talked and reminisced about things; the kind of things that only an oldest son and his mother talk about. We miss him terribly, and it really hasn't changed that much in these 8 months. We both think about him so much - I don't believe an hour goes by that I don't - and it all still, somehow, seems unreal. I know many of you reading this feel the same way. I've often said to friends and family that, unlike many people, Tommy left so much to remember him by - Sue, Mom, that house, his music, his writing, his dogs, his bands - that it is hard to take "Tommy," the idea of "Tommy," out of the present. Last summer I gave Doug Cowen a copy of one of Tommy and Lee's comedy tapes - in the 80s they recorded a series of fake radio station broadcasts, complete with made-up songs (often on the spot), ad-libbed interviews and commercials - and a few weeks ago he gave me a CD copy that he created. Even though I've heard it over and over for many years, I still sat there and laughed for an hour. But then I couldn't help crying for a little while, just from the pain of remembering that all of that creativity, all of that magic, was really gone. Enjoy your friends and family, everyone - call up a friend, call your family, stay connected. Shine brightly, brothers and sisters - shine brightly, even though it gets dark sometimes.
Michele Ward
September 2, 2008
Matt...
Back at ya brother! Miss you too. I listen to Tommy's cd about 2-3 times a week. My son has learned almost every song and has his favorites starting with The one I love and then Red Lights, which is my favorite. I cherish the memories those song encompass and the people that created them along with the friendships everlasting.
Scott Thompson
August 31, 2008
Thanks for your thoughts, Matt. "Shakin' All Over" was indeed one of Tommy's favorites; his first band The Pages did a version, as well as the original Kinetics with Rick Derse and Wade Waldock on drums and bass, respectively. The Benders also performed the song regularly in the late 90s. It was originally written and performed by Johnny Kidd and the Pirates, and reached #1 in England in August 1960. The original recording was not a hit outside of Europe. Instead, "Shakin' All Over" gained fame in the U.S. after The Guess Who covered it in 1965, where it was a #1 hit in Canada (#22 in the US). The Who's version that appears on "Live at Leeds" is also very well known.
Johnny Kidd is quoted as saying:
"When I was going round with a bunch of lads and we happened to see a girl who was a real sizzler we used to say that she gave us ‘quivers down the membranes’. It was a standard saying with us referring to any attractive girl…..I can honestly say that it was this more than anything that inspired me to write ‘Shakin’ All Over’."
Tommy would certainly agree with that explanation!
Scott
Matt Webster
August 30, 2008
Just wanted to say hi to everyone that gets an email when someone leaves a message. Saw a band tonight that played a song the Kinetic's did while I was playing with them called"Shakin' All Over". Who did that song Scottie? Music has the ability to take you back to a time once long forgotten. Be safe all of you. As the days go by I can only think of the people who mean the most to me, and the people I have lost. Love ya all.
Matthew
Sue
June 26, 2008
Just to let everyone know that Tommy's headstone is complete and was put in on 6/25/08.
Michele Ward (Corson)
May 15, 2008
Wow....what a feeling. Sue mailed me the Tommy Thompson Collection Vol. 1. I knew before even opening it that the music inside would fill me with memories from the past, fun nights out, good friends and just happy times living in the moment. When I listened to it, I found I knew every word and to hear the lyrics and melody he wrote was just overwhelming. Tommy spent his life time chasing the dream but I hope during that time he felt he accomplished his dream. He wrote great music, found friends that lasted his entire life and beyond and he will live through the harmony he created. I want to thank Scott and Sue for making this CD, while many of us that knew Tommy will listen to it over and over, my son listened to it today for the first time. He said, "I like the rock sound of his guitar, I want to play like him someday." I hope he does. Tommy, I miss ya!
Jon Webster
May 11, 2008
Tommy, just celbrated my 43 rd and remembered all the times we would call each other on our days. I thought of you all day. I sent you one on your's but I put a cuss word in it and it never appeared in the guest book. I'll miss the ribbings we would give each other on our days as we became older men. I had one for you Friday my brother. Miss you and always will love you. Until we rock together again.
