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Bev
April 6, 2024
You´re still missed every single day.
Mary Chisholm
July 27, 2022
One month from today will make 15 year since my Dads been gone. Yet, grief is weird and comes in waves that make it feel like yesterday still. Sometimes, when those waves hit I like to come here and read stories of my Dad. I think my Dad was the greatest guy to walk the Earth and its nice to read stories that reinforce that and know its not *just* my biased memories every 7 year old girl has of her dad.
Lately, I've been thinking a lot about the times he would bring me, Grace, Maddy, and whoever else went to the beach with us to "Frog Heaven", which was a trail behind Point Au Roche. Walking that trail felt truly magical. The buzz of all the summer bugs, the smell of the humid lake air, cattails and wildflowers every direction you looked, and tall grasses tickling our legs as we walked on with our eyes on the lookout for... you guessed it, frogs. Sometimes we'd have butterfly nets and small little bug cages in hand for the poor frogs we caught. I swear my Dad was like Steve Irwin during these walks. Knowing my child self I probably complained the whole walk about how long it was, how hot it was, how tired I was, how buggy it was, etc but, he kept me at it and they are some of my best memories. I live in Arizona now and sometimes when I'm hiking in a cattail covered riparian area and smell the muck, feel the tall grass tickle my legs and see a little toad jump into a stream, I'm instantly sent back to my days in frog heaven and hope that maybe my dads there with me.
Okay, well this rambling little message felt very cathartic, as does reading all your stories. I don't know if anybody else ever comes back here to reread these messages (I have a feeling some do) but, if you're feeling so inclined I would greatly appreciate more stories to read about my Dad. I am so, so proud to be his daughter.
M Galuchie
August 23, 2020
Carl left me with wonderful memories and a family that we have all embraced. I am sincerely grateful for family and friends who have been extremely generous and supportive to Bev, Grace, Mimi and Patrice the past fourteen years.
Bob Simmons
August 23, 2020
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
February 27, 2016
Grace,
I photographed your Mom and Dad's wedding. I've photographed many weddings and I have to say, your parents wedding was amazing, and not for the obvious reasons, food, music, dancing but because of your parents love for each other.
The way your Dad looked at your Mom, it would take your breath away, you could feel the love in their connection. It was amazing and I was in awe, it was just beautiful. You could tell they were best friends and soulmates.
I just wanted to share that with you!
Janet Peaslee Brandt
Jody Lawson
February 26, 2016
Genuine...Carl brightened everyone's day. He was one of those men that never met a "stranger." My husband Buce and I were so very fond of him. Our thoughts are with all of you. What a beautiful tribute to him.
--Bruce and Jody Lawson
Plattsburgh, NY
Robert Simmons
February 26, 2016
Grace, I never stop thinking about your Dad. He was an original for sure. We had fun and many interesting days working together. I love seeinghow you and Mary have grown into beautiful young women. Your Dad would be so proud. Carl was like a younger brother to me. I will always think of him with a smile. Bob
Grace Chisholm
February 23, 2016
I know it's come to almost 10 years since we lost my father, but while missing him and reading all of these wonderful condolences and with the slight possibility that someone will soon read this, I just think it's important to discuss how missed and talked about he still is. Not a day goes by that I don't think about my dad, for he was my go-to-guy. It doesn't get easier, no matter what people will tell you, however it does get easier to contain your emotions. I know my dad as an amazing, hard-working, intelligent man, nothing makes me prouder than calling myself his daughter. I've said this once, and I'll say it forever, that I would rather have had Carl Chisholm as my father for a solid 10 years rather than anyone else for my whole life. He loved his family so much, and in such a genuine manor that I strive to be like him and mirror his characteristics every day. My greatest compliment is hearing someone say that I'm in any way like my father. Thank you to everyone who shared their memories of him, on days where I'm especially missing him, reading them bring instant happiness.
6-9-2011 looking good
June 12, 2011
your girls
jim chisholm
September 8, 2010
June 11, 2010
Jim Chisholm
May 17, 2009
I know you were crushed when God called you so early, that doesn't mean we understand, but we will deal with it.
You have lived and enjoyed your life with family to the fullest within your time. You have so many family and friends that cherish your memory and make sure it lives on daily. The girls are beautiful and smart. I'm sure you are so proud.
A 50th Birthday remembrance as you watch over and guide your girls.
With brotherly Love, Respect and Admiration.
