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Thomas LaGrasta Obituary

Thomas M. "Tom" LaGrasta, age 77, of Raynham and Falmouth, passed away on September 11, 2020, at home surrounded by his family. He will be remembered by his wife of 54 years, Kathleen; daughter, Christine of Quincy; daughter, Elizabeth "Betsy" Donovan of Raynham and her children, Julia, Brett, Bella and Erin; and son, Thomas G. and family of Lakeville. He is also survived by many nieces, nephews and cousins. Born in Brockton, Tom was the son of Thomas and Theresa LaGrasta and a brother of Grace Avampato of South Carolina. Dr. LaGrasta graduated from Bridgewater State College with a degree in elementary education in 1965. He went on to earn a master's degree in Special Education from Boston College (1967), a Certificate of Advanced Graduate Study in Special Education Administration from the same institution (1979) and an Ed.D in Special Education Administration from Boston University (1993). Dr. LaGrasta began his teaching career as a classroom and special education teacher in the Brockton Public Schools in 1965. Over the next 36 years, Dr. LaGrasta championed children with learning difficulties at the Massachusetts Department of Education, Abington Public Schools and the Dennis-Yarmouth Regional School District. He was instrumental in the development and implementation of Chapter 766, which mandates the provision of special educational services for children identified as having learning disabilities. The law was passed in Massachusetts in 1972 and in turn served as the model for the first federal special education law. Dr. LaGrasta rose to the position of Superintendent of Schools in Sharon, a role he held for 10 years until he retired in 2001. Dr. LaGrasta successfully implemented the Community Service-Learning Program in the Sharon Public Schools. The program links the school system with the community in meaningful ways and contributes to student appreciation of diversity, social awareness and civic responsibility. The program became a model for other Massachusetts school systems. Dr. LaGrasta is highly respected for his innovative approaches to education. He was an inspirational leader whose enthusiasm for education was contagious. He led by example and always from his heart. Forever a teacher, he saw the potential of every child, even when they had a difficult time seeing it themselves. He served as adjunct faculty at Bridgewater State, Cambridge, Lesley and Stonehill Colleges and remained active in a number of professional organizations including the American Association of School Administrators, Association for Supervision and Curriculum Development, The Council for Exceptional Children, Phi Delta Kappa (Boston College) and the Boston Higashi School Advisor Board. In 1999, Dr. LaGrasta received the Nicholas Tillinghast Award for Outstanding Contributions to Education from Bridgewater State College and the National Service Learning Award from the Compact for Learning and Citizenship. Toms greatest love was for his family, spending time with his children and grandchildren, whether watching them in sports or vacationing together at two of his most favorite places, Disney World and Aruba. He established family traditions that will forever be honored. He always had a quick wit and wry sense of humor. Tom defied the odds. He celebrated his family's achievements and was a steady, grounding voice when they stumbled. As a consummate Red Sox fan, Tom's heart was consistently broken until they finally overcame the curse in 2004. Tom will be missed by many friends, former colleagues, students and their parents. His impact was immense. He was known as one of the good guys. Due to COVID-19 restrictions, a private funeral Mass will be held at St. Thomas Aquinas Church in Bridgewater with interment in St. Thomas Aquinas Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Countryside Adult Day Health, 244 N. Main St., Raynham, MA 02767 or The Old Colony Hospice & Palliative Care, 321 Manley St., West Bridgewater, MA 02379. For guest book, visit www.Russellpicafuneralhome.com. Arrangements by Russell & Pica Funeral Home, West Bridgewater.

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Published by The Enterprise on Sep. 20, 2020.

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Larry Sorrenti

December 14, 2020

My dear cousin, Tommy, leaves quite the legacy! RIP and my prayers are with the family.

Bill Carpenito

September 21, 2020

Tommy, please extend our deepest, sincere, and most profound condolences to your entire family and especially your Mom, Kathy, for the loss of your Dad. A person couldn't ask for nicer or more pleasant neighbors. He often spoke so proudly, of your choice to serve in the public arena. Although it's been better than 20 years, we still miss their presence in the neighborhood. Take solace in the fact that your Dad rewarded your entire family and others who knew him, with wonderful memories, that all will certainly cherish. God bless, and be strong for each other.
Bill & Kathy Carpenito

Dennis Mann

September 21, 2020

Tom was a great guy to work with. I worked in the schools as a CPR instructor and Fire SAFE educator and finally as Fire Chief. He was always supportive and safety was a priority . My condolences go out to his family.
Dennis Mann
Sharon Fire Chief, Retired

Barb Dunham

September 21, 2020

Tom was the quintessential educational leader who became a friend and who encouraged me to work hard and move forward in a leadership role. He was an admired Superintendent in Sharon who brought out the best in his teachers. He looked within at his staff and found leaders and had a way and motivating people to put forth their best effort. I remember him singing to encourage happy staff and he often spoke of his grandchildren to remind us all what is important in life. Family was important and encouraging every child that they “can do” was Tom’s mantra.

I remember him standing in my classroom as I taught computers to some reluctant learners and then asking me to replicate this throughout the district. He made it possible for me to do so throughout the district. Later, before he retired, he brought me into Central administration as his Assistant Superintendent. Tom was a true leader and I will never forget him.

Robert & Ilene Berish

September 21, 2020

My condolences to the LaGrasta family. May his memory be a blessing to Kathy - he will be missed by all though he has touched.

Karen Gulley

September 20, 2020

Thom was the Superintendent that hired me and he was easy to be with right from the beginning, exactly the type of person you want to hire you. I will always remember his Opening Day addresses to the faculty. He would tell these long elaborate stories and they would always have a punchline that had to do with his grandchildren. He was personable, funny, endearing, comforting and easy to talk to and he always had your back. He made Sharon Public Schools feel like a family. It was a difficult time when he left SPS and a sad time now. More Superintendents should use him as a role model. I'm pretty sure all of us who were around then will never forget "Zippity - Do - Da!" He will be missed greatly. Rest easy

Daniel Frio

September 20, 2020

You were one of the best...we will never forget you & all you did for Sharon schools & students!

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