Youngblood.
tim bennett
May 4, 2008
The memories may fade... The face may fade... One thing is for sure, this man, his music, his voice and his spirit will live for a very, very long time...
my brother...
Lynn Kimble
April 25, 2008
I am so sorry to hear about Tommy. I didn't know until just recently about Tommy's death. He was a great guy.
Elizabeth Rossier
March 28, 2008
I too am sad and mad, but at the same time grateful to have been able to call Tommy, my friend. When my beloved dog, Cassie, died last year, Tom was one of the first people to call. When I was hospitalized this past winter, it was Tom's caring voice on the other end of the phone. I will forever remember Tommy and how he touched my life.
suellen thompson
March 26, 2008
Thank you everyone, for everything (Matt,Scott, and all the guys). I'm sad, I'm mad, but Bruce describes it best when he wrote, "Take a knife and cut this pain from my heart, find somebody itchin' for something to start".
Scott Thompson
March 22, 2008
Susi and I went to Indy to see Bruce Springsteen and we wore the Tribute to Tommy shirts - a lot of people noticed them and looked as we walked past - This was the show that Tommy and I had planned on attending, so in many ways, he was there...
Tom Webster, Mike Eberly, Matt Webster, Tommy @ The Phoenix
Matthew Webster
March 5, 2008
Happy Birthday Tommy. Love and Miss you.
Matt
Barbie Madison
March 4, 2008
Happy Birthday Tommy!!!
Jennifer (Thompson)Leonard
March 4, 2008
Today is Tommy's 50th Birthday and I am remembering you today my brother! Our Mom and Dad always made sure our birthdays were ultra-special, and Tommy made sure there was at least a prank or two. He would tease me because he was one year "older" than me and I that I was a baby, he'd be a teenager before me, he'd be 16 before me, ad infinitum. Drove me kookoo, and I loved him for it. So Happy Birthday to You, our beautiful blessed Music Man, you are loved and missed forever.
Susan Thompson
February 29, 2008
This whole last month is still unbelievable to me and I am still trying to cope with the loss of my husband & my best friend in the world. But I wanted to take this time to thank everyone involved from family to friends from the time I found out about Tommy's passing until the other night at the Tribute/Celebration of his life. That was truly a magical event that will be remembered for a long time. I am truly thankful to everyone that has helped me through this difficult time in my life. Suzyq
Scott Thompson
February 26, 2008
Barbie said it well! Not much to add, except that I agree with her - it was one of the greatest, if not THE greatest night in the history of the local South Bend music scene. I have talked to dozens of people and received as many e-mails from folks who were simply blown away by this event. I am so appreciative of everybody that contributed to this classic event - many of you waited outside in the cold to get in, and I know everybody did get in before The Benders / Kinetics set began, so I was happy for that. There are so many people that worked so hard for the two weeks prior to this event, and at the show itself...you are all unbelieveable. I tried to make sure that I let everyone know personally Sunday night how grateful I am, and will always be. You all know who you are - thank you so much. I also want to especially thank Dale and Jeannette and all of the staff at Club Landing (DJ Mike, thanks for keeping Tommy's songs and images going all night, and doing a fine job on the lighting), who were so kind and supportive - none of this would have ben possible without them. I absolutely love you guys. To all of the bands who participated: Steve Foresman, Driving Reign, The Killer Bs, MGB, Red Alert, and especially MacPherson and the Struts (who volunteered their crew and equipment for the show), you all have my eternal gratitude. What can I say about The Benders and The Kinetics? You guys were brilliant - the songs were note-perfect, Matt, Doug and everyone else did a fantastic job with the vocals; hell, Tommy had stopped singing a lot of those years ago because he couldn't hit the high notes anymore! I have to admit, as busy as I was I did stop to hear most of those songs, and I just stopped in my tracks - I forgot that I know you guys, and that I've seen you in your bathrobes, and that I've heard these songs a thousand times - I was riveted. I realized that there had never been a time, ever, when all of you - Eb, Timmy B, Doug, Ben, Bobby, Matt, Jon, Jamie and Lee (with Jimmy B holding up the walls of the DJ booth) - shared a stage at the same time. You more than did justice to his songs - you brought them, through your collective spirits, to an even higher place. I am so proud of all of you, and I will never forget this night. Finally, to SuzieQ and my own Susi - I know it was a hard night for you both. I cannot tell you just how much I love both of you for being there for Tommy and I, and for being there for each other. This is not the end, this is a beginning. We will always miss him, but he was there with us Sunday night, and he is within the hearts of all of us. There will be more tributes and stories, and soon much of the sadness will be replaced with only beautiful memories. Thanks again to everyone for a classic night. I love you all.