Sally and Tim McSweeney
January 4, 2008
Bev, Patrice, Gracie and Mimi-
All of Plattsburgh loved your father. He was a very happy, honorable, generous, loving, loyal and gentle man. For me, I think of your father every time I drive by Plattsburgh Ford, and I wish he were there. Your father had a smile on his face every single day, no matter what the day presented. He found humor or enjoyment in everything.
Your parents were always the type of people to help newcomers to Plattsburgh find friends. They invited Tim, Connor, Lucy and me to your home many times. I remember one time your parents suggested that we go to a Hospital Party on a ferry in Essex dressed in Hawaiian attire. We knew no one, and Carl made it his goal to introduce me to as many people as possible. Many of those people are my true friends to this day, and I have your father (and mother) to thank for that.
One time, Tim and I needed to take our boat out of the water, and asked your father to meet us at Moody Bay with the boat trailer to do so. Tim and I were new to this side of the lake, but we had a map and were confident we could find it. Well, needless to say, we were completely lost out on the water, and your father waited for us for well over an hour, probably even two. Tim was so mad at himself and at the situation, I could almost see smoke coming out of his ears. When we finally did hook up with your father, he wasn't at all upset. To him, it was a beautiful day, and he couldn't think of anything nicer to be doing. (Obviously, he certainly could have, but he never made us feel otherwise.) He was a true friend and gentleman.
Carl and Tim golfed with several other men during a standing weekend morning golf game. They met at 6 or 6:30am and were home by 9:30am. Carl always brought donuts home for his girls, so Tim starting doing it too! Carl loved to golf, but he loved being with his family more, and he always wanted to be home around the time you were waking up. :-)
People smile whenever they remember your dad. He was an easygoing man, and enjoyed so much his family and friends. We were all blessed to have been touched by such a remarkable man.
Dena & Ella Archer
October 17, 2007
Dearest Bev, Mimi, and Gracie
The last time that I saw your Dad he had come into my office to buy a gift certificate for your Mom for mother's day. My daughter Ella was here with me and he asked her if she knew how to do a headstand. She said yes and then clumsily demonstrated quickly tumbling to the floor. He replied " Let me show you how it is done."
Then he proceeded to get down on my office floor, and to mine and Ella's amazement and laughter, while coins were tumbling out of his suit pants, he did a headstand in perfect form! I will always hold this vision of your father in my mind's eye because it is symbolic of what a rare gem he was. An incredibly successful businessman who had not lost his child's heart. Your father/husband was an inspiration, he still knew how to play, he had a deep compassion for people and life. You are inspirations in the way he lives on in you and you keep his legacy alive. Many blessings and much love
Susan Pellerin
September 10, 2007
Dear Bev, Gracie, Mimi & Patrice,
It is a remarkable tribute to have lived a life and been so very loved and admired. Carl was a warm, generous man who drew people to him. He had a great zest for life and a deep devotion to his family. The strength you all have shown during this very difficult year has been inspiring. I picture Carl in heaven with a smile on his face watching over all of you and marveling at the strength and beauty of his family. I hope that knowing you will be together again brings you some comfort and peace. God Bless.
Canoeing with Mimi.
September 4, 2007
Hanging out at Carl's favorite place.
September 4, 2007
Summer 2006 on the way to the spit.
September 4, 2007
laureen kelly
September 4, 2007
Carl had a love of life we should all try & embrace. Focus on the positive for life is far too short.
Marianne Chisholm Galuchie
September 4, 2007
Ancient legend has it that the youngest child in a large family has the benefit of learning from the ones that came before. This certainly applied to Carl.
As an adult, he knew what was important in life...family,
honesty, responsibility and laughter.
Even I, as his oldest sister, who
had pushed him on a swing as a toddler, loved to be the one who got
to stand next to Carl in a crowded room on holidays. Carl was gentle
and full of fun. He brought laughter and a sense of adventure into our
home. He viewed life as an optimist
What a loving husband and devoted father he was. Able to truely enjoy
the enormous task of fatherhood yet understand the many lessons to be
taught to his daughters
Bev, Gracie, Mimi and Patrice...you are the most important people in
Carl's life. Someday we will be with Carl again, but until then, let's
do the right things in the time we all have. Study hard, make good and
lasting friendships, be a responsible and caring person, love your family and know that you have a family who cares about you and expects the best from you.