Barbie Madison
February 25, 2008
I would just like to say want an awesome night Sunday Feb 24th was. All the people,all the donated,all the musicians,the family memeber and the staff at The Landing!! It was sooooo amazing to see the turn out and hear the songs I grew up listening to. Tommy was a talented songwritter and those songs hold soooo many memories for me. I am so lucky to have had my talented "brother" Lee be team up with my "brother of choice" Tommy and make such awesome music together. I could always yell out "The Mosquitos" at a gig and Tommy knew just what I was talking about and he would start playing one of their song....funny stuff. Well I really miss him but am glad for the memories!!!
Barbie Madison (South Bend, IN)
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Barbie Madison
February 25, 2008
I would just like to say want an awesome night Sunday Feb 24th was. All the people,all the donated,all the musicians,the family memeber and the staff at The Landing!! It was sooooo amazing to see the turn out and hear the songs I grew up listening to. Tommy was a talented songwritter and those songs hold soooo many memories for me. I am so lucky to have had my talented "brother" Lee be team up with my "brother of choice" Tommy and make such awesome music together. I could always yell out "The Mosquitos" at a gig and Tommy knew just what I was talking about and he would start playing one of their song....funny stuff. Well I really miss him but am glad for the memories!!!
Orville Kronewitter
February 22, 2008
"River Rats running on an ancient wind, not too young for trouble not too old for sin" We were the "our gang Little Rascals of 32nd and vine in River Park. We played in a age when there were no vidio games or DVD's. You grabbed your mit, hung it on your Stingray Bike and you were off all day. We played in the hot summer sun and wrestled for your spot in line at the neighbors hose. You stayed out till ten and played "Graveyard Ghost" till your mom called you in the house. It was the 60's and he, his brothers and a whole lot more were my friends. My best friends. There was no xbox, it was turtles and frogs and toads. And great music! The years have separated the old gang but the fond memories of Tommy in an innocent age of our lives will carry on in my heart forever. God bless you all, Im so glad I reconnected with Tommy at summer fest last year and was able to introduce he and Scotty to my wife Stacy. She had heard me talk allot about him but had never met him. He was a gentleman as always. Rock on TT, we'll all jam together again someday. ORV
Ed Joyce
February 15, 2008
What a loss.
I was a small part of The Kinetics experience in the mid-80s. I was a pretty great chauffeur and so-so roadie. Hi Scott! But I was tremendous at taking up space on the dance floor when Tommy and the guys would rock out.
My favorite Tommy memory was from one fine afternoon as I was umpiring a baseball game for the Adams H.S. JV team. The big ol' black bus came careening down Mishawaka Ave. on its way to set-up a gig at Chips (I'm pretty sure Timmy B. was at the wheel). There was Tommy standing in the flung-open doorway shouting, "Eddie Joyce is a baaaad man!"
The players and coaches didn't know what the heck that was about, but they had new respect for the man in blue.
I hate that this has happened, but I am grateful to see so many names that meant so very much to me. My heart goes out to all of you.
Tommy, kindly save me a Texas Mug up there. And for once, please, don't douse the throngs that surely are blissfully happy seeing the best frontman South Bend has ever known.
Randy Papai
February 13, 2008
Bless his family, he will be missed! He'll be there for us all!
Scott Thompson
February 13, 2008
To all who loved Tommy and his music: We are holding a "Tribute to Tommy" at Club Landing on Sunday, 2/24/08, from 4:00 to whenever - A 5.00 donation gets you a drink and taco bar, with a cash bar available - I cannot confirm exactly who will perform at this time, but know that this event will feature many, if not all, of the area's best rock 'n rollers, including Driving Reign, MacPherson and the Struts, The Basics, Red Alert, and many more - In addition, The Benders AND The Kinetics will perform - More details to come, watch the media for announcements - This is a benefit event for the family of Tommy Thompson
Ken Davis
February 11, 2008
My sympathy goes out to all touched by this tragic loss.
I feel Scott probably said it best (quoting Bruce ;) at Tommy's service: "When they made you brother, they broke the mold."
I'll always be grateful for your love and your respect, Tommy.
Ken Davis
Maureen Gillespie - Connors
February 9, 2008
To The Thompson Family, my heart goes out to all of you. Tommy left us way too soon. The Gillespie's met the Thompson's during our highschool years and he was one of the people that made the changes in our lives a little easier to handle. He was one of the good guys to know in high school. I also worked with his dad, Jerry at Teachers Credit Union. Jerry always talked about his kids. He was very proud of everyone of them. Every time I saw Tommy after highschool it was like you just talked to him yesterday. Our family will always talk about Tommy the stuff we use to do, we had fun. He was always a good friend. He will be missed.
Matthew Webster
February 8, 2008
Tommy was a great teacher to me. Having grown up listening and playing to Beatle records, I always dreamed of playing in a band. When my brother Jon and I moved here in 1982, we played around town. Jon also played to those records and that's what made Tommy want Jon in his band. Rock steady and as good as Ringo. At the time I was mad cause Jon went off to play with out me, but I also wanted to be in Tommy's band. I secretly learned Tommy's songs and the songs they played in the Kinetic's, waiting for the chance. Jon, Tommy, Jamie James and I played a few gigs together as the "Boneheads". Jamie and I were in Lake Effect at the time, and in May of 1987, we were both asked to join the band. We lived, ate, and slept music together, even in the same house at times. Wild times they were. Over the years Tommy and I played together with The Lee Thompson Band, and eventually as the Bender's got started. I even played drums for a summer while Jon was finishing his 7 year run with the Elwood Splinters band before joining. And in the end, we as a group could play almost any song together. I loved to sing harmonies with Tommy and through it he made me a better musician because mistakes were not allowed. All of us in those bands were harder on ourselves whenever we did mess up. I am forever grateful for the opportunity to play his songs for all that listened. So now I am glad that my brother left and joined the Kinetic's. If he hadn't, I would have never met Tommy and played such wonderful music, met so many wonderful people, had so many great memories, to call his family a part of mine, and to have been able to share part of my life with such a wonderful brother. I will always do my best to live up to the musical expectations he burned into my soul, try to smile like he did a little more, and always remember how truly blessed my life is, and has become, because I met a guy named Thomas Clark Thompson. To all his friends and family, I am there for all of you in any way. Just ask. I have sponsored his guest book for the next year. Please visit it often and tell us all stories you remembered about Tom. He was a great friend and I will miss him always and forever. I love you man. Rock on and sing em pretty.
Maggie Mullin
February 7, 2008
Sue and The Thompson family :
I have verbally expressed my thoughts and condolences to you all but I would like to say that I think of all you often, since I have known all of you and Tommy
since I was a teenager and Sue and I are best friends. I will do everything in my power to help her through the road ahead.
I was not only a fan of the Pages, Kinetics and the Benders , Tommy was my friend, He and Sue and TJ and I had many outings together, dinners on the river and Whitesox games even though (I am pretty sure Tommy was a Cubs fan )we always had alot of fun and made many memories that I will cherish forever.