"The purpose of life is a life of purpose"
Carpe Diem
September 3, 2007
Gracie and Mimi,
Your Dad was a wonderful person! He loved both of you, Patrice and your Mom very much. This was obvious through his actions. He enjoyed teaching you to ride bikes and then going on bike rides around the neighborhood or to Bailey Avenue park. Mimi, nothing could stop your Dad from getting you involved too with the bicycle built for two. Andy and Jon also had fun riding with him on that bike. He made the days at Beartown memorable with his encouraging words to you and the other kids learning to ski or race, and big kids too, like Ed. His help at Beartown with making snow or helping with a race were appreciated by all. One winter after full days of skiing, he would scoop you up in time to get Gracie to basketball games. Summers included boats rides and evenings of fishing. Andy and Jon enjoyed going along to fish too. On Halloween after your Mom helped get you into your beautiful costumes, your Dad would proudly take you around the neighborhood for treats. He was outside after work most evenings always smiling and laughing while engaged in activities with you, with kind and supportive words of encouragement.
We miss him too. We frequently saw your Dad’s smiling face and had a pleasant conversation on the way to or from work, which would brighten our days. He and Ed liked joking about who would get the grass mowed first for the week. They had similar friendly jokes or competitions when it came time to put the Christmas lights up. My Mom always remembers him coming over to talk when his Dad was suffering from Lou Gehrig’s disease and mine from Alzheimer’s, and how much better he made her feel after talking.
Your Dad liked having gatherings with family and friends on the weekends and holidays. You could tell he looked forward to visits by your sister Patrice, Grandmother and Uncle in Plattsburgh or going to see family in Cape Cod in the summer or New Jersey during Christmas week and made time for you to ice skate in New York City.
Your Dad was very supportive of community events ranging from the schools to the 4th of July parade, and was well liked in the community. We see many of his wonderful traits in both of you. Through all of his actions, you couldn’t miss that he loved you and was very proud of you and your achievements. We are sure he is smiling down on you from above, and still helping to guide you in ways you may not be able to see at this time.
Your Dad will never be forgotten
Vicki, Ed, Andy & Jonathan Keens (neighbors in Plattsburgh)
R. Dergham
September 2, 2007
Dearest Bev, Patrice, Gracie & sweet Mimi... Where does someone begin when something so great was taken away. My thoughts and prayers are with you daily. You all seem to constantly amaze me with your great strength, love of life and for each other, and the will to laugh and smile with each passing day. Your dad was an inspiration to many but to me he was so much more... At a time in my life when I questioned family, love and commitment , your dad, with his wisdom and very caring words made me believe again. His love for his family and his respect for friendships I will never forget... But I don't think I can ... It lives thru all of you and I am lucky enought to be reminded of that whenever I see you. I love you all very much...
Kathy Roman
August 28, 2007
I didn't get to know Carl as well as I would have liked, but I did know that he made my friend Bev very very happy. So he was tops in my book.
Keith Boudreau
August 27, 2007
Bev, Grace, Mimi and Patrice,
I have so many great memories of times and conversations with Carl that I don’t really know where to start. The two things that I always think about when Carl comes to mind is his sincerity and his sense of humor. Carl had the type of personality that regardless of what you were talking about he genuinely cared about everything you said. Carl also had the unique ability to make light of everyday situations yet without ever making someone feel uncomfortable. Instead he always made the people involved feel better about themselves and I bet we can all say that we wanted to be the subject of Carl’s jokes.
The first story that always comes to mind when thinking about Carl was when I was in little league and like every other 12 year old kid I had to have the newest and best batting glove. So like any great Uncle Carl went shopping with my family and all day until I found the right glove. That afternoon Carl made it to my game only to see me step up to the plate with my brand new batting glove hanging in my back pocket. I always think of Carl because of the way he told this story at dinner that night at my grandparents house. Carl had taken the time to have a golf glove ready as a prop at the dinner table so that when he stood up to tell the story he had the glove in his back pocket impersonating me at the plate…Carl always had a way to tell stories.
There are a million stories that I could think of to tell about Carl – like taking me waterskiing in torrential downpours just so I could get out on the water (mind you I wasn’t 10 – I was probably 18 years old.) But Carl being the guy he was had me out on the water no questions asked.
I hope we all take the time to share these stories as often as possible so Grace and Mimi can really understand how special a person there father was. I love Carl and miss Carl. I am a better person for knowing him as long as I did and will continue to become a better person by striving to live life the way Carl did.
Dana & Rich Kozak
August 27, 2007
We only knew Carl for a short time but we felt like we had known him forever. Carl had that way with people. He made you feel so comfortable when you were around him. He was a very genuine, kind and warm person. Thank you Bev, Patrice, Gracie, and Mimi, for letting us into your lives and sharing with us this incredible person who we shall never forget. We love you all.
Nancy Chisholm Boudreau
August 27, 2007
To Gracie and Mimi:
Your dad - my brother - is missed every single day.
A great memory of Carl was when my boys (Nathan & Keith) were younger. They wanted so much to learn to water ski and there was Uncle Carl to the rescue! Nathan learned quickly but Keith didn't, so one Sunday morning Carl came down and took Keith out. He told me he'd be back only after Keith learned to water ski. Nathan went along to help and by mid-day Keith was water skiing just fine. The patience that Carl showed was just like him! Also before Carl had kids he would show up at the swim meets when Nathan was still in high school and then while Keith was in college he'd come to soccer games and bring you all along. The boys LOVED having Carl see them excel in their sport - and even when they lost - Carl would tell them they did great. Carl was Nathan's 'sponsor' for his confirmation and knowing that he was a BIG star wars fan -- put his hand on Nathan's shoulder and whispered 'may the force be with you'! Carl enjoyed being around family -- having cookouts at the Popponesset Cottage during your summer vacations was GREAT! He loved having all of us! I miss taking the boat to Martha's Vineyard with him (but I don't miss shopping with Bev - ha ha) and going out to breakfast at the Black Dog.
Carl was a great brother -- and he was a great Dad. You girls meant the world to him! How lucky we all were to have been a part of his life - and I am so thankful that you - Bev, Patrice, Gracie & Mimi - will always be a part of my life. I see Carl in all of you - and I love you all more than ever. Without Carl - we never would have met Bev & Patrice and become one big happy family with Gracie and Mimi - and I can't imagine that at all!
Love,
Nancy Chisholm Boudreau
D Dergham
August 27, 2007
Bev,
Not only is Carl remembered today, but he is remembered everyday through the smiles, laughter, and kindness that shines through in Gracie & Mimi.
The strength of his love is seen every time through the look in your eyes and tone of your voice when you speak of him.
He may be gone in body, but his soul is present to us every time we see your family.
You are in our hearts & prayers.
Love, Deborah Dergham & family
James Keniston Galuchie
August 27, 2007
Grace and Mimi:
Without a shadow of a doubt, your father stood out. And he stood out in the most positive of ways. He led by example, he inspired others and he was a great friend, uncle and father. Even though he is gone, he has made an enormous impact on numerous people and will never be forgotten.
Your father captivated people through his actions and his words. He was as charismatic and as fun as they come. Everyone wanted to be around him, either driving in the car, sitting at dinner or on the beach, it didn’t matter where you were, you wanted to be next to Carl. His stories brought the biggest laughs and commonly turned into tears because they were so funny. But beyond the laughter, when Carl shared his experiences it presented an opportunity to learn. In my life, I have found very few people who have taught me as much about life as Carl did.
As you may know, your father was my godfather and he instilled qualities in me that I will hold true for the rest of my life. He taught me to “wear your heart on your sleeve”, live with enthusiasm, be yourself and enjoy the company of others. He is a role model to me and I will never forget what he has taught me.
Later in life, I have no hesitation in saying that you will meet someone, introduce yourself and as soon as they hear your last name they will ask, “Are you related to Carl Chisholm?” When you smile and nod in approval you’re going to see their face light up and they’ll tell you how great he was, how he made them laugh and what a great person he was.
Your father was a great man who brought joy to everyone he met. We are so grateful for the time we had with him and we would do anything to have more time with him. Your father, my uncle, my godfather would be so proud to see his girls growing up to be such fine young women. Live, laugh and love.
William Tedford
August 27, 2007
To Beverly & Girls, My thoughts and prayers are with you all.Carl will always have a spot in my heart, my memories of Carl always brings a smile to my face. I still here is voice in the dealership.....Good morning Carl, whats the word...he'd say "thunderbird". I would also see him pull out of the dealership on my Harley-Davidson with my half shell helmet on....it would crack me up........Carl you are missed greatly.