Tommy brought TJ and I together, which he was always ready to take credit for but I would like to thank him for the best thing that ever happened to me.
I love you all and do not hesitate to ask for anything.
Magpie
Suellen Thompson
February 6, 2008
My heart is bleeding from grief. How do I justify his death? I'm sure Tom can't believe it himself! How many tears must I cry? Goodnite my sweet brother, hope to be with you again someday.
Scott Thompson
February 6, 2008
I want to thank everyone for their kind words and memories of Tommy. We have all been overwhelmed at the love and support you all have shown us over the last week. I don't know how I will get through tomorrow or the day after that, but I do know that I have the thoughts and prayers of many to lift me. I take comfort in knowing that Tommy has left so much music, love and memories within all of us that he will always be a part of our lives. I am a different person now, and my life has changed; the way I perceive this world will never be the same. But our lives must go on. Tommy and I talked about this many times in the recent past; we spoke very soberly just two weeks ago, returning from Elkhart after being with Mike E. after the death of his father. We all have to go on, just as Tommy said to me, "to honor the lives of those we loved, and loved us, in their lifetimes." He wouldn't want us to linger on dark thoughts, or to withdraw from life. He would want us out to go out and dance, to reach out to a friend, to keep baiting the hook and throwing out the line. Go see a band, treasure your loved ones, call your friends, keep having fun. That's what life is for. We won't forget Tommy - how could you anyway? In the meantime, create some more memories of your own. I love you all.
Michele "Corson" Ward
February 6, 2008
Sue and family... It's been a week since this tragedy has happened and while being with all of you has helped me cope with what has happened, I still can't believe it. My heart continues to go out to you over the distance that seperates us and if you only knew how much I think of you all. Tommy meant so much to many, as we have been reminded, while we are saddened by his absense we will continue to live each day with him in our hearts. All my love to you.
Michele
OTTO ROXX
February 4, 2008
Tommy will never be forgottin in the hearts of those who knew him and through his music he will live on. the world seems a darker place without tommy,we will always remember the laughs we sharred, and curse the "day the music died agian", 49 years almost to the day, another rock star was takein away. as we say goodbye to a friend, I only hope to meet him agian in rock and roll heaven.
much love and prayers to suzy Q, the family and friends of one of the great ones
Christine Bunnell
February 4, 2008
Our Family grew up with the Thompsons in River Park. On the same street, played together as children. Hearing of his passing was so upsetting. It brought back alot of memories as children living in River Park, alot of good memories. Tommy Thompson will be missed & our prayers go out to the entire family.
Christine Bunnell
Angie (Boys) Tallarita
February 4, 2008
I can't believe it!
Tommy will truly be missed. I haven't seen him perform since the late 80's in the kinetics era. My friend Beth and I were friends w/ Tim Bennett and we never missed a gig.
Sue,
I am so sorry for your loss. Tommy is a legend in South Bend, and for everyone who knew him, he will forever be a legend and will not be forgotten.
I hope someday you will find peace and know how much he meant to everyone. "The only thing you can take with you is that what you have given to others".
Gina "Stemmer" Wirt
February 4, 2008
I was so saddened to hear the news about Tommy! I too have known Tommy since our early childhood years. We went to Nuner School and John Adams together. Tommy was always kind to everyone and his smile was genuine. He made a success of his life's passion which was playing in a band. We are all the greater to have known him and we shall truely miss him.
Christine Bunnell
February 4, 2008
I grew up with Tommie Thompson in River Park too. We lived across the Street from the Thompsons all our lives practically. We all played together as kids. His death was too soon & quite upsetting for the Bunnell Family. Our prayers are with the entire Thompsom Family.
Phyllis Emmons
February 4, 2008
I only knew Tommy as a great entertainer with the Benders and through his buddy, Lee Madison, when Tommy would come out to watch Lee do his thing with other bands. Tommy was always upbeat, happy and kind to everyone around him. We were all fortunate to have had the opportunity to know him and enjoy his musical talent.
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