Moe Hickey
August 27, 2007
Bev, Gracie, & Mimi,
The heading for the thoughts I shared at Carl's memorial service is "Carl Chisolm was a special friend". I will send the the whole text, but want to share some excerpts. "I remember one clear day he and I had taken the T-bar to the top of the hill at Beartown, he paused and pointed out the view of Vermont’s Green Mountains marveling about how great the view and life was!" Spending time with his friends was an important aspect of Crl's life, but his family was the most important. "Carl and I played golf early Sunday mornings. We were on the course by 6 am, so he could play 9 holes and be back in time to spend the day with his family!" "Carl didn’t philosophize about the way to live life; he demonstrated how to live life to the fullest! When you were with Carl, you relaxed and enjoyed the moment, no matter how you felt before you were with him, you felt good when you were with him." We all miss Carl, but he will never be forgotten as he will always live in our hearts.
Moe
A closer look......
August 26, 2007
Jay and Diane McCauley
August 26, 2007
Jay and I regret that we lost Carl so soon after meeting him. We were only just getting to know Carl and his beautiful family when he was suddenly gone. It seemed all expectations of knowing him better were spent. But as this sad year has passed we have been blessed with a closer relationship with his "girls", Bev, Patrice, Gracie, and Mimi. To our joy we have found some of Carl’s best qualities flourishing in these amazing women. Mimi's face is Carl's face, and Gracie has that presence that is all her Dad. Patrice's deep respect for her father is evidence of his qualities. I love to sit and hear Bev recollect past memories of her life with Carl. It is precious to hear her laugh over stories, births, weddings, everyday memories as they come to her mind during day by day life, now without him. We feel we are getting to know Carl and all he was as a man, through the women he loved. The opportunity now to befriend and love his "girls" is a privilege and honor we hope to enjoy for many years to come. A gift to give a wonderful father, husband a friend.
Paul Winquist
August 26, 2007
I remember 1989 I was just 23 years old at the time and foolishly wanted to get married (way to young I may add) but I was not good with money (I’m better today, thanks in part to the example Carl taught me) and I could not afford a diamond ring for my new bride; so as was my custom in those day’s I found myself asking advice of Carl and as was his way in this world he found it in his heart to help me provide a 1 carat diamond ring so I could do things “RIGHT”. In helping me with the daunting task he also took it upon himself to teach me a thing or two about finance and managing money. Well, the marriage lasted 10 wonderful years and my ex-wife still has that beautiful diamond; all be it, is now changed into a cocktail ring, I know it still gives great pleasure to the wearer, which never would have come to pass if not for the generosity of Carl K. Chisholm.
I know this is how Carl was greeted when he went HOME and how he now looks down upon all those he loved.......
August 26, 2007
August 27th is an unforgettable day in my life; It is the same day as my ex-wife’s birthday and it happens to be the same day my dog Sidney passed away, but nothing compares to the loss of such a wonderful friend as Carl, I will miss him always
August 26, 2007
April 1994, another day at work with do-workers George and Bill at the place were I meet your dad; Fore River Motors in Quincy Ma
August 26, 2007
I was very glade I was invited to enjoy this wonderful day of beginnings...........
August 26, 2007
A day at play with Carl and George, Carl messing around as was his nature.
Paul Winquist
August 26, 2007
It has been one year since we last saw one another, I can say that Carl, Bev. and his girls have been in my heart and mind EVERY day since.
You see, I still have the funeral card from his wake on the dashboard of my car and I look at it everyday as a reminder that no matter how much you may love and be loved, this life can be very short. Live your life, as thou today may be your last.
Life is precious and I KNOW Carl lived his life with that knowledge, he gave of himself and was rewarded with a loving, giving collection of family and friends. I always looked to Carl as a person of strength, knowledge and most importantly laughter. He knew how to enjoy the people in his life and made all our lives better by allowing us into his life.
I will never forget the day of your wedding, Carl, along with some close college buddies, dressed up as and then preformed a song from the band The Village People; I still laugh when I think of them up there in front of all the people he loved and that loved him laughing together which was how he lived his life.
He is still very much in my heart, as are you girls. We all will live a better life having had Carl K. Chisholm to share it with.
Rosemary LaMarche
August 25, 2007
Dear Bev, Gracie and Mimi, I have such fond memories of Carl, your husband and father. I remember him for his great smile, his twinkling eyes and his generosity. He was always willing to do anything to help. Carl supported the construction of the playground at Bailey Avenue School in many ways. While Bev worked at the Mighican sales at Lowes, he donated the soda, babysat for his girls and also brought you to eat. Carl also worked to help build the playground - no small feat because I do not think he was that handy with building. I do not have a clue either so we used to laugh about that! He was always such a good sport. In the Spring of 2006, Plattsburgh Ford had donated a car to PHS to be given away to a student. Sharon Pavone, child advocate from the high school called me for help. There were technical reasons why the school district was not able to accept the donation. Sharon was very frustrated and I told her not to worry, I would call Carl. When I called him, he immediately asked, "What do you need?" When I told him, he said, no problem, talked to the business office and took care of everything right away. Carl was such a generous person, always ready to help and fun to be around. He certainly will remain in my heart forever. Much love, Rosemary LaMarche
Katie Grupillion
August 25, 2007
Dear Gracie and Mimi, There were so many things to love about your dad. The thing that stands out the most to me is that he treated everyone the same. It did not matter whether they had money or not, or missed the opportunity to finish college. He truly saw people for what they were. He respected and treated his friends with a very warm and welcoming manner. I feel very lucky to have been reunited with your mother and have met your dad thru her, she too is a caring and loving friend. And, together they gave us you guys, What more could you ask for?!! We love you all, Katie ,George and the entire rest of the family.
Deborah Glassford
December 27, 2006
Bev and girls;
I too went to Ithaca College, was KJ's roommate throughout, so spent LOTS of time with the whole gang for my entire college career. I just heard of Carl leaving you...my heart is with you and I pray for a peaceful new year.
Sincerely,
"DebG"(glassford)
Elizabeth Chisholm Phillips
September 19, 2006
In each of our lives,there comes a
time when we will stand in the rain and feel that God is crying for us"and oh dear Lord it has been pouring with tears. We love you Carl, and all the family so much. Peter & Bette Anne & family-Phillips, Deardorffs& Hendersons
Michelle Vergona
September 7, 2006
Dear Bev, I was so sorry to hear of your loss, my sympathies to you and the girls. If you ever feel like talking, please call. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love, your cousin, Michelle
Brigit Hurley
September 7, 2006
Dear Beverly & family,
There are few words that will convey the sorrow I have in my heart for you, your girls, and your family. I pray your strength will remain. I wish you love and I hope you know your family is in our thoughts.
Much Love!
Bob & Gina Fernald
September 5, 2006
Dearest Bev and Mimi, Grace & Patrice:
We are heartbroken with you. We loved Carl and enjoyed every minute that we spent with him. He was the epitome of a kind,gentle,warm and loving soul. He will be missed.
We love you very much and will be beside you to help you thru this tragic time. Call on us for anything----
Jana (Bagen) Crosby
September 4, 2006
Bev, Patrice & girls:
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
With Love, Jana & Family
Jaroslaw Fedorowski
September 3, 2006
Dear Bev and the Girls,
We are very sorry about Carl's death. We loved him very much and loved spending time with him. We could not have asked for better neighbors, or better friends. We miss you all very much and we hate that we have to be so far away during this difficult time. Please remember that we are always here and always thinking of you. We hope to see you all very soon.
Love,
The Fedorowski Family
Katie Grupillion
September 2, 2006
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2006
Liz Forrest
September 2, 2006
Beverly and Family,
We are so sorry for your tragic loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Liz (Pugsley), Steve and Zach Forrest
Sarah Desmond
September 1, 2006
Dear Ann,Beverly,Mimi,Gracie,Jim III, Nancy,Gail,Marianne,Patrice and all friends and family of Carl,
I was so saddened to hear that my cousin had died. Carl and I are 7 years apart and when my family would spend holidays with the Chisholm Clan he would always have me laughing. I remember playing touch football on the lawn during Thanksgiving. He was always playful and rowdy but protective of his girl cousins as was his brother Jim III. I know this is a devastating loss to those who love him so dearly. You are all in my prayers and send you strength to endure.
With Love and Prayers, Sarah
Laurie Smith
September 1, 2006
Dear Beverly, My heart just breaks for you and your family. I Can't even begin to imagine how horrible this is for you and your girls. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this terrible time. I know in time you will find the strength to get through this. You have those beautiful girls to help you. And you, to help them. I wish I could give you a big hug.
With Love, and our Deepest Sympathy,
Laurie (Burke) and Bill
David and Mona White
September 1, 2006
To the family of Carl Chisholm,
We are deeply sorry to learn the news about Carl. We knew him ever so briefly as "customers" of his at Ford Motor. But during this time this gentle and humorous man conveyed in many ways the strong impression that he truly wanted to help us out of whatever pickle we found ourselves in-- and always succeeded. He was a remarkable man and we counted him as a friend. Our deepest sympathies to the family.
J. D.
September 1, 2006
Dear Bev & family,
I can’t begin to express the devastation I felt when I learned of the sad news. I was Carl’s roommate, freshman year, at Ithaca and know the kind and gentle person he was. He will truly be missed by all who knew him. Please accept our deepest condolences for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family.
Bob (JD) Donovan & family
Jaynee Smith
September 1, 2006
Beverly,
My heart goes out to you and your children. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Lisa Harris
September 1, 2006
To the Family,
God is always with you. Even in this most difficult time lean on your faith and know that He will never leave you. Take your time and breath through every emotion. It's okay. You will find peace in your own time...in your own way. God has a plan for all of us even through our pain. Stay close. Be blessed.
Kathy and Bob Buccieri
August 31, 2006
We knew Carl at Ithaca College as one of 'The Boys' then and afterwards. We wanted you to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers and we are so very sorry for your loss. Carl will be missed by many. Please accept our condolences.
Mary Ann Phillips
August 31, 2006
Dear Beverly, Grace, Mimi, Patrice, Aunt Ann, Jim III, Marianne, Nancy and Gail: My family and I were deeply saddened to hear of Carl's sudden and untimely passing. While I haven't seen him in many years, every memory I have is of Carl's warm, genuine smile and laugh. In 2000, at Christmas time, Uncle Jim sent me a wonderful picture of Carl and his lovely girls -- he was holding them tightly and looking every bit the proud dad. I know he was a great husband, dad, son, brother, and friend to many. While I am regretfully unable to attend the services, I have all of you in my thoughts and prayers, both during the first moments of grief and shock and in the days and weeks to come. "Life is eternal and love is immortal and death is only a horizon, and a horizon is nothing save the limits of our sight." Carl and his dad are togther, just over the horizon, smiling down at all of us. Much love, Mary Ann
Charles & Lorraine Smith
August 31, 2006
Beverly and Family,
We would like to extend our most
heartfelt sympathy to you and your
family at this most difficult time.
Carl was a great neighbor, living
beside us on Pond Street, for many
years. He always had a smile and
was a caring man. Our thoughts and
prayers are with you.
Charles & Lorraine Smith
jacqueline testo
August 31, 2006
Dear Chisholm Family,
We are so sorry about your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May you find peace.
Jim and Jackie Testo
Jerry Saunders
August 31, 2006
Ann
Barbara and I are saddened to hear of the loss of your son Carl.
Jerry Saunders
Canton, Georgia
[email protected]
Amy Horowitz
August 30, 2006
To The Chisholm Family:
I knew Carl from Ithaca College. He was a wonderful person. He always had a smile on his face. Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Paul Winquist
August 30, 2006
Bev,
I have no words; you were in my life for a few wonderful years. I will always remember Carl as a friend. My thoughts and prayers are with you along with my deepest sympothies.
Mary Ellen Burke
August 30, 2006
To Bev and the Chisholm family,
So sorry to hear of your loss. Cherish your memories of the times you had together.Think of him now
"In the Arms of the Angels" . May the warmth of friends and family carry you through at this difficult time.
Mary Ellen Burke (Weymouth)
Wayne and Susan Robertson
August 30, 2006
Dear Beverly and family,
We offer our deepest condolences to all of you. Please know that we will remember you in our prayers.
Dominick and Susan DeRasmo
August 30, 2006
To All The Family,
I am deeply sorry for your tragic loss. Carl was a wonderful and caring man. Our hearts go out to all of you in this sad time. Please take comfort in knowing how well remembered Carl will be.
Dominick and Susan DeRasmo
Emily Murphy
August 30, 2006
To the Chisholm Family,
I knew Carl in college, and spent time with him in the late 80's as well, though I haven't seen him in many years. Carl had a zest for life that was matched by few. I remember him popping a home-made tape in his car tape player (the best of WCKC, he called it) and singing at the top of his lungs as we raced down the highway. I am so very sorry for your loss, and am keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers. With Love and Sympathy, Emily (Jacobs) Murphy
Melissa, Troy, Amanda & Nicolette Morgida
August 30, 2006
Bev, Patrice, Gracie and Mimi:
We are saddened by your loss. Over the past year we have gotten to know a gentle, kind, and funny man. Who loved everyone. He will be missed by all of us. We love you and are here for you.
John Thrower
August 29, 2006
To Bev and family:
I am still in shock after hearing the news Suanday, Carl was only in my life for a short time, but LONG enough to make a DIFFERENCE. I feel I'm a better person having spent time with Carl and his 3 GIRL'S in Plattsburgh. He visited me almost every day when I worked in the dealership over the past year and a half, and I enjoyed our conversations. I already miss him!
GOD BLESS YA'LL
"DOC"
[email protected]
Jason and Cassandra Hinds
August 29, 2006
To the Chisholm Family
Sorry for your loss. He will be greatly missed.
Pam & Ken Malley
August 29, 2006
Bev, Grace, Mimi & Patrice
We are so shocked and saddened by Carls sudden passing. He was one of the funniest men we know. Always had a smile on his face. He so loved Bev & "his girls". Our hearts go out to all of you!
Debbie Cerone
August 29, 2006
Bev, mimi, grace and patrice
We are still in shock to hear the news of carl's passing. He was such a nice person and we cared for him very much. Our thoughts and prayers are with you love deb, dave, sophie & nicolas
Don Bressette
August 29, 2006
Dear Bev
I still cant believe that Carl is gone. It is very hard going to work and not having him there. I will miss him greatly, If there is anything you need don't hesitate to call.
John Aretz
August 29, 2006
To the family of Carl,
I am so sorry to hear about Carl. I have had the pleasure to share business experiences and social time with him through our Ford Dealer 20 group and I will truly miss him.
My Deepest Sympathy
John
Marion Bartell
August 29, 2006
Dear Bev, Patrice, Gracie, Mimi, Mrs. Chisholm, and Siblings:
Our heartfelt lose and sadness in hearing of Carl's passing. Patrice and Danny have shared so many wonderful stories of yearly Christmas', Birthday parties, or visits to just see Mom, Carl and the girls. We finally had the opportunity to meet Carl during a Memorial Mass for Bev's sister Marion,( another Angel in Disguise). Everything Danny and Patrice had shared with us relating to Carl's warm personality, charm, and awesome wit was proven to be fact. This past Sunday, Patrice and I had an opportunity to chat. Patrice shared with me her firm belief in "Only the good die young". Patrice, you are wiser than your years. All our love, support, thoughts and prayers are with you. Marion & Win
August 29, 2006
My condolences go out to Carl's family and friends. May god help you through this terrible time.
D M
Dominick Derasmo
August 29, 2006
I am so sorry to hear about carls passing. Carl was like a father to me i will miss him tons.
Patty (boop) Gilbrook and kids
August 29, 2006
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Amy Hensiek (Rashin)
August 29, 2006
To Carl's Family,
I am a friend of Carl's from Ithaca College and was shocked and saddened by the news. My memory of his smile and laugh will be with me always and all the good times and fun we shared. A wonderful person, taken too soon. He will be missed. My deepest sympathy to you all.
Valeri Raugi
August 29, 2006
Dear Bev and Family,
We are so sorry to learn of your loss. If there is anything we can do from this end, please let us know. You are in our thoughts...
Fondly,
valeri and olivia
jim dynko
August 29, 2006
Beverly and family:
I was shocked and saddened by the news of Carl's sudden death. In the short time I've known him, he always displayed the vibrance and vigor that was his life, both in how he conducted himself as an always-smiling businessman and civic leader. The Greater Plattsburgh community has lost a real great guy. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very trying time.
Ana Desmond-Quinzi - Luao Night, Orlando, FL
Ana Desmond
August 29, 2006
Dear - Bev, Mimi, Gracie, Ann, Jim III, Nancy, Gail, Marianne, and Patrice,
I am very sorry about your loss. It has been quite a shock and my heart, prayers and thoughts are with you all right now. I'm glad to have had the chance to see Carl at MaryJane's Birthday party. Many years had passed since I had last seen him, however it was as if no time had passed at all! He was the same teasingly funny Carl, just like I had remembered him.
I'm sorry I won't be able to attend his funeral, however I will be there in thought and spirit.
Love,
Ana Desmond-Quinzi
One of Carl's Loving Cousins
Stephanie Petrous-Schutt
August 29, 2006
Bev and girls,
I am so sorry to hear about Carl. It was a shock. I am thinking of you. Take Care.
Teresa Garney
August 29, 2006
Beverly and Family
I am so sorry for your loss. We are all in shock, please let us know if there is anything you need or if there is anything we can do. You are in our hearts and prayers. With sincere sympathy and heart felt condolence.
Love Teresa & Jim Garney
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